[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35552359]goin out for a meal with my girlfriend tonight. think i need to have a little chat about something
oh wednesday night i went out with a drink for her, then we parted ways for a couple of hours while i drank more with my friends and she with hers, then we were gonna meet in a club later that night
so when i left her she'd had one bottle of wine between her and her friend which i know she can handle just fine. within an hour her texting had deteriorated pretty awfully. i wasn't that worried though - she's an adult and she drinks on a regular basis and can look after herself
about this time though i start getting loads of calls from her sister and mum who are mega worried about her and want me to help find out where she is. at the time this didn't seem odd to me because i was pretty drunk. after calling my girlfriend many times (she makes very little sense) i manage to find out roughly where she is and her mum drives out, finds her, and takes her home
the next day though, looking at this situation, it's really odd. if i or anyone else i knew didn't reply to texts for an hour (bare in mind it's only about 10pm and this is a night we were planning to spend in a club so she wouldn't be home until about 3am anyways) then there wouldn't have been a search party out to find them
so maybe something has happened in her past? or there's something about her personality i don't quite understand yet? but whatever i feel like i'm being left in the dark about something important so i need to ask
[editline]13th April 2012[/editline]
welp that was longer than expected. just wanted to write it all down. not necessarily expecting anyone to read it. sos for the verbal shitting[/QUOTE]
Jesus I feel like you're gonna bust down her mom's front door.
[editline]13th April 2012[/editline]
"I'm part of this family too!"
huh
it's more like "hey mate why do i get calls from your mum fearing for your existence if you're off the radar for like half an hour. that's a bit odd"
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;35546125]How exactly were you friendzoned? Did she reject an offer to take her to dinner? Or was it more like you found out that she didn't share the feeling that you are each other's soul mates?
Either way, no friend zone, but keep at it. Plenty more girls to date.[/QUOTE]
she said she used to like me but now weve been friends too long she sees me as just a friend. burn :(
[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;35552901]she said she used to like me but now weve been friends too long she sees me as just a friend. burn :([/QUOTE]
Then, my friend, you did not move soon enough. :\
[editline]13th April 2012[/editline]
In other news, I've found that Soccer is cool to watch. Her team kicks some ass for sure.
I also noticed at some point that while she was sitting on the bench, her friend next to her was rather observant. I saw her friend looking at me several times until she finally turned her friend around and made her stop. Seemed like a "is he looked at me?" type of thing but I could be wrong. Sunglasses came in handy there.
After the game I was thanked by her and her mother for coming and she said she woulda hugged me but she was "smelly and sweaty and forgot deodorant". It was rather amusing.
Ello
If you're dating a girl and compliment her all the time and you're really nice, would there be a possibility of me going into the friend zone?
She likes me, i like her, everyone thinks we make a good couple, but is there such a thing as too nice? I always flirt with her and compliment her.
I seriously need to get over my problem of backing down when I'm about to talk to this girl I like. I'll pass her going to classes but I just can't find the courage to put out any words. After I pass her without saying anything, in my head I keep asking myself "Why didn't you say anything?!"
I really need some advice getting over this problem, or it'll persist and really kick me in the ass. We're both sophomores and she has never had a boyfriend before, I remember when she tried to get to know me better by talking to me in the hall and asking if she could walk with me to an assembly, I kind of have the feeling she's waiting for me to make a move, but since I'm not positive about what she's thinking I'm not making any progress.
[QUOTE=Ninja Duck;35556874]I seriously need to get over my problem of backing down when I'm about to talk to this girl I like. I'll pass her going to classes but I just can't find the courage to put out any words. After I pass her without saying anything, in my head I keep asking myself "Why didn't you say anything?!"
I really need some advice getting over this problem, or it'll persist and really kick me in the ass. We're both sophomores and she has never had a boyfriend before, I remember when she tried to get to know me better by talking to me in the hall and asking if she could walk with me to an assembly, I kind of have the feeling she's waiting for me to make a move, but since I'm not positive about what she's thinking I'm not making any progress.[/QUOTE]
Just ask her for her phone number and call her later... just meet as son as possible ;).
[QUOTE=Region;35556860]Ello
If you're dating a girl and compliment her all the time and you're really nice, would there be a possibility of me going into the friend zone?
She likes me, i like her, everyone thinks we make a good couple, but is there such a thing as too nice? I always flirt with her and compliment her.[/QUOTE]
Over complimenting can be as bad as not complimenting at all, because as with anything, if you say it too much it becomes irrelevant. By all means, compliment her when you are really taken aback by something about her, be it her looks or something particularly adorable she does, but don't just say it out of the blue all the time. It should be something special, like telling her you love her.
It can be tricky to get it right, but just be natural. Maybe instead of telling her she's beautiful, just give her a big smile or kiss her.
I met a girl while out on drinking with friends, we chatted for a while and danced, I ended up walking with her back to my place, by the time we got home we were sober but we still slept together, we stayed up till 8am talking and kissing and other things (more sex) we exchanged numbers and talked for a while
We then arranged a first date we went for a quiet drink and just talked, we then went to the movies (we kissed again inside), then we afterwards we went for a walk and another drink (were we kissed again) I told her that I liked her and she said she liked me, I asked her what we should do (relationship wise) and she said with a smile that we should see how it goes, I walked her back to the train station, were we talked and spent a long while kissing and holding each other before she left...
Were going to arrange a second date for next week, I really like her and I'm really interested in her and I hope shes legitimately interested in me, does it sound like she likes me? I hope she doesn't cancel, I keep getting that feeling, I've dated a lot of girls in my time but never before have I dated someone I like this, its hard to describe, shes pretty and interesting, opinions?
uh sounds like it's all going fine, just keep doing what you're doing
Just when she said 'we will see how it goes' has me confused, maybe im over thinking it all, part of me thinks that with all the hand holding, kissing, laughs, smiles, texts that she likes me and something could develop into something but another part of me thinks that when she says that she means it as a one off date and a fling
-sneep-
Nah its only because you were nervous, you need to relax and have foreplay, happens to most people on their first time believe it or not.
[QUOTE=ZeroMinus;35559064]Nah its only because you were nervous, you need to relax and have foreplay, happens to most people on their first time believe it or not.[/QUOTE]
We did, for like an Hour, and all that time i wouldnt get any harder than a friggin half arsed flacid erection.
It was like, hard enough to get the condom on, too sort to even do anything, i do feel so friggin ashamed and angry but i dunno, i really dont know.
That and my cockblocking father phoning up every minute never helps!
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;35559103]We did, for like an Hour, and all that time i wouldnt get any harder than a friggin half arsed flacid erection.
It was like, hard enough to get the condom on, too sort to even do anything, i do feel so friggin ashamed and angry but i dunno, i really dont know.
That and my cockblocking father phoning up every minute never helps![/QUOTE]
Uh dude, this is totally natural for your first time. You're just trying to figure out what the hell to do. It's like, a choreographed art form.
It took me and my fiance several times before we successfully swapped virginity.
Anyone else had a girlfriend thats addicted to their phone? We were having sex and we were really going for it, you know. The pace picked up and she started getting louder. Her phone goes off because she had a text and she stopped. Literally, just stopped in her tracks. Leaned over and picked her phone up and replied. What?
I mean really. What the fuck? Anyone else had this problem with a girl or is it just me?
[QUOTE=Bread Dog;35559901]Anyone else had a girlfriend thats addicted to their phone? We were having sex and we were really going for it, you know. The pace picked up and she started getting louder. Her phone goes off because she had a text and she stopped. Literally, just stopped in her tracks. Leaned over and picked her phone up and replied. What?
I mean really. What the fuck? Anyone else had this problem with a girl or is it just me?[/QUOTE]
Time to get out bro.
What's more important to her?
This was the first time it happened. But It was one of those "What the fuck just happened" moments... I did say "are you for real?" and she apologized but it was just one of those weird things that catch you off guard, right?
[QUOTE=Bread Dog;35559956]This was the first time it happened. But It was one of those "What the fuck just happened" moments... I did say "are you for real?" and she apologized but it was just one of those weird things that catch you off guard, right?[/QUOTE]
Yeah dude, that moment sounds surreal. I would have been extremely turned off if I were you.
In fact, I would have probably refused to finish.
[QUOTE=Bread Dog;35559956]This was the first time it happened. But It was one of those "What the fuck just happened" moments... I did say "are you for real?" and she apologized but it was just one of those weird things that catch you off guard, right?[/QUOTE]
try to forget about it, if it happens again.. you know what to do
Yeah I guess. It was her first time though, which confused me more. Fair enough it was 'Round 2' as it were; If you get me. But I expected her to be more focused... Oh well. Forgive and forget?
[QUOTE=Bread Dog;35560057]Yeah I guess. It was her first time though, which confused me more. Fair enough it was 'Round 2' as it were; If you get me. But I expected her to be more focused... Oh well. Forgive and forget?[/QUOTE]
she interrupted her first time for a text? wow classy
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35561877]take her back, during sex just pick up your phone and randomly call up a buddy.
"what you doin'?"
"not much, you?"
"oh just havin sex and stuff"[/QUOTE]
I was texting this one girl and she said at some point "Be back in a bit, gotta give Jim a blowjob"
[QUOTE=Bread Dog;35560057]Yeah I guess. It was her first time though, which confused me more. Fair enough it was 'Round 2' as it were; If you get me. But I expected her to be more focused... Oh well. Forgive and forget?[/QUOTE]
This annoys me [I]so much[/I] in relationships. This is the woman that you love. That you lost your virginity with. That you want to spend every waking minute with. Fucking [B]talk[/B] to her about it, dude!
You mean you've never given her one or she's never had one before you?
Except for the big percentage of girls who find the clitoris completely uncomfortable and would rather you never touched it.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;35564523]Except for the big percentage of girls who find the clitoris completely uncomfortable and would rather you never touched it.[/QUOTE]
hahah
uhm, what? where on earth did you hear that?
no uh, try more around 8% as deducted by a Rutgers study.
that i could believe
It must really suck for those people.
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