you're over thinking nothing?
if it's been over a year and you haven't made a move and she hasn't made a single noticeable obvious mood i think it's safe to say you don't have much of a chance, but go for it
all you have to do is say
"hey do you want to go out to a movie just you and me?"
"hey do you want to go to get something to eat on blah blah?"
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;34171941]you're over thinking nothing?
if it's been over a year and you haven't made a move and she hasn't made a single noticeable obvious mood i think it's safe to say you don't have much of a chance, but go for it
all you have to do is say
"hey do you want to go out to a movie just you and me?"
"hey do you want to go to get something to eat on blah blah?"[/QUOTE]
I've done more than a few private outings with her....
[QUOTE=CommanderMayhem;34171960]I've done more than a few private outings with her....[/QUOTE]
and nothing has happened? lol
[QUOTE=CommanderMayhem;34171778]I'm pretty sure I just met the Friendzone phase.
sgh
[editline]11th January 2012[/editline]
I have nowhere else to turn to
anonymous strangers
help
There's a girl I know. I thought we've been doing... pretty good? I've known her for about a year, sheepishly asked her once if she wanted to spend some time together over summer...
And I don't know if it was mis-interpreted or something. We've gone to a couple movies together, and I've been to her house countless times to just, chill or whatever
I've been doing this for nearly a year and I feel like nothing's happening. I don't know. She can't be clueless, you'd pretty much have to be retarded to not read my intentions here...
I don't know. She always acts a little odd around me. Always doing the hair twiddling, talks at around 80 MPH, always greets me with this cheeky "hello" whenever she sees me, big smile, big wave...
Is this the dreaded friendzone? If so, it's shit and I rather hate it.
I want to know how to exit.... "this".[/QUOTE]
She might just be waiting for you to hurry the fuck up and make a proper move. Not a lot of girls initiate things, she might simply be waiting for you to ask her out.
[QUOTE=Rusty100;34157160]detlef and i have broken up after being together nearly a year i am very sad[/QUOTE]
<3 *hug*
I had a three-four month relationship when i was 13
she was 15, lots of sex was had and then she dumped me, she was my first, so I know that feel bro D:
looking way into the future I've been dating my current girlfriend for nearly 10 months now, pretty close to the year mark so I'm pretty happy :D
I have one worry: what if I/she gets bored? what do?
I sometimes feel weird for the first time having sex with 19. :v:
[QUOTE=Kamaitachi;34176803]I had a three-four month relationship when i was 13
she was 15, lots of sex was had and then she dumped me, she was my first, so I know that feel bro D:
looking way into the future I've been dating my current girlfriend for nearly 10 months now, pretty close to the year mark so I'm pretty happy :D
I have one worry: what if I/she gets bored? what do?[/QUOTE]
I had a period in my relationship where I feared getting bored, or him getting bored. It never happened and then I stopped worrying.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34173391]She might just be waiting for you to hurry the fuck up and make a proper move. Not a lot of girls initiate things, she might simply be waiting for you to ask her out.[/QUOTE]
oh gee whiz I hope so
[QUOTE=CommanderMayhem;34179861]oh gee whiz I hope so[/QUOTE]
And there is only one way to find out....
[QUOTE=CommanderMayhem;34179861]oh gee whiz I hope so[/QUOTE]
Now never say "gee whiz" again.
You have been warned.
Rusty, are you okay
Can someone please tell me if I'm in the friendzone or not?
She went home with me after school, we talked much, i asked why she went home with me, she replied: ''Because your my best friend.'' She usually say that, but mostly in a situation where she's laughing afterwards, and now she seemed dead serious.
We went on my computer, logged in on the guest user, just for safety. She went on Facebook, she looked through her pictures, and i was replying to most of them how good she looked on them. (And she still don't believe me when i say I like her.)
Afterwards, she went to RedTube (Amateur) and the first video she clicked on was a threesome with 3 girls, awesome, we looked at that for some minutes, then she found another one with a dude and a girl. We looked at that for a while and then she turned her chair towards me, I sat on a sacco, so my head was about the height of her pussy, so i rolled her chair towards me as a joke, and she locked her legs around my neck. Nothing happend except for some laughs.
She stood up, went to my bed to get her cellphone. I laid down besides her, and when she checked her phone i touched her belly, (since she often say that I'm thinner then her, and I'm trying to prove her wrong.) and horny as I am, i took my hand higher up, went under her bra, and she took her hand in front of her nipple at that point but she took it of a few compliments and a bit negotiation later.
We shared some looks, and i regret i didn't kiss her, since I've always wanted to do it and that was the second perfect moment. (the perfect moment comes later) We laid there for a while (spooning for fun) and then i went quickly to the pc when someone had been trying to call me on skype for a while, when i looked up from the monitor she just laid there, trying to sleep. I said, I'm going to throw something at you, she giggled, i threw some pieces of paper at her, she just laughed.
I sat on FaceBook for a while, realizing it had gone 25 minutes since i threw paper at her. I used some time waking her up but when she woke up, i took my hand down here pants. (I had done it several times before, we were both horny that day)
So at first she was a bit unsecure, then after a while, i fingered her in the vulva just to try it out, then she said i had to massage her clitoris. After 5 minutes without her coming and my arm extremely tired, she got up and i laid there, no reason why, she asked what we should do then.
We went to this store, i bought some soda that she wanted and then we went to a bus stop and sat there for a while talking.
Then i asked her: ''Why wont you believe me when i say that i like you?'' she replied, ''If you like me, then kiss me!'' i was like ''uhh.....'' She got on her feet, and walked like 5 feet away, turned and she made a sign with her finger that i should go towards her,
so i did it, i stood over her, it was like we should kiss. But i dont know what happend, we didn't kiss, nothing happend there, and i still regret!
And she tells me the day after that i cant tell someone i know.
[NB! I'm sorry for the idioty, long text and spelling errors, but i just wanted to share this with someone i don't know since it's quite embarrassing]
[QUOTE=BiigTony;34195325]Can someone please tell me if I'm in the friendzone or not?
She went home with me after school, we talked much, i asked why she went home with me, she replied: ''Because your my best friend.'' She usually say that, but mostly in a situation where she's laughing afterwards, and now she seemed dead serious. We went on my computer, logged in on the guest user, just for safety. She went on Facebook, she looked through her pictures, and i was replying to most of them how good she looked on them. (And she still don't believe me when i say I like her.) Afterwards, she went to RedTube (Amateur) and the first video she clicked on was a threesome with 3 girls, awesome, we looked at that for some minutes, then she found another one with a dude and a girl. We looked at that for a while and then she turned her chair towards me, I sat on a sacco, so my head was about the height of her pussy, so i rolled her chair towards me as a joke, and she locked her legs around my neck. Nothing happend except for some laughs. She stood up, went to my bed to get her cellphone. I laid down besides her, and when she checked her phone i touched her belly, (since she often say that I'm thinner then her, and I'm trying to prove her wrong.) and horny as I am, i took my hand higher up, went under her bra, and she took her hand in front of her nipple at that point but she took it of a few compliments and a bit negotiation later. We shared some looks, and i regret i didn't kiss her, since I've always wanted to do it and that was the second perfect moment. (the perfect moment comes later) We laid there for a while (spooning for fun.) and then i went quickly to the pc when someone had been trying to call me on skype for a while, when i looked of from the monitor she just laid there, trying to sleep. I said, I'm going to throw something at you, she giggled, i threw some pieces of paper at her, she just laughed. I sat on FaceBook for a while, realizing it had gone 25 minutes since i threw paper at her. I used some time waking her up but when she woke up, i took my hand down here pants. (I had done it several times before, we were both horny that day) So at first she was a bit unsecure, then after a while, i fingered her in the vulva just to try it out, then she said i had to massage her clitoris. After 5 minutes without her coming and my arm extremely tired, she got up and i laid there, no reason why, she asked what we should do then.
We went to this store, i bought some soda that she wanted and then we went to a bus stop and sat there for a while talking. Then i asked her: ''Why wont you believe me when i say that i like you?'' she replied, ''If you like me, then kiss me!'' i was like ''uhh.....'' She got on her feet, and walked like 5 feet away, turned and she made a sign with her finger that i should go towards her, so i did it, i stood over her, it was like we should kiss. But i dont know what happend, we didn't kiss, nothing happend there, and i still regret!
[NB! I'm sorry for the idioty, long text and spelling errors, but i just wanted to share this with someone i don't know since it's quite embarrassing][/QUOTE]
Dear god man, format some paragraphs into this. Nobody is going to read this brick of text.
That is one retarded story. She randomly comes round and puts some porn in and then as far as I can read one thing leads to another and you fingered her but never kissed her and you're wondering if you're in the friendzone?
The Friend-Zone is a Lie!
[QUOTE=SaWAH;34178684]I had a period in my relationship where I feared getting bored, or him getting bored. It never happened and then I stopped worrying.[/QUOTE]
you're still with the same guy, that's great to hear.
I'm going to the movies alone.
[QUOTE=BiigTony;34195325]Can someone please tell me if I'm in the friendzone or not?
She went home with me after school, we talked much, i asked why she went home with me, she replied: ''Because your my best friend.'' She usually say that, but mostly in a situation where she's laughing afterwards, and now she seemed dead serious.
We went on my computer, logged in on the guest user, just for safety. She went on Facebook, she looked through her pictures, and i was replying to most of them how good she looked on them. (And she still don't believe me when i say I like her.)
Afterwards, she went to RedTube (Amateur) and the first video she clicked on was a threesome with 3 girls, awesome, we looked at that for some minutes, then she found another one with a dude and a girl. We looked at that for a while and then she turned her chair towards me, I sat on a sacco, so my head was about the height of her pussy, so i rolled her chair towards me as a joke, and she locked her legs around my neck. Nothing happend except for some laughs.
She stood up, went to my bed to get her cellphone. I laid down besides her, and when she checked her phone i touched her belly, (since she often say that I'm thinner then her, and I'm trying to prove her wrong.) and horny as I am, i took my hand higher up, went under her bra, and she took her hand in front of her nipple at that point but she took it of a few compliments and a bit negotiation later.
We shared some looks, and i regret i didn't kiss her, since I've always wanted to do it and that was the second perfect moment. (the perfect moment comes later) We laid there for a while (spooning for fun) and then i went quickly to the pc when someone had been trying to call me on skype for a while, when i looked up from the monitor she just laid there, trying to sleep. I said, I'm going to throw something at you, she giggled, i threw some pieces of paper at her, she just laughed.
I sat on FaceBook for a while, realizing it had gone 25 minutes since i threw paper at her. I used some time waking her up but when she woke up, i took my hand down here pants. (I had done it several times before, we were both horny that day)
So at first she was a bit unsecure, then after a while, i fingered her in the vulva just to try it out, then she said i had to massage her clitoris. After 5 minutes without her coming and my arm extremely tired, she got up and i laid there, no reason why, she asked what we should do then.
We went to this store, i bought some soda that she wanted and then we went to a bus stop and sat there for a while talking.
Then i asked her: ''Why wont you believe me when i say that i like you?'' she replied, ''If you like me, then kiss me!'' i was like ''uhh.....'' She got on her feet, and walked like 5 feet away, turned and she made a sign with her finger that i should go towards her,
so i did it, i stood over her, it was like we should kiss. But i dont know what happend, we didn't kiss, nothing happend there, and i still regret!
And she tells me the day after that i cant tell someone i know.
[NB! I'm sorry for the idioty, long text and spelling errors, but i just wanted to share this with someone i don't know since it's quite embarrassing][/QUOTE]
Don't get me wrong by saying this but: YOU IDIOT! :v:
You should have kissed her.
You're not in the friend zone, that is no friend-zone. You're the one building up that friend zone around you.
Do you have any idea the moment you just wasted? You should have gone for it, man!
You go ring on that girls doorbell, open the door and just kiss her! If you don't, I'll go all the way to Norway just to drag you there!
Jeez!
[QUOTE=BiigTony;34195325]Stuff[/QUOTE]
Man up, Viking!
You're 13 year old yet you got to finger your friend (even though you did a kinda bad job). Kissing her shouldn't be a problem for you!
Go wild, have some fun, but remember that you don't have a lot of experience, so don't expect everything (especially sex) to be [B]easy[/B].
[editline]14th January 2012[/editline]
Sidenote: If you fingerfuck a girl, you're not in her friendzone. You basically friendzoned HER. (by not kissing her when she wanted you to)
The whole biological description of fingering her made me laugh, "I fingered her in the vulva just to try but she told me to massage her clitoris" lol. :v:
take penis
insert in girl
congratulations
And I wouldn't be disappointed in not getting her to come first time like that, I think it has a certain knack to it. I mean my girlfriend said her ex [i]never[/i] got her to come fingering her in two years of relationship. Luckily on my second attempt I chanced upon a way that she loves and gets her to come every time. Hard work though :v:
Any tips for getting with girls at clubs? I find it near impossible when i can't have a proper conversation.
[QUOTE=Occlusion;34206382]Any tips for getting with girls at clubs? I find it near impossible when i can't have a proper conversation.[/QUOTE]
Have a good dance game / isolate her
don't talk to her about anime
[QUOTE=CAPSMAN!;34199958]Man up, Viking!
You're 13 year old yet you got to finger your friend (even though you did a kinda bad job). Kissing her shouldn't be a problem for you!
Go wild, have some fun, but remember that you don't have a lot of experience, so don't expect everything (especially sex) to be [B]easy[/B].
[editline]14th January 2012[/editline]
Sidenote: If you fingerfuck a girl, you're not in her friendzone. You basically friendzoned HER. (by not kissing her when she wanted you to)[/QUOTE]
I wish I was that lucky at 13.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;34209754]I wish I was that lucky at 13.[/QUOTE]
Why?
[QUOTE=Contag;34210005]Why?[/QUOTE]
If he wasn't as dense(no offence) as Tony was at that age, it would have been awesome(at least when it comes to sex, everything else might've been crap about her).
Yes, that was what I meant. I was being ironic.
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