Sex, Girlfriends and Shit III - General

[QUOTE=Seith;34079620]Keep away troublesome thoughts. You need to enjoy this my friend, to the fullest.[/QUOTE] I'm fine, its finding the bloody time...

[QUOTE=Thaard;34080162]I have a little predicament. I usually deal with this shit myself, but I need some external help/comments. I've become good friends with one of my friends girlfriend. She's got the whole "nerdy girl" going on, and she's pretty cool. I can talk to her about anything and we have a lot of stuff in common. The problem is that every time we meet(at partys and get togethers), she's all over me(physically). Her boyfriend(my friend) is not the jealous type, so he doesn't really care, but I do feel it can get pretty tense, since she gets really, how to put it, close each time she drinks. This new years eve for example, we were partying and she constantly held around me and gave me hugs etc. Almost everyone in the party thought she was my girlfriend, so I had to tell everyone we weren't dating. Anyways, I'm wondering if I should tell her to stop being so intimate at partys. I'm a bit wary, thinking maybe she will be hurt or angry, if I tell her, but it's getting annoying. It's not helping me find a girlfriend either..[/QUOTE] [img]http://www.facepunch.com/avatar/166053.png[/img]

[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34080273]I'm fine, its finding the bloody time...[/QUOTE] The more you don't have it, the better you'll have it. Haha.

also if he's not jealous at all, he seems like the kind of person you should stay friends with [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Seith;34080287]The more you don't have it, the better you'll have it. Haha.[/QUOTE] long as you don't wank up a storm lmao

[QUOTE=Thaard;34080162]I have a little predicament. I usually deal with this shit myself, but I need some external help/comments. I've become good friends with one of my friends girlfriend. She's got the whole "nerdy girl" going on, and she's pretty cool. I can talk to her about anything and we have a lot of stuff in common. The problem is that every time we meet(at partys and get togethers), she's all over me(physically). Her boyfriend(my friend) is not the jealous type, so he doesn't really care, but I do feel it can get pretty tense, since she gets really, how to put it, close each time she drinks. This new years eve for example, we were partying and she constantly held around me and gave me hugs etc. Almost everyone in the party thought she was my girlfriend, so I had to tell everyone we weren't dating. Anyways, I'm wondering if I should tell her to stop being so intimate at partys. I'm a bit wary, thinking maybe she will be hurt or angry, if I tell her, but it's getting annoying. It's not helping me find a girlfriend either..[/QUOTE] It always strikes me why people tend to be so considerate of other people but not themselves. It's bothering you, then do something about it! Go up to her, tell her she's had enough attention and go enjoy at the party. No eyes crossing, no hard feelings. You did what was OBVIOUSLY right for the both of you. You should feel absurdly intoxicated with that decision (if you did decide to do as I said).

[QUOTE=Seith;34080287]The more you don't have it, the better you'll have it. Haha.[/QUOTE] Well we just need to have another opportunity and get the whole size/tightness thing sorted first

[QUOTE=Turnips5;34080290]also if he's not jealous at all, he seems like the kind of person you should stay friends with [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] long as you don't wank up a storm lmao[/QUOTE] You'll need to simply that for me. What did you say in basic English? [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34080335]Well we just need to have another opportunity and get the whole size/tightness thing sorted first[/QUOTE] You're killing me. Why such a simple matter MATTERS SO MUCH? It's obviously her being tense, nervous. Maybe not used to your dick. A lot of NOT SO SERIOUS problems that should solve themselves. Never think of this issue again or I'll smack you. Now... I've got some business' to attend to inside the local pubs.. good night folks.

[QUOTE=Turnips5;34080254]If you value your friendship at all, my advice would be to try to keep her at arm's length [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] still kind of a shitty situation though[/QUOTE] Yeah, this past year she has really gotten a bit too close. Kissing me on the neck, rubbing herself in my face and such. I don't really know what to do. It's giving me a serious case of the blue balls.. I don't know, maybe it's some kind of attention'ish kind of thing. She has said that if she wasn't with my friend, she would definitely date me. She and my friend are serious though, since they're practically engaged. Maybe I'll try to be more firm at partys, and give her less attention or something.. Edit: Alright Seith, I'll try that next time.

[QUOTE=Seith;34080350]You'll need to simply that for me. What did you say in basic English? [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] You're killing me. Why such a simple matter MATTERS SO MUCH? It's obviously her being tense, nervous. Maybe not used to your dick. A lot of NOT SO SERIOUS problems that should solve themselves. Never think of this issue again or I'll smack you. Now... I've got some business' to attend to inside the local pubs.. good night folks.[/QUOTE] I know its going to be fine, I just want to actually have sex properly...

[QUOTE=Seith;34080350] You're killing me. Why such a simple matter MATTERS SO MUCH? It's obviously her being tense, nervous. Maybe not used to your dick. A lot of NOT SO SERIOUS problems that should solve themselves.[/QUOTE] use lots of lube and try and try and try [editline]7th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Thaard;34080413]Yeah, this past year she has really gotten a bit too close. Kissing me on the neck, rubbing herself in my face and such. I don't really know what to do. It's giving me a serious case of the blue balls.. I don't know, maybe it's some kind of attention'ish kind of thing. She has said that if she wasn't with my friend, she would definitely date me. She and my friend are serious though,[B] since their practically engaged.[/B] Maybe I'll try to be more firm at partys, and give her less attention or something.. [/QUOTE] Your only option is to impregnate her and let him raise the child thinking it is his that way if the child turns out good you can step in and claim responsibility, but if it's shit you can just pretend it never happened

[QUOTE=Seith;34080350]You'll need to simply that for me. What did you say in basic English?[/QUOTE] haha "wank": slang for masturbate "____ing up a storm" : ____ing a lot "wanking up a storm": masturbating so much that your sexual performance suffers [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Contag;34080439]use lots of lube and try and try and try[/QUOTE] GO IN, AND GO IN, AND GO IN, AND GO IN LIKE THE US MARSHAL AND HIS THREE DAUGHTERS and WE LOSE THE VACCINE.

[QUOTE=Seith;34075765]The 1st option, dude[/QUOTE] Oh, then you can take as much as you like. Like in the milk with your cereal in the morning! :v:

[QUOTE=Turnips5;34080514]haha "wank": slang for masturbate "____ing up a storm" : ____ing a lot "wanking up a storm": masturbating so much that your sexual performance suffers [editline]6th January 2012[/editline] GO IN, AND GO IN, AND GO IN, AND GO IN LIKE THE US MARSHAL AND HIS THREE DAUGHTERS and WE LOSE THE VACCINE.[/QUOTE] I recommend Masturbation Abstinence. Greatest cure the world has ever known.

[QUOTE=Contag;34080439]Your only option is to impregnate her and let him raise the child thinking it is his that way if the child turns out good you can step in and claim responsibility, but if it's shit you can just pretend it never happened[/QUOTE] Holy shit best post in a Sex, Girlfriends and Shit thread ever.

Oh god, I have a massive crush on this one girl. Recently, I found out that she feels the same way to me. The thing is, we both are already dating, and all of us are friends with each other. Oh boy, this is going to be fun.

[QUOTE=Skullington;34084089]Oh god, I have a massive crush on this one girl. Recently, I found out that she feels the same way to me. The thing is, we both are already dating, and all of us are friends with each other. Oh boy, this is going to be fun.[/QUOTE] Crush her with your awesomeness.

[QUOTE=Milkie;34084148]Crush her with your awesomeness.[/QUOTE] If I tried that, she'd probably lift me up, put me on some chair and say "now be a good boy and don't go around trying to crush anyone". So no.

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Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] Uh I mean you can try and make that work but I honestly doubt it will. If it makes you happy, do it. If you don't do it you might always wonder what might have happened

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] Walks it, you pussy.

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] that's really not that bad of a drive. if you can see each other at least every couple of weeks, sure. but i'm guessing you're in high school, so just try looking closer.

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] There isn't any fixed formula for dating success. Choose what makes you feel good. [editline]8th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Raptor;34104980]Uh I mean you can try and make that work but I honestly doubt it will. If it makes you happy, do it. If you don't do it you might always wonder what might have happened[/QUOTE] I have to disagree on the last part, "bla bla wonder what might happened". I feel the movies and the entire global network of Hollywood fuckers makes it seem you should wonder. Well, you shouldn't. There are tons of women out there and there isn't one specifically made for you. That's the root of insecure men and problematic relationships. People are unable to let go because of dumb philosophies such as this.

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] My current girlfriend of 3 years lived an hour away from me before we moved in together. As long as you can see each other fairly often it's not a problem at all.

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] Any kind of public transport? If there's no viable way to get there and back quickly, then you've always got the excuse to stay over at her house.

Well she's gone back on the Pill thankfully. Yesterday she was pretty bad because of things, her hand was shaking real bad at the dinner table and she could barely stomach any food, she normally eats more than me. I'm not going to broach the no-condom sex for a bit though.

No cars? No rodehead. That relationship would never possibly work.

[QUOTE=kaine123;34104731]Do you guys figure a 20-30 minute drive is too far for a relationship? Considering neither the girl nor I have driver's licenses yet and would have to have our parents or friends drive us?[/QUOTE] I'd be so happy if I only had to drive 30 minutes to see my girl, I'd be happy with a 2 hour drive. It takes me four hours to drive to hers and costs about £40 each way.

I live in the country-side in the suburbs of my city. All my life and schooldays were passed inside a bus everyday. I used to take 10 min to get to the center of the city from my home. Problem was there were only buses from 30 to 30 minutes and I had to leave home 5 min earlyer to catch the bus I wanted. So whenever I got a girfriend I had to take a bus too. So 20-30 min is worth it for a relationship. It may get a bit monotonous but if you really like her, it will be a sacrifice worth taking. Funny thing is I live closer to the train station than to the bus stop, so I was used to take the train to the capital city (45min) and have my relationships and friends there. I had like 5 girlfriends total and only one was from my city because of that. Now when I think of it, I actually have more friends in other cities and towns than my own. But that's because nowadays I have to take the train to go to college so I don't spend much time now in the town I grew up in. And I kind a miss it because my town has this wonderful view to the sea: [IMG]http://ipt.olhares.com/data/big/4/47181.jpg[/IMG]

[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34109199]Well she's gone back on the Pill thankfully. Yesterday she was pretty bad because of things, her hand was shaking real bad at the dinner table and she could barely stomach any food, she normally eats more than me. I'm not going to broach the no-condom sex for a bit though.[/QUOTE] i'm afraid i've missed the conversation leading to this, but if you're saying (and i could be completely wrong) that her hands shaking and poor appetite are linked to the pill, then suggest to her to take it at night before she goes to sleep. when i first started i took it in the morning, and used to get headaches, nausea and terrible mood swings, but after a friend recommended taking it at night all of this went away.