How i went from the happiest guy on earth to a waster with a criminal record. - General

Listen to this! [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FSkL9hMhpE[/media] Move on... You miss the feeling she gives you. Doesn't mean another girl can't give you that same feeling. I've been through the same thing with a girl over a year ago and within the last 2 months I've met a new amazing girl I've fallen in love with even more. Hang in there and it will pay off. Never loose hope!

Thanks guys, them first 2 posts were so helpful. you made me understand, i DO need to see this through their eyes, and when i do i can see a real problem. i told them i have anger problems when i was with amy, but i said they are under control. i still think they acted out of order by saying you WILL hurt our daughter though. they obviously dont understand how i feel about her. i think a lot of this will get sorted more when i actually go down and oppologise to their face. because thats why im going down. not for a fight or to plead for her back, im going to apologise, its then up to her where she takes it. Thanks for that Supahero, it really was motivatianal, especially the "it reminds me of the age old question of what happens when an unstoppable force does when it meets an immovable object. Oh my mistake. You can't meet yourself." bit. love it :) thanks again guys

Man, we played PS3 together.

We did. good times

Oh im sorry to hear about that it sounds awful! What is happening now? Have you heard from her? Have you seen her? Have you moved on? Are you feeling better yet? Keep us posted!

[QUOTE=LilMissTalkalot;28398026]Oh im sorry to hear about that it sounds awful! What is happening now? Have you heard from her? Have you seen her? Have you moved on? Are you feeling better yet? Keep us posted![/QUOTE] Seing as you are new here,please refrain from bumping very old threads or you could be banned

Have her move in with you. I'm sure she'll be 18 soon.

why did this get bumped

Some people just can't live without stereotyping, can they?

Fucking facepunch, why cant you just be nice instead of commenting on grammar and writing structure, I swear like 90% of the people who browse this forum are just fucking cunts. Regardless, get a new girl bro, or wait until she's old enough to leave home and try and get ahold of her, but thats quite a damn long time. It'll pass, it always does.

wow this is a great thread to read 20 minutes after breaking up with your girlfriend. wow, am i dumb or what.

I love helping people out, but I wish I could do something, I'm just a kid, my ideas are gonna suck. All I can say man is stay positive. Keep your chin up, don't let life bring you down, and I wish the best of luck between you and your girl.

[QUOTE=LilMissTalkalot;28398026]Oh im sorry to hear about that it sounds awful! What is happening now? Have you heard from her? Have you seen her? Have you moved on? Are you feeling better yet? Keep us posted![/QUOTE] thanks for caring, i havent heard anything from her yet but i intend to go down with a friend when he passes his test and sort things out face to face. or if she doesnt feel the same way after the this amount of time atleast il be able to say goodbye properly. im trying to move on but its just harder than it seems, i know im pathetic for not bieng able to after this amount of time but im not exaggerating when i said shes my life.. we will just have to see what the future holds i guess. i thought this thread was dead and burried, im surprised to see it here again. [editline]3rd March 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=MBGrimm;28399863]Fucking facepunch, why cant you just be nice instead of commenting on grammar and writing structure, I swear like 90% of the people who browse this forum are just fucking cunts. Regardless, get a new girl bro, or wait until she's old enough to leave home and try and get ahold of her, but thats quite a damn long time. It'll pass, it always does.[/QUOTE] I'll wait, ive told her il wait forever and im sticking by that, until she tells me to fuck off herself without the help of her parents or friends then i will wait.

I don't see how you guys are criticizing this guy... I feel for you man and the weed and alcohol will not help so just stop. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you but this put a tear in my eye just reading this... So just to let you know suicide won't help shit after reading this I kinda like you and you seem like a cool person. PM me if you want to talk or anything I'll help you through this if you need. I would love to hear your stories or anything you have to say.

Its been a strange week, amy messaged one of my friends asking how i was and that "she really needs to know" but when i tried to talk to her she ignored my messages again. apparently it will put everyone in danger and harm and upset them if she talks to me again. fucking bullshit

If i didn't know that her parents were rich, then i would of automatically assumed that they were scum. [editline]11th March 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28545866]Its been a strange week, amy messaged one of my friends asking how i was and that "she really needs to know" but when i tried to talk to her she ignored my messages again. apparently it will put everyone in danger and harm and upset them if she talks to me again. fucking bullshit[/QUOTE] Apologize to her parents, and if all else fails go to Uni and learn something. Just bide your time, stop it with the dangerous addictive stuff and wait for someone else after that. Go to clubs every now and then with your mates and try to pick up someone that doesn't look like dogs bollocks and isn't a whore.

What a mess. I'm really sorry for you, man.

Hey well sounds like she is still interested in you... Maybe talk to her through the friend that she contacted... Maybe she still cares about you but is mad at you for the whole cunty mom thing. Hope for the best! Good luck.

remember, if your feeling suicidal last person who you should listen to is yourself

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSvS2ev-4_E[/media]

[QUOTE=Jordan589;28552631]Hey well sounds like she is still interested in you... Maybe talk to her through the friend that she contacted... Maybe she still cares about you but is mad at you for the whole cunty mom thing. Hope for the best! Good luck.[/QUOTE] she said, and i quote "please dont tell him ive unblocked him" and stuff like that to my friend, my friend told me and i messaged amy and she blocked me again. im not sure what kind of message that gives off, its like shes scared to talk to me or something..

Once you fall in love, you're frigging cursed to get hurt sooner or later.. I think they went a little over hand with that shit calling the cops when you said you would stop it and not to worry.. Fight for Amy man, she's worth it and she loves you back.. If you love her, you will figure it out sooner or later. :) -but stop the weed and drinking too much. Good luck man, you'll probably figure it out :)

OP, I can't speak for everyone else, but I love you. In a brotherly way, of course. I believe you can turn your life around, but only if you're ready to move on.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28560454]she said, and i quote "please dont tell him ive unblocked him" and stuff like that to my friend, my friend told me and i messaged amy and she blocked me again. im not sure what kind of message that gives off, its like shes scared to talk to me or something..[/QUOTE] Jesus fuck just leave her alone.

zzzz y u kids so angsty. [editline]13th March 2011[/editline] Go to university, get ba then mphil then phd make money forget about silly teenage girls

Could anyone give a rundown of the previous 9 pages?

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28564525]Jesus fuck just leave her alone.[/QUOTE] i did fuck all, she messaged my friend saying all that, it was all well and good being blocked ide finally started to get happier and that happened. its not like ive been going out of my way to contact her.. [editline]12th March 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Dark_Light;28564958]Could anyone give a rundown of the previous 9 pages?[/QUOTE] The first few pages are full of grammar nazis and the rest are mostly heart full souls trying to help me. :)

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28568603]i did fuck all, she messaged my friend saying all that, it was all well and good being blocked ide finally started to get happier and that happened. [b]its not like ive been going out of my way to contact her..[/b] [/QUOTE] [QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28560454]she said, and i quote "please dont tell him ive unblocked him" and stuff like that to my friend, my friend told me and [b]i messaged amy[/b] and she blocked me again. im not sure what kind of message that gives off, its like shes scared to talk to me or something..[/QUOTE] Yeah okay. Messaging her is not doing "fuck all." You tried to contact her like an idiot. She told your friend not to tell you so [b]you wouldn't try to contact her[/b] and your (terrible) friend decided to tell you, causing you to do exactly what she didn't want you to do. It's not like you [b]have[/b] to message her if you're not blocked. Just leave her alone. Don't ever initiate conversation with her, ever. If any communication goes on between you two, she has to be the one to initiate it. Why this is such a hard concept to grasp, I have no idea.

Remember, you don't know what kind of physical situation she's in. If her parents are looking over her shoulder or in the same room, she has to block you quick so they don't notice. Just leave her be and let her find a time when you can talk without risk of being caught.

I sent a message saying why unblock me after this amount of time. its not like i went into a lot of detail or whatever it was just a simple question. i think my friend did the right thing and tell me its not nice keeping secrets or talking behind someones back especially something as big as this.