How i went from the happiest guy on earth to a waster with a criminal record. - General

God damn after reading the OP and the whole thread (yes i read it). I feel sorry for kinki-bunni. Everything will be OK, but to kill yourself for a girl would be a waste. Think of your parents and your relatives. The people that love you the most.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28580490]I sent a message saying why unblock me after this amount of time. its not like i went into a lot of detail or whatever it was just a simple question. i think my friend did the right thing and tell me its not nice keeping secrets or talking behind someones back especially something as big as this.[/QUOTE] Dude, just let go and leave her alone, if she WANTS to talk to you, she will.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28580490]I sent a message saying why unblock me after this amount of time. its not like i went into a lot of detail or whatever it was just a simple question. i think my friend did the right thing and tell me its not nice keeping secrets or talking behind someones back especially something as big as this.[/QUOTE] A message is a message. God damn, you're dense as shit. "This" is nothing big. Her unblocking you is nothing big. You're just blowing shit out of proportion.

Suicide is a selfish act, also move on. You're only 17, christ.

Why don't you just find another girl with less complications for fuck sake, your 17.

This must suck.

hell i think he's the one who has hell of problems OP please move to another country that way you can stop being obsessed. god you're like the little girl from sin city who grew obsessed with Bruce Willis's character.

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28584154]A message is a message. God damn, you're dense as shit. "This" is nothing big. Her unblocking you is nothing big. You're just blowing shit out of proportion.[/QUOTE] you try loving someone and having them taken out of your life for good. i know im looking to far into things but if you have ever loved someone as much as i loved amy then you would understand what its like.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28589893]you try loving someone and having them taken out of your life for good. i know im looking to far into things but if you have ever loved someone as much as i loved amy then you would understand what its like.[/QUOTE] [quote]Holy Saint Francis Young men's love then lies Not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes. Jesu Maria, what a deal of brine Hath wash'd thy sallow cheeks for Rosaline! How much salt water thrown away in waste, To season love, that of it doth not taste! [/quote] I had to change the quote a bit to make it relevant.

Hmm It's obviously a big deal to you... but it's not the end of the world, maybe you should just leave it till you can go see her face to face? Obviously that'll give it some time to blow over.

HE WAS A SK8ER BOY SHE SAID SEE YOU LATER BOY HE WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRR (if you can't tell you are the skater boy OP)

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28589893]you try loving someone and having them taken out of your life for good. i know im looking to far into things but if you have ever loved someone as much as i loved amy then you would understand what its like.[/QUOTE] I do love someone, and she is completely out of my life. However, I understand that she's happier without me in her life, therefore I am willing to stay out of it. You're just being outright selfish. All you really care about is your personal happiness, you don't give two shits about the fact that you bring her nothing but problems. That's not love, child.

It's love when they both go against outside forces to keep in contact with each other. She needed to know how OP was and he is still fighting for her. Kinki, you shouldn't have contacted her just yet. It was a noble idea but poor timing. When it's possible, she will contact you but keep in mind this is a delicate situation tap dancing on thin ice

How do you know she needed to know how the OP was? You derived that out of something as simple as unblocking him? Give me a fucking break. Just because you're full of "hurr durr im gunna fite to keep da relationship alive" bullshit does not mean you're in love. Like I said before, his motivations are derived out of pure selfishness. [i]He[/i] misses her. [i]He[/i] wants to be in contact with her. [i]He[/i] can't deal with the distress. If he really loved her, he'd realize that he's nothing but problems for her and leave her the fuck alone. What he's feeling isn't love, it's the byproduct of foolishly relying on someone else to hold up his life. Instead of trying to improve his life for his own sake, he did it for her. Instead of trying to find avenues of making himself happy, he relied entirely on her for a source of happiness. So of course he's going to go through some pretty intense withdrawals when she is removed from the equation. It's not love, it's dependence. He doesn't love her, he's just addicted to her like a drug. All he really cares about is getting his next fix. This is evident through his need to message her the fucking second he found out he was unblocked. He can claim his motivations were petty and innocent, anyone that buys that bullshit is a damn fool.

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28595075]How do you know she needed to know how the OP was? You derived that out of something as simple as unblocking him? [/QUOTE] [QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28545866]Amy messaged one of my friends asking how i was and that "she really needs to know" [/QUOTE] Next time read the whole thread

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28592579]I do love someone, and she is completely out of my life. However, I understand that she's happier without me in her life, therefore I am willing to stay out of it. You're just being outright selfish. All you really care about is your personal happiness, you don't give two shits about the fact that you bring her nothing but problems. That's not love, child.[/QUOTE] shes been saying i love you back through a friend. its not for personal happiness i made her equally as happy. please stop acting like you know every aspect of my life and our relationship because you dont. if you really feel that strongly about it just fucking leave the thread its not hard.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28596629]shes been saying i love you back through a friend. its not for personal happiness i made her equally as happy. please stop acting like you know every aspect of my life and our relationship because you dont. if you really feel that strongly about it just fucking leave the thread its not hard.[/QUOTE] anyway, hope everything goes better.

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28595075]How do you know she needed to know how the OP was? You derived that out of something as simple as unblocking him? Give me a fucking break. Just because you're full of "hurr durr im gunna fite to keep da relationship alive" bullshit does not mean you're in love. Like I said before, his motivations are derived out of pure selfishness. [i]He[/i] misses her. [i]He[/i] wants to be in contact with her. [i]He[/i] can't deal with the distress. If he really loved her, he'd realize that he's nothing but problems for her and leave her the fuck alone. What he's feeling isn't love, it's the byproduct of foolishly relying on someone else to hold up his life. Instead of trying to improve his life for his own sake, he did it for her. Instead of trying to find avenues of making himself happy, he relied entirely on her for a source of happiness. So of course he's going to go through some pretty intense withdrawals when she is removed from the equation. It's not love, it's dependence. He doesn't love her, he's just addicted to her like a drug. All he really cares about is getting his next fix. This is evident through his need to message her the fucking second he found out he was unblocked. He can claim his motivations were petty and innocent, anyone that buys that bullshit is a damn fool.[/QUOTE] stop acting like a fucking therapist for god sake. i have wrote all that in the OP but it still doesnt explain half the story. ive never "relied" on her that bad. it WAS love and i dont care what you say, i knew i was in love. i made her equally as happy and you could see it in her. she made me promise to her never to lose contact and to always fight for her. its not like im doing it out of my own selfish will because if she wanted me to leave her alone i would.

I HAVE A PLAN. ACT LIKE A DIFFERENT PERSON. C'mon it's perfect, wear different clothes, get a different hairstyle, shave your face, Wear a hat. If no one know it's you who can hurt you? Or she could, y'know? Or just wait, if you love something let it go, when it comes back that's when it's yours. Just talkin' out my ass, brainstorming up some plans to help a fellow person out.

What The Fuck Dude! You say your over this girl and you hold no grudge but you still want to go and try to beat her dad up, look man i hope u get the shit kicked out of you because you seem like a doosh

honestly i blame the OP's name Kinky Bunny what the hell maybe she is not a big fan of your furry antics

[QUOTE=Treybuchet;28618401]honestly i blame the OP's name Kinky Bunny what the hell maybe she is not a big fan of your furry antics[/QUOTE] I made this account a long time ago, check my join date. its an inside joke with my friends. im not into that stuff. seriously guys let this thread die.. il update it if anything happens and when i get back from where she lives.

rather touching Op, i couldn't resist but read the whole story, obviously its true love, She's your soul mate. But obviously her mum could just be protecting her, and you did have a good bond with her dad. It is true love mate. I don't have any suggestions but i think that you should try and get a hold of one of her friend who understand you, and see if you can work out a date and maybe try this again from scratch, and prove to her family that your a nice guy, and would do anything for this girl.. And Chatroulette is very known for its weird coincidences. Iv heard people get married from Social network sites and of course Chatroulete.. All the best of luck

Just read the OP, wishing you all the best dude. Hope things work out.

[QUOTE=bootv2;28586495]the girl is allright, it's just her parents who are putting her under pressure.[/QUOTE] Even better, if her parents don't like him find a new girl, their are too many complications around this and your starting to look like a stalker.

[QUOTE=ZeroMinus;28620057]Even better, if her parents don't like him find a new girl, their are too many complications around this and your starting to look like a stalker.[/QUOTE] starting to look like a stalker for loving someone. amazing

im not like staring into her window at night or constantly trying to phone or message her.. im not contacting her at all. im going to go down soon and sort it out. then and there. thats it..

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28620117]starting to look like a stalker for loving someone. amazing[/QUOTE] From what I've read and the number blocking/unblocking and the amount of time this thread is still going on for - yes, she could have met other people especially if you've stopped texting her etc. [QUOTE=bootv2;28620192]hey, some people just don't know what true love is, and what one will do to retrieve his/her lost love. if they think that way leave them be, it's their choice to be a asshole.[/QUOTE] I know what true love is, I have (and am) experienced love before but 'true' love at the age of 17 years old is not truly 'true'' love, especially when your life is only beginning. I've never heard of a teenage crush lasting forever, my parents met when they were 17/18 and got married in their twenties then had me and got divorced in their thirties, almost like everyone else my age (it seems), I know more people with divorced parents then married. Just don't do anything you'll regret when your older, at the minute you have criminal record, whats next? Jail time? When you get older you will realize that some of the stuff your doing now is regretful and you'll wish you didn't do it, take my word for that.

her mom sounds like a manipulative bitch

Maybe she is scared to talk to you because of what you said, awkwardness, or afraid to love you again... Or possibly her parents might be watching her Facebook and she doesn't want them to find out. Have your friend ask her if you can talk to her through a fake account or his account.