[QUOTE=DarkendSky;35468854]not normal, very cool[/QUOTE]
If she's cool with it, then its cool. but its also a dangerous topic. Probability of Fun is high.
but on a serious note most people look down upon that
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35469034]If she's cool with it, then its cool. but its also a dangerous topic. Probability of Fun is high.[/QUOTE]
i strongly doubt she'll be cool with it
i don't know of many females at all that would be cool with it
[editline]7th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;35468854]not normal, very cool[/QUOTE]
heh yeah guys check me outttt got my proper girlfriend and then got another girl on the side just for some fun & games
playaaaa!!!
I know, hence why I mentioned the probability of Fun being high.
How do I get to know a girl which I only talked to via FB
V:v:V
[QUOTE=SantaClaws;35471186]How do I get to know a girl which I only talked to via FB
V:v:V[/QUOTE]
Ask phone# and call her for a meetup.
[QUOTE=SantaClaws;35471186]How do I get to know a girl which I only talked to via FB
V:v:V[/QUOTE]
Suggest meeting up/going somewhere.
Even if we only know eachother via FB?I mean, we used to go to the same school a few months ago and I see her a lot because we live in the same area.
Also, what do you recommend?:v:
[QUOTE=Rusty100;35463054]it could be autism[/QUOTE]
Actually, the funny thing is, my little brother has (a weak version of) autism, and he is exactly the same.
[QUOTE=SantaClaws;35471440]Even if we only know eachother via FB?I mean, we used to go to the same school a few months ago and I see her a lot because we live in the same area.
Also, what do you recommend?:v:[/QUOTE]
Coffee date or go to the carnival when the opportunity comes.
So after talking with my ex's best friend, her excuse that she couldn't be intimate with me any longer because she would leave for college later and didn't want to have our hearts broken is a bunch of bs and really it was my sex anxiety panic that freaked her out. I mean, when I didn't get hard, I was really upset and even more when she said that it was maybe what she was wearing. I did have a small burst of anger but that died down after a couple of seconds. Well, I hope it doesn't happen again.
[QUOTE=SantaClaws;35471440]Even if we only know eachother via FB?I mean, we used to go to the same school a few months ago and I see her a lot because we live in the same area.
Also, what do you recommend?:v:[/QUOTE]
find something you think she has a chance of being interested in and just say
I was thinking of going to x, want to come with me?
Or arrange something with some friends (make sure you get a good male/female mix if you're going to) and invite her along.
[editline]7th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;35471665]So after talking with my ex's best friend, her excuse that she couldn't be intimate with me any longer because she would leave for college later and didn't want to have our hearts broken is a bunch of bs and really it was my sex anxiety panic that freaked her out. I mean, when I didn't get hard, I was really upset and even more when she said that it was maybe what she was wearing. I did have a small burst of anger but that died down after a couple of seconds. Well, I hope it doesn't happen again.[/QUOTE]
It happens to everyone at some point, don't beat yourself up over it, move on.
[QUOTE=SantaClaws;35471440]Even if we only know eachother via FB?I mean, we used to go to the same school a few months ago and I see her a lot because we live in the same area.
Also, what do you recommend?:v:[/QUOTE]
Do it!
[QUOTE=eternalflamez;35471725]Do it![/QUOTE]
Nothing to lose etc.
[QUOTE=Autumn;35469150]i strongly doubt she'll be cool with it
i don't know of many females at all that would be cool with it
[editline]7th April 2012[/editline]
heh yeah guys check me outttt got my proper girlfriend and then got another girl on the side just for some fun & games
playaaaa!!![/QUOTE]
Thanks for the advice guys (just quoting Autumn since that's the most recent comment about it). Just to let you know, it doesn't mean anything for me (and I'm pretty certain it's nothing to her either), we don't really do it for any reason other than to screw about, and we don't do anything overtly sexual (ie it's mainly just random groping), but I'll try and stop the stuff happening. As a note, it was actually my friend that started it, but I guess if I stop she'll stop too.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35471252]so my gf's mother found out her daughter is on the pill and flipped a shit and now i can't see her any more?? (we're both 19 wtf)
i mean what is even wrong with this woman[/QUOTE]
Tell her mother that she has no control over her daughter now, oh and that she's a dumb cunt for freaking out over something that'll keep her from getting pregnant.
[QUOTE=Legend286;35471914]Tell her mother that she has no control over her daughter now, oh and that she's a dumb cunt for freaking out over something that'll keep her from getting pregnant.[/QUOTE]
Directly confronting mom= fast track to being perma'd by her mom.
yes she shouldn't have control over it, but there are more variables here than we're being told.
Yahnich, do you know any possible things that would make her not like contraceptives?
[QUOTE=SantaClaws;35471440]Even if we only know eachother via FB?I mean, we used to go to the same school a few months ago and I see her a lot because we live in the same area.
Also, what do you recommend?:v:[/QUOTE]
The hardest part of getting to know someone is putting yourself out there to get to know them. So ask for that phone number, meetup somewhere and do stuff together. Just act like the person is the same as anyone of your friends. It'll probably be awkward at first, but you'll get over it soon enough.
If it makes you feel any better SantaClaws, I'm in your exact position. Knew a girl through high-school, never thought twice about her, graduated, couple months down the line I realize she seems pretty cool. We had only ever communicated via comments on Facebook, so I eventually tried talking to her over chat, but fuck chat. I saw her at a party, briefly spoke to her, got her number, and now we're going out together next Monday. We've spoken irl for about all of 2 minutes, so I'm quite excited for this evening to finally get to know each other!
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35477071]she's batshit off her rockers
and she's religious
[editline]8th April 2012[/editline]
like i'm talking rick fucking santorum religious, so religious i thought they went extinct in belgium
batshit crazy anticonceptives and premarital sex (especially just for fun) is sin religious[/QUOTE]
Called it. If that's the case, then there isn't much you can do. Even if confronting her was practical, you don't have a case. Can't beat the Word of God. Unless she can get out of that environment, then you're pretty out of luck.
-snip-
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;35478560]So does anyone else look up porn even though they have a girlfriend? I feel bad for doing it and I'm trying to stop, wondering if its only me though.[/QUOTE]
Unless your Girlfriend is an omnipresent nymphomaniac or has problems with you looking at porn (and then we have trust issues), then it should be okay.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;35478560]So does anyone else look up porn even though they have a girlfriend? I feel bad for doing it and I'm trying to stop, wondering if its only me though.[/QUOTE]
you shouldn't feel so insecure about it. of course everyone else does it, even if they lie about it.
I've made the mistake of choosing my girlfriend over friends, something which I should have never done and have nobody to blame but myself. As of about 2 days ago we have been broken up and while she has been going to parties and stuff, I have been by myself. We had been dating for 3 years, and I am a pretty shy person so meeting new people is a challenge for me. This shit sucks.
[QUOTE=R3N3GADE;35465587]do you live in a monastry? are you a monk?[/QUOTE]
Does it really come that naturally for normal people to approach and to somehow end up fucking each other? I guess I'll just have to become a wizard.
[QUOTE=ShnitzelKiller;35479663]Does it really come that naturally for normal people to approach and to somehow end up fucking each other? I guess I'll just have to become a wizard.[/QUOTE]
Becoming a wizard is a difficult and a dangerous road. All but the very few, fail in their quest.
So I'm starting to find myself alone for long periods of time with nothing to do (which as a college student is nothing short of astounding), and during these moments of stagnation I'm coming to the realization that I quite hate the situation that I'm in.
I mean, I'm going to college for a degree that I might not even use, and I have loads of things in life that I'd like to do, and all of my studies just feel useless and in the way. Top that off with a stagnant social life and no girlfriend/little access to any female population, and I can just barely feel myself dipping into what very might be a second bout of depression.
I've already gone through severe, medicated depression once, and I definitely do not want to go down that road again. Luckily, however, break is in about two weeks, so I guess I just have to hold on until then. It just feels like I've been repeatedly pounding my head against a (very expensive, $20,000) brick wall and have gotten shit-all out of it. Why the hell is getting a college degree the see-all, end-all? I hate it.
you need to do what you want to do instead of going to college for a degree you might not even use. find something that interests or excites you and study that.
I am studying something that interests me, but it's a bit more complicated than that. My parents have already invested a good amount of money into my Architectural degree (as have I), but what I really want to do doesn't really involve a college degree at all.
Hell, just this feeling of being confined is so [b]damned awful[/b]. I've lived in a fucking 10x10ft square room with a bathroom shared with three other people for a year and my life experiences up to this point have been work/school/work/school. I look out and see all of the incredible things other people are doing (ranging from something as incredible as travelling the world to something as simple as going camping) and slam my head on the desk because college is preventing me from doing [b]anything[/b].
The worst part is that I know that I can't back out of this stupid thing because it would absolutely crush my parents.
Ever consider putting yourself first?
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