• Feminists ban the word 'bossy'?
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[QUOTE=Venezuelan;44231940]Man and here with your last comment I thought you were turning a new leaf[/QUOTE] There are no leaves to turn; wanting speech banned is wrong, flat out. If you don't like being called a word, either stop acting like the person that word describes, or find better company. Bossy isn't charged towards any one group, either, so it isn't hate speech.
Since when was bossy a genderspecific word?
gonna snip that [QUOTE=CrucialSeBBi;44232035]Since when was bossy a genderspecific word?[/QUOTE] it's not a gender-specific word. however, the idea that someone in a leadership position is generally considered 'bossy' or 'pushy' is. the idea (or, my interpretation) is that men are generally seen as the 'dominant' [sp](for lack of a better word)[/sp] gender, therefore they are more naturally accepted into leadership positions. women, however, are seen as more submissive, therefore people (men) don't like being told what to do by women and call them 'bossy' or something similar.
[QUOTE=Ganix565;44232036]i agree 100%, wanting speech banned is wrong. however, that's not what the video is about, my friend. it's meant to be taken figuratively, not literally. it's about letting young girls know that it's ok to be ambitious; it's not about literally banning a word from use.[/QUOTE] I was talking about banning words and pandering to feelings, not the video. I've got no problem with the video.
oh okay, my mistake
[QUOTE=katbug;44232026]There are no leaves to turn; wanting speech banned is wrong, flat out. If you don't like being called a word, either stop acting like the person that word describes, or find better company. Bossy isn't charged towards any one group, either, so it isn't hate speech.[/QUOTE] Yeah but I thought you would have turned over the "reading the thread that's only two pages long" leaf We talked about this on the first page, it's just a catchy name, they're not trying to ban anything [editline]14th March 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=katbug;44232055]I was talking about banning words and pandering to feelings, not the video. I've got no problem with the video.[/QUOTE] Then why are you propping up strawmen? No one in this thread advocated for literally outlawing words
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44231244]you know i usually shit on facepunch users for not understanding feminism at all but wow holy shit, wow. [editline]13th March 2014[/editline] i'm also sorry that those gosh darn imaginary feminists social justice feminazi insert-word-you-started-piggybacking-off-of you've encountered (through r/tumblrinaction, 4chan threads, and lmao pics) have bullied you and made you feel upset! maybe you can cheer up by owning them with an incredibly broad generalization that basically shits on everybody who agrees that sexism is an issue.[/QUOTE] Reading your posts is painful as fuck.
Banning a word is going to fix this? Really? Nope. It would just give that word more power and make it a more effective insult because now you've built it up to be something more than it is.
I mean, why? Are they all out of non-retarded ways to prevent sexism? Sorry for being so frank, but this is just outright dumb imo. The irony when this post gets tagged as dumb
Instead of getting mad about the word, why not get behind the implications of the word? In the context of children, if a boy is calling a girl bossy, you could ask him why he thinks she's being bossy. If it's for dumb reasons, like the girl was assigned to be the group leader and he doesn't like that, you should explain to him that it's her job to be acting like that and that sometimes you have to listen to other people's suggestions. However, if he's calling her bossy for completely legitimate reasons, like if she's pushing him around and telling him what to do with no authority, you should tell the girl that the boy would like to keep to himself. You can try to ban or make words taboo all you want, but that won't matter. They'll always find another word.
[QUOTE=be;44235666]Reading your posts is painful as fuck.[/QUOTE] thanks for the input, dude i don't see the point in posting this kind of stuff. like, just rate me. that's what ratings are there for, so people won't fill up threads with useless stuff.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44237606]so people won't fill up threads with useless stuff.[/QUOTE] lol you mean like all of your posts
[QUOTE=Diet Kane;44237855]lol you mean like all of your posts[/QUOTE] epic, dude! you sure showed me.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44237921]epic, dude! you sure showed me.[/QUOTE] Didnt you just complain about filling a thread with useless posts
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44237921]epic, dude! you sure showed me.[/QUOTE] Honestly man, if you don't see the irony/hypocrisy in complaining about off topic shit posts while you do just that, that's on you not anyone else.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44237921]epic, dude! you sure showed me.[/QUOTE] Nothing you can say can get you out of this now, pal. I'd recommend you just leave this thread for a while so everyone can cool down.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44237921]epic, dude! you sure showed me.[/QUOTE] thanks for the input, dude i don't see the point in posting this kind of stuff. like, just rate him. that's what ratings are there for, so people won't fill up threads with useless stuff. [sp]you said that btw, just letting you know, for the irony factor[/sp]
[QUOTE=Silly Sil;44239087]thanks for the input, dude i don't see the point in posting this kind of stuff. like, just rate him. that's what ratings are there for, so people won't fill up threads with useless stuff. [sp]you said that btw, just letting you know, for the irony factor[/sp][/QUOTE] great tho, how exactly am i supposed to respond to these stupid posts? if i try to ignore them they'll just pop up in another completely unrelated thread, and if i reply people will keep doing them.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44239801]great tho, how exactly am i supposed to respond to these stupid posts? if i try to ignore them they'll just pop up in another completely unrelated thread, and if i reply people will keep doing them.[/QUOTE] well that's what ratings are for silly
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44239801]great tho, how exactly am i supposed to respond to these stupid posts? if i try to ignore them they'll just pop up in another completely unrelated thread, and if i reply people will keep doing them.[/QUOTE] And the circle continues.
[QUOTE=milkandcooki;44239801]great tho, how exactly am i supposed to respond to these stupid posts? if i try to ignore them they'll just pop up in another completely unrelated thread, and if i reply people will keep doing them.[/QUOTE] lol dude just ignore them oh no dumb nerds are lampooning you!! either you'll stop getting pissy and they'll give up, or theiy'll kee[p insulting you and trying to ruin your fp cred (Which is already nonexistant) i want to believe you're better than the idiots that circlejerk about fp feminist they dont like milk, but you're making it hard to do
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[QUOTE=DaysBefore;44240492]lol dude just ignore them oh no dumb nerds are lampooning you!! either you'll stop getting pissy and they'll give up, or theiy'll kee[p insulting you and trying to ruin your fp cred (Which is already nonexistant) i want to believe you're better than the idiots that circlejerk about fp feminist they dont like milk, but you're making it hard to do[/QUOTE] yeah man fuk these nerds!!! what a bunch of losers, posting on an internet forum!!!
[QUOTE=DaysBefore;44240492]lol dude just ignore them oh no [B]dumb nerds[/B] are lampooning you!! either you'll stop getting pissy and they'll give up, or theiy'll kee[p insulting you and trying to ruin your fp cred (Which is already nonexistant) i want to believe you're better than the [B]idiots [/B]that circlejerk about fp feminist they dont like milk, but you're making it hard to do[/QUOTE] You know, for someone who thinks he's making this shit look good, you sure were fast to take the opportunity to flame everyone. And do you people ever get off your high horses?
[video=youtube;VwKKi7ApP4I]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwKKi7ApP4I[/video] Look, he says that women are biologically different. What a misogynist male pig.
Was talking with someone and noticed something weird. I said ~the whole bossy thing is confusing, women do better in school, just worse outside of it, so why focus efforts on school. Response~yeah, there's obviously something wrong past school I guess guys are just naturally dumb (or fighting and sports aren't the useful life skills they used to be and talking and socializing are better things to train into people)
Im gonna start saying bossy more often now
[QUOTE=Rangergxi;44245358][video=youtube;VwKKi7ApP4I]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwKKi7ApP4I[/video][/QUOTE] I can't remember, are this guy's videos usually good or bad? because this one is pretty fucking terrible [QUOTE]Look, he says that women are biologically different. What a misogynist male pig.[/QUOTE] though this might actually be worse
Don't know if this was posted or not. [img]http://puu.sh/7xmX5.png[/img] [editline]16th March 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=krail9;44252903]I can't remember, are this guy's videos usually good or bad? because this one is pretty fucking terrible though this might actually be worse[/QUOTE] He's quite okay. And I don't see why it is? If you explain that people are homogeneous in their brain, that's completely false.
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