[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37928341]13, turning 14 really soon[/QUOTE]
I remember when I was like you
wait, no i don't. i was never that hopeless.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37928364]Spaghetti mentioned means what you're doing is social suicide. And man at your age, ask her to the movies or something. Do not write love notes before you even date someone.[/QUOTE]
Well, going to the movies definitely doesn't work... The closest to me is 10 miles.
But there's an outdoor and indoor mall really close to where I live.
So.
And thanks for the explanation :v:
[editline]5th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37928375]that makes everything about this note worse really, you haven't known any sort of hardship, you don't know love, you don't even know what it feels like to be stung by thousands of bees or stabbed or whatever the fuck
just go to her, say hi, talk smalltalk until you feel confident enough around her to drop the realtalk[/QUOTE]
Aye, I'd do anything for her however... (Apologies if I sound like I'm defending myself)
That's what I'm switching to for the time-being.
So, just feel like sharing this, but its my freshman year of high school, and I felt like I haven't had enough women in my life before this, or I've just never cared for a relationship. So I decided to take some initiative this year and start talking to alot more girls. So far I've gotten 4 new phone numbers and a potential relationship in one really pretty girl that likes almost everything I like, she even shares my love for old cars!
Just felt like I needed to share my successes of freshman year.
Oh and I made varsity football(American). Big accomplishment, one of 3 freshman on the varsity team.
[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37928393]Aye, I'd do anything for her however...[/QUOTE]
maverick would like to have a word with you
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37928478]Dude you seem like the "obsessive" type.
Creepy stalker obsessive type. Does this girl even know you exist?[/QUOTE]
She does, there's only about 140-180 people at my school.
I'm getting a bit scared of myself actually... I've never had any feelings for any girls/guys but all of a sudden when I see this girl, I become this.
comepletly off topic here, but there are kids that are 2 years older than me and in their junior year that still havent really hit puberty, sorta sad.
Actually no, really sad. :v:
[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37928393]I'd do anything for her[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;37928666][URL="http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml"]hi[/URL][/QUOTE]
thanks for advice
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I'm sad to say I'm unsure whether or not this is a troll or real.
EDIT: Since I'm typing so dreary I'm gonna stop posting here indefinitely, save you guys from hearing myself be insecure as Hell.
/goes back to replaying Vice City for the 500th time
EDIT 2: (Editing since I promised not to post to this thread again indefinitely)
I always thought the concept of kids/young teens dating as weird, but when a girl asked me if I wanted to date anybody, I said I'm gonna wait until high school
She now hates me
:v:
So I figured it as "normal"
I'm gonna talk to her, say that one of my friends was saying how kind she is and I should become friends with her (Which did happen)
it's the best article you could possibly read
everytime i read that article i look back at my efforts previous to my current relationship and cringe
Is it better to ask a girl out before you know her as a good friend or if you don't know her too well?
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37928881]if by good friend you mean like a year or so that you've known each other than not knowing her well is a better shot, because the good friend has p much already decided whether she'll bang you or not (and thus if she wants a relationship with you)[/QUOTE]
I'm guessing I should make my move if I figure out that she likes me (I only know her for like a week). However, I'm not too sure if she does. I mean, do signs like her saying "Hi anon" to me if I meet her in the hallway mean anything? Do girls make it obvious that they like someone?
ForDaNords, ask this girl out. I didn't read your snipped letter, I don't want to. Don't do it. Walk up to her, if she's with friends, ask if you could have a word.
"Did you want to go out this weekend? We could *****" where **** is whatever there is to do in your town, if there's a cinema then take her there but be advised that there isn't much opportunity to talk at the movies.
If you've not done this by Monday after School, then drop it.
So you love her and would do anything for her? You want to buy her jewelery to go with a love confession?
How much do you even know her?
What colour are her eyes then? and whats her favourite colour? I feel like I would be semi surprised if you could even answer both of those the way it sounds.
I wish I had red the letter...
[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37928341]13, turning 14 really soon[/QUOTE]
Again, you are weird.
Don't even be looking for a relationship at your age, you're just a kid. Sure you can talk to her and become friends with her and maybe it will progress into something more in the future if that's your style, but you gotta stop forcing it for now. Don't buy her jewelry or any of that shit just talk to her and make friends.
13 year olds should not be dating.
Okay so, I met this girl. She was quite beautiful and we've been at it for a month. I'm into her, but she revealed to me this afternoon that she has three kids and would want me to help support them if we dated.
[img]http://rapradar.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/50laugh.gif?w=540[/img]
i don't blame you, but that's still kind of sad.
fuck kids
unless you're into that type of thing
awful
[QUOTE=fairy;37930272]fuck kids[/QUOTE]
You really need a comma in there.
Alright guys, need advice.
Ex-girlfriend calls me up,
she heard I'm having a small party/get-together tomorrow night and wants to know if she's welcome.
I say "of course, you're always welcome here kid."
She says "I'm sorry I've been such a bitch, you don't deserve it. Can we have a truce or something"
I say "sure"
time passes and then she asks "Would it be okay if I stayed the night tomorrow?"
and I said okay.
Am I misreading a ton of signs or is she pretty much saying "let's fuck again"?
probably
definitely. just be careful; like rereading a favorite book, it can be fun, but you know how it ends.
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;37930797]
Am I misreading a ton of signs or is she pretty much saying "let's fuck again"?[/QUOTE]
Not necessarily, at all. You see, don't read in this too much, or you can end up in awkward situation with your dick hanging out (metaphorically or actually) and her going "fuck, that was a mistake". Shit like that lowers self-esteem pretty hard even if you're not that interested. Get ready though, stuff can happen, but it's better to play fool a bit and ignore some of the signs.
In the end, it's your ex, you know her, ask yourself a question - is this likely to happen? And if yes - are you interested?
and even more importantly: is there anyone else who can give you what she could posibly offer you? not just sex, but emotionally as well.
because if you're just going to mess with her for the sake of not having something else to fuck, then you're pretty much fucked already -and asking to be screwed all over again. after all, she is your ex [i]for a reason[/i].
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;37930797]Alright guys, need advice.
Ex-girlfriend calls me up,
she heard I'm having a small party/get-together tomorrow night and wants to know if she's welcome.
I say "of course, you're always welcome here kid."
She says "I'm sorry I've been such a bitch, you don't deserve it. Can we have a truce or something"
I say "sure"
time passes and then she asks "Would it be okay if I stayed the night tomorrow?"
and I said okay.
Am I misreading a ton of signs or is she pretty much saying "let's fuck again"?[/QUOTE]
you gotta think very hard about this question:
why is she my ex?
if there was a potential for a working relationship you'd have to have a good reason as to why she's your ex-girlfriend, and not your girlfriend.
Well, maybe [b]she[/b] dumped him, not the other way around. I was going from that assumption in my advice.
So, I have a little bit of an issue that I'm sure you gentlemen (and ladies) have dealt with before.
I haven't been in the dating scene for quite some time, a year and a half to be exact, and I've no idea how to get back into it. I feel terrible because it's like I've forgotten how to talk to girls without fumbling all over myself, and more importantly, it's like I've almost completely forgotten how to flirt. Because of how bad my previous relationship/breakup was, I find myself overthinking every female-related situation and getting about thirty steps ahead of myself to "oh shit what if she's crazy like every other girl I've dated bailbailbail".
TL;DR I feel like damaged goods because of my previous relationships, how the hell do I get back into the swing of things?
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