[QUOTE=Faren;34268418]Shaving pubes.
Anything I should know?[/QUOTE]
Once when I was 13, I shaved my pubes for the hell of it. It bled a little, there was a fuckton of hair, and if you don't shave every day you get stabbed in the dick by your miniture pubes. Just trim.
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;34268844]you people sure pick a fight over everything
now youre telling some dude in the other side of the world he shouldnt shave his pubes
[editline]18th January 2012[/editline]
i shave and i dont get any problems
just do it carefully and slowly, no hurry
also in the shower for christ's sake[/QUOTE]
Lotion helps loads too. Makes it baby smooth and much less irritated.
Its honestly personal preference. I'd recommend shaving once and seeing how you like it, then letting it grow out and trim it if shaving just isn't your thing. Shaving is also more work, but 20 minutes in the shower once every 3-4 days isn't too much.
The only way to shave your pubes without them feeling like the end of cactus is to use a professional shaver for maintaining a beard. Also, it's damn near impossible to cut yourself with them. Plus, you can just trim pubes by adding blockers to the end if you ever decide to go down that route.
I never shave my pubes, I'll trim them occasionally but my girlfriend likes my man bush.
[QUOTE=Shovelpass;34267355]How's that one saying go?
Something about how the exceptions don't make the rule? Very few things in this world are 100 percent certain, there's exceptions everywhere. It'd be like someone saying "You'll die if you get shot in the head," and you going "Nuh-uh, I've heard of someone surviving it before!"[/QUOTE]
Dumb, as there's no established rule here. That's not "true love". It's not even a concept, but rather a gimick humans made to make their lives more interesting, making them strtive for something "above average".
What really exists is communication and honesty. Most people forget to use those abilities because they live in a world that expects people to be same and strive for the same normalities as everybody else.
When people rise beyond the masks and their monotouneus being in a search for their OWN true meaning and goals, they'll see everything more clearly..
You sound like one of those Zen guys.
[editline]18th January 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Doozle;34272117]I never shave my pubes, I'll trim them occasionally but my girlfriend likes my man bush.[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend says exactly the same, said the only place I want you to shave is your face.
I am kinda Zen. You make it sound so absurd, why can't you believe in such reality? or so am I persuming at least..
I was once trimming my ball hair and I accidently snipped a little part of my ballsack skin off true story.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;34276071]I was once trimming my ball hair and I accidently snipped a little part of my ballsack skin off true story.[/QUOTE]
Fuck you.
[QUOTE=Seith;34275663]I am kinda Zen. You make it sound so absurd, why can't you believe in such reality? or so am I persuming at least..[/QUOTE]
I'm just a little bit sceptical is all. I don't mind people following that kind of stuff, hate it when people try and shove in on you as if it's some kind of higher moral and spiritual stance or some shit. My guitar tutor is quite into it and he's a very nice and chill guy though.
I am as well, trust me. Being social for me is absolute fun. I am sure you can tell what's beyond my lines.
Though, I seriously think this is as you've said a "skeptical man's" problem here. People always deny change and being told they are "wrong".
There's no wrong way, just different paths. My path is joy and true fulfillment . My own one, that is. I do not care for society's laws or rules, norms or people's thoughts on me. I am being my own self, whether people like it or not. Why is that? because I do, everyday, what I believe in.
I feel brilliant and so should you. Even though people doubt me, I still feel the same. Why's that? easy.
Mahatma Gandhi once said; "Be the change you want to see in the world". I am doing exactly that. I am willing to take the hits. I will keep being "pretentious" until you will be able to understand the world isn't a straight line.
Your spelling really is atrocious mate. I think you should use that English spell checker in Google chrome...
[editline]18th January 2012[/editline]
It's not personal, but reading your posts remind me of this psychology sheet I read with all the letters in words jumbled up and seeing if you could still read it easily.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34277571]Your spelling really is atrocious mate. I think you should use that English spell checker in Google chrome...
[editline]18th January 2012[/editline]
It's not personal, but reading your posts remind me of this psychology sheet I read with all the letters in words jumbled up and seeing if you could still read it easily.[/QUOTE]
Focus on what's important, not what it looks like. Spell checker isn't working you bugger.
Bad luck. Yeah I get the jist of it , that you are being yourself irrelevant to the opinions of others, and I respect that and agree with it mostly. I don't think you should take it so far to take unessential conflict and confrontation.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34277809]Bad luck. Yeah I get the jist of it , that you are being yourself irrelevant to the opinions of others, and I respect that and agree with it mostly. I don't think you should take it so far to take unessential conflict and confrontation.[/QUOTE]
I didn't, for the most part. I did it a few times here, on Facepunch, sure. That goes both ways, y'know. People receptiveness towards my way of life, while keep giving out their opinions, is a form of unessential conflict and confrontation.
To sum, this is irrelevant. :)
[quote]I do not care for society's laws or rules, norms or people's thoughts on me.[/quote]
that's a bit silly though, considering how much you're shaped by them
[editline]19th January 2012[/editline]
and how much they shape the world
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34277571]Your spelling really is atrocious mate. I think you should use that English spell checker in Google chrome...
[editline]18th January 2012[/editline]
It's not personal, but reading your posts remind me of this psychology sheet I read with all the letters in words jumbled up and seeing if you could still read it easily.[/QUOTE]
Excuse me, but what did he spell wrong?
[QUOTE=JohanGS;34278040]Excuse me, but what did he spell wrong?[/QUOTE]
42 Minutes Ago Last edited by Seith; 14 Minutes Ago at 07:14PM.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;34278040]Excuse me, but what did he spell wrong?[/QUOTE]
skeptical, monotonous and a few others
all tiny errors that don't detract from the substance of what he's saying, so I wouldn't say they were even worth mentioning
[QUOTE=Contag;34278014]that's a bit silly though, considering how much you're shaped by them
[editline]19th January 2012[/editline]
and how much they shape the world[/QUOTE]
Obviously. I didn't say I was born this way. But, I do have a choice in life and that is whether to listen to those laws, rules and norms or not.
[QUOTE=Seith;34278219]Obviously. I didn't say I was born this way. But, I do have a choice in life and that is whether to listen to those laws, rules and norms or not.[/QUOTE]
Well that's a respectable position then
Sooo i like this girl in my PE class, said hi to her, AWKWARDLY AS FUCK. It was horrible. I think she knew i liked her, she probably did. She was baiting me to say she was cute. Like.. She looked in her phone and went: "I'm so ugly :(" Where i coulda said "No you're not you're cute" But i didn't because i was a nervous fucking wreck and im gonna stab myself in the balls. How the fuck do i get over being nervous? What the fuck do i talk about?
Is this good? what i'm gonna sya to her next?
"I'm sorry about last time being so awkward, I just never talk to girls, especially cute girls like you"
Would that be good or cheesy?
Did i blow it with her?? IM SO PISSED GOD
STEP ONE
CALM DOWN
homo sapiens sapiens femalus can smell your fear
Just relax. You didn't do anything wrong, just seriously don't feel like talking to her is life and death. It's just a person.
[QUOTE=Contag;34284689]STEP ONE
CALM DOWN
homo sapiens sapiens femalus can smell your fear[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mobon1;34284706]Just relax. You didn't do anything wrong, just seriously don't feel like talking to her is life and death. It's just a person.[/QUOTE]
Any tips for this? I'm one of those types of guys that are nervous as fuck and basically lock up when doing anything that makes me nervous.
Also what i wanna say when i see her again
"I'm sorry about last time being so awkward, I just never talk to girls, especially cute girls like you"
^should i say that when i see her again?
[QUOTE=Region;34284490]Sooo i like this girl in my PE class, said hi to her, AWKWARDLY AS FUCK. It was horrible. I think she knew i liked her, she probably did. She was baiting me to say she was cute. Like.. She looked in her phone and went: "I'm so ugly :(" Where i coulda said "No you're not you're cute" But i didn't because i was a nervous fucking wreck and im gonna stab myself in the balls. How the fuck do i get over being nervous? What the fuck do i talk about?[/QUOTE]
Take a step back man. You hardly know this girl and all you may know about her is that she could have low self-esteem. Her reaction should not be the end of the world to you.
Calm down, don't saying anything like
[quote]"I'm sorry about last time being so awkward, I just never talk to girls, especially cute girls like you"[/quote]
but rather try to approach her again casually like you did before. You didn't blow anything, in fact I would say she probably still has a neutral opinion of you.
You could honestly talk about anything; Facepunch, Vidya games, school or anything else. As long as you talk to her with honest and genuine interest then you are doing fine.
[QUOTE=Evilan;34284886]Take a step back man. You hardly know this girl and all you may know about her is that she could have low self-esteem. Her reaction should not be the end of the world to you.
Calm down, don't saying anything like
but rather try to approach her again casually like you did before. You didn't blow anything, in fact I would say she probably still has a neutral opinion of you.
You could honestly talk about anything; Facepunch, Vidya games, school or anything else. As long as you talk to her with honest and genuine interest then you are doing fine.[/QUOTE]
I see.. How would i go about starting a convo other than it sounding really boring and random?
[QUOTE=Region;34285081]I see.. How would i go about starting a convo other than it sounding really boring and random?[/QUOTE]
"Hi" that tends to break the ice pretty well
no it doesn't
its a good way to start a conversation, but the ice won't really be broken until you start actually talking
if you have nothing to say to each other except "hi..." 'hi...' then things won't get anywhere
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;34285143]no it doesn't
its a good way to start a conversation, but the ice won't really be broken until you start actually talking
if you have nothing to say to each other except "hi..." 'hi...' then things won't get anywhere[/QUOTE]
This is exactly what i do.
I lock the eff up and be shy as hell.
HOW do i break the ice and ask her those questions about what she likes to do without sounding like it's a date.
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