[QUOTE=PohPoh;17676726]I loved a girl since 7th grade(were in 10th now), now that were friends i'm afraid to tell her i love her because it may ruin the friendship.[/QUOTE]
I highly doubt its love. It's probably infactuation, or you just really like her. Why don't you just tell her, or continue on with your friendship? I've got alot of friendgirls, and i don't want to go out with them, because I don't want to lose them as friends.
I'm kinda "Friends with benefits" with them. See if that gets you anywhere. :banjo:
They don't ignore you, they don't think you're talking to them. Say their name first.
Baiting for sport?
Thing is that most girls ignore guys cause they think they're inmature. Or they just think they're plain creepy. Some girls (not sure if this is true) just ignore them cause they actually [i]like[/i]them.
Girls are weird as hell. If you got a good friend that happens to be a girl, you could ask her. That's what I usually do some times.
[QUOTE=articpenguin;17680019]Thing is that most girls ignore guys cause they think they're inmature. Or they just think they're plain creepy. Some girls (not sure if this is true) just ignore them cause they actually [i]like[/i]them.
Girls are weird as hell. If you got a good friend that happens to be a girl, you could ask her. That's what I usually do some times.[/QUOTE]
Well as it's been stated several times in this thread we're not different at all.
Apparently most girls I know think I would be hot, if it weren't for my long hair. I like my hair long, but I'm probably just going to end up cutting it at some point in the future.
I find that contrary to the whole Asshole over Nice Guy argument, manners will get you everywhere. Simply asking a girl how she is or what she's been up to makes them notice.
Look, I'm sorry if my earlier posts here were shitposts. In retrospect, they were rather dumb and I deserved my boxes and X'es.
In reality I don't know jack shit about girls, so I need some help here. Question time...
Is it true that I have to treat women like shit to get them to like me?
Is it true I have no chance of ever going on a date if I don't look like brad pitt or edward cullen or whoever the fuck the girls go crazy for these days?
Is it true that if I'm nice to a woman, she immediately allocates me to the "friend zone?"
Thank you ahead of time for the answers.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Look, I'm sorry if my earlier posts here were shitposts. In retrospect, they were rather dumb and I deserved my boxes and X'es.
In reality I don't know jack shit about girls, so I need some help here. Question time...
Is it true that I have to treat women like shit to get them to like me?
[b]No. If you do act like a Dbag, you'll get the crackwhores, not the actual girls you want to spend time with[/b]
Is it true I have no chance of ever going on a date if I don't look like brad pitt or edward cullen or whoever the fuck the girls go crazy for these days?
[b]Nope. As generic as this sounds, most girls like guys who look a bit different. [/b]
Is it true that if I'm nice to a woman, she immediately allocates me to the "friend zone?"
[b]No. Only the bitches that don't really care, and maybe they "friend zone" you because of them not knowing that you like them. Tell them.[/b]
Thank you ahead of time for the answers.[/QUOTE]
Sure is love advice in here.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Look, I'm sorry if my earlier posts here were shitposts. In retrospect, they were rather dumb and I deserved my boxes and X'es.
In reality I don't know jack shit about girls, so I need some help here. Question time...
Is it true that I have to treat women like shit to get them to like me?
Is it true I have no chance of ever going on a date if I don't look like brad pitt or edward cullen or whoever the fuck the girls go crazy for these days?
Is it true that if I'm nice to a woman, she immediately allocates me to the "friend zone?"
Thank you ahead of time for the answers.[/QUOTE]
I will answer your post when I get back from dinner, good man. The short answer is no.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Look, I'm sorry if my earlier posts here were shitposts. In retrospect, they were rather dumb and I deserved my boxes and X'es.
In reality I don't know jack shit about girls, so I need some help here. Question time...[/QUOTE]
Nobody here knows jack shit about girls (that includes me too obviously).
One girl is not all girls, ever girl is an individual and is different. You simply need to get to know that individual to know how to act. But of course there are some general tips in how to behave in order to be liked a bit more.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Is it true that I have to treat women like shit to get them to like me?[/QUOTE]
Nope. Do you like women that treats you like shit? Of course not.
Some women (and men) have domination fetishes so there is probably some of them. But the big majority wants to be treated with respect. The ones that craves for dirty boy cock are the ones that doesn't want a relationship. They just want to party, have fun, get wasted and have sex.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Is it true I have no chance of ever going on a date if I don't look like brad pitt or edward cullen or whoever the fuck the girls go crazy for these days?[/QUOTE]
Bwahahaha, no no no no no.
You don't have to give a flying fuck about Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp or Edward Cullen. Respect that they like them if they do and that's all. You can still joke with them liking them, just don't overdo it.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Is it true that if I'm nice to a woman, she immediately allocates me to the "friend zone?"[/QUOTE]
No. Not at all. Well of course as always varying from person to person. But you generally need to get to know the person, know her name, some of her hobbies and just hang out with her to be classified as a friend unless you go in the same class.
You don't classify every man and woman that have been nice to you as a friend even if you've only met him/her once do you? It's more like, someone you've met and think is nice, but it's not more than that.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Thank you ahead of time for the answers.[/QUOTE]
No problem I guess.
[QUOTE=PohPoh;17676726]I loved a girl since 7th grade(were in 10th now), now that were friends i'm afraid to tell her i love her because it may ruin the friendship.[/QUOTE]
you don't actually love her lol!!!
I hate the "friend zone".
Thing is, friendzone doesn't really exist. It's just, they like you, or don't like you. You can always change it to the first one.
Its actually opposite for me,I ignore girls,I'm extremely handsome and attract too many
Nothing girls do makes sense, they're so god damn confusing.
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17680166]Is it true that if I'm nice to a woman, she immediately allocates me to the "friend zone?"[/QUOTE]
No. Just make sure you're not overly friendly to the point of being awkward. At the same time, don't be too distanced. It's a fine line you have to walk.
I have just as many chick friends as guy friends, if not more. I just hang out and get to know them.
If I find one I [B]really[/B] like, I get to know her even more (while giving her space and not acting creepy), I ask her how she is, and respect them. Actually, most of those are a given. That's how I got the girl I'm with right now. She even told me she didn't like me at first, but now we're in love with eachother.
Playing the "nice guy" card is one of the best things to do, as long as you don't be a creep about it. And it doesn't hurt to be more social, confident, and friendly. And try to look/smell nice.
The friend zone does exist. In our minds. It isn't a physical thing, more of a mental thing that we think of.
why do you guys have such a problem with being friends with girls
[QUOTE=HQRSE;17663634]Pffft girls are so last season.
Guys are where it's at.[/QUOTE]
You give up too easily.
[QUOTE=Van-man;17681248]You give up too easily.[/QUOTE]
You sure it's not just you that is too stubborn? :clint:
[QUOTE=Fridgetor;17678864]I highly doubt its love. It's probably infactuation, or you just really like her. Why don't you just tell her, or continue on with your friendship? [b]I've got alot of friendgirls, and i don't want to go out with them, because I don't want to lose them as friends.[/b] [/QUOTE]
ahaha you pussy
Like it or not, girls below a certain age, I'm thinking around 25 (I don't know, I haven't dated any 20 somethings yet) do classify you as a date-worthy guy (someone whom they might be attracted to), a soon-to-be friend, or an acquaintance (and nothing more). You may not believe me, but it is true. Sure girls change their minds over time, but they always have that initial first-impression of you. That's why first-impressions are so important.
Anyway, my point is that the friend-zone does indeed exist. If you do not believe this, you are in denial. Now, not to be confused with just being good friends with a girl from the start, the friend-zone is where you end up if you have expressed your feelings for the girl in question, and she likes you, but not in that special way. Basically, she is not [i]attracted[/i] to you. This is when the guy feels rejected and hopefully moves on, but it is not easy, and it hurts knowing they will never like you as more than a friend. The girl would rather find some self-confident cocky, funny guy who will treat her in the dominating way that girls subconsciously like to be treated.
Now, this does not apply to all girls at all. But it IS universal for all the hot ones, 98% of them. This is because they are so used to being treated nicely and called pretty that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Instead, they find guys who tease them, flirt with them, and ignore them because they there is mystery, drama, and excitement (for them) in the chase. It is a challenge, basically. Girls like a challenge.
So my bros, what's the best thing to do? Find a smart, funny girl who is naturally beautiful (i.e. doesn't need makeup to look good) and attempt to date her. That's the best you can hope for, in a girl. The "hot" ones usually have bitchy personalities and can easily leave you for another guy if you stop being a challenge, or just can't please them in bed, because that's really all they care about, until they've reached a certain age, then and only then do they start dating "nice" guys.
[QUOTE=PiPBoyV3;17681600]Find a smart, funny girl who is naturally beautiful (i.e. doesn't need makeup to look good) and attempt to date her.[/QUOTE]
good luck with that
[QUOTE=Grayron;17681655]good luck with that[/QUOTE]
Hey, they are few and far between, but I found one, and I'm keeping her, lol. You just have to expose yourself to more women in order to find the right one.
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[QUOTE=kizza55;17680112]I find that contrary to the whole Asshole over Nice Guy argument, manners will get you everywhere. Simply asking a girl how she is or what she's been up to makes them notice.[/QUOTE]
Yes, girls like that, but in small amounts. They like it when you talk to them like good friends, and make fun of them, because that shows you're comfortable around them, so they in turn become comfortable with you. If you are a constant gentlemen, they'll think you're too nice. But yeah, I see what you're saying.
[QUOTE=Fridgetor;17678864]I highly doubt its love. It's probably infactuation, or you just really like her. Why don't you just tell her, or continue on with your friendship? I've got alot of friendgirls, and i don't want to go out with them, because I don't want to lose them as friends.
I'm kinda "Friends with benefits" with them. See if that gets you anywhere. :banjo:[/QUOTE]
The concept of "friends with benefits" sucks, trust me......
[QUOTE=PiPBoyV3;17681600]Like it or not, girls below a certain age, I'm thinking around 25 (I don't know, I haven't dated any 20 somethings yet) do classify you as a date-worthy guy (someone whom they might be attracted to), a soon-to-be friend, or an acquaintance (and nothing more). You may not believe me, but it is true. Sure girls change their minds over time, but they always have that initial first-impression of you. That's why first-impressions are so important.
Anyway, my point is that the friend-zone does indeed exist. If you do not believe this, you are in denial. Now, not to be confused with just being good friends with a girl from the start, the friend-zone is where you end up if you have expressed your feelings for the girl in question, and she likes you, but not in that special way. Basically, she is not [i]attracted[/i] to you. This is when the guy feels rejected and hopefully moves on, but it is not easy, and it hurts knowing they will never like you as more than a friend. The girl would rather find some self-confident cocky, funny guy who will treat her in the dominating way that girls subconsciously like to be treated.
Now, this does not apply to all girls at all. But it IS universal for all the hot ones, 98% of them. This is because they are so used to being treated nicely and called pretty that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Instead, they find guys who tease them, flirt with them, and ignore them because they there is mystery, drama, and excitement (for them) in the chase. It is a challenge, basically. Girls like a challenge.
So my bros, what's the best thing to do? Find a smart, funny girl who is naturally beautiful (i.e. doesn't need makeup to look good) and attempt to date her. That's the best you can hope for, in a girl. The "hot" ones usually have bitchy personalities and can easily leave you for another guy if you stop being a challenge, or just can't please them in bed, because that's really all they care about, until they've reached a certain age, then and only then do they start dating "nice" guys.[/QUOTE]
Well, that's rather fucking depressing.
:iiam:
[QUOTE=ORGLAR;17682011]Well, that's rather fucking depressing.[/QUOTE]
Don't think about it that way. Always be optimistic about meeting girls and dating, it helps a lot.
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