I didn't go to my highschool prom, namely because my girlfriend at the time and I agreed we didn't want to be around many of the people in our school after we had graduated. Our friends were kind of pissed at us for not going, but we had a fun time going to a nice restaurant, then followed it up by going to the improv to watch some amateur comedy acts and came back to my place to end the night.
Still though, if your girlfriend wants you to go to the prom, you should go. Cost and "because I cannot dance" are not really good excuses. You don't have to dance and prom is a one time cost, so you'll earn the money back eventually.
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35346438]I need something to cheer me up FP, I just had to break up with my GF... Today's a sad day. Any advice?[/QUOTE] well when i got dumped i didnt have chocolate or ice cream... and for some reason i was more angry than sad. So i went outside and stacked firewood. Felt nice to be able to throw it around and not have to worry about hurting anyone. Then i got to drop all of my problems and watch after my brother because my parents got in a fight that night. Next day, after my father got a hotel room, my mother and i went and fired some bird shot into a tree. Also relieving. Not even 30 seconds after we finished, our dog got hit by a car and died. The next two weeks were spent watching everyone else and setting my shit on a backburner. It was great. Probably explains why all i can do when i think about it is get angry.
[QUOTE=Pace.;35353520]why wouldnt you go to prom?[/QUOTE]
I didn't go to either of my proms because I couldn't afford it.
[editline]30th March 2012[/editline]
Completely unrelated for about a month now everything has been coming out like pellets, but as soon as they reach the water they're liquefying. What's wrong with me?
[QUOTE=Lick;35349259]tell me about sex and acid, I'm going to lose my acid and sex virginities simultaneously
edit: I was just curious to see if it could be positive. I don't need any warnings; I know how powerful acid is.[/QUOTE]
I would recommend not doing this at all. Enjoy your first acid trip by itself, and your first sexual experience by itself.
Just no, really.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35357221]well when i got dumped i didnt have chocolate or ice cream... and for some reason i was more angry than sad. So i went outside and stacked firewood. Felt nice to be able to throw it around and not have to worry about hurting anyone. Then i got to drop all of my problems and watch after my brother because my parents got in a fight that night. Next day, after my father got a hotel room, my mother and i went and fired some bird shot into a tree. Also relieving. Not even 30 seconds after we finished, our dog got hit by a car and died. The next two weeks were spent watching everyone else and setting my shit on a backburner. It was great. Probably explains why all i can do when i think about it is get angry.[/QUOTE]
thats fucking depressing
and i thought i had it bad
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35357624]thats fucking depressing
and i thought i had it bad[/QUOTE]
After writing it down like that it kinda looks like some bullshit story from the chans.
Well finally asked the girl I like if she would like to meet up over the half term. Bit of a shame I didn't have the balls to go through with it face to face but a PM will have to do. Next term could turn out awkward as fuck.
[QUOTE=Methylparaben;35360290]Well finally asked the girl I like if she would like to meet up over the half term. Bit of a shame I didn't have the balls to go through with it face to face but a PM will have to do. Next term could turn out awkward as fuck.[/QUOTE]
asking to meet up isnt awkward at all, its a pretty common and casual thing. just dont do shit like at the end of the meet up tell her you love her or something, because then it will end prematurely and become extremely awkward
Go to Prom dude, I went alone and spent the night laughing at people wayyy drunker than me. Someone threw up all over themselves and another girl took her underwear off and passed out out front. If not for the same reasons, you can't fail to enjoy Prom.
this thread is normally full of posts saying things like "dont go to prom, you can have a much better time just doing xyz instead!!!"
but you can do xyz on any other day of the year, and there is only one prom
even if you dont have a great time, there still is no real reason to [i]not[/i] go. you can say goodbye to all of your friends and classmates, have one last huge social gathering before you all part ways
its just a nice thing
[QUOTE=Bobie;35361017]asking to meet up isnt awkward at all, its a pretty common and casual thing. just dont do shit like at the end of the meet up tell her you love her or something, because then it will end prematurely and become extremely awkward[/QUOTE]
I think she's smart enough to realise that I'm not in it for becomeing friends, although I would settle for friends if thats all I could get. I wasn't going to make the disastrous move of telling her I love her haha. I may be inexperienced but I just about know how not to commit social suicide.
First kiss was at prom.
nothing like having 2 exhausted sweaty faces kinda run into each other to finish an evening.
Still my favorite.
Prom is fun. Do go, you won't regret it, even if you don't have a date.
Or correction, you'll regret it MORE if you don't go.
I discovered that my teeth gaps will cost $4500 to fix and not a single cent is covered by my "excellent"
dental coverage. Hurray for cosmetic dental, now I'll be stuck with a dumb smile until I'm somehow
rolling in expendable income (Which won't happen).
Yeah sure prom is fun, but what if you dislike people?
Also tuki I've seen your smile on cam, it's fine dude
then you have bigger problems
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;35366821]Yeah sure prom is fun, but what if you dislike people?
Also tuki I've seen your smile on cam, it's fine dude[/QUOTE]
unless you dislike your girlfriend you should have at least one good reason to go
Go to your prom, I didn't go to mine. Four years on, I kinda regret it.
[editline]31st March 2012[/editline]
My girlfriend is going to be here tomorrow. I'm excited but it's making me go nutty. NEed to calm down mang
So in terms of my situation with my friend... Were not quite sure what to call our relationship(for lack of a better word), I mean ive never been so close to another person and she said the same to me. We would both be happy to have a physical relationship. However we talked about it and even though we are easily close enough go out with each other (hell most of the couples at my high school aren't as close as we are) neither of us really thinks that we should be in an (actual)relationship.
I know you guys are all skeptical of our relationship but its actually really healthy. I mean I know it sounds completely fucked up. I get that. Point is... holy shit I figured it out never mind, I'm going to bed, Fuck it I might as well still post this. You guys seemed fairly interested before.
Isn't she 13?
[editline]31st March 2012[/editline]
That's not really healthy.
[QUOTE=Doozle;35368979]Isn't she 13?
[editline]31st March 2012[/editline]
That's not really healthy.[/QUOTE]
Unhealthy? hmm...
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35368783]So in terms of my situation with my friend... Were not quite sure what to call our relationship(for lack of a better word), I mean ive never been so close to another person and she said the same to me. We would both be happy to have a physical relationship. However we talked about it and even though we are easily close enough go out with each other (hell most of the couples at my high school aren't as close as we are) neither of us really thinks that we should be in an (actual)relationship.
I know you guys are all skeptical of our relationship but its actually really healthy. I mean I know it sounds completely fucked up. I get that. Point is... holy shit I figured it out never mind, I'm going to bed, Fuck it I might as well still post this. You guys seemed fairly interested before.[/QUOTE]
you need to see a shrink
Ignoring the gap in age itself, you're mentally much more developed than she is. You differ majorly in what you think, she'll think like she's 13 and you'll think like you're 18, and a lot of development goes on inbetween those middle years.
Going to play the maverick here, but have you had a relationship with a girl before? It could just be that you're infatuated as a girl finally pays attention to you physically and mentally.
Can't be too hard for you to find a girl closer to your age surely.
He should totally assassinate Reagan to impress her.
[QUOTE=Parakon;35370578]He should totally assassinate Reagan to impress her.[/QUOTE]
If I wanted to impress her Id be yelling HAIL SATAN at complete strangers, shitting in peoples yards and running around naked
is that what minors go for?
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35370768]is that what minors go for?[/QUOTE]
apparently... I think shes just "special" though
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35368783]So in terms of my situation with my friend... Were not quite sure what to call our relationship(for lack of a better word), I mean ive never been so close to another person and she said the same to me. We would both be happy to have a physical relationship. However we talked about it and even though we are easily close enough go out with each other (hell most of the couples at my high school aren't as close as we are) neither of us really thinks that we should be in an (actual)relationship.
I know you guys are all skeptical of our relationship but its actually really healthy. I mean I know it sounds completely fucked up. I get that. Point is... holy shit I figured it out never mind, I'm going to bed, Fuck it I might as well still post this. You guys seemed fairly interested before.[/QUOTE]
i know you might not think you are, but you're taking advantage of how young this girl is, and it's really, really, incredibly fucked up. you're so completely in a different world than she is mentally, and you're saying things with her that are gonna make her look back in a few years and feel really ashamed when she starts actually dating guys because of what she gave up to some creep over the internet. i personally can barely stand an 18 year-old dating a 16 year-old, i fucking loathe 18 year-olds that date 15 year-olds, and you're 17 having grossly inappropriate conversations with a 13 year-old and actually considering making it "official" despite her even being 2,000 miles away. you may not think you're a pedophile because you're still underage, but trust me dude, anybody else sees you that way. if you have any respect you'll realize how retarded it is and stop.
now that's more like maverick
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35371026]i know you might not think you are, but you're taking advantage of how young this girl is, and it's really, really, incredibly fucked up. you're so completely in a different world than she is mentally, and you're saying things with her that are gonna make her look back in a few years and feel really ashamed when she starts actually dating guys because of what she gave up to some creep over the internet. i personally can barely stand an 18 year-old dating a 16 year-old, i fucking loathe 18 year-olds that date 15 year-olds, and you're 17 having grossly inappropriate conversations with a 13 year-old and actually considering making it "official" despite her even being 2,000 miles away. you may not think you're a pedophile because you're still underage, but trust me dude, anybody else sees you that way. if you have any respect you'll realize how retarded it is and stop.
now that's more like maverick[/QUOTE]
Im not taking advantage of her, I ask her all the time if shes really okay with it. I told her at one point a couple of months ago I couldn't have that kind of relationship with her. But really shes closer to me than anyone and were not even in a relationship. Your right about a lot of things but its really not as bad as you make it sound. but because apparently im a pedophile, I'll tell you ima get real kinky with that bitch and her best friend. I'll offer them candy and have them tie me to the bed
you're an idiot. you fail to grasp that you're on two different levels mentally. she says she's okay with it, and she's telling the truth, but she doesn't know what the fuck she's doing, she's 13 years old. she doesn't think you're taking advantage of her right now, but several years from now she's going to realize that's exactly what it was. you really need to get that through your head. two different levels mentally. two different levels. her brain is not nearly as developed as yours. she can't consent to this sort of shit.
[editline]31st March 2012[/editline]
you think it's funny and it's not, it's fucking disgusting
You may not realise it but yes you are taking advantage. But the point is she really isn't developed enough, she's only 13 she probably doesn't know what she wants
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