As heartless as it sounds im pretty good at handling it, I just think of all the good times instead of the bad.
Its also alot easier to get over if they die of natural causes because its part of life.
Isn't it kinda ironic that part of life is death?
[QUOTE=Eonart;26503299]Sometimes the deaths of people I don't know affect me.
My brothers' friend jumped off his apartment recently and just watching my brother and his other friends mourn made me cry.
This may seem heartless but I just forget about it the next day and move on.[/QUOTE]
I remember my friends cousins friend he was few years older than me died in a bus accident of some sort, alcohol fueled shit. no one else was hurt I mean
it affected me somehow too, never knew to guy so well except he was one of the badasses at our boyscout camp smoking cigarettes behind the building, they werent boyscouts just some sort of supervisors.
but anyway, as heartless as it may sounds, the deaths of people I can't relate to doesn't affect me at all, it's kinda like people just dying you know? :ohdear:
My dad died to a heart attack and brother to leukemia.
Honestly, I don't know how I got through it
Thanks to denial, I'm immortal.
Few things can make me cry, but I get a lump in my throat just thinking about anyone I love dying. Especially my grandparents, I love them so much :crying:
Did you even contact the police about losing your dog?
[QUOTE=Ray551;26503634]You know what sucks? My grandma died 2 days before my birthday :smith:[/QUOTE]
My grandma died [b]on[/b] my sister's birthday. I don't give a shit though, since she's a little bitch. (My sister)
Death is hard, having a family member murdered is even worse. It opens up a new part of you that everybody has but you should never have to feel. Indescribable. I still live with it and it was 4 and a half years ago now.
I get high with a little help from my friends.
[QUOTE=Ray551;26503634]You know what sucks? My grandma died 2 days before my birthday :smith:[/QUOTE]
My friend's mum died on his birthday. She was killed whilst driving down from London to see him.
weed
Troll thread.
Everything that happens to this guy is too convenient for such threads to be made.
Then do any of you guys weep during funerals?
I'm terrified by death and I'm being followed by a crew of specialists if that can make you feel better.
My Black lab Chappy was a Dog I grew up with, he was a puppy when I was a baby, and we just grew up like that, even born in the same month. When we were 15, he passed on. It was damn hard letting a friend go like that, but eventually I got over it. Just give it time, my friend.
I can't imagine if my mother would die. That would be some hard shit to cope with...
[QUOTE=Explosions;26507454]Troll thread.
Everything that happens to this guy is too convenient for such threads to be made.[/QUOTE]
Good point. Animals are immortal; there is no way that this happened.
Thanks to denial, I'm immortal.
Spit image of my cat, except mine has a white belly and socks :smith:
And they grieve/mourn, then accept the fact that they are gone, and move on with their lives :saddowns:
[QUOTE=Ali Legend;26507675]Good point. Animals are immortal; there is no way that this happened.[/QUOTE]
His cat died apparently a day after some woman "stole" his dog and he spent around half a day doing nothing, wasting his time instead of actually calling the police (like any sensible person should do.)
So either this is a troll thread, or the OP is both passive-aggressive, indecisive, [I]and[/I] unlucky.
My girlfriend died a few days before her birthday, which was two months ago.
I unfortunately can't give you any way of how to cope with death as I am myself having an extremely hard time coping with it.
Just try to stay strong I guess, stop living for the already deceased and start living for the ones who are still alive.
[QUOTE=johan_sm;26503675]Isn't it kinda ironic that part of life is death?[/QUOTE]
Would you call the end of life a part of life? I'd say dying is a part of life but death itself is not.
i usually cry for an hour or so then just be generally sad for a couple days
You gotta try not to dwell on it too much. But don't forget them.
It's all very hard. It depends on each person... My brother died December 21, 2003 few days before christmas an like a month after his birthday. He was only 19, it really sucks! It's my fun but it opened my eyes and realized hey it was his time to go. One day it will be my day to go, and all you can do is just keep them in memory and help them
Encourage you to do Better and help motivate you to do stuff.
My brothers death I think help motivated me to join the military and look at me
Now in the military as a combat engineer and am writing while in class for learning to make hasty checkpoints. :)
Oh also like 2 days after he died his car got stolen and we had already got a buyer and he was coming to get it Like 2 days later. We know it was one of his friends who stole it because they knew he had died. Which sucks even more!
You're getting depressed over pets dying.
Seriously, they're pets, get over it.
[QUOTE=Dr. Freeman;26513638]You're getting depressed over pets dying.
Seriously, they're pets, get over it.[/QUOTE]
They're still something you can get really attached to. Stop acting like they're just objects.
If it's a family member, I either cry very little, or not at all. Now if it's a PET of mine, then I'll cry for a couple of hours.
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