establish your dominance
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don't forget to piss everywhere so all the other males know it's your hunting ground and they best fuck off
[QUOTE=KorJax;17664417]It's totally legitmate. You might think it's bullshit until it happens to you. Try getting involved in a relationship with a good friend, then having it not work out a year later. You not only lose your relationship, you fucking lose your friendship too 99% of the time. And while getting dumped really sucks reguardless, something about losing a [B]good[/B] friend hurts 10x worse. It makes you totally re-evaluate who you are as a person, and not always in the good way.
That said, I guess I was pretty lucky in that my friend-zone situation, after a few months of hazy time got better and we're pretty good friends again. It helps though that the relationship ended "in good faith" instead of being a really bad ending. But damn, it was definably one of those situations where I wished we had never went out in the first place.[/QUOTE]
i dated my best friend in 9th grade and we broke up within a month and now we only talk about every 2 months LOL
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[QUOTE=Black-Bird;17664394]Did your dad teach you this stuff?
Don't you know girls these days are bitches who ditch people like you described above and go for ghetto idiots who are mean and have to prove their manliness by kicking animals and making fun of random people on the street?
This is what MTV is doing to them, This might work on the 5% of the women that are still normal.. but good luck with that![/QUOTE]
[GROVE STREET] Abdul Mujahid: people who say that are idiots
Men do not have women friends outside of work willingly unless they are already taken. Call me an idiot but if you've ever had a woman "friend" that was on the market don't bullshit yourself.
Yeah, god forbid you're a friend with a woman. Women are just for fucking and flaunting around like trophies
what the fuck
[QUOTE=abigserve;17668014]Men do not have women friends outside of work willingly unless they are already taken. Call me an idiot but if you've ever had a woman "friend" that was on the market don't bullshit yourself.[/QUOTE]
My best friend dumped his girlfriend who lives across the road from me about a month ago. We're now extremely good friends, and we're both single. Another of my really good friends was dumped his girlfriend about 8 months ago. Before and after that, she's been single. We've been extremely good friends since then. I have plenty of friends that are girls that are single. I'm still friends with my single ex.
So hey, maybe you're just a douchebag, I don't know. But you can.
[QUOTE=Black-Bird;17664069]How about treating women like the dogs they are....
Most of the ones I know these days are bitches and watch MTV like a pedo with new CP.
There was one who was half normal... then I found out she was a radical feminist.
I won't treat a women with respect until I meet one who will do the same to me.[/QUOTE]
And they don't respect you because you don't respect them. Simple as that.
And can someone link that thread called "The Nice Guy Syndrome: Or, How You're All Misogynists"? I can't find it, and I think it's extremely relevant.
[QUOTE=Doriol;17662541]try actually treating girls like people rather than a trophy[/QUOTE]
Whoever rated disagree is an extremely dense idiot.
[QUOTE=PiPBoyV3;17663551]
And how the hell am I implying that you should do change yourself just to get laid?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PiPBoyV3;17661214]
Once you are a confident, in-shape guy with good sense of humor and attitude[/QUOTE]
I'm just going to assume most of the people on Facepunch do not already fit this description.
[QUOTE=Aries;17668226]
And can someone link that thread called "The Nice Guy Syndrome: Or, How You're All Misogynists"? I can't find it, and I think it's extremely relevant.[/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=810729&highlight=Misogynists[/url]
Here you go! :3
Alot of girls like me are not like this. Most guys just go for looks straight away rather than personality and manners. Its your own fault that you find girls like that, your proberly just are attracted to the girls who are more of the snob.
[QUOTE=xZippy;17663852]True, but in some cases, things can go horribly wrong. "Oh my god, that Ken kid asked me out, that kid is so creepy." Then, the days after that, all the girls in that school label you as creepy.[/QUOTE]
You're still creepy regardless if you ask her out or you don't
[QUOTE=Thomo;17659795]You can.
[b]Forcefully.[/b][/QUOTE]
It's not rape if it's dead.
[QUOTE=hijacker;17669428]It's not rape if it's dead.[/QUOTE]
it's not funny if it wasn't funny in the first place
[QUOTE=CombineGuru;17659800]Wow thats rape thats not nice[/QUOTE]
Its not rape its.. uhh... [b]SURPRISE SEX![/b]
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17666322]1)Well, people are immature and I'm going to have to deal with that, or else I'll be a lonely virgin forever!
2) You're wrong. I can get by just fine on my current train of thought. It protects me from getting hurt. I don't see anything wrong with it.[/QUOTE]
1) People are immature, but people aren't immature about confessing love unless they are retarded or in middle school or below.
2) Yeah you keep telling yourself that for the rest of your lonely life.
[QUOTE=abigserve;17668014]Men do not have women friends outside of work willingly unless they are already taken. Call me an idiot but if you've ever had a woman "friend" that was on the market don't bullshit yourself.[/QUOTE]
I do, unless previous and current school mates don't count.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17668981][url]http://www.facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=810729&highlight=Misogynists[/url]
Here you go! :3[/QUOTE]
Thankee. :3 Rated you a heart. If you think girls are confusing, go to that thread. If girls think that you're a creep because you spoke to them, fix yourself up a bit. There's always a reason, they're not just sluts and hoes. Mind you, a lot of them are, but if you want something more than just sex, don't go for them obviously.
I want everyone to click that thread. Click that thread...
[i][b]and change your life.[/b][/i]
[QUOTE=Ubergoose;17659954]stop talking to lesbians, they don't want you[/QUOTE]
I asked out a girl for senior prom, but I didn't know she was a lesbian. :( Which reminds me I took to girl to formal as just friends :( Which reminds me whenever I dated girl It went great until they went away for vacation for a week while also happening to start reading Twilight and coming back to tell me they just were not interested anymore. This happened 3 times I shit you not. FUCK YOU EDWARD!
[QUOTE=Black-Bird;17664394]Did your dad teach you this stuff?
Don't you know girls these days are bitches who ditch people like you described above and go for ghetto idiots who are mean and have to prove their manliness by kicking animals and making fun of random people on the street?
This is what MTV is doing to them, This might work on the 5% of the women that are still normal.. but good luck with that![/QUOTE]
Typical guy who tries to hit on a slut, gets rejected and then generalizes all women. ^
Girls ignoring guys? Hell, man. It's because all women today are really lesbian. It's all the rage. That or you're doing it wrong.
Girls are as interested in sex and guys as guys are interested in girls, it's just that girls sometimes get labeled as whores for taking the first step...
[QUOTE=Xmeagol;17664831]That's insecurity right there, if you were confident enough, and you really had feelings for her and you tell her you love her AND you're being honest at that moment.. If she backs off it doesn't mean you're an insecure little bitch, it just means that she's the insecure little bitch and isn't worth your time.
Fuck off with this faggot talk
A reminder, gentlemen, that this type of thinking is what gives out such a high divorce rate.[/QUOTE]
Well shit man, I can see why she would act like she did; I'd been giving her mixed signals, but I could tell she liked me. Then one day I invite her to the beach and confidently explain how I'd been feeling about her and that I'd fallen in love with her. Then she freaked out, as in, we'd only been seeing each other for 3 weeks, sparingly, only been on two dates, and I don't think she was ready for that. I was being insecure and needy by asking her if she wanted to hang out a little to much, because I hardly got to see her during the day, and that's not my personality type at all. But I can see where you are coming from. She just turned 18 today, while I'm 19, so she still is a little immature about the whole thing, and she doesn't make an effort to talk to me much about it. I'm going to tell her why I haven't really been talking to her in the past two weeks today, and see if she wants to give dating another shot. I have the utmost confidence that she will say yes.
Girls tend to touch me from nowhere.
It's awesome.
The great problem about starting working out, working on your attitude, get new clothes and change yourself is probably that you don't have any incentive.
Girl ignores guy, therefore the guy thinks the girl isn't interested and just gives up. Both the girl and the guy get nothing. Sad cycle. The only way this breaks is if someone has the balls to say something.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;17675936]The great problem about starting working out, working on your attitude, get new clothes and change yourself is probably that you don't have any incentive.[/QUOTE]
You have to get to a point where you say "I'm sick of doing the same shit over and over, I want to change. I want to get into a relationship, and I want to start doing new things." That's what I said to myself. I got tired of always messing up possible relationships, of just wanting to play videogames all day, and not having a social life at all. I started working out consistently, and my self-esteem improved. I started playing guitar seriously again, and I started a band. I started talking to girls like they were people, and got a girlfriend. All of this in about two months; my life has completely changed.
I'm at the point now where I WANT to go and do things with other people, I'm BORED as hell if I'm just sitting at my house with nothing to do, I WANT to work out because it's relaxing afterwards, and I WANT to play guitar because it's incredibly fun to me. Looking back at my life before, it's really sad how I lived. And it wasn't that bad compared to some people I've seen on the Internet, but still. You have to be your own catalyst to change.
[QUOTE=Black-Bird;17664313]Shes only a slut if she isn't sucking your dick.
Keep that in mind.[/QUOTE]
About as true as it gets.
Anyway the reason why girls ignore you are for two reasons.
1; She dislikes you, get over it and move on.
2; she likes the 'chase' and by that she wants you to get to know her.
You should pick up signals that point you to number two.
[QUOTE=Bl4ckDmon;17676431]You should [B]only[/B] pick up signals that point you to number two.[/QUOTE]
And nothing else. :smug:
[QUOTE=PiPBoyV3;17674871]Well shit man, I can see why she would act like she did; I'd been giving her mixed signals, but I could tell she liked me. Then one day I invite her to the beach and confidently explain how I'd been feeling about her and that I'd fallen in love with her. Then she freaked out, as in, we'd only been seeing each other for 3 weeks, sparingly, only been on two dates, and I don't think she was ready for that. I was being insecure and needy by asking her if she wanted to hang out a little to much, because I hardly got to see her during the day, and that's not my personality type at all. But I can see where you are coming from. She just turned 18 today, while I'm 19, so she still is a little immature about the whole thing, and she doesn't make an effort to talk to me much about it. I'm going to tell her why I haven't really been talking to her in the past two weeks today, and see if she wants to give dating another shot. I have the utmost confidence that she will say yes.[/QUOTE]
I confessed my love to my ex before going out with her. Before that we had just had a friendship relationship and I unknowingly kinda showed my attraction towards her during the last month or something (she said she kinda expected it when I confessed).
It doesn't really have anything to do with it (as a general rule that is, people are different so that changes with each person, but don't claim confessing your love as a general no no).
I loved a girl since 7th grade(were in 10th now), now that were friends i'm afraid to tell her i love her because it may ruin the friendship.
[QUOTE=rathat48;17666507]fuck this, I'm gonna dress nice tomorrow and in the morning before class im just gonna hit on some girls, it will work.[/QUOTE]
fuck that, let me get a hair cut first
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