How i went from the happiest guy on earth to a waster with a criminal record. - General

Well facepunch a miracle has happened. we have started to talk again and i can say i genuinely feel the happiest ive felt all year :) im not saying its going to take off anywhere again but it has just been so fantastic to talk to her like old times. she said shes dealing with it the same way i am.. shitly. and i told her what will you do when i come down to sort it. and she said she will either be angry or fall into my arms and come with me.. I just want to say thanks to all the people that spurred me on when ide hit rock bottom and considering suicide. i think i can safely say you guys have saved my life. so thankyou facepunch.

Good for you man. Best of luck.

oh look its this shitty thread again OP needs to roll a blunt and get over it, theres alot more people worse off honestly

you bumped the thread off the 2nd page to complain that its back? congratulations.

Kinki Bunni do you want me to drown the girl's mother?

nah its okay, thanks for the offer though :v:

[QUOTE=Moose;28836636]oh look its this shitty thread again OP needs to roll a blunt and get over it, theres alot more people worse off honestly[/QUOTE] This man knows.

Honestly I somewhat know what OP is going through,i had a girlfriend for a while, but then we were forced to break up because her parents didn't want her going out with a black guy, they had only met me once and they judged me. Hell, i'm not even your sterotypical black guy, i'm as "white" as could be, that pissed me off so much. [editline]27th March 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28819181]Well facepunch a miracle has happened. we have started to talk again and i can say i genuinely feel the happiest ive felt all year :) im not saying its going to take off anywhere again but it has just been so fantastic to talk to her like old times. she said shes dealing with it the same way i am.. shitly. and i told her what will you do when i come down to sort it. and she said she will either be angry or fall into my arms and come with me.. I just want to say thanks to all the people that spurred me on when ide hit rock bottom and considering suicide. i think i can safely say you guys have saved my life. so thankyou facepunch.[/QUOTE] aww, that's good OP.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28819181] i think i can safely say you guys have saved my life. so thankyou facepunch.[/QUOTE] That's not true. You saved yourself by staying strong. You can be proud of yourself.

IMHO, you should just let her go, OP. I mean, you're 17, and there's really no need to be obsessed with one girl, knowing that you'll meet LOTS AND LOTS of women later on in your life... Just give it one more try, if all fails, just tell her it'll be best for both if you just part ways. Get a less complicated gf. Just remember, there are more fish in the sea, OP.

Nah, he sounds happy, leave him be

[QUOTE=Goodthief;28856019]Nah, he sounds happy, leave him be[/QUOTE] Yeah because he shouldn't waste the [I]only chance[/I] he'll ever have in his life to have a relationship with a woman, right? Right? Please... :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=Pretiacruento;28856080]Yeah because he shouldn't waste the [I]only chance[/I] he'll ever have in his life to have a relationship with a woman, right? Right? Please... :rolleyes:[/QUOTE] No because he loves her and she has $$$

Hey, i remember this.

[QUOTE=Pretiacruento;28855997]IMHO, you should just let her go, OP. I mean, you're 17, and there's really no need to be obsessed with one girl, knowing that you'll meet LOTS AND LOTS of women later on in your life... Just give it one more try, if all fails, just tell her it'll be best for both if you just part ways. Get a less complicated gf. Just remember, there are more fish in the sea, OP.[/QUOTE] because its not that easy when you love someone.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28860265]because its not that easy when you love someone.[/QUOTE] Nobody said it was... all I'm suggesting you is an option that's always available, take it or leave it.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;28560454]she said, and i quote "please dont tell him ive unblocked him" and stuff like that to my friend, my friend told me and i messaged amy and she blocked me again. im not sure what kind of message that gives off, its like shes scared to talk to me or something..[/QUOTE] Probably influenced by her parents... That happens with me at least, same with some friends :\ I really hope for you this turns out good man! Wether you get her back or move on. Either way, the best with it :)

2bad4you

[QUOTE=pedram123;28891895]2bad4you[/QUOTE] No need to be a dick. Not cool man.

run away to france with her

thanks guys :) when i spoke to her she told me how she was coping, im not going to go into details but shes not coping good either.. so im gonna let her have a few weeks to get her head straight. ive promised her that il always be here and that il sort it face to face when possible. hopefully things are looking up :) thanks again guys

Listen to some love songs or something.

Romeo and Juliet....

wow u r realllllllllllllllllly lucky

Keep this in mind has always helped me, Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Keep on it dude. S

you clearly haven't loved if that helped. i know what your trying to say but i miss the memories and what we had too much. if i didn't fall in love in the first place i wouldn't feel this shitty.

Oh nice, now the kid is telling people they haven't loved when he has no idea what love is. I almost have an aneurysm every time I see this thread on the front page. It's just a giant mess of kids egging the OP on with shit like "hurr you really loved her that sucks" and the OP failing to understand that there is a huge difference between loving someone and being dependent on someone. Now I'm going to get hit with a bunch of "you just don't understand"s and "I don't care what you think"s. Every time you say you love this girl, you deface love. You have no idea what it is.

[QUOTE=bootv2;28931055]if you really love someone you're pretty much dependent on someone.[/QUOTE] That couldn't be farther from the truth. If you're dependent on someone, you're just that, dependent. That's not love at all. Hell, when you love someone, "you" drops from the equation altogether. It no longer becomes about what you want, what you miss, what hurts you, or anything like that. It becomes about what makes them happy, what's in the best interest for them. The mere fact that the kid says he can't just get over it because he misses the memories too much should be proof enough that he is still the head of the show. He might care about what the girl wants, but he cares about himself more. Textbook infatuation. Textbook dependency.

If it was what's best for them, yes. Clearly, being around some obsessive kid that refuses to move on (a recipe for domestic abuse) isn't in the best interest for her. If the kid really loved her, he'd realize this and be content with not being with her. Sure, he wouldn't be joyous and whatnot about it, but he wouldn't be moping around feeling shitty like an idiot. He doesn't care that he brings her nothing but problems. It's all about what he wants.

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28931276]If it was what's best for them, yes. Clearly, being around some obsessive kid that refuses to move on (a recipe for domestic abuse) isn't in the best interest for her. If the kid really loved her, he'd realize this and be content with not being with her. Sure, he wouldn't be joyous and whatnot about it, but he wouldn't be moping around feeling shitty like an idiot. He doesn't care that he brings her nothing but problems. It's all about what he wants.[/QUOTE] its not about what i fucking want, if she told me to leave it i would, but she has told me to keep fighting, and for fuck sake if this thread annoys you so much.. just leave it? add it to your black list and stop complaining? its not hard. i wouldnt be doing this if i knew she didnt want things back to how they were.