[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37958138][editline]8th October 2012[/editline]
is slinging personal (and inaccurate) insults one of those hobbies you mentioned that helped you get over your "fake depression that everyone should be able to motivate themselves out of"[/QUOTE]
I didn't sling personal insults at anybody. I also didn't type all that out for my own health you know, I was attempting to help him. I'd genuinely love to see your advice for him.
[QUOTE=Scotchair;37958106]My mistake for trying to help, but what else can I say? If I can help 1/10 people get over depression by talking to them then that's good enough for me. [b]If you don't stop being such a fucking pessimist then you're never going to get over it. I'm done with this conversation. I hope you cheer up one day.[/b][/QUOTE]
[sp]i'm not depressed[/sp]
[editline]8th October 2012[/editline]
i gave him my advice. i answered his question. he's taking medication, so he's probably seeing a therapist as well. probably a medical professional who knows that depression is a real disorder. aside from your "get your shit together!" pep talk that every depressed person already hears on a daily basis, what do you think you can provide on a forum to a person you don't even know that a professional can't?
[QUOTE=Scotchair;37958230]I didn't sling personal insults at anybody. I also didn't type all that out for my own health you know, I was attempting to help him. I'd genuinely love to see your advice for him.[/QUOTE]
"Get your shit together" really isn't great advice
[QUOTE=Disseminate;37959636]"Get your shit together" really isn't great advice[/QUOTE]
You must have missed that big post up there where I expanded somewhat.
Yahnich, you summed it up perfectly.
Depression sucks, for some its worse than others. I was "depressed" for a good few years some time ago, but I don't really know how to scale it or if it is even something that can be scaled. I was happy in public, always smiling, being energetic, but I wasn't totally happy. I was ashamed. It took some very well placed friends and events to break that, and I am so very thankful to have them.
Depression isn't a clean cut issue, simply because the human mind isn't a simple device. There are literally no two minds alike. It may work for some to "get the fuck over it", but for others, it may not be something that a fuck can get over. Some don't give any fucks to get over things, others need a good fuck or two while over something (or someone).
i think i had a bout of depression like 2 years ago and it sucked. i remember everything being bleak and i was never truly happy. i just went through the motions of school and working all the time. but idk how or where but it just got better, i just kind of eventually stopped moping around. i cant exactly pinpoint anything but i believe it was the summer right before senior year is when i started having a lot of fun and being way more happy (i think it was when i started drinking more ironically enough :v:)
think of R. Lee Emery telling you to stop being a pussy and be a man, kind of worked for me
anyway, today i like to view myself as an apathetic optimist. nothing really gets me down too bad, i may not be too great right now with my whole friend issue but i like to always have hope that things will get better. i dont like wallowing in self pity like i used to and in general i just try and make things better
i used to suffer from depression when i was a young teen. part of it was probably just where i was in life - once i got my ged and started college i felt a lot more satisfied with life and started to focus more on what i want to do with my future.
i think the biggest part of getting over it for me was finding out (extremely recently too) that i'm dyslexic. aside from the academic issues it's caused for me, i've always avoided socializing when i could help it because i recognized i communicated differently and my thought processes didn't make sense to others. now that i know why and know it's common, i respect myself a lot more and can appreciate that difference.
I most times wonder if I'm dyslexic too.
I even made some test online and they all gave me high results of dyslexia.
It's like, I don't find it hard to write or spell. Sometimes I just feel as if my brain is lazy, and when I have to do things like write a long text or speak a long speech, I usually forget what I'm trying to say, mid sentence. And it's scary when your facing a crowd and embarrassing when you take too much time writing a text.
But the most difficult thing for me is organizing and keeping on track of everything, even my schedule.
I sometimes re-read the things I just wrote and find it that they don't make as much sense as I'd like, so some times I just have to re-read again and again.
Other things that confuse me a lot is something like saying the alphabet backwards or making quick calculations, specially when I'm under pressure.
I'm thinking about consulting a specialist about this issue one day. But it isn't something that really affected me in the long term so basically it's just a mild concern for now.
I once had a period of depression when I was around 16/17. I was kinda struck by a huge sense of un-fulfillment. I didn't have a gf, school grades were going terrible, etc etc...
It passed as I started making new friends with time, and to be honest I was never one let myself go down for much time.
Now that I'm in university I feel normal. Not happy and not sad, I just go there, have class, have lunch with colleagues for whom I basically have not interest, and come back home.
I'm kind of a loner now at uni, but it doesn't affect me much. But yeah, I wish I had the "brotherhood" & friendship I had during highschool again. Right now I kinda feel detached from the whole social life of university, and to be honest since I was a freshman I always thought university was going to be the coolest thing ever.
sometimes i really mix the order of numbers up and it actually hurt my grade on a test before
jesus christ lads I didn't mean to cause a kerfuffle, I just meant I usually let my friends know I'm a bit of a loony early on cos I occasionally do some really odd shit and while I don't mind letting friends know, I think some people get put off by loonyness
I've been freaking out for the past couple days, because I had a dream that my ex was pregnant. (Warning: TMI imminent)
Like, a week or so before we broke up her period was super late, and we were both worried. She took a test and it was negative, so that was good. And then apparently her period started, and that was that.
But.
What if the test was wrong? What if it wasn't her period, what if it was something else? I don't want kids, I don't need kids, my life will be fucking over, what should I do?
Periods are late sometimes I'm sure it's nothing. I've been through the same scenario a few times.
[QUOTE=Estolle93;37965964]I've been freaking out for the past couple days, because I had a dream that my ex was pregnant. (Warning: TMI imminent)
Like, a week or so before we broke up her period was super late, and we were both worried. She took a test and it was negative, so that was good. And then apparently her period started, and that was that.
But.
What if the test was wrong? What if it wasn't her period, what if it was something else? I don't want kids, I don't need kids, my life will be fucking over, what should I do?[/QUOTE]
How long has it been since then?
kill the child and drain its blood
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37966510]How long has it been since then?[/QUOTE]
3, 4 weeks maybe?
I used to freak out when my girlfriend was late on her period. But afterwards we noticed that her period is really a mess and totally unreliable, once her period was 3 months late. It can be quite annoying.
There are many influences, medication, genetics, current mood or diseases.
Tell me some good sex poisitions, becose I've gotten bored with my gf these
old ones like shes on top riding, I am on top, from behind, bj and stuff.
So tell me guys do you know some awesome stuff? :)
you can try one with her pegging you, mite b cool
Try to have sex in different places, not only on the bed. Try while standing or in really unusual places. Sex becomes quite more exciting when you are further away from your bed.
Or try to chain your partner, my girlfriend and I use a scarf at times. Also a funny game is to resist your partner and try to pull yourself together while your partner is totally trying to seduce you. It can be quite exciting. Mainly because you will be bloody horny and just explode on her.
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;37956214]I swear if my parents let me bring my desktop to school I wouldn't think about my Ex so
much. I love my friends and basketball but it only works so much
A girl actually took a big interest in me this weekend but it's a big fucking no-no because she's my roommate's girlfriend and she's not really my type physically[/QUOTE]
by desktop do you mean bringing your desktop computer to school? Don't ever do that lol
[editline]9th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37970366]have sex in public
nothing makes you hard like running from the po po[/QUOTE]
pfft don't run from them, bring new meaning to the saying fuck the police!
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37970739]also, my gf's mom finally has started liking me
i am so happy
EDIT: thnx seith ur the best[/QUOTE]
Godless heathens ain't so bad
My gf's father hates me for no reason, whe've been together for 3 years and he still hates me. I have never done anything to him that would make him upset, I just dont know why he does'nt like me...
Any tips of what I can do to attempt to restore peace and harmony? Thanks.
I haven't been able to get a full erection around my girlfriend for a week. There has only been one instance where I couldn't get it up during actual intercourse. I'm wondering if anything besides stress and the obvious chance of ED could attribute to it.
[QUOTE=zurf3r;37982928]My gf's father hates me for no reason, whe've been together for 3 years and he still hates me. I have never done anything to him that would make him upset, I just dont know why he does'nt like me...
Any tips of what I can do to attempt to restore peace and harmony? Thanks.[/QUOTE]
My girlfriends father threatened to kill me if I would have a car accident, thus killing her. And he was very serious. Also that guy is really a shady person, he sells and trades cars. So he has very weird connections to eastern europe. He told me once that he had a fucking car chase because his trading partners stole the money. He also said that he was attacked once infront of his house by a gang of people. Luckily he has 2 trained dogs that can take them out. Well, his stories are really amazing.
Nope, that wasn't me. My ex's dad is a farmer, he plants apples and produces cider out of them.
sounds like a right cunt
get a gun
What to do when I can't get my gf have an orgasm? Should we just try diffrent positions
and stuff like that or do you guys have some tip/advice for this?
Foreplay
lots of foreplay
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