Sex, Girlfriends and Shit III

[Autumn]

great thank you. i am listening to a wonderful music show, and today is a blues special, a lot of 40s/50s loveliness

[editline]25th March 2012[/editline]

how is your morning?

[Seith]

[QUOTE=Autumn;35286146]great thank you. i am listening to a wonderful music show, and today is a blues special, a lot of 40s/50s loveliness

[editline]25th March 2012[/editline]

how is your morning?[/QUOTE]

I'd like to remind you guys.... "Sex, Girlfriends and Shit III".

[thisispain]

[QUOTE=Autumn;35286146]great thank you. i am listening to a wonderful music show, and today is a blues special, a lot of 40s/50s loveliness

[editline]25th March 2012[/editline]

how is your morning?[/QUOTE]

oh i live in california so we're about 8 hours apart. i'm getting ready for bed. it's the weekend, naturally, so i get to stay up late and sleep in.

[editline]25th March 2012[/editline]

[QUOTE=Seith;35286156]I'd like to remind you guys.... "Sex, Girlfriends and Shit III".[/QUOTE]

she's passed out on the couch, so cute with the blanket on her

[DarkendSky]

Going out with a girl who's a virgin when your not is sometimes a little frustrating.

[thisispain]

[QUOTE=DarkendSky;35286235]Going out with a girl who's a virgin when your not is sometimes a little frustrating.[/QUOTE]

how so?

[DICKFLIPMC60]

cuz u wana fuc but she duno how penis lol

[RainbowStalin]

Then you can teach her and it'll be all romantic and shit.

[Seith]

[QUOTE=T_T crai2;35286463]cuz u wana fuc but she duno how penis lol[/QUOTE]

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[KorJax]

[QUOTE=The Rifleman;35284627]Girlfriend of over one year, long distance, just broke up with me. She says she doesnt know where we're headed, and just wants a break. She's my first love, and viceversa. Im in such a shock, i dont know what to do. She says she wants to stay best friends and still wants to end up together, but not right now. What the fuck do i do...

edit: Today's our 1, and a half anniversary too. Wow what a day to do it.[/QUOTE]

It sucks, really does. I remember my first "relationship" was a primarily LDR one.

In the end IMO it is for the best. It'll be a hard few months but that's okay - even if you have to tell her that you'll just be better not talking again instead of being friends, or at least not talking for a while (don't even dream about getting back together becuase 9/10 it won't work).

LDR's are a bad thing to get involved with though. They never work. Never ever. The only time it'll somewhat work is if you already were in a signifigant relationship with someone IRL for a while, and they moved, and you had some reasonable capacity to move to them within a reasonable sphere or time. Other than that, an LDR just won't work. In this sense, it's for the best. You need real-life relationships for intimacy, it just doesn't work over the net.

[Pace.]

Hey guys, i dont normally post in threads like this, but if you guys could help, that be great.

I started uni recently, and theres this girl in one of my tutorials (which is once a week) who i like, and talk to most tutorials. Conversations fine, and i make her laugh and such, but how would i know if she likes me? Ive heard that playful touching is a big indicator, but none of that has happened yet. I dont want to misinterpret being friendly for actually liking me, cause that could end up awkward. And im in her group for a group assignment, so thatll give me a chance to talk to her more, but i dont want to leave it late and end up friendzoned. On the other hand, if i ask her out and get recjected, itll be pretty awkward for the rest of the semester.

I'm not socially awkward or anything i can talk to girls fine, just wondering what the best way to go would be from here. Thanks guys :)

[Godline]

awkward if you make it awkward.
in before im perm'd cause I posted in other thread by accident.......

[BlackBirdNL]

[QUOTE=Pace.;35287420]Hey guys, i dont normally post in threads like this, but if you guys could help, that be great.

I started uni recently, and theres this girl in one of my tutorials (which is once a week) who i like, and talk to most tutorials. Conversations fine, and i make her laugh and such, but how would i know if she likes me? Ive heard that playful touching is a big indicator, but none of that has happened yet. I dont want to misinterpret being friendly for actually liking me, cause that could end up awkward. And im in her group for a group assignment, so thatll give me a chance to talk to her more, but i dont want to leave it late and end up friendzoned. On the other hand, if i ask her out and get recjected, itll be pretty awkward for the rest of the semester.

I'm not socially awkward or anything i can talk to girls fine, just wondering what the best way to go would be from here. Thanks guys :)[/QUOTE]

Man up and ask if she's like to go for coffee after class.(or whatever) Just say how you feel, the confidence will make you more attractive and if she says no you know for sure and won't have to waste your time on her any longer.

[Allstone]

Ask her out.

[SatansSin]

[QUOTE=Pace.;35287420]Hey guys, i dont normally post in threads like this, but if you guys could help, that be great.

I started uni recently, and theres this girl in one of my tutorials (which is once a week) who i like, and talk to most tutorials. Conversations fine, and i make her laugh and such, but how would i know if she likes me? Ive heard that playful touching is a big indicator, but none of that has happened yet. I dont want to misinterpret being friendly for actually liking me, cause that could end up awkward. And im in her group for a group assignment, so thatll give me a chance to talk to her more, but i dont want to leave it late and end up friendzoned. On the other hand, if i ask her out and get recjected, itll be pretty awkward for the rest of the semester.

I'm not socially awkward or anything i can talk to girls fine, just wondering what the best way to go would be from here. Thanks guys :)[/QUOTE]

The way I see it, is if you never try you never might of ended up with her, if you do and it fails, at least you found out.

If she doesn't have a boyfriend, then ask her out to .. coffee or something? Something a little friendly but shows initiative? Then maybe afterwards a movie or meal.

Anyway;

I met this girl online, known her for roughly a year, got a webcam and such, we talk for hours on end.. Yada yada we got naked on the webcam's. Now this wouldn't of been a problem if my nerves didn't kick in, I went softy like a turtles head. I like-like this girl, and previous girlfriends I've had in RL with me, I never went soft. I'm still a virgin, but if we cuddled up or something, I'd pop a boner no problem. Same thing with porn, if I'm bored with porn or not really horny, I just end up losing it, then gaining it back. Iunno what to do, I'm not obese or anything, and I do mildly exercise.. So I don't know what to do, I don't think I have any past relatives with ED or anything.

Psychological impotence sounds more like what I have? Anyone else?

I'm thinking that I'm more into a touch aspect more so then perhaps seeing on screen?

[Pace.]

[QUOTE=BlackBirdNL;35287450]Man up and ask if she's like to go for coffee after class.(or whatever) Just say how you feel, the confidence will make you more attractive and if she says no you know for sure and won't have to waste your time on her any longer.[/QUOTE]

We already went for lunch after class once. I mentioned i was going to grab something to eat at the end of class, and she said she was going as well and i was "welcome to come if youd like", not exactly any indicator of interest though : /

[riceyrice]

This is it. This is the day I ask her.

[KorJax]

[QUOTE=Pace.;35287575]We already went for lunch after class once. I mentioned i was going to grab something to eat at the end of class, and she said she was going as well and i was "welcome to come if youd like", not exactly any indicator of interest though : /[/QUOTE]

I think it is.

She might be one of the types to take it easy and slow, the build up to getting to know someone that is. Or is waiting for you initiative.

I think the best thing to do would be to find something to invite her to :) Wither it's just between you and her or you wanted to go to something/do something and want to invite her along.

[BlackBirdNL]

[QUOTE=Pace.;35287575]We already went for lunch after class once. I mentioned i was going to grab something to eat at the end of class, and she said she was going as well and i was "welcome to come if youd like", not exactly any indicator of interest though : /[/QUOTE]

You need to ask yourself if you are able to be just friends(unlikely if you ask me because men and woman can not be real friends). If not just tell her straight up, no double meaning.
But I'd prepare for a letdown.

[Autumn]

[QUOTE=BlackBirdNL;35287737]unlikely if you ask me because men and woman can not be real friends[/QUOTE]

why ever not?

[mike]

[QUOTE=Autumn;35287914]why ever not?[/QUOTE]

you either have to be lovers or mortal enemies

[Rusty100]

all women are my mortal enemies!!!

[BlackBirdNL]

[QUOTE=Autumn;35287914]why ever not?[/QUOTE]

Cause a man always wants sex with every woman he is attracted to. There are the few exceptions but it' s actually psychology.

The only reason brothers and sisters aren't banging away is because of one moment in their life. Every girl hates boys and every boy hates girls in her/his early life.
During this time they push away future possible mating partners and because it is effectively impossible for siblings to completely disregard each other they will not be able to develop sexual feelings for each other.

[Autumn]

and why can't men be friends with females that they are not attracted to?

[BlackBirdNL]

[QUOTE=Autumn;35288373]and why can't men be friends with females that they are not attracted to?[/QUOTE]

[quote=BlackBirdNL]Cause a man always wants sex with every woman [b]he is attracted to[/b].[/quote]

[Aeris]

[QUOTE=SatansSin;35287552]
I met this girl online, known her for roughly a year, got a webcam and such, we talk for hours on end.. Yada yada we got naked on the webcam's. Now this wouldn't of been a problem if my nerves didn't kick in, I went softy like a turtles head. I like-like this girl, and previous girlfriends I've had in RL with me, I never went soft. I'm still a virgin, but if we cuddled up or something, I'd pop a boner no problem. Same thing with porn, if I'm bored with porn or not really horny, I just end up losing it, then gaining it back. Iunno what to do, I'm not obese or anything, and I do mildly exercise.. So I don't know what to do, I don't think I have any past relatives with ED or anything.

Psychological impotence sounds more like what I have? Anyone else?

I'm thinking that I'm more into a touch aspect more so then perhaps seeing on screen?[/QUOTE]

There's really nothing wrong with you. It was all the built-up expectations of going on the camera along with her that made you go soft. It is actually very llikely to happen the first time you're going to have sex as well (not to scare you or anything). It's not really a big issue, you just have to feel more comfortable with the situation to get it back up again... and possibly play with yourself.

[Autumn]

[QUOTE=BlackBirdNL;35287737]You need to ask yourself if you are able to be just friends(unlikely if you ask me [B]because men and woman can not be real friends[/B]). If not just tell her straight up, no double meaning.
But I'd prepare for a letdown.[/QUOTE]

but that is what you originally said, and is why i questioned it

if you want to say something, don't make it a sweeping generalising statement

[Godline]

[QUOTE=BlackBirdNL;35288173]Cause a man always wants sex with every woman he is attracted to. There are the few exceptions but it' s actually psychology.[/QUOTE]

I can catagorically deny if I met this woman id want to shag her. Youve just started a psychology class at school havent you? Its ok admit it youve been looking to use your knowledge somewhere and thought this is the best place you found.

Ohh woman / thing in question

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[biccboi]

[QUOTE=BigOwl;35284925]Had my birthday party today. You'll never guess what my last birthday present was :>[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigOwl;35285144]You guys are like one huge virginity support group here :v:[/QUOTE]

Let me guess, you lost your virginity on your birthday and now you show how much of an awesome person you are?

[ChestyMcGee]

[QUOTE=BlackBirdNL;35288173]Cause a man always wants sex with every woman he is attracted to. There are the few exceptions but it' s actually psychology.[/QUOTE]

this is just dumb. i've always been close to girls. i've got close friends who i've been close to for the past seven years. they're all attractive girls but the thought of shagging them makes me feel ill

[Rusty100]

as much as i agree that you can have attractive friends without wanting to bang them,
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35288900] but the thought of shagging them makes me feel ill[/QUOTE]
thats weird chesty

[editline]26th March 2012[/editline]

why are people so weird