Come on guys, ease up on seith. He's just trying to give advice to the best of his abilities. Though I think all that alpha beta shit is pretty dumb. Seith you're acting like romance is based upon logical decisions. Nigga, just be yourself and you'll eventually find a girl you likes you for who you are.
[QUOTE=sHiBaN;35321139]I don't want anything from her but to be my friend. [/QUOTE]
she's basically a stereotype hah.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35321258]she's basically a stereotype hah.[/QUOTE]
Not necessarily. It's hard to describe her, forgive my terribad English if I worded it incorrectly. But really I can't describe her without you to actually see her in person
The difference between being "alpha" and being "beta" is the ability to do what you like to do without giving a shit what other people think of what you do or how you do it.
tee bee aych
awful advice like "be alpha! be yourself!" is why so many pasty white nerds wear fedoras and axe body spray
well apparently not that website is telling you being alpha is caring about what other people think.
[QUOTE=Sanius;35321325]awful advice like "be alpha! be yourself!" is why so many pasty white nerds wear fedoras and axe body spray[/QUOTE]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJHadu1BAo4[/media]
come at me
[editline]27th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;35321332]well apparently not that website is telling you being alpha is caring about what other people think.[/QUOTE]
what a bad website
[QUOTE=Sanius;35321325]awful advice like "be alpha! be yourself!" is why so many pasty white nerds wear fedoras and axe body spray[/QUOTE]
fortunately i haven't seen this.
[QUOTE=Sanius;35321325]awful advice like "be alpha! be yourself!" is why so many pasty white nerds wear fedoras and axe body spray[/QUOTE]
Didn't know that being yourself and having confidence was looked down upon?
[QUOTE=Thaard;35321407]Didn't know that being yourself and having confidence was looked down upon?[/QUOTE]
Yeah but faking confidence and a stupid persona by following dumb advice would be
[QUOTE=Thaard;35321407]Didn't know that being yourself and having confidence was looked down upon?[/QUOTE]
He thinks trying to emulate a 40's badass is being yourself or something idk.
[QUOTE=Perfumly;35321421]He thinks trying to emulate a 40's badass is being yourself or something idk.[/QUOTE]
my point is that "be yourself" does more harm than it does good, especially on the internet. it promotes self-affirmation amongst people who are socially inept
I don't think that there's anything wrong with being confident if you actually have a reason to be
"be yourself" means do what you really feel like, without caring what people think.
many of these "socially inept" people care a lot what other people think, thats why they dont take any risks and stay socially inept
[QUOTE=Pace.;35322339]"be yourself" means do what you really feel like, without caring what people think.
many of these "socially inept" people care a lot what other people think, thats why they dont take any risks and stay socially inept[/QUOTE]
no, many of them are socially inept because they don't see what's wrong with their behavior and use "I'm just being myself!!" as a safety net
being yourself isn't going to land you in a fruitful relationship if you're a terrible and/or awkward person who isn't willing to compromise
[QUOTE=Sanius;35322160]my point is that "be yourself" does more harm than it does good, especially on the internet. it promotes self-affirmation amongst people who are socially inept
h
I don't think that there's anything wrong with being confident if you actually have a reason to be[/QUOTE]
"If you have a reason to be"? I can drink piss through my ass. Why the fuck do you need to provide reasons to satisfy the eyes of the people around you, so you can be [b]comfterably[/b] confident? That kind of reasoning contradicts being confident.
[editline]27th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=PassingWord;35321178]Come on guys, ease up on seith. He's just trying to give advice to the best of his abilities. Though I think all that alpha beta shit is pretty dumb. Seith you're acting like romance is based upon logical decisions. Nigga, just be yourself and you'll eventually find a girl you likes you for who you are.[/QUOTE]
And you are acting as if romance is something from a chick flick. While I may be sounding as if I am following patterns, I assure you, it feels completely natural.
I can't convey myself clearly on the internet, so it's pointless saying this over and over again. Have a good day gentlemen.
[QUOTE=Seith;35322659]I can drink piss through my ass.[/QUOTE]
You heard it here first folks
maybe it's some kind of wacky hebrew expression.
people from israel really just don't have anything in common with us real western jews.
[QUOTE=Aeris;35315811]This actually reminds me of a cartoon I read back when I was a kid (when I was about Jane's age actually). Re-telling it in textform for relevancy:
Cornelia used to have these vivid dreams at night, about a man named Caleb. In the dreams she was an older, more developed woman - a heroine with magical powers. She used to long for these dreams where she and Caleb could meet, and eventually she fell in love with him. She knew they could only meet in her dreams, but it was so real - She could even feel that Caleb loved her back!
Time went on and then one day Cornelia found Caleb out in the real world, and he was everything she had dreamed about. Caleb on the other hand thought that something was different... She was in her regular everyday form, which he wasn't used to. Caleb seemed to not mind at first, but as they started hanging out it dawned on him that this was not the Cornelia he had been dreaming about. Just as Cornelia had been dreaming about him, he had been dreaming about her - The heroine Cornelia which he shared so much with. This girl was just a kid, and her everyday world was far too childish for him to be in. He thought that he would love her for who she was, but child-Cornelia wasn't the same as heroine-Cornelia. She didn't know it herself, but she was different.
As you can see the Dream here could be translated into the Internet, and her heroine form can be translated into her Internet persona.
People think that the Internet persona of a person is the "real deal", but everyone who has ever met up with someone they've been talking to on the Internet knows that this is not the whole truth. She would still be the person you shared all your thoughts with, but there would be so much more to her. She would be a kid, with normal kid problems that you haven't seen before because her online personality doesn't show things like that. When she speaks with you online she is her Internet self, and even if she is completely honest it will never show the whole spectra of who she is.
Don't engage in a romantic relationship with her. You might think that she's mature enough to make decisions like that, she will think so herself at least, but she's not. There's nothing wrong with being her best friend, but keep it at a non-sexual level.[/QUOTE]
That was interestingly relevant and reminds me of a comic I read once. Anyway your right, she can be really dirty but honestly as one of our friends told me "Jane wouldn't know what to do with a dick if someone handed her one" and thats a fact. Even if you guys did think I was a pedo, Im happy I posted this shit on here. made me think about our situation. Thanks :)
in other news
girlfriend's making a ridiculous/hilarious sex mix-cd for the hell of it, pretty good so far. included is "bitch suck dick" by tyler, the creator, because that randomly came on shuffle once while she was giving me a bj
[QUOTE=CaptainQuirk;35291175]"Hey, do you want go do ________ with me?"
It's direct and shows you have an interest in her without too much elaboration. Don't say [B]"You're welcome to come along,"[/B] because that means you're independent and it's pointless for her to be there.[/QUOTE]
yeah, she said exactly those words when she invited me to lunch after class....
feels bad man
In all honestly to sum everything up just be true to yourself, your morals and get off your chair and start socializing it isn't an art or science it's just life's experience and everyone is different so, be happy for your accomplishments and look for what lies ahead.
[QUOTE=Sanius;35322160]my point is that "be yourself" does more harm than it does good, especially on the internet. it promotes self-affirmation amongst people who are socially inept
I don't think that there's anything wrong with being confident if you actually have a reason to be[/QUOTE]
I was one of those socially inept guys, and after a year of not giving a fuck I made best body/prom king of my senior class. True facts, you would have found me in a fedora a year ago.
[QUOTE=Perfumly;35321339][media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJHadu1BAo4[/media]
come at me
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how embarrassing
Don't take myself seriously enough to be embarrassed on facepunch bbz.
even if ur not embarrassed ur still doing cat ears dance to an animes
And you're watching it.
and u love it.
Hi guys. Theirs this girl who I have been talking to for a whole year now and Ive only seen her once while we only live 20 minutes away from each other. I have anxiety which makes it sort of hard to hang out, and she gets that because she has it too. Her and I know EVERYTHING about each other, we know all of our dark secrets because we can relate on so much. We both suffer from the both mental illnesses so we both have each other to talk us both through our struggles and I think that made us sorta close. Its just so odd to me that we both know each other in and out yet have seen each other once and that was a year ago. So I guess my question is, when I finally get over my anxiety and we see each other, do we have a chance at something great?
Haven't said enough about it. You may have secured yourself a place in the friend-zone by letting her know everything about you and not making a move for a year, but I don't know anything about you or her other than that you're both mentally ill, so may as well go for it man.
Shes said multiple times that shed love being together with a person she can trust 100% and has everything in common with, and has mentioned me as that person. We have the same taste in music, literature, philosophy and have the same morbid sense of humor. I dont think ill meet someone again that I have this much in common with. Id be devastated if I was friend zoned
you have to actually ask her out or do something.
she really couldn't be clearer.
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