• Hi, my name is Jessica and I'm a Mormon.
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Wow that's fucked up, I want to see the full episode now.
[QUOTE=humpalump;26396640]There is no wrong for "Punishing" a child. A spanking can send a clear message to a child. There IS a problem, however, when through "Punishment" you make your child fearful of their parents. This woman is a fine example of bad parenting. This child isn't learning "Lying is bad". He is learning that his mother CAN and WILL hurt him should he step out of line. Its like if a police officer beat you and strangled you for speeding.[/QUOTE] the studies have shown that the message kids get from spanking is "you can use physical force to get your way". kids imitate their parents
If my mom would do that I would just ask for more hot sauce and pretend I like it, and take cold showers everyday to get used to it. All while having a smug ass look on my face
I had to do a whole Free Response Question on physical punishment for an AP Psychology test. This video almost made me cry. Almost. Poor kid. I hope he's doing better.
Those screams in the shower, oh god, poor kid. That bitch needs some help.
EQ low much?
What the fuck? This woman seriously needs to go to a fucking mental institution.
[QUOTE=GhettoGeek;26397200]If my mom would do that I would just ask for more hot sauce and pretend I like it, and take cold showers everyday to get used to it. All while having a smug ass look on my face[/QUOTE] Well seeing how crazy of a bitch this lady is she would obviously make the punishment worse.
To be honest, it is just hot sauce and cold showers, it's not some deadly torture, sure it's messed up and parents should never fucking do this. But come on you guys, she doesn't deserve to die for this shit. She just doesn't deserve to have a child.
For those who don't know what "Pulling a card" is; At my old school, at least this is how they did it. You had a stack of cards; do something bad, pull one. I flipped the fuck out when it happened to me. (Kindergarten)
Someone in the other thread told me that we should respect other people's beliefs. Right...
I wonder what would happen if the kid spit the hot sauce in her eyes and temporarily blinded her, pushed her in the shower, and turned the cold water on, just to give her a taste of what it feels like.
I was hoping he would spit hotsauce at her.
Whats up with those shower curtains man.
I can understand spanking a child but giving them hotsauce and a cold shower? If I was that kid I would run away. [editline]30th November 2010[/editline] Also I found a trailer to the episode. Might help in finding the full episode. [url]http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/1545[/url]
From what I've read, the average temperature of water that's cold, and has been running for a few minutes, is usually around 55 degrees Fahrenheit. This isn't that bad honestly, but it's still very brutal, brutal enough to cause pain. Hot sauce varies from brand to brand, which is why I'm not all that bothered with it, as eventually you get used to it. I have, however, heard of parents putting hot sauce on kids private parts as punishment, which is a LOT more brutal.
[QUOTE=Amaurus;26398431]Also I found a trailer to the episode. Might help in finding the full episode. [url]http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/1545[/url][/QUOTE] So many unnecessary SWFs
[QUOTE=Asphyxia;26397673]To be honest, it is just hot sauce and cold showers, it's not some deadly torture, sure it's messed up and parents should never fucking do this. But come on you guys, she doesn't deserve to die for this shit. She just doesn't deserve to have a child.[/QUOTE] Really when the kid is crying in fear of being punished with it by that psycho bitch it's not "just" hot sauce and cold water.
[QUOTE=nicatronTg;26398486] I have, however, heard of parents putting hot sauce on kids private parts as punishment, which is a LOT more brutal.[/QUOTE] Oh dear lord.
I'm in favor of punishing a child for a misdoing, but this is too far... A simple spank would suffice, or no pudding...
anyone found full episode yet?
[QUOTE=Tyvak;26395120]Wait, what the fuck is "pulling a card"? I have no idea what's going on.[/QUOTE] It is an Elementary type discipline system in some schools. You have 4 cards: Green- You are good Yellow- Warning Orange- Call to parents Red- Referral That's pretty much all I remember about it.
I had to pull a card once when I was in Kindegarten. I cried.
I think we need as many new psychopaths in society as we can get to balance out all the sociopaths in banking and government... Bring on the Tabasco!
[QUOTE=<man>;26393740]Sure it's wrong, but it could be far worse than a cold shower.[/QUOTE] He's just a kid man.
I've looked everywhere for this episode. It's impossible to find.
I did some searching, although I couldn't find the full episode, here's a summary and some clips: Trailer [media]http://youtube.com/watch?v=u7jOr1_EC3U[/media] Original Video (in OP) [media]http://youtube.com/watch?v=W7ECT3NhGOQ[/media] Dr. Phil's thoughts [media]http://youtube.com/watch?v=gOo4F9cbMTw[/media] Episode Summary: [quote] [b]Jessica, a mom of six, says she&#8217;s angry all the time and struggles to parent her adopted 7-year-old son. She sent Dr. Phil a shocking home video that brought many audience members to tears. It&#8217;s an intense Dr. Phil you don&#8217;t want to miss![/b] Dr. Phil plays a video of Jessica standing in her bathroom yelling at her 7-year-old son, Kristoff. Dr. Phil interrupts the tape before its completion and turns to the mom of six. &#8220;So that makes sense to you?&#8221; he asks, indicating her discipline techniques. &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to do with this child,&#8221; she replies. &#8220;I&#8217;m just going to tell you up front, there is no theory under which that is going to work. There is no theory under which that makes sense,&#8221; Dr. Phil says. &#8220;You had to know that was going to be my attitude about this.&#8221; &#8220;Of course,&#8221; she says. When the videotape ends, mouths hang open, and many audience members wipe away tears. &#8220;I need to say this and be very clear. We didn&#8217;t shoot that tape. Your daughter shot that tape,&#8221; Dr. Phil reminds Jessica. &#8220;Because if I had a camera crew in your home shooting that, and they didn&#8217;t intervene and stop it, there would be something seriously wrong with my camera crew. I think anybody would look at that and say that that is absolutely outrageous, it is over the top, it is abusive, it is inefficient, it is out of control. I&#8217;m sorry. I just have to tell you the truth.&#8221; &#8220;You&#8217;re completely entitled to your opinions,&#8221; Jessica says. &#8220;That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m here.&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;m glad you are here, because I&#8217;m telling you, that has to stop,&#8221; Dr. Phil warns Jessica. &#8220;If you say you&#8217;ve been through everything &#8212; you&#8217;ve tried time-outs, you&#8217;ve done this, you&#8217;ve done that &#8212; if you&#8217;re down to that, then you need to give the child up, because you are out of control. Somebody in the audience yelled out, &#8216;That is evil.&#8217; I don&#8217;t believe that. I don&#8217;t believe you&#8217;re an evil person. I think you are misguided. I think you think you&#8217;re doing the only thing you know how to do, but that is totally unacceptable.&#8221; &#8220;Then tell me what I need to do with him,&#8221; Jessica says in frustration. Dr. Phil explains what Jessica means in the videotape when she says Kristoff &#8220;pulled three cards" at school. Green means good job, yellow is a warning, blue is a time-out, orange means removal from class and red means a trip to the principal&#8217;s office. &#8220;He had three cards that day. What were they for?&#8221; Dr. Phil asks. &#8220;He was throwing pencils, he was sword fighting with another child, and he was acting out in another class,&#8221; Jessica replies. &#8220;Your theory is, based on that, he then lied about it? He didn&#8217;t tell you he got the three?&#8221; &#8220;Correct.&#8221; &#8220;Let me tell you, I would lie 100 out of 100 times. You are teaching him to lie,&#8221; Dr. Phil points out. &#8220;Based on results, what you&#8217;re doing isn&#8217;t working.&#8221; &#8220;So tell me what will,&#8221; Jessica says. &#8220;I will be happy to abandon all of that.&#8221; &#8220;I believe you are desperate for answers,&#8221; Dr. Phil notes. In an interview, Jessica&#8217;s husband, Gary, explains how he feels about his wife&#8217;s methods for disciplining Kristoff. &#8220;Jessica is more frustrated than angry, because we&#8217;ve added more kids to the house. When Jessica gets frustrated, I see her having a shorter temper. Kristoff has not reacted to much of our discipline,&#8221; he says. &#8220;The idea for hot sauce came up from my wife talking to a friend of hers. In the military, we use cold showers for discipline, basically to get people&#8217;s attention. When Kristoff gets a cold shower, he pays attention at the moment. I feel like I&#8217;m strict with my kids.&#8221; When the videotape ends, Dr. Phil turns to Jessica. &#8220;You believe that, in fact, he has reactive attachment disorder,&#8221; he says, referring to her adopted son. &#8220;Correct,&#8221; she answers. &#8220;Is that your diagnosis, or has he been seen by a professional who has rendered that diagnosis?&#8221; &#8220;He was seen by a professional for a while, but I don&#8217;t know if that professional diagnosed him as reactive attachment disorder,&#8221; Jessica replies. &#8220;He is a twin, and his brother is not like this at all,&#8221; Dr. Phil points out. [/quote] [URL=http://www.drphil.com/slideshows/slideshow/6062/?id=6062&slide=0&showID=1545&preview=&versionID=]Source[/url]
[QUOTE=Sgt.Kiddles;26399380]It is an Elementary type discipline system in some schools. You have 4 cards: Green- You are good Yellow- Warning Orange- Call to parents Red- Referral That's pretty much all I remember about it.[/QUOTE] The fuck is a red? Kids only getting cards because his mom is a bitch.
[QUOTE=Snapzies;26393733]She looks like a clown. That lady makes my penis go back inside my body, whoever managed to keep a boner long enough to bang her must've been one desperate man[/QUOTE] Apparently the child is an adopted Russian boy, and this woman is in charge of the children's organization in her area. She has that title because she was "Called by revelation from god" to do so. Ugh. I want to punch her in the face SO hard, and play pokemon with this boy so that he can forget about this shit environment this woman is raising him in.
[QUOTE=bl4h;26399597] Dr. Phil's thoughts [media][URL="http://youtube.com/watch?v=gOo4F9cbMTw"]http://youtube.com/watch?v=gOo4F9cbMTw[/media][/URL] [/QUOTE] Dr. Phil's easy as hell to make fun of but sometimes he's an alright guy.
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