[QUOTE=Hammertime;19151534]I kinda approve of this guide[/QUOTE]
Thanks, I kinda appreciate it.
OP updated with a section on how to tell if a girl digs ya'.
[QUOTE=thereisno131;19149882]does the OP have a girlfriend?
if not, everything in this thread is null and void.[/QUOTE]
Newflash: It's possible to be with women without actually dating them. SHOCK! HORROR!
EDIT: While some of the material in the OP is sound, I'm really getting sick of these threads. Garry should just open up a subforum for dating/gaming advice for social retards. I know there's one or two Pick Up Artists on the forum. (NoDachi IIRC?)
[QUOTE=Scyze;19144077]
[b]But How Do I Talk to Girls?[/b][/QUOTE]
Dont you like, press E or something?
[QUOTE=Soviet Beef;19145216]how to get girls: a 2 step guide
you: "sup girl u wanna come back 2 my place and sample some wine??"
girl: "okay"
may or may not work on men[/QUOTE]
Replace wine with beer - The man version...
Not that I've tried this or anything :tinfoil:
Being funny is always a must.
i scrolled down looking for a tl;dr... and i didnt find one
so i read the whole thing :3:
Replace guide with:
pick-up line:
"EVERY TIME YOU TOUCH ME IT FEELS LIKE A WARM SLICE OF CHEESE SLIDING DOWN MY CHEST."
does this work 4 boyz??
Quality book.
Guide for girls:
don't be dumb
don't be a slut
tease
*eat phallus-shaped objects in front of target male
shower
shave
don't talk like a piece of dick
*not required but recommended
Holy shit, I was raised by a mother and a half-sister too.
For me it seems girls won't come to me and talk, but will be very willing to talk if you go to them and initiate a conversation. The other day in Art class there's this girl I've always really liked (she's beautiful :love:) who I thought had no interest in me at all, because she never talks to me or makes contact. Anyway I'm standing next to her getting some paint (it's art class, remember) and she bumps me with her hips and says "move over!" in a jokey sort of way and laughs. And that simple action had us talking for the rest of the lesson. I think sometimes I think that girls don't like me, when it's really that I give the impression to girls that I'm not interested and therefore they don't pursue me. Sometimes I think I just can't take a hint.
You really deserve RU for this.
I agree. Great job man. I second the RU nomination
Aw, RU? Thanks, guys! That'd be like, a dream come true. :love:
Also:
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;19157389]For me it seems girls won't come to me and talk, but will be very willing to talk if you go to them and initiate a conversation. The other day in Art class there's this girl I've always really liked (she's beautiful :love:) who I thought had no interest in me at all, because she never talks to me or makes contact. Anyway I'm standing next to her getting some paint (it's art class, remember) and she bumps me with her hips and says "move over!" in a jokey sort of way and laughs. And that simple action had us talking for the rest of the lesson. I think sometimes I think that girls don't like me, when it's really that I give the impression to girls that I'm not interested and therefore they don't pursue me. Sometimes I think I just can't take a hint.[/QUOTE]
This man speaks the absolute truth! More often than not, it's the guy's job to approach unless you've got a really independent/aggressive/different woman.
I also agree with the RU nomination. This was probably the most well-written guide I've read on FP. Being a freshman in high school, I'm in a wierd spot with girls: neither sex knows what they're doing at all.
I'm really curious in your personal experience with girls, Scyze.
This guide seems like a blueprint for social success; however I believe its main focus is incorrect... or at least I feel like I need to add something to it. After reading, I take it that you are encouraging individuals to change... to become what women want. I do believe that one needs to maintain proper hygiene to at least attract girls... let's be honest. However, you are trying to give individuals advice on how to socially interact with members of the opposite sex, something that i believe is completely in their hands. Your advice is good, and one part I agree on is establishing a talking relationship with someone first before going all out. However, if you change your social habits just to get closer with someone, you are going to be in for a rough ride. Find someone who likes you for who you are... because this guide will just be your Trojan horse into a world you are not ready for.
This statement I will use an an example:
[QUOTE]Would you want to go out with a pudgy, zit-marked girl with overly large glasses who likes to read gothic Twilight yaoi? No? Well, if you're the male equivelant of that, then just think about that.[/QUOTE]
One may be able to change from being this temporarily, but on the inside they will always be a pudgy, zit-marked person with overly large glasses who likes to read whatever. The best thing for their emotional well-being is to find someone the same way.
be yourself, even if you are creepy and dumb and can't talk to girls. If someone falls for that version of you, the pure version that you have worked your entire life thus far to be, you will be so much happier.
TL;DR : If you have to change the way you act at all to find love you are doing it wrong.
I've been doing most of the things in the OP for a couple years, and they work pretty well.
I know two girls I can have sex with within a phone call and they aren't hookers.
Before im gonna begin reading, I will rate you informative. I can tell this will be a good read. Will edit after.
EDIT:
Well that was quite a long read, but it was enough to have me print out and put on my wall to read. You sir have crafted an excellent guide. This guide has been basically alot of what my friends have told me over time, but I never trusted them (but they're right 95% of the time). I wish I could give you more than an I for Informative, but you have my utmost respect and gratitude. Thank you kind sir :buddy:
Most of the girls I know think I'm gay.
:saddowns:
Rated myself rainbow.
Holy crap she is here now. I got to go, and apply these things.
One important thing to remember is that if she says no, don't get down on yourself. Don't be a cocky ass, and don't get mad at the girl, just remember that overall you're (hopefully) a pretty good guy.
Personally I think these guides are kinda self-defeating. They may work for some people, but more often then not they either:
A.) Do nothing at all, or
B.) End up being more detrimental then beneficial.
My advice to people is just to be yourself, and let it grow naturally. Unless you're literally locked up in your room [b]all the time[/b] (hint, if you go to school or have a job, then you're not this), you'll have to interact with people [b]some[/b] time.
The more you interact with people, the more natural it comes to you, and as time progresses, you figure things out and pick up your own habits and techniques.
Every person is different. Don't try and force yourself to be someone you're not. Just let time determine who you're gonna be.
You don't need a girl so badly to actively work on yourself and change yourself into something that's not natural for you. You haven't had girl for <insert age here> years, you can live a few more without one.
Just my own opinion, of course.
Though your guide is very thorough and well written, Scyze. :cheers:
I use a technique called "peacocking" where I dress and act so outrageously the chicks dig it :smug:
Yeah, I have to hand it to these recent posters, what they're saying is just as true, also. This guide is really for becoming social and likeable to most people you'd meet--however, that's really not for everyone and just isn't everyone's scene. Some of my tips are great for courting women, but it really could just not be your style at all.
Something that I could say to really put a cap on it is, don't overextend yourself to the point where it becomes [b]unpleasant[/b] to be or act a certain way. Being social and being somewhat of a jack of all trades has come (somewhat) naturally to me and I enjoy it, but it's not for everybody. If your essential self isn't going to change, then really look for another person who matches that essential self as well. But still, showering one more time per week never hurts.
[QUOTE=Glitchman;19165044]I'm really curious in your personal experience with girls, Scyze. [/quote]
I posted a (relatively) summarized history of my experience around women towards the bottom of the first page, if you haven't read that already--you could look there to get some idea of it.
[QUOTE=Mr.2007;19165836]I know two girls I can have sex with within a phone call and they aren't hookers.[/QUOTE]
I know 3, and one I met today while swimming at the local hang out. If you want to charm a girl, find out what kind they are. If they're spontaneous; be spontaneous. If they're a stay-at-home and watch movies kind of girl, what do you think you should do.
I'm not telling anyone to change who they are. Want to hook up with a girl? Find out if they're hook-up-able. If they are, find out more about them, like in the previous paragraph.
[QUOTE=Floreum;19144185]It's sad that people actually have problems talking to a girl when they don't have a problem talking to their [b]MOM[/b].[/QUOTE]
As true as that is, I'm pretty sure talking to the person that all those years ago popped you out of her vagina and raised you would be easier to talk to than someone you just met.
How do I reject in a charming way?
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[QUOTE=Scyze;19163360]This man speaks the absolute truth! More often than not, it's the guy's job to approach unless you've got a really independent/aggressive/different woman.[/QUOTE]
I hate society for this.
Also, the clothing part is so true.
I've pretty much read this when I was 12 years old.
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