How i went from the happiest guy on earth to a waster with a criminal record.
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[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27540199]i could create an account i guess yeah, i might try that if her parents wont find out. the thing is if the police find out im gonna be in even more trouble. its stupid that her parents spoke for her and said im a bad person to the police and not her. shouldnt the police have asked her opinion?[/QUOTE]
I doubt they care about your relationship with the girl, it's the threats of violence, even if you didn't make them. I've been there before too, an off joke or warning of what someone else might be wanted to do quickly becomes an offense in the police's eyes.
Personally I think either you're deluded and the girl doesn't like you anymore or if she does then you should try again, just refrain from saying anything to her parents or bitching about them to your friends because it seems you're not the best with words like me, so it's probably a better idea if you've not nothing good to say don't say nothing, as the phrase goes.
You could always try omegle.
They took away her computer bro.
[QUOTE=noobcake;27545188]They took away her computer bro.[/QUOTE]
I'm talking about meeting new people.
[QUOTE=R3allybored;27545225]I'm talking about meeting new people.[/QUOTE]
He wanted to meet people he could talk to, not a bunch of cocks.
That was like a one in a million event.
First page is full of assholes.
Yeah, that was really emotional. And don't kill yourself.
Probably the most retarded thing someone can do is base their happiness off of someone else.
If you need someone else in order to be happy, you're setting yourself up for disaster. Relationships shouldn't be your solution to the problem of having a shitty life, they should supplement your already happy life. Make improvements by yourself for yourself, it's ridiculous when the only reason why you do shit is to make someone else happy.
Sob stories like this just don't get to me because they are greatly exaggerated. This is a simple case of a kid becoming heavily infatuated/dependent on someone else and then dropping into a stage of depression because the person he was using as a crutch was taken out from underneath him. The whole situation is nobody's fault but his own. Why feel bad for people when they set themselves up for disaster? If someone came in here saying "I armed a grenade and held on to it instead of throwing it, so my arm was blown off. Now life sucks :(," people wouldn't sympathize with him, they'd call him a gigantic dumbass.
So why feel bad for this kid when he brought it all on himself? He pulled the pin on a grenade he was holding the second he decided to use a relationship as his means of improving his life instead of making improvements on his own. It blew up on him and he got fucked, there's nothing to be sorry for him about. The kid needs to learn that you have to get your own act together before you can expect a relationship to be successful, this bullshit where you need some random ass person to hold on to is just that, bullshit.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;27546140]Probably the most retarded thing someone can do is base their happiness off of someone else.
If you need someone else in order to be happy, you're setting yourself up for disaster. Relationships shouldn't be your solution to the problem of having a shitty life, they should supplement your already happy life. Make improvements by yourself for yourself, it's ridiculous when the only reason why you do shit is to make someone else happy.
Sob stories like this just don't get to me because they are greatly exaggerated. This is a simple case of a kid becoming heavily infatuated/dependent on someone else and then dropping into a stage of depression because the person he was using as a crutch was taken out from underneath him. The whole situation is nobody's fault but his own. Why feel bad for people when they set themselves up for disaster? If someone came in here saying "I armed a grenade and held on to it instead of throwing it, so my arm was blown off. Now life sucks :(," people wouldn't sympathize with him, they'd call him a gigantic dumbass.
So why feel bad for this kid when he brought it all on himself? He pulled the pin on a grenade he was holding the second he decided to use a relationship as his means of improving his life instead of making improvements on his own. It blew up on him and he got fucked, there's nothing to be sorry for him about. The kid needs to learn that you have to get your own act together before you can expect a relationship to be successful, this bullshit where you need some random ass person to hold on to is just that, bullshit.[/QUOTE]
That's all good and well telling him that now, but that's not exactly helpful.
I'm not trying to troll or anything but are you a chav?
Neither is "hurr durr it'll all get better."
The bottom line is that the only person that can help the kid is himself. He has to grow a pair of balls and get through it by himself, that's life.
Just drag it out man, she will turn 18 and then will be able to do whatever the fuck she wants without needing to tell her parents. Buy her a ticket to see you or something.
Don't give up OP. As the saying goes, "where there's a will there's a way". Go to her house, her friends won't beat the shit out of you because they don't want to get arrested. Try and apologise to her parents, just try and talk to them. Don't resort to violence because you have to show them that you're better than that. I'm sure her dad will be willing to hear you out if you got on really well before.
Also remeber, suicide is [B]never[/B] the answer. You just have to work through those feelings.
[QUOTE=sphinxa279;27539935]See that thing next to the "#" and "]" keys, just on the right of them, press it once in a while, my eyes are now bleeding, thanks.[/QUOTE]
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And guys, this is another example of why you have to be careful on the internet.
This story has ruined my day.
:(
Similer story for me, I'm falling for a girl who's a little far away from me but still in the city, her mother hates me.
[QUOTE=Darkebrz;27539945]And your best was terrible, learn how to write.[/QUOTE]
Hes trying to tell a story not win the national spelling bee
i dont know how to feel about this
I read the whole thing and i feel for you. However i can't say i know HOW you feel because i've never been that close to anyone...But i do hope shit gets back in line with you. Good luck :)
Sounds like a bad situation, you either go and fight for this girl or try to move on, you should probably go see a psychiatrist too. Good luck with whatever you choose.
[QUOTE=KillerTele;27542466]Us guys gotta stick together and help eachother, I like to help people and such anyway, it makes me feel valuable :v:[/QUOTE]
From what I've read from you so far (Up to that post) you're an incredibly nice guy. Kudos.
She moved on and so should you. If your paths cross again in the future and things start to click again, then you have found the person for you. You are only 17, meaning there is still plenty of time for you to find love.
Hey, OP, here at Facepunch we all (at least most of us) loves you. You're unique, a great person, and all you need is to fix some problems with your life. Look around, you could get friends and girlfriends, help and care, anywhere. Seek someone up, PM one of the nice persons in the thread, I'm sure it will all be alright.
If no one else wants to, I can talk, we could be friends? :buddy:
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You guys joined the same day, holy shit.
Say you're sorry to the parents first of all, probably in a hand written letter since calling wouldn't be very good.
Learn to control your emotions, and bitches will be bitches. If you really loved this girl you would deal with her mom and prove to her friends/mom that you're worth it.
In my eyes you seem like a pathetic loser, you're smoking and drinking your self away, get the fuck up and win her back.
[QUOTE=Inacio;27545950]Even if it's not true, who the fuck cares?[/QUOTE]
I think 3,000+ people who read this thread care.
It's quite obvious this story is tugging at people's heart strings, and playing with peoples emotions always ends up badly.
[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;27548379]I think 3,000+ people who read this thread care.
It's quite obvious this story is tugging at people's heart strings, and playing with peoples emotions always ends up badly.[/QUOTE]
He's just pissed cause he got toxx claused
I actually read all of that, anyway that really does suck and no i cant relate. Well i hope it turns out better for you, maybe her parents will realize how Stupid they are acting.
That sucks OP, I hope it turns out okay for you.
Also, to all those who would only comment on bad grammar: You are bad people, please go away.
This seems like Romeo and Juliet with a modern twist.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;27546326]Neither is "hurr durr it'll all get better."[/QUOTE]
It's called being supportive.
dick.
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