Its a sunday GP hours are dodgy, go straight to the local hospital and state you need help.
Not that it matters now, yes i tried it and people are concerned and yes it was a stupid decision, if you guys dont think i regret it then i dunno.
I wont attempt it again, atleast i dont feel like attempting it again, if it happens again i'll go find help but at this point in time i'm gonna see how things pick up.
Let's just drop this, i didnt wanna start all this i'm sorry.
[QUOTE=Seith;38024756]Talking about you here, whether his choice was the right one is not something for me to decide especially when i dont know him.... Or listened to his issues, oh well, u know better right? Enough to call him pathetic. The ones that being pretentious is you, when u supposedly give solutions when in reality all uve done is tell him hes wrong and pathetic. Ban me, i hate hypocrits i will not support shit like that. I really dont care about enough him to fix his probelms.... Nor its my job[/QUOTE]
[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-4q0FAEfeNvc/UHn5HjXW8sI/AAAAAAAAEK8/GuNp6MRMG2E/s0/2012-10-13_19-28-24.png[/img]
[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-w0nuFxM6DZc/UHn5NjlydiI/AAAAAAAAELE/8VYr03tSrnA/s0/2012-10-13_19-28-48.png[/img]
You don't feel sorrow or compassion for people who try to end themselves?
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38024826]Not that it matters now, yes i tried it and people are concerned and yes it was a stupid decision, if you guys dont think i regret it then i dunno.
I wont attempt it again, atleast i dont feel like attempting it again, if it happens again i'll go find help but at this point in time i'm gonna see how things pick up.
Let's just drop this, i didnt wanna start all this i'm sorry.[/QUOTE]
seriously dude go to the hospital, you need help
when you're in a suicidal state of mind you're not gonna think of alternatives
[QUOTE=thisispain;38024843]seriously dude go to the hospital, you need help
when you're in a suicidal state of mind you're not gonna think of alternatives[/QUOTE]
As stated above, GP times on a weekend are dodgy, i got work too so y'know, had a breakdown at work once already and whilst noone cared it doesnt help my confidence to let people know i'm weak, even if i firmly believe that showing emotions is good, doing that infront of new staff will just panic then :L
[QUOTE=mblunk;38024833][img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-4q0FAEfeNvc/UHn5HjXW8sI/AAAAAAAAEK8/GuNp6MRMG2E/s0/2012-10-13_19-28-24.png[/img]
[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-w0nuFxM6DZc/UHn5NjlydiI/AAAAAAAAELE/8VYr03tSrnA/s0/2012-10-13_19-28-48.png[/img]
You don't feel sorrow or compassion for people who try to end themselves?[/QUOTE]
Can we just drop this retarded argument because I'm pretty sure neither side will back out and this arguing will continue until someone gets banned.
Let's just agree that people have different opinions.
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38024864]As stated above, GP times on a weekend are dodgy, i got work too so y'know, had a breakdown at work once already and whilst noone cared it doesnt help my confidence to let people know i'm weak, even if i firmly believe that showing emotions is good, doing that infront of new staff will just panic then :L[/QUOTE]
Your life > your job.
[QUOTE=Spirit_Breaker;38024874]Can we just drop this retarded argument because I'm pretty sure neither side will back out and this arguing will continue until someone gets banned.
Let's just agree that people have different opinions.
Your life > your job.[/QUOTE]
Seith already asked to be banned.
edit: And he's gone, good riddance.
Not when you can barely afford to feed yourself it isnt. I know thats contradictory (You need your life to be able to feed yourself) but y'know what i mean, i work 60 hours to live in a shitty apartment.
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38024864]As stated above, GP times on a weekend are dodgy, i got work too so y'know, had a breakdown at work once already and whilst noone cared it doesnt help my confidence to let people know i'm weak, even if i firmly believe that showing emotions is good, doing that infront of new staff will just panic then :L[/QUOTE]
this isn't a joke mate
you can be worried about your confidence after you enter treatment for suicidal depression
[editline]13th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38024894]Not when you can barely afford to feed yourself it isnt. I know thats contradictory (You need your life to be able to feed yourself) but y'know what i mean, i work 60 hours to live in a shitty apartment.[/QUOTE]
i totally understand, and i was in the same exact position years back
but you are seriously ill.
[QUOTE=Seith;38024788][QUOTE=and;38024639]The only thing that's pathetic here is how pretentious you're being on the internet, and people who decide that killing themselves is a valid solution.[/QUOTE]
Talking about you here, whether his choice was the right one is not something for me to decide especially when i dont know him.... Or listened to his issues, oh well, u know better right? Enough to call him pathetic. The ones that being pretentious is you, when u supposedly give solutions when in reality all uve done is tell him hes wrong and pathetic. Ban me, i hate hypocrits i will not support shit like that. I really dont care about enough him to fix his probelms.... Nor its my job
[highlight](User was permabanned for this post ("Ban Me" - Ninja101))[/highlight][/QUOTE]
It finally happened.
[IMG]http://i45.tinypic.com/160xtf.jpg[/IMG]
Didn't know where else to put this...score one for the nice guy, though.
If anyone is interested i'll keep you updated with how everything goes in the next few days, i'll go after work tomorrow, i still need to be able to afford this flat, it's all i got.
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38024864]As stated above, GP times on a weekend are dodgy, i got work too so y'know, had a breakdown at work once already and whilst noone cared it doesnt help my confidence to let people know i'm weak, even if i firmly believe that showing emotions is good, doing that infront of new staff will just panic then :L[/QUOTE]
Stop fucking around and looking for excuses, fuck work and get help.
Unless your working for some corrupt organisation they will give you sick pay, unless your self employed.
Just go the GP tomorrow and use the emergency line.
PM me your town/ 1st half of your post code and ill get you a number if your struggling (I live in the UK)
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;38024923]Didn't know where else to put this...score one for the nice guy, though.[/QUOTE]
No offense, but you don't have put it anywhere. Congratulations though.
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Really, Guy, I'm dumb for thinking that bragging about getting a girlfriend isn't necessary?
[QUOTE=Boss;38024937]Stop fucking around and looking for excuses, fuck work and get help.
Unless your working for some corrupt organisation they will give you sick pay, unless your self employed.
Just go the GP tomorrow and use the emergency line.
PM me your town/ 1st half of your post code and ill get you a number if your struggling (I live in the UK)[/QUOTE]
I'm neither fucking around nor finding excuses, if i lose any hours that i currently do i will become in debt, and i wont be able to make the money up, at the moment my base job is 40 hours with 20 extra hours overtime in different departments (Which i am damn lucky to get to do) and if i lose out on that and start getting just sick pay i wont be able to remake the money.
My diet consists literally of microwave meals and i dont eat through work so i eat one microwave meal a day and drink water. and even then i have a quid to myself on good months after everything.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38024976]No offense, but you don't have put it anywhere. Congratulations though.
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Really, Guy, I'm dumb for thinking that bragging about getting a girlfriend isn't necessary?[/QUOTE]
She isn't a girlfriend...nor is it bragging. Just saying. Nice guys don't finish last.
[editline]13th October 2012[/editline]
Shit. I said it, didn't I.
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38024981]I'm neither fucking around nor finding excuses, if i lose any hours that i currently do i will become in debt, and i wont be able to make the money up, at the moment my base job is 40 hours with 20 extra hours overtime in different departments (Which i am damn lucky to get to do) and if i lose out on that and start getting just sick pay i wont be able to remake the money.
My diet consists literally of microwave meals and i dont eat through work so i eat one microwave meal a day and drink water. and even then i have a quid to myself on good months after everything.[/QUOTE]
3 things to do on monday,
Phone work tell them your sick, you will have a docs note by friday so you dont miss out on basic pay.
Go to the Docs.
If your not earning enough go to the citizens advice bureau in your local city, they will advise you on tax credits / extra income off the government (fuck the stigma attached to it you are pulling your fair share of the bs)
If your paying rent you can always apply for government subsidized accommodation. Its cheaper than private (im assuming your in at the moment)
Its not as bad as you think there is always a solution.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38024976]No offense, but you don't have put it anywhere. Congratulations though.
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Really, Guy, I'm dumb for thinking that bragging about getting a girlfriend isn't necessary?[/QUOTE]
sorry you're right, no happy people allowed in this thread
let's go back to talking about suicide instead of letting someone share their accomplishments
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38025082]sorry you're right, no happy people allowed in this thread
let's go back to talking about suicide instead of letting someone share their accomplishments[/QUOTE]
Well someone has to bring the "shit" part to the thread.
Look guys, i'll take this to pm's, i'm sorry i derailed the thread, it was related to relationships to an extent but i didnt mean all this to come of it. I'm sorry.
[QUOTE=and;38024724]I'm saying that it's silly to kill yourself, and based on how angry you're apparently getting at me, I take it you disagree? So you're saying that killing himself may well be the best choice for him?[/QUOTE]
yeah you're a complete idiot if this is how you've actually interpreted things
they're angry because you're being a total twat and telling someone they're pathetic for trying to kill themselves over a girl. obviously it was a stupid move and nobody here is patting him on the back saying "hey.. maybe you should try again, you made the right decision.."
telling him he's pathetic and beating him down even when hes suicidal won't accomplish anything other than making yourself feel like you have some fledgling grasp on how depression works (hint: you don't) while making yourself look like a complete nonce to everyone who is unfortunate enough to read one of these posts
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38025097]Look guys, i'll take this to pm's, i'm sorry i derailed the thread, it was related to relationships to an extent but i didnt mean all this to come of it. I'm sorry.[/QUOTE]
No no, we're glad to help. What happens happens, but please, try to see a professional. Is there anyone at all you could maybe move in with for a while so you could get some kind of savings going? A cheaper place anywhere around to move to? Better jobs to apply at? You have lots of options.
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;38025030][B]She isn't a girlfriend...nor is it bragging[/B]. Just saying. Nice guys don't finish last.
[editline]13th October 2012[/editline]
Shit. I said it, didn't I.[/QUOTE]
Well what was the bloody point there then?
Also why is the picture a filter-raped instagram-shot when there's a proper camera right there in the picture?
Believe me i've been trying to find a better job, i work in fucking sainsburys i'm literally at the bottom of the shitheap, no offence to anyone who works there but come on fuck me i stack shelves for a living, i dont want to do that, noone fucking does long term thats what you do after you finish school for christ sake.
I had a job i was a carer and i only left due to the whole situation i'm in now with my emotional state.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38025082]sorry you're right, no happy people allowed in this thread
let's go back to talking about suicide instead of letting someone share their accomplishments[/QUOTE]
I still don't get it why are you being so protective of him.
I said it was pathetic and stupid because it actually is stupid to try to end your life when you have at least 50 years and family ahead of you. Sure, it may sound harsh and if worded wrongly it may make you look ilke a dick, but it's true.
It's not like I said it so I could make fun of him, it's more like to make him realise how wrong that is, and that there are always an alternatives (even if it seems there aren't). Hopefully he will just look back on this event as a bad episode several years from now.
[QUOTE=Kopimi;38025119]yeah you're a complete idiot if this is how you've actually interpreted things
they're angry because you're being a total twat and telling someone they're pathetic for trying to kill themselves over a girl. obviously it was a stupid move and nobody here is patting him on the back saying "hey.. maybe you should try again, you made the right decision.."
telling him he's pathetic and beating him down even when hes suicidal won't accomplish anything other than making yourself feel like you have some fledgling grasp on how depression works (hint: you don't) while making yourself look like a complete nonce to everyone who is unfortunate enough to read one of these posts[/QUOTE]
Are we really going to sit here and bicker about semantics? You realize I said that "pathetic" probably isn't the right word, but it's close to the general idea, right? I'm not beating him down, I said that there are other, better solutions. I've taken several psychology classes in uni, a good chunk of which was devoted to depression and related disorders, I know how it works and that it's based on irrationality. My entire family has a history of depression and bipolar disorder, and I went through a couple episodes of it myself before I realized what a silly waste of time it was, and I've been a much happier person since. Of course not everyone can escape it so easily, but it can certainly be done given enough effort (just like everything else in life.) Please explain how I'm a "nonce?" You've got my attention.
oh my god go away people
I read one of the posts, saw people bickering about suicide, and skipped another 60 of them
I am an asset to this thread.
*suicidal people are week ~ repost this if you are one of the 4% who doesn't suicide*
i miss loopoo and rhenae
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