Hmm Ive never been in a relationship, but I tend to get to know girls who have the first two traits... Im not very sane either, so I can relate :)
ya this 13 year-old i know is pretty intelligent and beautifulll
i know shes intelligent cuz she thinks its funny to yell hail satan hahaha
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35482534]the first 2 girls you dated had all 3 of those features and you aren't with them anymore? you're either lying or really bad with women, i guess. and the one you're dating right now isn't intelligent just because she reads homestuck and goes to steampunk conventions and is a giant nerd.[/QUOTyou misunderstand. My first 3 girls have been the first 2 qualities. Shoulda wrote it better.
[editline]8th April 2012[/editline]
Fucking facepunxh app cant edit posts.
[editline]8th April 2012[/editline]
Cause, the first one was smart and very pretty, but i can do mormonism. Second was about the same, but she was convinced she had a split personality. Third one didnt know how to understand people and didnt like saying something was wrong. This one right now though? Ive yet to see how sane she is, but we'll see.
[QUOTE=SHOE3045;35483678]Im not very sane either, so I can relate :)[/QUOTE]
being an active paedophile doesn't make you insane it just makes you a creep
Cant. Cant do.mormonism. i hate this app sometimes.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost three months now, and things are going great, but I've met a snag. Basically so far I've done shit to her but she's reluctant to return the favour. How can I get her to do so?
A friend of mine had a similar issue but his solution was to simply stick her hand down his trousers, which seems a tad crude.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;35485932]My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost three months now, and things are going great, but I've met a snag. Basically so far I've done shit to her but she's reluctant to return the favour. How can I get her to do so?
A friend of mine had a similar issue but his solution was to simply stick her hand down his trousers, which seems a tad crude.[/QUOTE]
Talk to her about it? Get comfortable with just being naked with each other? Get a shower together.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;35485932]My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost three months now, and things are going great, but I've met a snag. Basically so far I've done shit to her but she's reluctant to return the favour. How can I get her to do so?
A friend of mine had a similar issue but his solution was to simply stick her hand down his trousers, which seems a tad crude.[/QUOTE]
Make out somewhere secluded, press your hand against her stomach and slide down OR grab her wrist and guide it to your crotch. Build tension, girls love it.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;35485932]
A friend of mine had a similar issue but his solution was to simply stick her hand down his trousers, which seems a tad crude.[/QUOTE]
Worked for me. After she said she had wanted to for a while but was just a little too shy, and was glad that I did that.
From experience, it all depends. I was pretty shy and someone did that to me and I was glad, but unless she has showed interest (or literally expressed that she is shy) in wanting to do it I wouldn't go there, she might get upset and feel out of her depth.
In my opinion, jumping straight to physical intimacy is a bit risky. Go from the normal hugging / kissing to talking about sexual things over the phone. If your other half plays ball and plays along with you, you're good to try things physically.
Just saying that in case some guys here think "I've been in a relationship with this girl for 3 months and we kiss and stuff but she doesn't get physical with me. Let me try putting my hands down her pants" and then them being slapped in the face by said girl because she is disgusted haha
[QUOTE=metallics;35485971]Talk to her about it? Get comfortable with just being naked with each other? Get a shower together.[/QUOTE]
She seems pretty comfortable being naked with me and I've been in only boxers with her, I've just never really found the opportunity to get completely naked with her. Unfortunately I don't think I'll ever have the chance to shower with her because we both liver with our parents.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;35486246]Make out somewhere secluded, press your hand against her stomach and slide down OR grab her wrist and guide it to your crotch. Build tension, girls love it.[/QUOTE]
So, how exactly do you think I should go about it? Get started on her then move her hand, because I'd feel a bit weird stopping half way through and afterwards she's usually pretty exhausted. Should I maybe just start making out with her, get her kinda horny for it then try it?
[QUOTE=LordLoss;35486719]Worked for me. After she said she had wanted to for a while but was just a little too shy, and was glad that I did that.[/QUOTE]
Hmm, perhaps I should give it a go, although maybe a little more subtly.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35487391]In my opinion, jumping straight to physical intimacy is a bit risky. Go from the normal hugging / kissing to talking about sexual things over the phone. If your other half plays ball and plays along with you, you're good to try things physically.
Just saying that in case some guys here think "I've been in a relationship with this girl for 3 months and we kiss and stuff but she doesn't get physical with me. Let me try putting my hands down her pants" and then them being slapped in the face by said girl because she is disgusted haha[/QUOTE]
Yeah, we have done some sexual stuff. Nothing major, just groping, fingering etc. so it's not like it's completely new to this stuff. I've never really been this far in a relationship before. It's not like it's my first serious relationship or anything, I've just always been pretty concerned about exactly what you're talking about.
Thanks for all the help, guys, my girlfriend doesn't like me telling my friends about it so it's not like I can talk to them about it. I'm seeing her next Thursday so I'll probably be able to make a move then.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35487391]In my opinion, jumping straight to physical intimacy is a bit risky. Go from the normal hugging / kissing to talking about sexual things over the phone. If your other half plays ball and plays along with you, you're good to try things physically.
Just saying that in case some guys here think "I've been in a relationship with this girl for 3 months and we kiss and stuff but she doesn't get physical with me. Let me try putting my hands down her pants" and then them being slapped in the face by said girl because she is disgusted haha[/QUOTE]
How I understand it, he has already touched her, just she hasnt touched him.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;35487704]
Thanks for all the help, guys, my girlfriend doesn't like me telling my friends about it so it's not like I can talk to them about it. I'm seeing her next Thursday so I'll probably be able to make a move then.[/QUOTE]
Just find someone you can trust, like a really good friend of yours. Don't worry about her finding out, she probably tells someone all of her stuff too. And dude just go for it, don't think let the instinct take both of you over. if she stops or says no, just keep going half of the time shes just thinking about something else thats completely irrelevant. she will also like your aggressiveness and it will turn her on.
Don't bite her lip if you don't know what your doing, and kiss her neck, wrap your arms around her. Tell her how sexy she is. Take off your shirt, then hers, dude you know what to do your just being reluctant. And if she is being really stiff about it then, wait till the next time no need to rush things.
well that was awkward to read
and if she says no, stop, jesus
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35488789]well that was awkward to read
and if she says no, stop, jesus[/QUOTE]
I sort of get what he means though. There are ways my girlfriend says no and I know when she says no when she actually means no, which is when I stop, and when she's sort of reluctant or not horny enough or whatever. That seems rapey written out but you get the gist.
[editline]9th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;35489041]Guys if you ever hit a snag in your relationship, play the "Random Question Game".
It's a texting game where you ask each other random questions, and believe it or not, It's great for finding out problems and insecurities people are sometimes too shy to just come out with. Me and my girlfriend used to play it a lot and you won't believe how many problems we over came with it.
Also great for beginning relationships, it helps you learn more about each other. Like favorite foods, favorite gifts, ect.[/QUOTE]
We do this all the time but I can never think of any decent questions. Got any ones that have been particularly good?
For example a few that I found entertaining was:
When was your first kiss?
When was your first orgasm?
Would you ever try anal? (my girlfriend's hilariously against anal)
Would you ever try a threesome?
When did you first have feelings for me?
That kinda shit.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;35488636]if she stops or says no, just keep going half of the time shes just thinking about something else thats completely irrelevant[/QUOTE]
protip: this is goddamn rape, yo
I'm in a weird spot right now. Had dinner with my family and my sister (18) and her boyfriend's family. My sister's boyfriend's sister and I got along really well, and it started to become evident that she was flirting with me. Normally that's great, but I feel like the fact that she's related to my sister's bf is a rather large red flag.
What do?
My ex left me about a week ago. We'd been going out for a year and a half.
Today she told me pretty bluntly that she didn't miss me... She didn't mean it in a cruel way or anything but now I feel quite pathetic and can't get any fucking sleep. I get the feeling she left me for someone else because her breaking up with me was all completely out of the blue and I can't stand the thought of her being with anyone else.
I know you guys probably don't care, I just needed to say something to someone. None of my friends are very helpful with this sort of thing.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;35489870]All you can really do is move on. I know it's hard, but you can do it. Try to at least find out what went wrong so you can avoid that in the future, too.[/QUOTE]
I kind of don't want to move on. I don't think getting back together is completely out of the question. I just don't know whether to take the chance.
She gave me a bunch of bullshit, cliche reasons like "I just want to be on my own right now" and that sort of thing but after talking to her today, it looks like she just stopped loving me and maybe hadn't loved me for a while.
If you make effort more than once to keep in contact with her, you might feel hurt by the situation over and over. Some space will do you both some good, especially if that is the case.
[QUOTE=pikkapi;35489974]If you make effort more than once to keep in contact with her, you might feel hurt by the situation over and over. Some space will do you both some good, especially if that is the case.[/QUOTE]
Good point.
We're going to the same college in a couple of months. Maybe I'll wait until then to start talking to her again.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;35490018]My first girlfriend gave me that exact same bullshit when she left me to date someone else. I mean I don't wanna drag down your hopes but that couldv'e been what happened. It's strange she would do such a thing after a whole year and a half, though.
If your going to try to get back together with her, go for it. Pull out all that charm and go for it, if you wait around too long wondering if you should it might be too late. Just make sure she gets some space, don't seem too clingy. ( I honestly don't know what advice to give you, I've never gotten back together with someone who's broken up with me)[/QUOTE]
I know. I kind of doubt it because she wouldn't have said the stuff about wanting to be single since I would find out if she started going straight out with someone else. I just kind of got that impression. I'm going to ask a friend of hers just to see for certain.
Yeah, I'm gonna give her that couple of months then try to charm the fuck out of her at college.
Me neither but I really think she's worth it. I've had some of the best times of my life with her and I don't want to let that go.
[QUOTE=CrumbleShake;35489854]My ex left me about a week ago. We'd been going out for a year and a half.
Today she told me pretty bluntly that she didn't miss me... She didn't mean it in a cruel way or anything but now I feel quite pathetic and can't get any fucking sleep. I get the feeling she left me for someone else because her breaking up with me was all completely out of the blue and I can't stand the thought of her being with anyone else.
I know you guys probably don't care, I just needed to say something to someone. None of my friends are very helpful with this sort of thing.[/QUOTE]
Hey man, we've all been there bro. Just know that it wasn't your fault. Just whatever you do don't call or text her at all. If she contacts you weeks later or whatever don't tell her how much you struggled with her loss. And whatever you do, don't beg for her back.
Personally I don't you should plan on talkin to her again in college. If you start talking again, great. But now i think you should try getting into a mindset where you will never talk to her again. Harsh I know, but trust me it feels so much better when you're no longer attached.
I care bro. It's not your fault, get some sleep mate.
meet new people in college
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;35487704]
So, how exactly do you think I should go about it? Get started on her then move her hand, because I'd feel a bit weird stopping half way through and afterwards she's usually pretty exhausted. [b]Should I maybe just start making out with her, get her kinda horny for it then try it?[/b]
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If she has never touched you before down there, then yeah, it would probably be a good idea to actually make out first...
People a little less inhibited when they're aroused, and you can guide her more easily.
This doesn't mean grab her and and stick it down your pants. It means focus more on her touching you while you guys make out or you finger her or whatever. I have this mental image of you sitting like a foot away and grabbing her boobs or reaching down her pants or something, and it's weird. If she's not comfortable touching you, then she has issues with something. Whether that's how comfortable she is with you, or how comfortable you seem to be with her.
I was in this position this year actually. It pretty much resolved itself. If you're up against her and she can feel you in your pants, and still ignores it regularly, then maybe you should actually talk to your girlfriend about it. She's sure to have an opinion on the subject, however awkward that may be (though you should get over that. If you plan on having sex with her, you should be damn comfortable with talking about it).
Sorry for that kinda uncomfortable post..
all me and my girlfriend do is sit around my house (we are both okay with that, but still)
there is nothing to do in this town and i'm not that creative. i have been trying to get her back into skateboarding, but she is afraid of pavement.
other than that theres not much else, what is some cool shit you can do in small towns?
take drugs kill animals that's about it
she's against drugs and i am already an animal murderer :(
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35491961]all me and my girlfriend do is sit around my house (we are both okay with that, but still)
there is nothing to do in this town and i'm not that creative. i have been trying to get her back into skateboarding, but she is afraid of pavement.
other than that theres not much else, what is some cool shit you can do in small towns?[/QUOTE]
Go for a walk, take a drive into the nearest city, camp out, bike, run, go to a local diner, etc.
What you do doesn't have to be cool. You should just find something that doesn't keep you in your house all day.
[editline]9th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35492314]she's against drugs and i am already an animal murderer :([/QUOTE]
Slip her drugs.
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