How i went from the happiest guy on earth to a waster with a criminal record. - General

she also told me she did read this thread.

1 year and you are both legally adults, and her parents cant stop you from seeing her. Be strong. [editline]23rd January 2011[/editline] You have my prayers.

Went through the same on relationship basis, except for me it worked out and we're still together and engaged regardless of what her parents say or think of it, she's basically given them the finger anyways, if you love her, you'll risk her friends beating your ass if you set foot in her town just so you can see her, and you can easily send letters, just keep fighting, if she still loves you she'll wait till she can give her parents the finger for you, if she moves on, then so do you have to. Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the one worth suffering for.

well, unless you did something to provoke all that her mom is a cunt and should probably get cancer that is all, find a new girl, if she was raised by an insane loony you probably don't want her anyway, you'll just have to trust me on that one. Your life will be a [i]living hell[/i]

"I kissed a girl at 17 and we cant see eachother, now my life is over" It is better to have loved and lost then never loved at all.

I hope you feel better soon <3

[QUOTE=redwinterwol;27606939] It is better to have loved and lost then never loved at all.[/QUOTE] Try it.

I've never loved, and I feel i've really missed out

My advice even though it may be late would be to meet with her in secret. That and you shouldn't necessarily give up on falling in love because even though in the end if something bad does happen and you feel like shit, then at least you got to live out the experience. Shoot, my last girlfriend and I weren't together that long but there were days that sounded as if they come from some movie. Met while we were both fucked up on drugs, hung out while we were both sober the next day and had fun, week later she came to my house at night while my parents were at work and got together that night sealing it with a kiss. She said she fell for me faster than any other of her past boyfriends, I was the smartest, and told me I was the funniest as well. There was a point in our relationship where we were having a bad time and had to breakup. Was sad as hell but both of us still loved each other, couple days later while I'm at her house with my friends, everyone left pretty early and it was just us and her two friends but while I was leaving we were play fighting on her porch for a while and when I was walking away her friends heard her whisper, "I love you..." Then a day or two later when my parents were away we hung out as friends but while we were watching TV she sorta rested her shoulder on me while I began to hold her tight and the next thing you know we were making out telling each other we still loved each other all that bs. Then one of her ex boyfriends who was super close to her got into the picture and she was caught in the middle of me and her ex. She chose me over him saying I had more sex appeal and liked me more. It felt damn good because her ex was crushed and I hated him for even trying to get back with her. Ended badly a couple weeks later when she broke up with me through FUCKING TEXT along with a lot of fighting and hate towards eachother following that. Right before this school year started I tried being friends with her again. Everything was going smooth and all but a slip up caused us to fight again. More hate and shit and then all of a sudden she makes this list and texts it to almost all her friends about a list of 10 things she regretted and I was no. 10. At this point I couldn't care less but that really bit me in the side and I was infuriated but I couldn't do anything. Well I learned a couple days ago that almost no one really likes her anymore, she got kicked out of school, then out of continuation school, her old closest friends now hate her, her ex I was talking about before doesn't want to have anything to do with her, and more and more. Hell, in the end she deserved it. I couldn't add it into the story but she was really bitchy and stupid after we broke up.

Story reminds me of this book I read called '[url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daz_4_Zoe]Daz 4 Zoe[/url]'. Anyways OP, stay strong and be patient. That girl loves you and don't let anything get in the way of your relationship.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27592682]all my wages i spent on getting to her house and treating her. i get around £700 a month. its not like im bad off, i tried to be succesfull to look half decent to her parents.[/QUOTE] You sure missed out on second factor. Forgot to put a leash on you anger. Reconciliation is the only key. You can't bet if it will work or how much time will it take but atleast you should give it a try. The problem with heart is that it betrays its' owner against all the defenses put up. You slacken the reins and it will wander away making you feel all sort of wretchedness. I'd get heart of steel instead of balls of steel.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27594845]She just wrote to me on msn.. wow guys.. if you would like i will send it you but its just confused me. she claims i have changed and i scare her. i haven't changed. im still the Jack she fell in love with. im just trying to grow my shell back and not be vulnerable. i know it sounds silly but even if she was telling me all that, it was so nice hearing from her. its been so long.[/QUOTE] no ur not, you insulted her mum, nearly got her dad beat up and smarted doing drugs, sounds like you've changed to me

[QUOTE=OrionChronicles;27607670]no ur not, you insulted her mum, nearly got her dad beat up and smarted doing drugs, sounds like you've changed to me[/QUOTE] thats only to deal with the pain, i can stop in a heartbeat if i wanted to, or if she asked me to.

wow cant believe i read that... i like how her parents brought her to your house even though her mom didnt like the fact that your from the "rough part" of the UK. and what kind of rich family travels 100 miles to go shopping in the "rough part" of the UK? and how did you not meet her parents until you went to her house? your story has more holes than a kitchen sponge

[QUOTE=wlitsots;27616883]wow cant believe i read that... i like how her parents brought her to your house even though her mom didnt like the fact that your from the "rough part" of the UK. and what kind of rich family travels 100 miles to go shopping in the "rough part" of the UK? and how did you not meet her parents until you went to her house? your story has more holes than a kitchen sponge[/QUOTE] amy asked if she could see me, so they decided to check out Birminghams shopping centre as i said it was the best thing round here. and i did meet them when they came to mine but they spoke to my parents more than me. im sorry if i said otherwise.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27616454]thats only to deal with the pain, i can stop in a heartbeat if i wanted to, or if she asked me to.[/QUOTE] stop right now. Thats what the druggies always say, BS

kinki-bunni i feel for you you seem a good guy in a bad situation I hope it all turns out for the best ! :D

Wow, and they somehow hold a successful family with that attitude. I don't get it how people with such a judgemental attitude(urr durr ur from a bad district u must wan 2 stab her) can have such a good wellbeing. Wait no I just double checked that paragraph, it should be your friends arrested for being idiots, not you.

like you said kinki-bunni you have started at college you have a job the world could be a lot worse ! I'm sure you have friends from school, friends from college friends from work so go be with your friends your only 17 go live and enjoy your life !!!

[QUOTE=Edgar14;27650987]like you said kinki-bunni you have started at college you have a job the world could be a lot worse ! I'm sure you have friends from school, friends from college friends from work so go be with your friends your only 17 go live and enjoy your life !!![/QUOTE] i msure you have went go to school to so u must now how to type like good [editline]25th January 2011[/editline] Wow. Her mom is a douchebag.

Haha pretty funny story , could use a little more slapstick though like when you kiss the girl you two headbutt eachother on accident

Well OP, look at it this way. There's a shitton of opportunities out there for you, considering how you found her through CHAT ROULETTE. If you had clicked a second later, she and her friend would just continue to be paired up with guys wanking it. Shame her mom is such a huge dick, her dad sounds really nice but is misled by his wife.

If this is real, here's what I think. If you want her back and you're still a good person, then you need to man up and do it. There's nothing standing in your way but yourself. Show them a mature person and be firm. TALK to them. Take all the shit they give you and don't let it upset you, because you're both on the same side. You care about "amy" and so do her parents. They RAISED HER, you should respect them for that. If they're overprotective it's because they care so much about her. If you get your ass kicked on the way there, then you'll take your ass kicking for amy. If her dad decides he wants to punch you in the jaw, then you'll take that punch for amy. If her mom never accepts you, then you'll stay calm, be noble, and stand your ground for amy. Yelling and throwing a punch doesn't make you strong, it makes you weak. Strength is standing up for what you believe and being the better man.

This is a script. I want to make a movie out of this. However, having been in the same situation before, I can tell you that it will all blow over. Romeo and Juliet is not as far-fetched after all. I am typing next to this beautiful sleeping girl right now; her roots go to Thailand. It was not easy to be with her. It only took one mistake; like yours. A beauty she is indeed, met her in a photography course. Became friends, then to intimate lovers. But be wary of the jealous eyes. One day, we shared a great smoke together. A spiteful man saw this and had the brilliant idea of telling what he saw to my doll's family. Instantly, my image to her family was transformed from a nice man to a low-life, drug-addicted, rapist gangster that will hurt her. I talked to her dad without as much as a single doubt in my mind. She was my lover, and there was nothing he could do. He admired me for that and gave me his respect. He slapped my back and told me to take care of his daughter. Be a man, and handle things like they are. Talk. It is not so terrible.

grow up you loser !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! only joking man she sounds like a cunt. Can i have her number ?

[QUOTE=Tetsmega;27560656]If anyone's wondering what the OP looks like, he's the blonde kid in this video. He doesn't look like a criminal and actually looks like a decent person. [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjq82QhzQuk[/media][/QUOTE] I just realized I have the same shoes as the cameraguy (Who was it I didn't pick up :v:) Anyway at least you're trying OP I wish you the very best. :love: [editline]2nd February 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27616454]thats only to deal with the pain, i can stop in a heartbeat if i wanted to, or if she asked me to.[/QUOTE] That's an excuse and you know it, stop now for you and her's sakes. [editline]2nd February 2011[/editline] Talking to her dad face to face might be the best for now.

OP everything will be alright. <3

Please keep us posted if anything at all happens. This thread made me think twice before taking Love for Granted. It'll be all alright mate, Give it time, Something will happen. Hang in there :)

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27616454]i can stop in a heartbeat if i wanted to[/QUOTE] Then [B][U][I][highlight]FUCKING DO IT THEN.[/highlight][/I][/U][/B] You're only digging yourself into a deeper hole if you keep taking drugs - Amy will start to mistrust you (seems as though she already is), and it sure as hell won't score you any points with her parents.

[QUOTE=kinki-bunni;27607027]Try it.[/QUOTE] i've never loved and so i can't understand it i see it, i hear it, i know of it but i've never had that experience it's terrible it'd be nice to even have had it to have felt those feelings [editline]1st February 2011[/editline] also amy: if you read this thread again take him back see if he's the same