Turn 20 in 2 days. Still never had sex. But, im kinda glad for that. I mean, if i really wanted it, i could have it in a day. But i dont wanna just waste that opportunity and get it over with, cause i want to be able to look back on it with no regrets. I mean, if i had slept with my last girlfriend? I wouldnt be able to enjoy that memory at all...
That has to be a very dumb excuse, do not lie to yourself.
[QUOTE=junker|154;35244789]I never experienced this friend-zone thing and I really think that is only a strategy used by those "friendzoned" people to lie to themselves and make them feel better in the end.
/rant[/QUOTE]
No. You should probably experience it and then say that again.
[editline]22nd March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=junker|154;35245014]That has to be a very dumb excuse, do not lie to yourself.[/QUOTE]
And no, it's not an excuse or a lie if you don't want to regret your first time for the rest of your life, is it?
[QUOTE=nVidia;35245095]No. You should probably experience it and then say that again.
And no, it's not an excuse or a lie if you don't want to regret your first time for the rest of your life, is it?[/QUOTE]
I've been rejected before, it simply happens. I have been rejected by a friend of mine, but this friendzone thing is so often used as an excuse. Just my opinion on it, no offense to anyone though.
I understand that someone wants to have a nice memory of their first time but if you think this way every time that you can stay a virgin forever. I do not encourage people to fuck anyone, but sex is really great with a person that you really care for. Also the first time is always kind of bad, people think it is like in a movie or some story. But most people experience it as weird.
I just do not want that people miss such a great experience.
[QUOTE=junker|154;35245150]I've been rejected before, it simply happens. I have been rejected by a friend of mine, but this friendzone thing is so often used as an excuse. Just my opinion on it, no offense to anyone though.
I understand that someone wants to have a nice memory of their first time but if you think this way every time that you can stay a virgin forever. I do not encourage people to fuck anyone, but sex is really great with a person that you really care for. Also the first time is always kind of bad, people think it is like in a movie or some story. But most people experience it as weird.
I just do not want that people miss such a great experience.[/QUOTE]
I'm not using it as an excuse, sure there are people that might do so.
And about that first time, i still haven't found anyone i really care about.
You are probably right, my first time was pretty great and I loved it so it's easy for me to speak so easily about stuff.
[QUOTE=junker|154;35245014]That has to be a very dumb excuse, do not lie to yourself.[/QUOTE] my last girlfriend lost her goddamn mind. I'm REALLY glad nothing happened with her. "Dont stick your dick in the crazy" comes to mind there. I seriously get nauseated just thinking about her.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35244978]Turn 20 in 2 days. Still never had sex. But, im kinda glad for that. I mean, if i really wanted it, i could have it in a day. But i dont wanna just waste that opportunity and get it over with, cause i want to be able to look back on it with no regrets. I mean, if i had slept with my last girlfriend? I wouldnt be able to enjoy that memory at all...[/QUOTE]
For a girl I can understand waiting a bit longer to be with someone you know will care for you because of the physical side of it, and the fact girls are generally more vunerable.
But really I wouldn't hold on for the "perfect" girl and moment; It's more than likely not going to be brilliant. And you'll probably wonder what all the fuss was about afterwards.
I did it for the first time just after christmas and I'm 17, with my girlfriend who I've been with for 6 months. First time I didn't even finish, since she was in pain (despite not being a virgin). And it took us a good month or so till things were going smoothly and we both enjoyed it properly.
I wouldn't say rush into it and regret it, but really, I think holding out till "the one" and the perfect moment is silly and will only lead to disappointment.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35245266]my last girlfriend lost her goddamn mind. I'm REALLY glad nothing happened with her. "Dont stick your dick in the crazy" comes to mind there. I seriously get nauseated just thinking about her.[/QUOTE]
My ex-girlfriend is now in a psychatric hospital :v: good that you waited though.
For those dudes asking about car sex advice, if your car has backseats that fold into the trunk, fold your seats downward, position yourself with your legs in the trunk and your upper body on the seat portion. You get awesome room to move about and its much more comfortable than awkwardly being on the backseat. Lay down a blanket if you'd like as well.
Im not looking for the perfect girl, but my first gf was mormon, didnt want to screw her over, and my second gf was nucking futs. I know a couple girls that would be more than happy to help there and when i turned 14 my sister's bf asked if i wanted to get laid and said he'd make it happen if i did. Ive had plenty of chances, but Its just not something im aiming for at the moment.
meh I thought this thread would've discussed about shit in sex, and use of it and such, like how they react to shit and is it ok.
no i do mean shit.
[editline]22nd March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35245382]Im not looking for the perfect girl, but my first gf was mormon, didnt want to screw her over, and my second gf was nucking futs. I know a couple girls that would be more than happy to help there and when i turned 14 my sister's bf asked if i wanted to get laid and said he'd make it happen if i did. Ive had plenty of chances, but Its just not something im aiming for at the moment.[/QUOTE]
aiming for the perfect moment for years can lead to big disappointment.
its just sex after all
The thread change a lot since it is in GD.
[QUOTE=Seith;35242288]You've been watching too many Hollywood highschool movies, right?
It's a good thing you only suppose "the entire community" thrives from it. Have you ever tried it? That's like me saying powerlifting sucks because most powerlifters are fat (which is also wrong, but people enjoy stereotypes) while not even trying to wrap my head around it.[/QUOTE]
what i'm saying is that if you need to plan what you're going to say to a girl hours in advance, there is something contrived and possibly unhealthy going on. i don't care how you go about picking up women. what i'm saying is that it should be natural. if anything, romantic comedies stress the idea that there is a series of well defined steps that all relationships should go through and they also promote the idea that you can make a girl fall in love with you simply by existing and being a decent person.
and i didn't say the entire internet community. i said the pickup artist community. you know, those forums of guys who exchange pickup lines that they rehearse in advance to recite to attractive women that they see. they develop flowcharts and plans for how to trick women into having sex with them.
EDIT: and no, i've never needed to practice "being alpha" to get girls. it's never been an issue for me. i've never had to practice conversations with women.
[QUOTE=Daggoth;35246688]what i'm saying is that if you need to plan what you're going to say to a girl hours in advance, there is something contrived and possibly unhealthy going on. i don't care how you go about picking up women. what i'm saying is that it should be natural. if anything, romantic comedies stress the idea that there is a series of well defined steps that all relationships should go through and they also promote the idea that you can make a girl fall in love with you simply by existing and being a decent person.
and i didn't say the entire internet community. i said the pickup artist community. you know, those forums of guys who exchange pickup lines that they rehearse in advance to recite to attractive women that they see. they develop flowcharts and plans for how to trick women into having sex with them.
EDIT: and no, i've never needed to practice "being alpha" to get girls. it's never been an issue for me. i've never had to practice conversations with women.[/QUOTE]
... I know you meant the pickup community. What you are describing reminds me of the average male boasting high bench press numbers (Yes, I like using terms from weightlifting) , while in reality he sucks and the stereotype of the typical "meat head " arises even more and more often, even though it doesn't represent the community of lifters in a very objective point of view.
Even though there might be some truth in it, it's more your reasoning on why one shouldn't do it.
Also, "I've never needed practice" is pure ignorance. It shows perfectly you have no authentic knowledge of the system, it's results and the people who really consider themselves "true puas". You don't instantly learn how to pick up women in an above average manner, unless you put effort into it. There is not magic solution, even though advertisements say so. You need to put hours and hours to perfect and make this natural. You are only given tools and knowledge.
I am not going to expand this, but your basic reasoning falls far from the truth. To be honest, it sounds like a "I don't want to admit I might use some additional information to be more successful with women". The ability to admit such ego-driven subjects is what sets apart the real "alpha males" from the "average joes.
[QUOTE=Joppari;35245422]aiming for the perfect moment for years can lead to big disappointment.
its just sex after all[/QUOTE]
I'm not waiting for the perfect moment, I'm waiting for the moment that doesn't make my dick scream "THIS IS A REALLY BAD IDEA"
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35251540]I'm not waiting for the perfect moment, I'm waiting for the moment that doesn't make my dick scream "THIS IS A REALLY BAD IDEA"[/QUOTE]
There are no bad ideas, just experiences. It's either you learn from them, or keep regretting everything you do each and every time. Embrace your mistakes as you would your winnings.
When your ex (who you're not really friends with) starts a conversation with you and the first thing she talks about is the new kid she's going to prom with as a freshman goddammit.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35251540]I'm not waiting for the perfect moment, I'm waiting for the moment that doesn't make my dick scream "THIS IS A REALLY BAD IDEA"[/QUOTE]
My first time was on the roof of a bakery in January with only two hours before me and I still managed to have a good time.
[QUOTE=Scarabix;35252118]My first time was on the roof of a bakery in January with only two hours before me and I still managed to have a good time.[/QUOTE]
And i thought the rear floor of my fiat van (seats removed) was a weird place to have a first time :v:
my first time was on a bathroom floor
My first time was...
:(
My housemates having really loud sex next door and its pissing me off.
I'm not even sure theres a woman in there, all I hear is heavy masculine grunting.
[QUOTE=Seith;35251446]... I know you meant the pickup community. What you are describing reminds me of the average male boasting high bench press numbers (Yes, I like using terms from weightlifting) , while in reality he sucks and the stereotype of the typical "meat head " arises even more and more often, even though it doesn't represent the community of lifters in a very objective point of view.
Even though there might be some truth in it, it's more your reasoning on why one shouldn't do it.
Also, "I've never needed practice" is pure ignorance. It shows perfectly you have no authentic knowledge of the system, it's results and the people who really consider themselves "true puas". You don't instantly learn how to pick up women in an above average manner, unless you put effort into it. There is not magic solution, even though advertisements say so. You need to put hours and hours to perfect and make this natural. You are only given tools and knowledge.
I am not going to expand this, but your basic reasoning falls far from the truth. To be honest, it sounds like a "I don't want to admit I might use some additional information to be more successful with women". The ability to admit such ego-driven subjects is what sets apart the real "alpha males" from the "average joes.[/QUOTE]
You're blowing it way out of proportion. There is no such thing as a practice of getting women. Seriously, if you plan your conversations in advance for whatever reasons, something is wrong. Whatever the situation, the best "practice" is that of spontaneity.
I have no problems getting around with women in social situations. The Alpha Male concept of social interactions is an outdated, archaic way of thinking from when social status and belonging to a caste were common denominators when it came to knowing your place in society. These days (where I'm from) everyone has everything within their grasp, if only they should wish to pursue it. Ofcourse, some people simply don't mix with others, but this is obvious.
[QUOTE=just-a-boy;35254894]You're blowing it way out of proportion. There is no such thing as a practice of getting women. Seriously, if you plan your conversations in advance for whatever reasons, something is wrong. Whatever the situation, the best "practice" is that of spontaneity.
[/QUOTE]
haven't you seen PUA videos?
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zorEMHb3o0Y[/media]
[QUOTE=thisispain;35255294]haven't you seen PUA videos?
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zorEMHb3o0Y[/media][/QUOTE]
nothing in life is that complicated
Notice who has the power.
[editline]23rd March 2012[/editline]
Dropping some cocky-funnys~
What's everyone's opinion on girls being pretty quick to ensure that you hang out again? I just think it's kind of stupid to automatically assume it means she likes you. I started hanging out with this girl recently, and it sounds like we might end up getting together to watch movies every week.
[QUOTE=Splarg!;35255609]What's everyone's opinion on girls being pretty quick to ensure that you hang out again? I just think it's kind of stupid to automatically assume it means she likes you. I started hanging out with this girl recently, and it sounds like we might end up getting together to watch movies every week.[/QUOTE]
Only in Facepunch would a guy complain about a woman. I'd say go for it. It can really go either way, only for you to find out yourself. Either really fun person or she has a thing for you
My girlfriend is a sex addict. You can pretty much say she's my sex slave. She personally came over just today, last afternoon during her lunch break at her work at this bar and gave me head. She ate lunch then left. I am quite bewildered. She begs me over the phone constantly to lay her and to my delight I decline and keep playing Counter-Strike.
So I kinda do know the feeling of having a girl chasing you all the time. It gets really tedious mind you and it interferes with your daily life. What's the use of having a fashion model as a girlfriend when she needs to get boned almost every other day? It's quite tiresome imo but for some reason she is satisfied with me. It really is up to your tastes
it means either she likes you or you're just fun to be around.
don't automatically assume that just because someone doesn't want to watch movies alone it means they want to fuck your brains out. just go with the flow and take your time.
[editline]22nd March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=sHiBaN;35255777] It's quite tiresome imo but for some reason she is satisfied with me[/QUOTE]
she enjoys the control over you. in some cases it could be considered abuse, don't fall into the trap of thinking you have to constantly say yes to sex or else you're not a man.
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