• Gay Chat V. XIV
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Carpet flooring looks hideous in my opinion. And it always gets so damned dirty.
Thin commercial carpet is the best way to go. Spent a few hundred and installed it myself [url=http://i.imgur.com/14H7CFB.jpg]right about a year ago[/url]. I'm glad I didn't tell my mother I felt intimacy for guys until three years after I'd moved out and it didn't bother her at all, she thought it was funny as hell. I wasn't gay yet back when my dad was still alive but he once told me out of the blue he'd be okay with me being gay and I was like "but I'm not gay" which he was more than happy to hear. Not the least backwards parents, but I absolutely appreciated their honesty and tolerance regarding me.
I am hooooooooooome! And no one shot us down as well! So, how are ya fags doin'?
AWFUL THANKS
it's amazing how I spend all day every day in one spot of my room and yet it still gets messy
[QUOTE=Xanadu;49499827]Thin commercial carpet is the best way to go. Spent a few hundred and installed it myself [url=http://i.imgur.com/14H7CFB.jpg]right about a year ago[/url]. I'm glad I didn't tell my mother I felt intimacy for guys until three years after I'd moved out and it didn't bother her at all, she thought it was funny as hell. I wasn't gay yet back when my dad was still alive but he once told me out of the blue he'd be okay with me being gay and I was like "but I'm not gay" which he was more than happy to hear. Not the least backwards parents, but I absolutely appreciated their honesty and tolerance regarding me.[/QUOTE] That's similar to what I have in my dorm room now - it is at the least pretty easy to keep clean and maintain. Your room is so tidy though, jesus My room stays messy once it gets messy because I'm just never in it haha
[QUOTE=Ax3l;49499943]AWFUL THANKS[/QUOTE] I'd be awful too if I were a skeleton who was punished with playing the knife game for all eternity.
[QUOTE=refiero;49500154]I'd be awful too if I were a skeleton who was punished with playing the knife game for all eternity.[/QUOTE] Such is my life.
I'd like to apologise for my dumbass posts on the last page. I'm really lonely and unhappy and I'm just not sure what to do with my life atm and it's all just very confusing and a little scary guess I don't belong here :s:
car got broken day before classes parents are blaming me like it's my fault that the roads were icy
[QUOTE=kijji;49500264]I'd like to apologise for my dumbass posts on the last page. I'm really lonely and unhappy and I'm just not sure what to do with my life atm and it's all just very confusing and a little scary guess I don't belong here :s:[/QUOTE] Lonely and unhappy and not sure how to fix it? Join the club and the state most of people here seem to be in :v: Identify your issues and tackle them one by one. Hell, make a list. Figure what's the most pressing issue and start solving them in the order you can, using small steps if you have to to keep it easier to achieve and encouraging rather than discouraging. Like, I've been working on all my academics now I'm working on maintaining a workflow for music now and working on my personal relationship issues after learning about attachment theory. It's works and I've made tons of improvements, but it's a lot of work and will take time. My therapist was also instrumental in helping me organize my mind and learj mental strategies for this stuff too Also help nothing to do except wait for libraries to open but I can't watch the Seahawks it's too stressful
[QUOTE=paindoc;49500618]Lonely and unhappy and not sure how to fix it? Join the club and the state most of people here seem to be in :v: Identify your issues and tackle them one by one. Hell, make a list. Figure what's the most pressing issue and start solving them in the order you can, using small steps if you have to to keep it easier to achieve and encouraging rather than discouraging. Like, I've been working on all my academics now I'm working on maintaining a workflow for music now and working on my personal relationship issues after learning about attachment theory. It's works and I've made tons of improvements, but it's a lot of work and will take time. My therapist was also instrumental in helping me organize my mind and learj mental strategies for this stuff too Also help nothing to do except wait for libraries to open but I can't watch the Seahawks it's too stressful[/QUOTE] I guess two of my main issues is that I take playful flirting too seriously and I get too easily attached to people. I do tend to take a lot of things seriously but playful flirting shouldn't be one of them.
[QUOTE=kijji;49500639]I guess two of my main issues is that I take playful flirting too seriously and I get too easily attached to people. I do tend to take a lot of things seriously but playful flirting shouldn't be one of them.[/QUOTE] The only way you're going to get over that issue is if you get more experience in under your belt. Grindr is the best way to easily achieve some no-strings-attached flirting.
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49500958]The only way you're going to get over that issue is if you get more experience in under your belt. Grindr is the best way to easily achieve some no-strings-attached flirting.[/QUOTE] but how does one flirt irl :v:
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49500958]The only way you're going to get over that issue is if you get more experience in under your belt. Grindr is the best way to easily achieve some no-strings-attached flirting.[/QUOTE] Yeah, trying to use tinder and start dating helped me a lot with that stuff. Getting more experience with flirting is the best way to do that. And if you can't think how to flirt, honestly dude the internet is a resource. Use it and get practice. Being easily attached to people could be a number of things. That's probably going to be more personal, and I can't give you a lot of direction on how you'll have to figure that out yourself. For me, it came down to valuing myself so little that I valued others too much. [editline]10th January 2016[/editline] the fact that Lynch isn't playing in the game is triggering me and giving me flashbacks to the SB last year ohgodhelp
What's the difference between Tindr and Grindr?
one is for straights the other for gays
I thought Grindr was just for sex hookups? Can't you get both males and females on Tindr?
I found my special friend on steam by chance :o, only chatting app I have other than skype and teamspeak is Telegram, which is what I use to talk to my furry friends.
[QUOTE=kijji;49501176]I thought Grindr was just for sex hookups? Can't you get both males and females on Tindr?[/QUOTE] I have used Grindr to start my last few relationships which all lasted more than a month. It is not only about sex, it's about whatever you make it about. In the experience of myself and my friends, Tinder is an awful platform for gay men. If you want something different than grindr just because you don't like it's reputation (although this is a silly reason not to use the platform) I would recommend you try something like OKCupid. This would require a bit more personal information, however.
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49501256]I have used Grindr to start my last few relationships which all lasted more than a month. It is not only about sex, it's about whatever you make it about. In the experience of myself and my friends, Tinder is an awful platform for gay men. If you want something different than grindr just because you don't like it's reputation (although this is a silly reason not to use the platform) I would recommend you try something like OKCupid. This would require a bit more personal information, however.[/QUOTE] Any advice for making a profile on Grindr?
[QUOTE=kijji;49501284]Any advice for making a profile on Grindr?[/QUOTE] Just go into the experience understanding that you are a little crazy. When I first started, I recognized that I get super attached incredibly quickly. I tried to make a profile that reflects how I want to be, more relaxed about the whole dating scene. Idk if that helps but there ya go
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49501256]I have used Grindr to start my last few relationships which all lasted more than a month. It is not only about sex, it's about whatever you make it about. In the experience of myself and my friends, Tinder is an awful platform for gay men. If you want something different than grindr just because you don't like it's reputation (although this is a silly reason not to use the platform) I would recommend you try something like OKCupid. This would require a bit more personal information, however.[/QUOTE] Grindr has more chaff to sort through- more profiles with just bare chested dudes and asian twink fucbois where I'm at. Still possible to use for relationships though, I've heard of several successful relationships through it and the comments on the android store bitch that its been too about relationships not hookups lol Tindr is meh, but still works. use both imo [editline]10th January 2016[/editline] the key is to not get more emotionally invested than the other dude is- keep your distance and move in slowly. Its not cruelty or being mean since its for your own sake and ultimate health, and you have to come first when just starting stuff like this
I guess I'll make a profile whenever I get around to shaving :v:
dating apps are unusable for me because they require a picture of my face
[QUOTE=KillRay;49501446]dating apps are unusable for me because they require a picture of my face[/QUOTE] I'm sure it's not that bad
[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;49500281]car got broken day before classes parents are blaming me like it's my fault that the roads were icy[/QUOTE] My parents blame me anytime their shitty cheap router stops working.
[QUOTE=paindoc;49500125]That's similar to what I have in my dorm room now - it is at the least pretty easy to keep clean and maintain. Your room is so tidy though, jesus My room stays messy once it gets messy because I'm just never in it haha[/QUOTE] Oh it's [url=http://i.imgur.com/m93fPu1.jpg]gotten awful[/url] lately when Lyokanthrope moved in but it's not really his fault, I didn't really accommodate the place for him in advance and still haven't figured out how to sort out most of our stuff. For the whole year prior it more or less never changed though, I think I've posted it in PCHS. [thumb]http://i.imgur.com/83ujgK3.jpg[/thumb]
My dorm is a sty, the first thing I'm probably gonna do is clean it when I get back. Hopefully my new roommate isn't just plain gross.
[QUOTE=Xanadu;49501823]Oh it's [url=http://i.imgur.com/m93fPu1.jpg]gotten awful[/url] lately when Lyokanthrope moved in but it's not really his fault, I didn't really accommodate the place for him in advance and still haven't figured out how to sort out most of our stuff. For the whole year prior it more or less never changed though, I think I've posted it in PCHS. [thumb]http://i.imgur.com/83ujgK3.jpg[/thumb][/QUOTE] It looks professional, like an office :v:
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