[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35646556]lol you don't call it love because we don't have to try? because we don't have to take pictures just to remember each other and enjoy each other? because we don't lavish gifts on each other?
you wouldn't call it love. seriously. i have never been so insulted. what a horrible thing to say. our love was born out of a friendship over many many months that suddenly sparked into something more. we didn't 'date'. we didn't approach one another just because we thought the other was sexually attractive. we didn't do it because we wanted a relationship. we did it because we fell in love with the other person for who they were and for the enjoyment that spending time together brought us
i'm sorry that i don't conform to your hollywood ideals of love but maybe i'll take a shit photo tomorrow so i can feel what true love is
fucking hell[/QUOTE]
ice burn of the century
my god
i think i love you
[QUOTE=Bobie;35647992]ice burn of the century
my god
i think i love you[/QUOTE]
Looks like he's already taken though.
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35642422]Honestly, I wouldn't call that love.[/QUOTE]
I honestly don't want to be a dick about this but really,
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35591894]I've also been told by my GF, who loves me to death, that if I was really fat she would never have dated me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35627297]This is probably the last time I visit this thread, for I just broke up with my GF. I had to end it, I can't take it when the person I love lies to me at every given chance...[/QUOTE]
Why would you think you're in a position to tell someone else who you know absolutely nothing about that what they're feeling isn't love? Why would anyone [I]ever[/I] think they could do that? I'm tired and really should sleep so I won't go into the whole subjectivity of feelings or what I think love means and blah blah blah but seriously, unless you're telling some 12 year old kid who's having his first crush that what he is feeling isn't love, just let other people feel and do what they want.
Anyway, in relation to other recent discussions about photos of couples, I decided to open my 'ex' folder just to look around since I knew we had a few photos together.
Feels... weird, man. It's so strange to see how happy we were with each other, and just how completely different it is now. We haven't spoken for months, shit probably over half a year now and I dunno, I'm fine with it. I haven't 'missed' her in ages, and whenever I do it's nothing more than a bitter-sweet reminiscence of simpler times. I recently came close to opening a chat with her (admittedly, I was intoxicated) for no other reason than to let her know that I hoped things were all going well for her and whatnot, but decided against it. It's weird. You spend so long 'getting over' a girl, that when you eventually [I]actually[/I] end up on the other side, you don't even realize how far you've come. It was just quite a surreal experience to look at those photos just now because that's when it actually hit me; how long ago that was and how long we've been apart, and how I feel about all of it.
So, in a way I guess I'm giving you some advice here ForgottenKane. I'm not going to tell you to suck it up. It hurts, I know, and it's going to hurt for weeks or even months to come. Don't be afraid to embrace that though, you're only human, just don't let it destroy or consume you. Some days, you'll be fine, you'll be out with your friends or working on a project or a hobby, and you'll be able to think clearly and positively, and other days, you'll be fucking miserable and will want nothing more than to be with her again, but each day you push yourself through is a day closer to you arriving here, and trust me, you'll learn so much about yourself and relationships that you'll be able to say quite happily that it was all worth it in the end. There [I]will[/I] be others for you, and you [I]will[/I] love and trust again.
Just keep moving forward dude, and you know these threads will always be here to listen to you vent as well. Keep your chin up nig.
[editline]21st April 2012[/editline]
And hey, what the hell.
Ex and I at our year 10 graduation, still one of my favourite photos of us. I think we kissed each other for the first time on that day too, this was right at the start of when we got together.
[thumb]http://i.imgur.com/AWnVO.jpg[/thumb]
Then two years later, at our year 12 formal. Funnily enough, about a month or so after this was when we finally ended it for good.
[thumb]http://i.imgur.com/zBMK6.jpg[/thumb]
[sp]yes she was like a foot taller than me stfu the sex was great[/sp]
LOL
At least she can't get mad at you for staring at her breasts all the time.
[QUOTE=Seith;35650221]LOL[/QUOTE]
classic seith
i fucking love this thread and the other one and you guys. cheers motherfuckers
Hey guys, I need some advice on sex. It is something that really troubles me for a while now.
I always had problems to actually sleep with ex-girlfriend, everytime we had some sexy time I simply chickened out in a way. Everything went fine until the point came where I was nearly naked and she. I lost all the touch and feeling that I built up and my dick just gives up. I was always pretty nervous about it. It is not that I do not like my dick, I am also pretty confident but only in this matter it makes me so crazy. Anyway I had my first time pretty late but it was awesome, it took me a lot of effort and it was great. I had great sex with my ex-girlfriend until we had to broke up because I moved away. So I thought I finally surpassed that fear.
But now I have a new girlfriend, I even told her about that story, she was fine with it and found it cute. Anyway I had this tremendous desire to sleep with her, we are now 3 weeks together. I really do love her and canno wait to sleep with her. Unfortunately we were at a point where we had a serious foreplay and whenever I want to push forward I simply force everything, I cannot enjoy the whole thing. Everything makes me nervous, a thousand thoughts flew through my mind. I do not know what to do, I just will wait now and try it again. But it would be awesome if I could just go along with it.
I went to a doctor because of this, well he was not that much help besides that he wanted to give me some medication.
You have to feel like you're giving a dog a bone, not enduring 40 years in a gulag for a peek at Emma Watson through binoculars from a bush.
[QUOTE=junker|154;35653242]Hey guys, I need some advice on sex. It is something that really troubles me for a while now.
I always had problems to actually sleep with ex-girlfriend, everytime we had some sexy time I simply chickened out in a way. Everything went fine until the point came where I was nearly naked and she. I lost all the touch and feeling that I built up and my dick just gives up. I was always pretty nervous about it. It is not that I do not like my dick, I am also pretty confident but only in this matter it makes me so crazy. Anyway I had my first time pretty late but it was awesome, it took me a lot of effort and it was great. I had great sex with my ex-girlfriend until we had to broke up because I moved away. So I thought I finally surpassed that fear.
But now I have a new girlfriend, I even told her about that story, she was fine with it and found it cute. Anyway I had this tremendous desire to sleep with her, we are now 3 weeks together. I really do love her and canno wait to sleep with her. Unfortunately we were at a point where we had a serious foreplay and whenever I want to push forward I simply force everything, I cannot enjoy the whole thing. Everything makes me nervous, a thousand thoughts flew through my mind. I do not know what to do, I just will wait now and try it again. But it would be awesome if I could just go along with it.
I went to a doctor because of this, well he was not that much help besides that he wanted to give me some medication.[/QUOTE]
im no expert, but if a doctor is recommending you medication theres not alot we can do buddy
Well, it worked without it. Besides I cannot afford it. It is just a mental stuff inside my head. Besides it was optinial, he said it would not hurt but it is not necessary.
Maybe you just weren't ready with her yet.
Wow, when I said invite the whole family, I was kidding. Jeez.
Three of her friends aaaaand her mother. No grandmother though. Yay?
Good thing Sunday was already planned to not include them.
[editline]21st April 2012[/editline]
and then suddenly, we're rocking out on like... laser tag or some shit. and her grandmother busts through a door and splazers me.
"Eat shit you little pussy, thats my granddaughter!"
[QUOTE=junker|154;35654218]Well, it worked without it. Besides I cannot afford it. It is just a mental stuff inside my head. Besides it was optinial, he said it would not hurt but it is not necessary.[/QUOTE]
You know the problem. Now endure through it; fail and fail again and stop caring about what she thinks. You need to realize she likes you enough to be naked with you, with your flaccid dick. Keep trying until it goes away. Some take more time, some less.
Also, you could go to your local pharmacist and ask him for something to calm you down in nervous situations (natural only), but don't rely on it. It's just to ease the symptoms down, so you could actually have sex. After a few times, you should be off it.
Movie plans got scrapped. Most of the group backed out, so she condensed it to a mother daughter day. -shrug- I'm okay with that. I'm just never gonna see the Lorax at this rate.
This is why we have alternatives, people. I'll only be pissed if she scraps tomorrow too.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35661177]Movie plans got scrapped. Most of the group backed out, so she condensed it to a mother daughter day. -shrug- I'm okay with that. I'm just never gonna see the Lorax at this rate.
This is why we have alternatives, people. I'll only be pissed if she scraps tomorrow too.[/QUOTE]
Having plans canceled on you is always a crappy feeling. Virtual bro hug.
Some girl added me on facebook she even like my, ugly gayboy, profile pic. She totally wants my dick.
Fuck her in the ass dude
[QUOTE=Hamburgers;35662271]Fuck her in the ass dude[/QUOTE]
Great idea, never tried anal.
i think anal holds more enjoyment for the person being bummed. not that i would know of course. just basing it off the fact that my girlfriend thinks it's brill but i'm not really bothered either way
when i've been drunk in the dark i've gone for the wrong fuckin hole. it's quite embarrassing
i got "oh. we can do that too if you want"
hi im on page 69 ok thank you
The first time I had sex with a girl she started crying cause I was too big.
The second time she started crying cause she was too big.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35663447]i got "oh. we can do that too if you want"[/QUOTE]
dude that was my line
my girlfriend was the one asking me. she thought "doggy style" meant anal. lmao
[QUOTE=Turnips5;35663520]dude that was my line
my girlfriend was the one asking me. she thought "doggy style" meant anal. lmao[/QUOTE]
hhaahah yes all dogs procreate through the arse. a+ logic
I've been dating this girl for nearly 2 weeks now and its going to be our 3rd date on Monday, we both like each other and will hopefully get into a relationship once we get to know each other better (if we keep having similarities etc)
We met each other as a one night stand but ended up taking things further and it turns out we have a lot in common and there is more to us, but anyway, there is one thing that I'm worried about through;
Her ex boyfriend, they've been broke up since February (he also cheated on her) and the guy is in a relationship since February with another girl, we met each others friends on a night out last night and she seemed pretty distant (she saw an old good friend that she fell out with a while back and they argued on the night) but I asked her if she really liked me and she said she did, I think I asked her if I was the only one and she said I was just she has shit she has to deal with, she also decided to tell me that her ex boyfriend (whos in relationship) told her that he still loves her, I asked if she liked or loved him and she said no. But who knows, they were dating for years and they've been broke up a few months, theres literally a hundred photos of them on Facebook as a couple just sitting around like a constant reminder, I just feel as if im either going to be a rebound, or hes going to ask her out again and im not going to be the right choice. I really like her for the time we've spent as well, I just hope it works out.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35663542]hhaahah yes all dogs procreate through the arse. a+ logic[/QUOTE]
tbf I've certainly said equally stupid shit when I wasn't thinking
She did through, leave a status on Facebook saying something like 'Ive fucked everything up' when I asked her about it she said 'She thought she fucked everything up with me'
[QUOTE]Been going out with my current girlfriend for about two and a half months now. Can honestly said I'm glad things went the way they did, but I've got a few questions.
Sometimes, when I actually stop and think about it all, this little voice will in my head, saying I love her. Now, I know I don't. I know two and a half months is too short a.time for that, so my only guess is it's at some stage of.infatuation.
Is this a bad thing exactly? As long as I know and recognize it for what it is, and don't do or say anything stupid? This is a girl I honestly like, and a relationship I'd honestly like to keep alive. That being said its not like I worship her, or some idiotic thing like that. I recognize her faults, and simply like her, and her company in my life.[/QUOTE]
Posted this about three months ago, and it's still something that confuses me.
How is one supposed to know when it's real and when it's just a lack of experience. How is one supposed to know if it's too soon or not? I mentioned this to her earlier, and apparently she's been having the same issue. Is five and a half months too soon? Am I just going insane? I'm just terribly confused and can't really figure out what my head is trying to tell me.
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