[QUOTE=Mlisen14;35383226]Hey Autumn, front for all knowledge regarding female sexuality, do you know if it's common for girls to ruin their ability to have orgasms by thinking about it too much or placing too much emphasis on it?[/QUOTE]
i would say so, definitely
with all the stresses that can come up during sex i wouldn't be at all surprised if it can be difficult to orgasm
If he still performs terribly, send him back to boot camp.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35385617]but asparagus is so tasty[/QUOTE]
No seriously, Asparagus fucks up the smell of your pee.
I broke up with my girlfriend of seven months last week, after some serious thought and realizing that I had a strong level of guilt due to the fact that I was going to turn 17 before she turned 15. When we first met I only knew that she was in the year below, and didn't realize that she was young for her grade and I was old for mine. My friends just kept telling me that it didn't matter and not to think about it, but even though we didn't have sex I realized after about 6 months that I couldn't really get over the age discrepancy.
You feel guilty because you followed society's rules and not your own? Why would you be guilty when you are doing the right thing?
Just see other women, trust me, it will remove itself from thought quickly enough.
[QUOTE=E1025;35386791]I need some advice: my soldier isn't standing to attention when duty calls with the girlfriend but I'm not feeling nervous or insecure or anything. I do exercise and I'm not a fat bastard either so I don't know what's going on, and yes I know this is probably the 7 quadrillionth time someone's asked this so I apologize.
By the way I'm sorry Dan if you happen to read this post (he's a friend of mine).[/QUOTE]
Dude, I got it, like, opposite.
You know, it's like, "Oh shit there's a gir-" and that soldier gets up right quick.
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Seith;35387765]You feel guilty because you followed society's rules and not your own? Why would you be guilty when you are doing the right thing?
Just see other women, trust me, it will remove itself from thought quickly enough.[/QUOTE]
No, he felt guilty in the relationship.
Now he feels better about it.
So I had a finger stuck up my ass yesterday. One of the most awkward sensations I have ever felt. Even with lube, I was a little tense so that shit hurt.
At least now I have a gist of what its like to be on the receiving end. Much respect to women who can take a mean one from behind.
[QUOTE=E1025;35387228]Well I've definitely noticed this happening while things have heated up before, and yeah I think there has been a few times it's been okay (but the attention wasn't on me as much). We haven't had sex and the relationship has only been going for 4ish months now so there's only been a few occasions when things have heated up, but on the times when it has I didn't feel comfortable doing anything in my department as I had a semi at best.[/QUOTE]
take your cock and shuv it in her arse.
[QUOTE=E1025;35386791]I need some advice: my soldier isn't standing to attention when duty calls with the girlfriend but I'm not feeling nervous or insecure or anything. I do exercise and I'm not a fat bastard either so I don't know what's going on, and yes I know this is probably the 7 quadrillionth time someone's asked this so I apologize.
By the way I'm sorry Dan if you happen to read this post (he's a friend of mine).[/QUOTE]
Don't you remember what they always say? Shake well before use.
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
And while I probably won't have much use for this knowledge any time soon, I always wondered - would both partners masturbating before sex be a good idea?
[QUOTE=gufu;35389937]Don't you remember what they always say? Shake well before use.
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
And while I probably won't have much use for this knowledge any time soon, I always wondered - would both partners masturbating before sex be a good idea?[/QUOTE]
Why not do eachother a favour instead.
[QUOTE=Legend286;35390191]Why not do eachother a favour instead.[/QUOTE]
Well, it could be that, or watching each other, or oral. Really, the point is that both of you have a weaker orgasm beforehand.
I dunno I'm going to try not busting a nut for a week beforehand next time.
[QUOTE=E1025;35390897]I dunno I'm going to try not busting a nut for a week beforehand next time.[/QUOTE]
that's a bad idea, it won't have the effect you're looking for
[QUOTE=E1025;35390897]I dunno I'm going to try not busting a nut for a week beforehand next time.[/QUOTE]
trust me no one wants to be on the receiving end of some stagnant baby batter.
just do whatever you do regularly and drink plenty of liquids
Dark_Light is a beautiful human being. Not even joking. He sent me the most heartwarming message with so much advice. He wasn't bias or judgemental and he didn't force his opinions on me. Such an amazing individual.
Just wanted everyone to know how much of a lovely person he is. Sleeping with a warm fuzzy feeling in my chest thanks to him <3
[QUOTE=loopoo;35391240]Dark_Light is a beautiful human being. Not even joking. He sent me the most heartwarming message with so much advice. He wasn't bias or judgemental and he didn't force his opinions on me. Such an amazing individual.
Just wanted everyone to know how much of a lovely person he is. Sleeping with a warm fuzzy feeling in my chest thanks to him <3[/QUOTE]
oh well better change the title to Sex, Boyfriends, and Shit!
[QUOTE=thisispain;35391259]oh well better change the title to Sex, Boyfriends, and Shit![/QUOTE]
Quiet shit stabber
Good for you loopoo
[QUOTE=thisispain;35391259]oh well better change the title to Sex, Boyfriends, and Shit![/QUOTE]
Nothing wrong with acknowledging the fact that someone can be a down-to-earth and decent person.
PS: I miss your old avatar.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35391531]Nothing wrong with acknowledging the fact that someone can be a down-to-earth and decent person.
PS: I miss your old avatar.[/QUOTE]
No you fucking dont I had him on my ignore list because I couldnt stand the sight of it.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35391531]Nothing wrong with acknowledging the fact that someone can be a down-to-earth and decent person.
PS: I miss your old avatar.[/QUOTE]
well you're bringing light to how unrealistic and indecent everyone else is.
and you mean Bjorkie with the eggs on her face? i'll bring it back just for you.
[editline]1st April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Godline;35391578]No you fucking dont I had him on my ignore list because I couldnt stand the sight of it.[/QUOTE]
worth it.
i have a poster over her too, she stares at me while i sleep.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35391531]Nothing wrong with acknowledging the fact that someone can be a down-to-earth and decent person.[/QUOTE]
you're righttt, buut you just went a little overboard with your appraisal and use of "<3," started not to sound exactly "no homo"
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
[quote=Pace.]Hey guys, i dont normally post in threads like this, but if you guys could help, that be great.
I started uni recently, and theres this girl in one of my tutorials (which is once a week) who i like, and talk to most tutorials. Conversations fine, and i make her laugh and such, but how would i know if she likes me? Ive heard that playful touching is a big indicator, but none of that has happened yet. I dont want to misinterpret being friendly for actually liking me, cause that could end up awkward. And im in her group for a group assignment, so thatll give me a chance to talk to her more, but i dont want to leave it late and end up friendzoned. On the other hand, if i ask her out and get recjected, itll be pretty awkward for the rest of the semester.
I'm not socially awkward or anything i can talk to girls fine, just wondering what the best way to go would be from here. Thanks guys :)
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Alt of pace here.
Gonna ask her out tomorrow. A bit nervous, just wondering how i should be acting throughout the class, cause ill be asking her out when it finishes. If i bring up a day im free to go out, and she says she's busy then, how do i try to pick another day without sounding desperate or clingy?
[editline]2nd April 2012[/editline]
Also, its the last class i have with her before mid semester break, so i dont want to screw it up
[QUOTE=TheBassCannon;35394526]Alt of pace here.
Gonna ask her out tomorrow. A bit nervous, just wondering how i should be acting throughout the class, cause ill be asking her out when it finishes. If i bring up a day im free to go out, and she says she's busy then, how do i try to pick another day without sounding desperate or clingy?
[editline]2nd April 2012[/editline]
Also, its the last class i have with her before mid semester break, so i dont want to screw it up[/QUOTE]
Whenever I ask a girl out I ask her "when are you free?" and try and work around that. It's better since you aren't just picking random days and times hoping she's free.
[QUOTE=TheBassCannon;35394526]Alt of pace here.
Gonna ask her out tomorrow. A bit nervous, just wondering how i should be acting throughout the class, cause ill be asking her out when it finishes. If i bring up a day im free to go out, and she says she's busy then, how do i try to pick another day without sounding desperate or clingy?
[editline]2nd April 2012[/editline]
Also, its the last class i have with her before mid semester break, so i dont want to screw it up[/QUOTE]
Don't act any different. Be normal (whatever 'normal' is for you).
When you get there, if she's busy on the first suggestion, make a second one. Don't look distressed when doing so though.
avoid terms like "hang out some time" "hang out over the break" or anything that suggests that the time and date is in the air and unknown. Keep control of the invitation and make sure that you have alternative dates, even if they're a week apart. By keeping control of the invitation, you keep the ball in your court. You are directly asking her if she wants to go out with you. you are not suggesting that you two go out, you are directly addressing her.
"Hey, do you want to go out this friday after school?"
'I'd love to but I'm busy that day'
"Thats alright, what about saturday at... 2:30?"
if she's busy then too, then:
"Thats okay too, when would be best for you?"
There is a chance it won't be for a while before she's free, or there's a chance you'll be simply denied. As long as you didn't totally fuck up the invitation, then it won't be awkward for you two unless [I]you[/I] make it awkward by acting odd afterwards.
Also, try not to act any differently than you normally would that day. Think of it this way, if she says no, then it isn't like you will have to see her all the time anyways. In fact you probably won't see her that much at all after the class is over. So it's not something to be frightened of.
It's better to face the awkwardness of a shutdown than always wondering "what if". That's the way I see it, at least.
what if she ends up walking with a friend after class before i can get to her? that would be a major letdown cause i wouldnt really be able to do much then.
[QUOTE=TheBassCannon;35394842]what if she ends up walking with a friend after class before i can get to her? that would be a major letdown cause i wouldnt really be able to do much then.[/QUOTE]
Interrupt her and ask her out in front of her friend.
then sock her friend to assert dominance
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