• Do you believe in love and/or soulmates?
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Humans biologically arn't meant to have "soulmates". In general we get bored with our mate after 18 months - 4 years and want to move on. We aren't a 1 mate species. So soulmates are bullshit. Love as a deep attraction to one another yes that is a real thing.
[QUOTE=Egevened;22192302]afaik you're a girl and if i rationalize it, the reason you find it depressing that we analyze love is because your chemicals tell you to never do that and just find it xxxXXXBEAUTIFULXXXxxx[/QUOTE] Wow. Yeah. I'm a girl, so obviously I must have some convoluted delusions about this "love" thing. Also, just because I believe it in doesn't make me a mindless pussy. I feel bad for the bitter fucks of the world that reject love. Whether or not you believe it's a chemical thing, most people here agree that love does exist, and they're right. It doesn't really matter what you define it as--it's an amazing thing, regardless. But I probably don't know anything because I have a vagina.
i have found love, but not a mate. I've never looked at a chick(or a dude, for that matter) and thought "hot damn, i want to be with her for the rest of my life", the closest i've come was the occasional "I'd tap that". either i haven't found my mate yet, or the chemicals in my brain don't work. life goes on, yo.
Nope, just a bunch of chemicals. Reproduction is important, love is just an afterthought.
[QUOTE=Egevened;22192302]afaik you're a girl and if i rationalize it, the reason you find it depressing that we analyze love is because your chemicals tell you to never do that and just find it xxxXXXBEAUTIFULXXXxxx[/QUOTE] Actually, it's depressing because it forces one to accept the reality that there are people so dense, lonely, and deluded as to think that rationalizing something makes it less real.
I believe in sex
I used to believe in love. :frown:
Its amazing how much pain these chemicals can cause you...
Its amazing how many people on Facepunch have given up XD
I have two grandparents who have been together since they were 17 and 15. They've been through 5 kids, outlived one of them, and have never even so much as fought over a remote for the TV. They're soulmates if i've ever seen some.
[QUOTE=Shoupie;22227645]Wow. Yeah. I'm a girl, so obviously I must have some convoluted delusions about this "love" thing. Also, just because I believe it in doesn't make me a mindless pussy. I feel bad for the bitter fucks of the world that reject love. Whether or not you believe it's a chemical thing, most people here agree that love does exist, and they're right. It doesn't really matter what you define it as--it's an amazing thing, regardless. But I probably don't know anything because I have a vagina.[/QUOTE] I absolutely agree with you, and your previous post. Love is a great feeling and we shude not live life without it.
No such thing as love, just a desire to mate. Soulmates...just bullshit.
[QUOTE=Shoupie;22227645]Wow. Yeah. I'm a girl, so obviously I must have some convoluted delusions about this "love" thing. Also, just because I believe it in doesn't make me a mindless pussy. I feel bad for the bitter fucks of the world that reject love. Whether or not you believe it's a chemical thing, most people here agree that love does exist, and they're right. It doesn't really matter what you define it as--it's an amazing thing, regardless. But I probably don't know anything because I have a vagina.[/QUOTE]:golfclap: I get treated the same way because I'm gay. It's a man's world my dear.
i used to be a total nihilist like most of you angsty teenagers in this thread, and trust me I've taken psychology classes and understand the chemical reactions necessary to produce the effect of "love". Just because it's a simple occurrence in the brain doesn't make it any less of an incredibly special feeling and something everyone should experience. It really is the most beautiful thing on the planet and you guys should stop critiquing humanity as just a bundle of chemical reactions and start appreciating your life and be thankful that you have the ability to live and feel those surges of dopamine and elevated levels of serotonin.
[QUOTE=TailsPrower;22237283]:golfclap: I get treated the same way because I'm gay. It's a man's world my dear.[/QUOTE] It pisses me off that homosexuals get treated that way, too. Your opinion is just as legitimate as anyone else's.
I don't believe in either. Love is all bullshit, same with this soulmates crap. Scientifically speaking, pheromones are the only thing that bring people together, or physical attractions.
[QUOTE=Munchiselleh;22237861]i used to be a total nihilist like most of you angsty teenagers in this thread, and trust me I've taken psychology classes and understand the chemical reactions necessary to produce the effect of "love". Just because it's a simple occurrence in the brain doesn't make it any less of an incredibly special feeling and something everyone should experience. It really is the most beautiful thing on the planet and you guys should stop critiquing humanity as just a bundle of chemical reactions and start appreciating your life and be thankful that you have the ability to live and feel those surges of dopamine and elevated levels of serotonin.[/QUOTE] You haven't seen any of my posts, have you? Yes, love is nothing more than a genetic defensemechanism, but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be appreciated. Seriously, I don't see why people get depressed by the facts. I find the scientific view of reality more beautiful than any poem. The only thing I can say is this quote (According to me one of the most true quotes ever): "Science is the poetry of reality" ~Richard Dawkins
I believe in no-strings relationships (^^)
That's not really a relationship then
[QUOTE=DienDwemar;22183728]Love is just chemicals[/QUOTE] So using "chemicals" is ok?
[QUOTE=technologic;22238574]I believe in no-strings relationships (^^)[/QUOTE] Her pimp will show you the strings if that check bounces.
[QUOTE=DienDwemar;22183728]Love is just chemicals[/QUOTE] My Chemical Romance.
I do believe.... ....im on fire. AAAARRRRGGHHHH No really i don't believe in either love or soulmates.
[QUOTE=latin_geek;22240808]I do believe.... ....im on fire. AAAARRRRGGHHHH No really i don't believe in either love or soulmates.[/QUOTE] Then you're ignorant
[QUOTE=latin_geek;22240808]I do believe.... ....im on fire. AAAARRRRGGHHHH No really i don't believe in either love or soulmates.[/QUOTE] That's okay, it's not like anyone would ever love a furry, anyway.
[QUOTE=Mingebox;22241376]That's okay, it's not like anyone would ever love a furry, anyway.[/QUOTE] I laughed. And then I felt really bad.
[QUOTE=Shoupie;22241535]I laughed. And then I felt really bad.[/QUOTE] Don't, the guy's an idiot and doesn't deserve too much respect.
I believe in both I want to marry a catholic girl with cute feet I know she's out there.
I believe in soulmates, but not love.
[QUOTE=DienDwemar;22183728]Love is just chemicals, soulmates is a load of shit.[/QUOTE] This. Nobody can fucking deny this.
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