Yeah, broke up with girlfriend (as mentioned tuesday/wednesday last week), and was just looking for more advice...
She said 'lack of feeling' was the reason why she broke up with me, and it's been really bugging me because I don't know what I did/what happened to cause her to feel that way. I simply want to know when she felt the way she did, and why. Should I ask her? Should I let it go? If any details are required, don't see why I couldn't be able to answer them if it's necessary.
[QUOTE=Jacko245;35756116]Yeah, broke up with girlfriend (as mentioned tuesday/wednesday last week), and was just looking for more advice...
She said 'lack of feeling' was the reason why she broke up with me, and it's been really bugging me because I don't know what I did/what happened to cause her to feel that way. I simply want to know when she felt the way she did, and why. Should I ask her? Should I let it go? If any details are required, don't see why I couldn't be able to answer them if it's necessary.[/QUOTE]
Let it go man, it happens. People lose interest or that feeling of belonging in a relationship for one reason or another and it isn't necessarily your fault nor could you have likely changed it. Move on, dwelling on it too long is a waste of time.
I would just like to add, if there are questions that could potentially bug you for a long time, by all means ask her about them to get closure. Moving on is a lot easier when you're not constantly asking "what if?".
I feel incredibly uneasy about all that's happening, it's a euphoric rush and such a fantastic change of pace but at the same time I feel as though this won't last long at all. *Sighs*
[QUOTE=dark_console2;35756717]I feel incredibly uneasy about all that's happening, it's a euphoric rush and such a fantastic change of pace but at the same time I feel as though this won't last long at all. *Sighs*[/QUOTE]
You're scared, I get that. You can't totally control how long it will last, but you can control whether or not you'll do everything you can to keep it going.
[editline]29th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;35756635]I would just like to add, if there are questions that could potentially bug you for a long time, by all means ask her about them to get closure. Moving on is a lot easier when you're not constantly asking "what if?".[/QUOTE]
Hopefully when you try to ask them she won't run and hide in the back of her car at the first sight of you. Although in my case that event totally answered all my questions and I was able to completely and utterly leave her in the past.
Okay, so whenever my girlfriend comes over, we have a great time and we get intimate with no problems etc, but whenever I go over her place, we still enjoy each others company but we just don't really enjoy it as much. I know why; her parents aren't exactly okay with their daughter getting too physical, whereas my mom just goes upstairs and stays in her room because she's totally liberal on the matter. I'm nervous about having fun with her (the girl, not my mom, gross) at her hous becaus her mom could walk in at any moment and shed get in tons of trouble, even though neither of her parents came downstairs, except for her dad who warned us ("I'm coming down, okay?").
Not sure why I'm posting this. Anybody have any solutions I guess?
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;35757048]I think having the danger of getting caught makes it exciting.
Sadly, my parents leave us all alone for hours then tell us how they know they can trust us. Ooohh how wrong they are.[/QUOTE]
Seriously, the girlfriend used to get like 10 times more worked up if she knows that we can get caught at any moment, it's awesome. If we have the house to ourselves for hours then it's like "uhh wanna watch TV."
I think the fact that her dad asked before he came down means they're pretty aware of things, I mean he was expecting the worst wasn't he?
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35756857]Okay, so whenever my girlfriend comes over, we have a great time and we get intimate with no problems etc, but whenever I go over her place, we still enjoy each others company but we just don't really enjoy it as much. I know why; her parents aren't exactly okay with their daughter getting too physical, whereas my mom just goes upstairs and stays in her room because she's totally liberal on the matter. I'm nervous about having fun with her (the girl, not my mom, gross) at her hous becaus her mom could walk in at any moment and shed get in tons of trouble, even though neither of her parents came downstairs, except for her dad who warned us ("I'm coming down, okay?").
Not sure why I'm posting this. Anybody have any solutions I guess?[/QUOTE]
I don't see what the problem is. Don't fuck around at her house, fuck around at yours?
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35756857]Okay, so whenever my girlfriend comes over, we have a great time and we get intimate with no problems etc, but whenever I go over her place, we still enjoy each others company but we just don't really enjoy it as much. I know why; her parents aren't exactly okay with their daughter getting too physical, whereas my mom just goes upstairs and stays in her room because she's totally liberal on the matter. I'm nervous about having fun with her (the girl, not my mom, gross) at her hous becaus her mom could walk in at any moment and shed get in tons of trouble, even though neither of her parents came downstairs, except for her dad who warned us ("I'm coming down, okay?").
Not sure why I'm posting this. Anybody have any solutions I guess?[/QUOTE]
Why are you getting intimate in public? AKA your/her lounge.
If I was a parent and my kid was touching up some doofus in the lounge whilst I was trying to watch the superbowl I'd get pissed off too.
Do it outside, on the grass, below a tree.
Trust me.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;35759980]Why are you getting intimate in public? AKA your/her lounge.
If I was a parent and my kid was touching up some doofus in the lounge whilst I was trying to watch the superbowl I'd get pissed off too.[/QUOTE]
i think you misunderstand.
they hang out upstairs, we hang out downstairs.
i don't honestly know what the parents think, i just know that i get nervous and every time she hears a footstep or something she's like "wait hold on" really kills the mood.
[QUOTE=MoarFunz;35760308]Do it outside, on the grass, below a tree.
Trust me.[/QUOTE]
Fucking mosquitoes. Wasn't enjoyable. Moved indoors. I am weak...
Is there any other way to get sex than with lying?
Aim low
Pay
Fat chicks
Girlfriend
Be genuinely a nice guy who people will have sex with
Dead people
Children
Confidence
Go on the pull
[QUOTE=Hamburgers;35762848]Aim low
Pay
Fat chicks
Girlfriend
Be genuinely a nice guy who people will have sex with
Dead people
Children
Confidence
Go on the pull[/QUOTE]
i have glimpsed infinity
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;35762823]Is there any other way to get sex than with lying?[/QUOTE]
please, merciful god
"Hey, girl, you should have sex with me, I'm pretty good."
"Uh, okay."
~After engaging intercourse~
"By the way, I was lying, I suck at this."
Only way to get sex.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35763107]"Hey, girl, you should have sex with me, I'm pretty good."
"Uh, okay."
~After engaging intercourse~
"By the way, I was lying, I suck at this."
Only way to get sex.[/QUOTE]
Do that enough and maybe you won't be lying anymore.
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;35762823]Is there any other way to get sex than with lying?[/QUOTE]
I think you mean manipulative and yes, you can get sex by being genuine.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35756857]Okay, so whenever my girlfriend comes over, we have a great time and we get intimate with no problems etc, but whenever I go over her place, we still enjoy each others company but we just don't really enjoy it as much. I know why; her parents aren't exactly okay with their daughter getting too physical, whereas my mom just goes upstairs and stays in her room because she's totally liberal on the matter. I'm nervous about having fun with her (the girl, not my mom, gross) at her hous becaus her mom could walk in at any moment and shed get in tons of trouble, even though neither of her parents came downstairs, except for her dad who warned us ("I'm coming down, okay?").
Not sure why I'm posting this. Anybody have any solutions I guess?[/QUOTE]
What do you mean by intimacy? Because if I'm reading this properly it doesn't sound like something you should do in both occasions. You don't just feel up and make out with your girlfriend when your parents are listening/watching.
[QUOTE=Badballer;35764232]What do you mean by intimacy? Because if I'm reading this properly it doesn't sound like something you should do in both occasions. You don't just feel up and make out with your girlfriend when your parents are listening/watching.[/QUOTE]
they aren't. they're out of earshot and out of sight, they're on a different level of the building entirely.
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;35762823]Is there any other way to get sex than with lying?[/QUOTE]
mutual attraction u creepy idiot
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35764470]they aren't. they're out of earshot and out of sight, they're on a different level of the building entirely.[/QUOTE]
Oh right, your post makes more sense to me now.
Eh, just don't force anything. My girlfriend is the same at her house but whatever who gives a shit. You have plenty of other times to be close.
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;35762823]Is there any other way to get sex than with lying?[/QUOTE]
Don't be such a pussy :v:
But in all seriousness you shouldn't have to lie about anything. Just date girls and sex will come in time. Also I hope you understand that the first time (and even first [I]few[/I] times) isn't that great. Sex, like riding a bike, takes a bit of practice to really get into. It's not going to change your life or anything.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;35769764]Don't be such a pussy :v:
But in all seriousness you shouldn't have to lie about anything. Just date girls and sex will come in time. Also I hope you understand that the first time (and even first [I]few[/I] times) isn't that great. Sex, like riding a bike, takes a bit of practice to really get into. It's not going to change your life or anything.[/QUOTE]
Yup, the first few times you'll try pedaling, and you'll just fall over. And then you have to apologize and hope she finds it cute that you can't keep your balance.
And then you finally get pedaling, but braking? turning? yeah right. You'll drive her into the wall a couple times before you get those concepts too.
Alright, so I'm losing my virginity next Wednesday. Any advice? Worried I fuck everything up, spagetti falling out of pockets, etc.
By the way, I'm in a committed relationship, and we both made the decision to do this.
it's gonna suck and it's gonna be awkward, and that's completely okay.
Don't accidentally go for anal. Golly, that would be so, terribly amusing.
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