You just contradicted my post completely, cheers! Well in that case I guess I'm a bit more of a party animal and sex addict than yourself..?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35441987]I'm also 17.[/QUOTE]
I was seventeen once, glad to be legally classified as an adult now.
In a week I will be!
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;35442012]You just contradicted my post completely, cheers! Well in that case I guess I'm a bit more of a party animal and sex addict than yourself..?[/QUOTE]
you'll grow out of that. just don't be stupid and hurt people's feelings unnecessarily.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35442054]In a week I will be![/QUOTE]
Feels good man.
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Trogdon;35442066]you'll grow out of that. just don't be stupid and hurt people's feelings unnecessarily.[/QUOTE]
To be honest, most girls at parties are just looking for a quick shag. At least here anyway.
[QUOTE=Trogdon;35442066]you'll grow out of that. just don't be stupid and hurt people's feelings unnecessarily.[/QUOTE]
Yeah I'm sure I will grow out of it, but for now I'm making the most of it because I don't want to look back when I'm 30 and think I never lived out my teenage years for the best.
I mean I've got my entire life to think about settling down with the "right" woman etc. so why not just go out and party every weekend! It's great in my opinion, loving it!
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;35442117]Yeah I'm sure I will grow out of it, but for now I'm making the most of it because I don't want to look back when I'm 30 and think I never lived out my teenage years for the best.
I mean I've got my entire life to think about settling down with the "right" woman etc. so why not just go out and party every weekend! It's great in my opinion, loving it![/QUOTE]
yeah at your age that's fine, but just be looking for stuff you might like in a girl, and try not to be a dick about it you know? i know you're looking for partying and fun, but the girls you're with might think there's something more between you. just make sure you establish what you both want otherwise someone will get hurt over the situation.
[QUOTE=Trogdon;35442148]yeah at your age that's fine, but just be looking for stuff you might like in a girl, and try not to be a dick about it you know? i know you're looking for partying and fun, but the girls you're with might think there's something more between you. just make sure you establish what you both want otherwise someone will get hurt over the situation.[/QUOTE]
I hope they don't think it's anything more.. That would hurt them I suppose. Me and my new girlfriend have [b]nothing[/b] in common and the only thing I like about her is that she's good looking and cute? I know for a fact this relationship won't work
[QUOTE=Kolei;35433927]It might be a good idea to try and go out with any friends you may know, or to explore new things you've wanted to try. Even if they don't turn out exactly as you may have hoped, just having those experiences, and learning to get social can really help out with meeting new people. Having a strong positive energy, and showing you give an effort to care for yourself, but at the same time emitting a confidence to show that you're happy with what you are, will give out what people will be attracted to. Being yourself, but with tact and consideration to others feelings as to not upset.
I used to be very introverted, and would mostly just play games and such, keeping to myself. After graduating though, I realized that there is much more than a room to live in. I started taking up friends offers to go out, and made unlikely friends under other circumstances. I got into going to the gym, hanging out with coworkers, even making friends with my families friends. I just acted the way I normally acted, but around others. Was always polite, but independent, went with whatever was going on at the moment, and things turned out well. I was also proactive on occasion, not just sitting around for something to happen, which can sink you back into that loner lifestyle. Being proactive helped in meeting up with my current boyfriend too, and now I do stuff with him, like going to his sisters parties or playing video games with friends. You don't even have to be in a situation where you are all being intensively social. Asking some friends to go to the movies, for example, is a pretty good way to keep the cool talk to a minimum and still have a great time together. If you don't have many friends to hang out with, think about joining a club or going to local events to meet up with people who have same interests. Coworkers, classmates and other associates are also great candidates.
You really just have to get your foot in the door, and once you do, you give yourself, and other people, an opportunity to grow relationships with each other. People dig people who want to grow, and sometimes, they'll even want to grow with you.[/QUOTE]
I'l basically have 1 friend who just stays in his room all the time, except when he goes to school ofc and other stuff he NEEDS to do. He is my best friend though, only time i see him is when i visit him for a weeken, sorta 2 guy lan party. He does not want to hang out outside :(
I also have NOTHING to do, no school, no job and no other activities, i'll start school again in some months though. Still a long time, and i don´t like anything like sports or exercise in a gym. So i have no idea what to do.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;35442186]I hope they don't think it's anything more.. That would hurt them I suppose. Me and my new girlfriend have [b]nothing[/b] in common and the only thing I like about her is that she's good looking and cute? I know for a fact this relationship won't work[/QUOTE]
you don't have to directly ask them what they want out of the relationship, but it would be good to know.
well that's usually not a good basis for a relationship lol. you might want to look for something else to like otherwise it could get stale pretty quick.
and again i'm not telling you what you should or shouldn't do, it's your life, just giving you some food for thought.
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Xehanort;35442252]I'l basically have 1 friend who just stays in his room all the time, except when he goes to school ofc and other stuff he NEEDS to do. He is my best friend though, only time i see him is when i visit him for a weeken, sorta 2 guy lan party. He does not want to hang out outside :(
I also have NOTHING to do, no school, no job and no other activities, i'll start school again in some months though. Still a long time, and i don´t like anything like sports or exercise in a gym. So i have no idea what to do.[/QUOTE]
any hobbies you thought about pursuing? music, photography, drawing, stuff like that?
Okay cheers I'll have a think about me and her then
[QUOTE=Trogdon;35442299]you don't have to directly ask them what they want out of the relationship, but it would be good to know.
well that's usually not a good basis for a relationship lol. you might want to look for something else to like otherwise it could get stale pretty quick.
and again i'm not telling you what you should or shouldn't do, it's your life, just giving you some food for thought.
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
any hobbies you thought about pursuing? music, photography, drawing, stuff like that?[/QUOTE]
Only thing i'm good at is playing the piano, but i don't think i want to pursue that. Going on an education that involves working with animals and i do love animals.
[QUOTE=Xehanort;35442252]I'l basically have 1 friend who just stays in his room all the time, except when he goes to school ofc and other stuff he NEEDS to do. He is my best friend though, only time i see him is when i visit him for a weeken, sorta 2 guy lan party. He does not want to hang out outside :(
I also have NOTHING to do, no school, no job and no other activities, i'll start school again in some months though. Still a long time, and i don´t like anything like sports or exercise in a gym. So i have no idea what to do.[/QUOTE]
Walking/mountaineering/climbing.
If you're not terribly adventurous you can always go walking somewhere and it doesn't have to be terribly serious, just a gentle bimble, get some good trail shoes and a map/compass, get used to relating the map to the real world and using a compass in good weather, then start going further afield, doing more adventurous stuff, adventuring in crappy weather, making it more than a day, its pretty expandable. You can find climbing walls tucked away in most major cities in the western world, always a good place to start, they usually offer a beginner course or something similar.
Most of the social contacts I have at uni are through the mountaineering club. I go on random weekend trips with people I hardly know from within the club all the time. They are always a great experience, even when they turn out badly.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;35442186]Me and my new girlfriend[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;35442330]me and her[/QUOTE]
hmffff
[QUOTE=Xehanort;35442252]I'l basically have 1 friend who just stays in his room all the time, except when he goes to school ofc and other stuff he NEEDS to do. He is my best friend though, only time i see him is when i visit him for a weeken, sorta 2 guy lan party. He does not want to hang out outside :(
I also have NOTHING to do, no school, no job and no other activities, i'll start school again in some months though. Still a long time, and i don´t like anything like sports or exercise in a gym. So i have no idea what to do.[/QUOTE]
EH, sounds like me. (Not COMPLETELY though, alot)
And i mean your friend.
[QUOTE=Xehanort;35442252]I'l basically have 1 friend who just stays in his room all the time, except when he goes to school ofc and other stuff he NEEDS to do. He is my best friend though, only time i see him is when i visit him for a weeken, sorta 2 guy lan party. He does not want to hang out outside :(
I also have NOTHING to do, no school, no job and no other activities, i'll start school again in some months though. Still a long time, and i don´t like anything like sports or exercise in a gym. So i have no idea what to do.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like me. But it's a result of living for 10 years surrounded by "righteous" Mormons. They broke me down to my core. No matter what I did, I could not get a girl to like me for more than a week. I gave up on society, and locked myself in my room playing video games and posting on Facepunch. I've never had a girlfriend for more than a month, and even she cheated on me. I've completely given up on finding a girl even though I've moved to California, I just don't have a desire to be broken again.
[QUOTE=Insulator;35445322]Sounds like me. But it's a result of living for 10 years surrounded by "righteous" Mormons. They broke me down to my core. No matter what I did, I could not get a girl to like me for more than a week. I gave up on society, and locked myself in my room playing video games and posting on Facepunch. I've never had a girlfriend for more than a month, and even she cheated on me. I've completely given up on finding a girl even though I've moved to California, I just don't have a desire to be broken again.[/QUOTE]
You can't just give up every time you get your ass knocked to the ground. If you do it makes it that much harder to get back up and start again. Fuck, I'm talking like Seith.
Take little steps man. Start playing less video games and start spending more time outside of the house to break the habit you've gotten yourself stuck in.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35436659]sex doesn't need to be all about the dick.[/QUOTE]
I'm completely aware of this. I was just wondering because I would also like to do that as well, but about a minute into it and I have trouble not finishing.
I like the cuddling and all that. We spend much more time doing that than anything else. I use my hands and mouth more than my dick and I'm perfectly okay with that, since it's more pleasurable for her. When we have sex multiple times, it's not like I just plow her and then stare at her until I can get it up again. That'd be terrible.
I can't keep an erection long enough to fully put on a condom, wat do
Oh shit fucking shit
my gf pulled my dick to hard that it later sealed itself due to injuries, I havent been able to jerk off in like 4 days.
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
its like area 51 oh shit
[QUOTE=adadadsd;35447291]I can't keep an erection long enough to fully put on a condom, wat do[/QUOTE]
that's how it was for my first couple attempts, it's probably just your dick having stagefright. that's what it was for me. it got over it eventually.
So OKcupid adventures round 2 tomorrow, for those of you that read my last essay of a post.
Dunno, I'm excited because she's short, my ex is 4'11" this chick is 5'0", so psyched. Anyway she seems pretty cool, I can't say much about her because quite frankly I don't know that much about her but from what I've learned she's very date able. The last chick from OKcupid stopped talking to me for some reason, we were supposed to hang out, I called her to see what's up and never got a response. It's on to the next one.
Also I have to go buy a new shirt, I shrank a good portion of my wardrobe on accident. :/
I also have a very strong feeling that I won't be hooking up with this one on the first date.
Tommorow's the day for me, my girlfriend's coming round and we're finally going to go all the way. This is mine & her's first time and I'm worried she'll be scared or nervous so are there any tips you guys can give me?
I'm just worried I'll mess it up and hurt her, or I won't be able to get it up etc.
think of england?
Ah, where have I heard that before
If you won't be able to go through the first time, just relax and do something else. It's not like there is a checklist of things to do or you have to rush to the orgasm. Enjoy the foreplay, if you aren't, THEN you are doing something wrong.
[editline]6th April 2012[/editline]
Heck, even if you suddenly don't feel like having sex, just enjoy lying next to each other naked. It'll make nights alone much better for both of you.
I gotta stop reading this thread, just mentioning sex and girlfriends makes me sad
ugh stop feeling sorry for yourself
Well that went well. I was worried a little about meeting her dad, pfft it wasn't a problem at all.
Most of their fears were dispelled when they learned I was a former student of her favorite teacher. Everyone likes this teacher, so if [I]she[/I] approves of me (which she very much does), then I'm probably not all that bad. (Note: Thank this teacher next time you see her)
Gardens were cool. Spensive as fuck, but hopefully we'll go back there which would justify getting a season pass for the two of us. (the prices of the tickets today will go towards paying for said pass according to the ticket lady)
We left the gardens at around 4 and headed out and got something to eat, then went to her place and we hung out til 9ish. Her parents are pretty awesome, I was pretty easily able to connect with them.
Afterthoughts: I [I]know[/I] something can happen here, i see it. You know when things are going well when the ending sentences are "I had a great time today, I'll have to see when my next free weekend is"
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35449784]no!!! feeling sorry for myself obviouslygets me ladies and improves my self esteem!![/QUOTE]
Pity Sex
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