[QUOTE=PassingWord;35378673]Now that I think about he might be an actual pedophile in the making. This is scaring me.[/QUOTE]
your kids are next.... ;)
okay thats good that youre embracing who you are and everything but just get out of the thread or everyone's going to talk about your annoying pedophilia problems for the next ten pages
Stage of ironic self mockery/denial, lol
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35378863]your kids are next.... ;)[/QUOTE]
HEY.
HEY...
HEY...
...HEY...
[B]HEY.
[/B]
[B]YOU'RE SCREWING THAT GIRL UP. CUT THAT ATTITUDE OUT BEFORE YOU GET SENT TO PRISON.[/B]
he's just going to start being a cocky prick about something he really shouldn't be just to piss people off, so ignore him please
[QUOTE=loopoo;35378047]Broke up with my girlfriend ~4 days ago. Handling it (surprisingly) rather well. We've been together for a year and 9 months, pretty much two entire school years (so from around October 2010 to March 2012).[/QUOTE]
It's pretty rough dude, but I promise you, you [i]will[/i] get to the other side of this and you [I]will[/I] be a stronger, happier, and more experienced person. Take what you can from the relationship, cherish the memories, understand the lessons, and then just bite down and keep moving forward. You know you're being irrational when you say things like there'll be nobody else like her. There's 7 billion people on this planet, there are others out there for you, you know this.
You'll get there bro <3.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35379284]he's just going to start being a cocky prick about something he really shouldn't be just to piss people off, so ignore him please[/QUOTE]
I just figured I'd give it one more go before giving up.
Jesus christ my little brother is 12.
Neighbor girl is 13. If I found out that she was dating someone that old? I'd be telling her brother that he needs to take a weekend of leave so we can kick some guys ass. Its sick. Absolutely sick. she [I]JUST[/I] became a teenager and some fucking highschooler is looking at her rack and thinking he's in love, and she's going for it because at that age she still probably gossips to her friends about meeting prince charming and kissing. He has [I]no idea[/I] how much he is screwing the both of them over.
[I][B]AND WHERE ARE HER PARENTS IN THIS?[/B][/I]
OR HIS FOR THAT MATTER.
SHIT.
Or you will break physically and mentally, forever forced to dwell in hate for yourself and others.
But uh... that's very unlikely. So yeah, listen to uncle Dark_Light.
from the way SHOE3045 talks it's obvious he's emotionally stunted because he acts like a 13 year old.
And that's the thing, girls usually mature faster then boys normally, and since he's already so childish nearing [I]adulthood[/I] theoretically she's going to get over him awfully quick.
But i'm getting kind of tired about talking about one lonely pedophile's deluded fantasies.
Tips for lasting longer?
fucking christ you guys really hate me. Look I never had a social life till last year, truth. People think im creepy true again but ive never had a "think" for 13 year old girls. I did not deal with this situation like I should have. my situation with (my friend) is incredibly complex and not just because she 13. this whole situation right here is so blown out of proportion. Though I did help perpetuate it. You guys were making me feel kinda shitty about being friends with her. No she dosent think im the coolest person ever, she knows im flawed. I dunno what else to say.
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35380484]fucking christ you guys really hate me. Look I never had a social life till last year, truth.[/QUOTE]
called it
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35380484] You guys were making me feel kinda shitty about being friends with her.[/QUOTE]
yeah because you should feel kinda shitty. you're telling us about how you want a physical relationship then dismiss any doubt by saying "i'm already fucked up!"
that's how a child acts.
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35380484]fucking christ you guys really hate me. Look I never had a social life till last year, truth. People think im creepy true again but ive never had a "think" for 13 year old girls. I did not deal with this situation like I should have. my situation with (my friend) is incredibly complex and not just because she 13. this whole situation right here is so blown out of proportion. Though I did help perpetuate it. You guys were making me feel kinda shitty about being friends with her. No she dosent think im the coolest person ever, she knows im flawed. I dunno what else to say.[/QUOTE]
hey
hey
dude
you aren't getting it
you are acting like a pedophile
don't you see it? you're 17, and you are in "love" with a [B][I]13 year old[/I][/B]
I really am surprised how you don't see how fucking creepy you're relationship with her is.
SHOE, just go wank off to some lolicon instead of creeping on strange little girls.
No amount of "complexity" can justify a relationship with a girl who just started her period a scant couple years prior.
[I]SHE'S A CHILD.[/I] Back the hell off of her and let her like... develop. You don't eat steak before its cooked, cause if you do, you get sick. and if you enjoy that, you [I]are[/I] sick.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35380718]You don't eat steak before its cooked, cause if you do, you get sick. and if you enjoy that, you [I]are[/I] sick.[/QUOTE]
then the french have got a lot to answer for! :v:
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35379341]It's pretty rough dude, but I promise you, you [i]will[/i] get to the other side of this and you [I]will[/I] be a stronger, happier, and more experienced person. Take what you can from the relationship, cherish the memories, understand the lessons, and then just bite down and keep moving forward. You know you're being irrational when you say things like there'll be nobody else like her. There's 7 billion people on this planet, there are others out there for you, you know this.
You'll get there bro <3.[/QUOTE]
Thanks man, I really appreciate that. You're right.
You're a total bro <3 I know, this is a short reply, but I just want you to know you've really helped out.
I have had a relationship with a 13 year old. THE DIFFERENCE IS THAT I AM 14. The ONLY time a relationship with a 13 year old is OK is when you yourself are 12/13/14. Trust me shoe, I know quite a few 13/14 year old girls who have problems, and if one of them was 'in love' with a 17 year old I would be seriously worried and probably call the police. Just back off. I know it is hard, but seriously, if you do love her, leave her because you are going to mess up the rest of her life even more if you continue. If you go any further there is a decent chance you will leave her scarred for life and yourself in prison. I don't know what else to say.
[QUOTE=Autumn;35382088]then the french have got a lot to answer for! :v:[/QUOTE]
beef carpaccio.
yumyumyum
Hey FP, this is my first post here so go easy on me, I'm not the kind to ask for advice on forums but here goes:
My girlfriend and I were talking about having sex quite soon, however it would be the first time for both of us, and I'm not sure how to make it easier for her. Especially because sometimes she has issues getting herself lubricated, to put it in elegant terms. Foreplay usually does the job but the last time it didn't work at all, for reasons ever she couldn't explain herself. Any tips?
[QUOTE=overdark;35382772]Hey FP, this is my first post here so go easy on me, I'm not the kind to ask for advice on forums but here goes:
My girlfriend and I were talking about having sex quite soon, however it would be the first time for both of us, and I'm not sure how to make it easier for her. Especially because sometimes she has issues getting herself lubricated, to put it in elegant terms. Foreplay usually does the job but the last time it didn't work at all, for reasons ever she couldn't explain herself. Any tips?[/QUOTE]
Just use lube, it's there for a reason.
[QUOTE=overdark;35382772]Hey FP, this is my first post here so go easy on me, I'm not the kind to ask for advice on forums but here goes:
My girlfriend and I were talking about having sex quite soon, however it would be the first time for both of us, and I'm not sure how to make it easier for her. Especially because sometimes she has issues getting herself lubricated, to put it in elegant terms. Foreplay usually does the job but the last time it didn't work at all, for reasons ever she couldn't explain herself. Any tips?[/QUOTE]
If you can't get ahold of lube, foreplay definitely will work. Just go down on her and lick her there, it'll get her started. Also, get her relaxed! If she's nervous, she won't get wet as easily (sounds like I'm being vulgar but I'd rather just say wet than say "self lubricate" haha).
What I found worked a treat is exciting her by helping her fantasize. Get all snug and comfortable up beside her (lying down together is best) and get your hands working down below. Then talk. Just talk. I'm not sure what to tell you to say, cause you'll know her better than I do, but just talk. Before you know it, you'll both be talking about really sexual things and perhaps things she fantasizes about. It'll get her crazy.
Just don't finish her off, cause if you do she'll go back to normal than you won't be able to get in easily.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35382982]Just don't finish her off, cause if you do she'll go back to normal than you won't be able to get in easily.[/QUOTE]
actually the vaginal passage remains slightly larger/more relaxed for a good little while after sex, so it's not like she's gonna clam up and he won't be 'able to get in easily'
if it's your first time then as already said, lube lube lube
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it'll make everything easier, and probably a bit more enjoyable!
[QUOTE=Autumn;35383018]actually the vaginal passage remains slightly larger/more relaxed for a good little while after sex, so it's not like she's gonna clam up and he won't be 'able to get in easily'
if it's your first time then as already said, lube lube lube
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
it'll make everything easier, and probably a bit more enjoyable![/QUOTE]
Love the way you worded that, made me laugh at the "clam up" bit.
Also, never knew that, thanks for the info <3
[QUOTE]One day, I finally had the courage to tell my parents something that had been going on.
"Mum and Dad," I said, standing up, pushing the chair back from the table with one fine dinner stacked on the table.
I continued "I must finally admit, I have a girlfriend."
With a startled expression, both mum and dad looked at me surprised. My father, especially, smiling with the pride of me finally getting a girlfriend.
"What's his name?" my dad asked.
"April" I said. I then straight away dragged my chair back and continued to eat dinner in total silence.[/QUOTE]
If you get it
"I finally have a girlfriend"
"What's his name?"
Also, I get it. Date, as in a calender date: April.
Good April Fools prank, your dad will be so disappointed at your failure lmao
-or whoever wrote it, seeing as it's quoted
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Autumn;35383018]actually the vaginal passage remains slightly larger/more relaxed for a good little while after sex, so it's not like she's gonna clam up and he won't be 'able to get in easily'
if it's your first time then as already said, lube lube lube
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
it'll make everything easier, and probably a bit more enjoyable![/QUOTE]
Hey Autumn, front for all knowledge regarding female sexuality, do you know if it's common for girls to ruin their ability to have orgasms by thinking about it too much or placing too much emphasis on it?
My girlfriend used to have one most times we had sex, now she struggles to at all, and she's always conscious of it as she nears them. I figured that this is a bit like how guys can lose an erection by thinking about it too much.
Does anyone have any experience in resolving this kind of thing?
I'll say now it's not a problem of comfort or mood or anything. It's been happening for a little while now and we still have really good sex - it's just a bit disappointing for both of us when she doesn't feel as fulfilled in the end.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35382982]If you can't get ahold of lube, foreplay definitely will work. Just go down on her and lick her there, it'll get her started. Also, get her relaxed! If she's nervous, she won't get wet as easily (sounds like I'm being vulgar but I'd rather just say wet than say "self lubricate" haha).
What I found worked a treat is exciting her by helping her fantasize. Get all snug and comfortable up beside her (lying down together is best) and get your hands working down below. Then talk. Just talk. I'm not sure what to tell you to say, cause you'll know her better than I do, but just talk. Before you know it, you'll both be talking about really sexual things and perhaps things she fantasizes about. It'll get her crazy.
Just don't finish her off, cause if you do she'll go back to normal than you won't be able to get in easily.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I tried that the last time, we weren't going for actual penetration but she just couldn't get wet at all, no matter what I tried to do. I can't say she was stressed or anything, and that's why I was confused. I'm not sure if she's the kind that fantasizes about things, she's still a bit shy about those things and every single time I feel like giving up on trying to get her to be more into sexy stuff.
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