How i went from the happiest guy on earth to a waster with a criminal record.
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[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;27542546]Call me heartless, but this story sounds really fucking fake.
Seriously, this is a story plot that you see in sitcoms and terrible shows, "One person says bad things about another, people believe it without questioning it, this person is now ruined and not redeemable."
thought so.
Claiming that someone is going to hurt your daughter, especially when that person is their boyfriend, should always be taken seriously and questioned. I highly doubt any idiot would go about and believe it that easily.[/QUOTE]
And just how many teenage relationships did you have?
infact, how many teenage relationships did you have where the girls parents in question were over-protective cunts?
[QUOTE=i-am-teh-sex;27548536]He's just pissed cause he got toxx claused[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry, but what the fuck does toxx claused mean?
[editline]20th January 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Kamaitachi;27549523]And just how many teenage relationships did you have?
infact, how many teenage relationships did you have where the girls parents in question were over-protective cunts?[/QUOTE]
You're completely missing the point to what I am/was saying.
sorry guys i was at work. to those comments i just read
no, im not a chav.
no, seriously this thread isnt fake, if there is any way i could prove it to you, i would.
im going to try and kick weed and drinking now, im all out and im going to try and keep it that way.
im going to try and keep myself busy, paintballing and a party on the weekend.
and i know im a pathetic loser but i wasnt relying on the relationship to change my life for the best, i did it to make amy proud, and to think im not a nobody.
[editline]20th January 2011[/editline]
and also, i know i keep saying it but thankyou to those people giving me support, i knew there was some kind souls on facepunch, the majority of you guys are amazing people. thankyou.
So i'll start off by saying i'm sorry for you, but starting to smoke weed and drinking really isn't the way to go about this, it really never is the way to go about anything.
I Can't say I've ever been in anything even remotely like this, but I'll still offer my two cents on the topic. I think what happened is a tragedy and life is full of those and you're young so even more will come around, so i guess what I'm saying is don't commit suicide over this. Instead try to look back on the good times and what you got out of the those times you and Amy were together and if this is the end to your relationship, then so be it.
I personally think it's important for you to pull yourself together right now if you think things are tough now, wait until you get even older.
What I'm about to write is very cliché, but here it goes: If you were still with Amy would she really want you when you drink heavily and smoke weed. You said you felt good when she was proud of you so maybe you should try to find that feeling again and try to continue your work not because you have to pay off the phone company, but because of that feeling.
I don't have the answers but I truly feel sorry for you and if you ever feel the need to talk to someone then PM me.
The hardest part of holding on, is letting it go.
[QUOTE=conan96;27543310]Yeah, 09'er with 203 posts, I trust you to know it's made up.[/QUOTE]
I don't care about when I registered (been a long-time lurker on these forums before I decided to create an account). I am telling you, for me it seems like a story taken out from a movie or a fairytale. Reminds me of the guy who scammed FP for 80 bucks, telling that he didn't have enough money etc. Yes, I was indeed shocked when I first read that people could actually make up such a lie - but then I remembered...we are on internet....
I don't write a lot on these forums as I have studies to take care of :/.
Too hard to believe something like this after the horrible scam by the fat american kid.
I hope that the OP reads this, but I'm going to be harsh.
You're fucking dumb. You worthless piece of shit, you should [b]not[/b] get depressed like this over one person. There are over 6 billion people on this planet, I'm quite sure you'll find somebody just like her. Yeah, you might think about her all of the time right now but it's probably not been too long since this happened. Get back to life, sort things out with the police. Get a respectable job. Make friends with respectable people.
When you get knocked down, you should just get the fuck back up and try harder.
[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;27549524]I'm sorry, but what the fuck does toxx claused mean?[/QUOTE]
A Toxx Clause is "If X happens then I will do Y"
If X does happen and you don't follow through with Y you get perma'd
I thought the whole downhill part was when you were playing GT5.
Well you probably should have controlled yourself a bit more. Try to see her again if it's that important to you, but don't break the law and stop drinking.
If I were you I'd try to get in contact with her when she's out of her parent's house.
Continue on, become successful. She was basically someone who , by coincidence, got matched up with you and set you on the right path, maybe she's not the one to become attached to, but someone to help you get out of what you are doing right now.
The rich are huge dicks that have nothing better to do than feed off of other people's abnormalities, have the tippy-top of things, brag and spread rumors. I've had it happen to me and it's fucking annoying.
The first few replies to this thread were extremely careless and cold, focusing on completely meaningless bullshit as opposed to actually focusing in the story. The writing was perfectly good enough to read and understand. I realize that FP has a lot of grammar nazis which I partially belong to, but seriously learn to have importance priorities when it comes to stories like this.
The OP is coming from a guy who is not too far from genuinely arranging a suicide, stop treating it like it is a random creepypasta attempt.
Please do not ever forget that while FP has a lot of troll/jokefull/fake drama threads, it also has a lot of completely honest and genuine threads from actually desperate people who are just looking for some form of comfort and company.
[QUOTE=No Party Hats;27540062]Eh, Me and my girl never have these kind of troubles. Maybe you should look for someone a bit more... convenient?[/QUOTE]
thats because your 13 and basically a toddler in relationships
After I was once depressed, I promised myself that I would never feel that way again. No matter how terrible my life is or how bad I messed something up, I will look up into the sky and think "That was an interesting experience". I get angry, I get sad, but I also get happy and that makes it all go away. You may believe that you're alone, but I'm with you, not physically but in spirit. Most of us are willing to help you out. The only reply I want you to give me is that you won't be sad and you won't hurt yourself either mentally or physically. Think about the trouble it would cause others to have the same burden as you. You may feel alone but you will never find someone new unless you leave the past behind. I hope you will find someone. Your journey is far from it's end and if you are a man then buck up and embrace the pain. Get angry. Not at others but at yourself, for stalling your life at an insignificant speck of time. Only then can you truly live life to it's fullest.
Plan a murder suicide?
My opinion on the subject is worthless, but the best advice I would give you is to try to channel your grief into something useful until you figure out what to do. You'd fucking kick ass at paintball if you could translate the emotion you wrote the OP with into some mad headshotting skills.
Try running, boxing, whatever.
The last time I was depressed I woke up every morning at 5am and ran a mile before work. Gives you time to think.
[QUOTE=Xion12;27553211]Get angry. Not at others but at yourself, for stalling your life at an insignificant speck of time. Only then can you truly live life to it's fullest.[/QUOTE]
Not bad advice, but only bother getting angry if you think you can control it and channel it usefully, otherwise, forget about it. You'll just end up more angry and hung up than when you started. I'd advise against this, because, as you said, you've got anger issues.
OP, I know what losing someone is like. It takes time. Remember it's all about you though. The thing about losing someone is that THEY are gone. That's what you need to come to grips with. It was explained to me once like coping with the death of someone close because, for all intents and purposes, it's the same. If you wish to cope with this, don't allow yourself to hang in limbo for too long, otherwise instead of wishing you could simply move on, you may end up equating life and this girl and decide that both are lost (from which follows Capn'Underpants advice above).
If I were you I'd browse reddit's relationships section (or post) or google whatever it is you're feeling. Many, if not all, people feel these ways at times. Chances are you can find someone who has something to say that is meaningful to you. You've got this.
I shed a manly tear reading this, good luck solving this OP.
Well I guess I'd have to admit not reading this, and just posting here to say that "i" is supposed to be capital like so "I".
Thanks for your understanding!
[QUOTE=sphinxa279;27539935]See that thing next to the "#" and "]" keys, just on the right of them, press it once in a while, my eyes are now bleeding, thanks.[/QUOTE]
You have some weak ass eyes then.
On topic: Don't do anything that you'll regret OP? I dunno what else to tell you.
That, and good luck.
Appeal to the court. Make a case of it, including quotations and witnesses. The only way you will win her back with the approval of all others is by PROVING yourself to be in good spirit. Explain the circumstancial evidence, then present your case. This should allow for the assault charges to be dropped. Furthermore I would suggest somehow finding a communication line with her. Romeo and juliet style.
If you want my advice, you should wait until the situation has cooled down a little. Until then, you should clean yourself up; kick your drug/alcohol addictions and try to continue from where you left off. And if you ever find yourself down and out and about to give up, just remember that she is still cheering you on in spirit. She still wants you to succeed, and maybe once you do, you can apologize and explain your situation with her dad; he may understand that you are sincere in your love and passion with your beloved Amy, and maybe, just maybe you could get a second chance.
I bid you the best of luck with her, and I hope you two can ride off into the sunset together one day. Just keep a stridin', and you will succeed, I can assure you.
I ment to give you a heart, not useful.
But I feel horrible for you =\
You should have just sucked her moms dick and gave her a bunch of presents.
You know you could always go back there and try to reason-
Just kidding they will beat the shit out of you.
Try to contact her, once you get in contact. Tell her to move in with you.
[QUOTE=connor38;27540143]Also. Quit Weed and too much drinking...that won't help AT all[/QUOTE]
They help me. I can't sleep without the aid of weed, and I can't feel any sort of attachment without alcohol.
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