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[editline]17th February 2015[/editline]
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[QUOTE=nutcake;47161109][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/xIRWNfJ.gif[/IMG][/QUOTE]
I miss this one.
And:
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[QUOTE=nutcake;47161109][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/xIRWNfJ.gif[/IMG][/QUOTE]
It took me a while to realize those aren't sunglasses :v:
I drew my derg in class. :B
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What a smug mug he's got.
[QUOTE=Nidhogg;47169555]I drew my derg in class. :B
[img]https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/7835823/nid_portrait.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
Did you get a 100?
Style is cute
[QUOTE=Siminov;47175130]Did you get a 100?
Style is cute[/QUOTE]
It wasn't for an assignment. I just had all my work done, so I doodled while waiting for everyone to catch up.
I would like to direct your attention to these [url=http://drakfungus.tumblr.com/]dragons[/url] in a bowl
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Anyone know of a place to get advice for dealing with sexual frustration where they won't treat me like a freak? I know this topic isn't the place for it but I tried the sex megathread and they treated me like I was a horrible person even though I didn't even tell any of them what I was attracted to.
I'm on the Furnet IRC server all the time, and there are several channels that I don't think have a problem discussing that sort of thing.
[QUOTE=Levithan;47182030]I'm on the Furnet IRC server all the time, and there are several channels that I don't think have a problem discussing that sort of thing.[/QUOTE]
That's one place I was thinking of going. Thanks.
What IRC client should I use? I haven't been on IRC in forever.
Nevermind, I'm using HydraIRC
[QUOTE=Helix Snake;47182010]Anyone know of a place to get advice for dealing with sexual frustration where they won't treat me like a freak? I know this topic isn't the place for it but I tried the sex megathread and they treated me like I was a horrible person even though I didn't even tell any of them what I was attracted to.[/QUOTE]
i think they thought you were talking about bestiality when you (i assume) were in fact actually talking about cartoon animals that are scaly and don't exist to actually have a relationship with
honestly i don't know how to deal with "dragons dont exist" depression. Being totally serious here, maybe you can someday find a suiter whose sona you are romantically/sexually attracted to, and maybe you can fulfil the relationship in that way somehow? it's just a shot in the dark, because I know if i was in the same situation that probably wouldn't solve the problem for me, but as long as there's some semblance of brainstorming going on, any idea is something.
still completely seriously giving an idea, another option could be a bad dragon (or other brand), some people find that more fulfilling than just normal faps and some people find they finish slower with just the toy and no touching (is this too graphic for this board!!?). Obviously a toy can't fill the slot of an actual relationship though
i can snip this post if you want, since it's a touchy/personal/tmi topic, just rate it dumb or something or post/message asking me to remove it
maybe a non-sexual relationship with someone would work?
[QUOTE=Helix Snake;47182010]Anyone know of a place to get advice for dealing with sexual frustration where they won't treat me like a freak? I know this topic isn't the place for it but I tried the sex megathread and they treated me like I was a horrible person even though I didn't even tell any of them what I was attracted to.[/QUOTE]
What about a psychologist?
People can be sexy too, not just their body but their mind. That's what the rest of us struggle with, finding someone like that who also wants to be with you...
[QUOTE=Yahnich;47184643]we laughed at him because he said he wasn't your average lonely nerd and he was never going to be in a sexual relationship with a human being, if that doesn't scream delusional i don't know what to tell you
seriously helixsnake seek help[/QUOTE]
There is a thing called being asexual. I already know some, but it doesn't seem, or they do not act, like they want a sexual relationship with anything. At least they don't talk about it.
[QUOTE=kazookie;47186558]There is a thing called being asexual. I already know some, but it doesn't seem, or they do not act, like they want a sexual relationship with anything. At least they don't talk about it.[/QUOTE]
Even if they're so-called "asexual" you don't think they have something a little fucked up in their heads? Even if you think you're not attracted to humans, it's not like you're gonna have some long committed relationship with a fox or some shit. Personally it's an excuse to say you don't need help when every goddamn red flag raises that you clearly do need help because it's obviously . Not. Normal.
[QUOTE=Terragen;47186618]Even if they're so-called "asexual" you don't think they have something a little fucked up in their heads? Even if you think you're not attracted to humans, it's not like you're gonna have some long committed relationship with a fox or some shit. Personally it's an excuse to say you don't need help when every goddamn red flag raises that you clearly do need help because it's obviously . Not. Normal.[/QUOTE]
Asexuals arnt attracted to anything or anyone. He would not fall in the asexual spectrum, and asexual is certainly not an excuse for any of those things.
I don't get you people. I doubt you have a problem with people being asexual (not attracted to anything). And I'm pretty sure that you don't have a problem with people being sexually attracted to dinosaurs or dragons, seeing the topic you're posting in. Yet somehow when you combine the two it's "delusional" and "not normal" and I "need help"
In the other topic I was only asking for help dealing with sexual frustration under the condition that sex wasn't an option. I only came out and said that I wasn't attracted to humans because people wouldn't listen when I said sex wasn't an option, so I had to explain why. I know what happens when "normal" people find out about my situation, but I wasn't expecting that sort of bullshit in this topic.
[QUOTE=Helix Snake;47186933]I don't get you people. I doubt you have a problem with people being asexual (not attracted to anything). And I'm pretty sure that you don't have a problem with people being sexually attracted to dinosaurs or dragons, seeing the topic you're posting in. Yet somehow when you combine the two it's "delusional" and "not normal" and I "need help"
In the other topic I was only asking for help dealing with sexual frustration under the condition that sex wasn't an option. I only came out and said that I wasn't attracted to humans because people wouldn't listen when I said sex wasn't an option, so I had to explain why. I know what happens when "normal" people find out about my situation, but I wasn't expecting that sort of bullshit in this topic.[/QUOTE]
No see I do have a problem with people who wanna "fuck" dinosaurs and dragons and that nonsense. It's not normal and even if it should be described as normal it's not fucking right. Clearly there is something wrong with wanting to jerk off to dragons and fox and shit. Saying "oh well people don't understand me" I shouldn't have to, since it's something clearly wrong in a persons head to want to do any of that.
Once again thread has derailed to Helix keeping us up to date with his problems with wanting to bone dinosaurs.
First of all, get this drama out of this thread. Only dragons here, no bullshit furry/gay/facepunch drama.
To all of you: get off of his back. [B]Helix, go see a therapist and stop being dumb[/B]. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your therapist about this either do it anyway or find a different one. I see you constantly talking about this and other problems and it's pretty obvious you need to talk to someone about that. And if you're just doing it for attention, stop it and see a therapist anyway.
I have the same "issue" as you (no dinosaurs though, only dragons) and it doesn't cause me any problems (my therapist says it's fine as well...). If it's serious enough that it's causing you problems, go see a goddamn doctor. Don't ask random people on the internet for help.
Also don't tell me I can't describe myself as asexual. I face the same bullshit as any other asexual would, and as long as I don't talk about fucking dragons that's all I appear as to anyone else.
[QUOTE=ECrownofFire;47187144]First of all, get this drama out of this thread. Only dragons here, no bullshit furry/gay/facepunch drama.
To all of you: get off of his back. [B]Helix, go see a therapist and stop being dumb[/B]. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your therapist about this either do it anyway or find a different one. I see you constantly talking about this and other problems and it's pretty obvious you need to talk to someone about that. And if you're just doing it for attention, stop it and see a therapist anyway.
I have the same "issue" as you (no dinosaurs though, only dragons) and it doesn't cause me any problems (my therapist says it's fine as well...). If it's serious enough that it's causing you problems, go see a goddamn doctor. Don't ask random people on the internet for help.
Also don't tell me I can't describe myself as asexual. I face the same bullshit as any other asexual would, and as long as I don't talk about fucking dragons that's all I appear as to anyone else.[/QUOTE]
I was trying to keep the drama out of this topic. There's a reason I was asking where else I could talk about it instead of trying to talk about it here.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;47187216]i'm pretty sure asexuals dont actually get sexually frustrated and that is an exclusively non-asexual problem so no you don't actually face the same bullshit other asexuals do, because guess what asexuals still like human beings, get attracted romantically to human beings and have sex with them even if they don't really have the urge to do it[/QUOTE]
Okay first of all, asexuals can still have a libido, so sexual frustration is possible.
Second, not all asexuals get romantically attracted to people.
Finally, not all asexuals have sex. Many never have sex.
You clearly don't know a damn thing about asexuals. This is the bullshit I'm talking about, not sexual frustration (I don't get that, and I never said I did). People making assumptions about how asexuals live their own lives.
[editline]21st February 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=Helix Snake;47187238]I was trying to keep the drama out of this topic. There's a reason I was asking where else I could talk about it instead of trying to talk about it here.[/QUOTE]
Drama will always happen no matter where you talk about it. It's a public forum and people will wander in and start shit.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;47187272]wanting to fuck dragons is still not asexuality mate[/QUOTE]
[url=http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=General_FAQ#Some_things_turn_me_on.2C_but_they_do_not_have_anything_to_do_with_other_people._I_suppose_I.27m_not_asexual.2C_then.3F]Hey look a FAQ that addresses your misconception[/url].
Now you know, and knowing is half the battle!
[QUOTE=Terragen;47186618]Even if they're so-called "asexual" you don't think they have something a little fucked up in their heads? Even if you think you're not attracted to humans, it's not like you're gonna have some long committed relationship with a fox or some shit. Personally it's an excuse to say you don't need help when every goddamn red flag raises that you clearly do need help because it's obviously . Not. Normal.[/QUOTE]
Even though this isn't the "Sex thread" which I would remind you keep that kind of chat in such a thread.
I will have to say only a few things to close out your argument and simply silence you.
1. "Sexualized" anthropomorphic animals are just that, they have human like traits. Thus are not far removed from human. Even in the non human or more animalistic side it still has imagery of relatable anatomy.
2. Have you ever tried to fuck a picture? That is very hard to do, but can be done however often it isn't. Honestly what is the difference between that and a fleshlight?
3. "Triggers are triggers", whatever gets you off is within the limits of your own mind and imagination. No one in the world shall ever as long as there are sane people still here allow another to tell them what they can imagine or get off to in their own heads. Though eventually thought scanners and minds hooked up to the internet as a potential future could get a bit iffy.
4. Dinosaurs honestly don't exist in present times, and if you have a problem with someone chasing something imaginary there is something wrong with you. That's kinda like the Rabbi who smacks people for not believing in the way that they do as one of their tenants is "Do not harm the insane". Btw you can get a rabbi to come close to tears if you tell them that in the right way it's fun.
5. People do have a choice what they get off to, but at the same time not always the case for the initial trigger. Honestly if it doesn't harm another thing then why does it matter?
Und to close this out. I am A-sexual and no you will never be able to comprehend that. I almost broke a dominatrix with her attempts of proving me otherwise.
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Though eventually thought scanners and minds hooked up to the internet as a potential future could get a bit iffy.
Btw you can get a rabbi to come close to tears if you tell them that in the right way it's fun.
Und to close this out. I am A-sexual and no you will never be able to comprehend that. I almost broke a dominatrix with her attempts of proving me otherwise.[/QUOTE]
So yeah there's a difference in having a point that you want to bring up into a discussion and just throwing shit in because you want to be part of it.
[editline]22nd February 2015[/editline]
I think we may have gotten to a point where this is going nowhere,
Helix your not going to get a very decent answer to your problem here or any other place online because its not a common problem, the sexualisation of something is a mental response that only someone studying that sort of thing is going to be able to help you understand
No matter how much anyone talks about it, no one here is going to be able to help you as we can only speak from personal experience and talking to anyone that isnt a professional therapist or psychologist will just lead to false conclusions or you feeling worse about yourself. Especially when pretty much everyone responds to you like theres some big problem in your life mixed with their own opinions instead of looking at this objectively.
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