[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49648217]You look nothing at all like I thought you did[/QUOTE]
to a remarkable degree, too.
Holy fuck, Death Parade has the best soundtrack I've heard
I have a boyfriend now!
[img]http://i.imgur.com/D2utyp1.jpeg[/img]
This one's only 160 miles away, too! Down to just 10% the distance of the last one!
[QUOTE=kalamari13;49648145]Natural remedies like organic vitamins, or natural remedies like chinese-traditional-medicine grinding petrified tiger penises/seaweed onto your sore parts?[/QUOTE]
The former
Lots of you gays are cute!
Insomnia sucks. Like why is my body so incapable of feeling sleepy?!
tell me about it
for me it helps to consistently force myself to go to bed early (by my standards anyway) and just watch netflix or whatever until i fall asleep
after about 3 days i get tired at like 10-11 instead of 4am
[QUOTE=gangleider;49649014]for me it helps to consistently force myself to go to bed early (by my standards anyway) and just watch netflix or whatever until i fall asleep
after about 3 days i get tired at like 10-11 instead of 4am[/QUOTE]
If I don't go to bed when I start to get tired I'm fucked.
Four hours until I wake up for class. But my roommate was doing homework late and he has a wonderfully loud mechanical keyboard that he writes his code on, so when I was tired I couldn't fall asleep
So here I am :/
[QUOTE][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/5F0tZYJ.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
me being a dork at work
wow that deathwing is cute
i want it
Hes my desk guardian
And [I]I'M[/I] whatever you're gesturing at.
I (THINK) i'm saying "Who invited this guy!?" to one of my colleagues
[QUOTE=kijji;49647223]fuck me pls[/QUOTE]
I'm not gay
Desperation is incredibly unattractive and I don't know why so many people A. admit to it and B. think its okay to be desperate and reliant on one person
just something i'm noting from online dating stuff [sp]and on facepunch a fuckload[/sp]
[QUOTE=paindoc;49650708]Desperation is incredibly unattractive and I don't know why so many people A. admit to it and B. think its okay to be desperate and reliant on one person
just something i'm noting from online dating stuff [sp]and on facepunch a fuckload[/sp][/QUOTE]
Well fuck.
[QUOTE=paindoc;49650708]Desperation is incredibly unattractive and I don't know why so many people A. admit to it and B. think its okay to be desperate and reliant on one person
just something i'm noting from online dating stuff [sp]and on facepunch a fuckload[/sp][/QUOTE]
a lot of people put way way way too much stock in being in a relationship
i used to be like that a long time ago but there's a point where people have to realize it's not the most important thing in the world
i especially see a lot of people who are feeling depressed and stuff and seem to think that the problem is that they're single but in reality that's something that they have to overcome themselves and a relationship isn't gonna help that
[editline]1st February 2016[/editline]
it's ok to be lonely but don't let that define you
It's sort of why I'm so ashamed to feel lonely. I kind of feel like I shouldn't be feeling like that at all. I really hope I don't come off as one of those people :pudge:
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49651310]It's sort of why I'm so ashamed to feel lonely. I kind of feel like I shouldn't be feeling like that at all. I really hope I don't come off as one of those people :pudge:[/QUOTE]
No, you've always come off as wiser than that. I wouldn't be ashamed to be lonely, its okay to be lonely. Take stock of that feeling and let yourself feel it fully, because it can't be bottled up. But being alone is not equal to being lonely, and going into relationships because you're (in general, not calling you out) lonely as fuck is going to most likely end in further heartbreak (tons and tons of studies on codependency and dependency in relationships).
A lot of the feelings lonely people feel are due to things they probably can't control- be it seasonal affective disorder, depression, ocd, bpd, anxiety, adhd, past trauma or general ptsd etc. But at the end of the day, the individual has to take responsibility for managing these issues. Its tough though, because I don't want anyone to feel like I'm at all blaming or judging anyone based on these feelings. It can be a phase, so to speak, without lessening the weight of those feelings and without making the future irredeemable. I'm also sorta biased towards being really independent and self-accountable, sometimes to a degree that it does more harm than good.
The way I've put it into a metaphor, for some friends I've been talking to lately is:
You are not at fault for the rain storm, but it is your responsibility to get an umbrella.
I'm not alone but I am definitely lonely and I can't help but feel like each new day I'm just going through the motions of getting up, going to class, coming home, falling asleep or going to a party or something on the weekend.
It's kinda miserable, but it is what it is. I'm just sort of accepting the general lack of a mood now. I don't feel like any of my interactions with people are actually meaningful as of late.
I think I'd qualify myself as possibly depressed, but that isn't really something I could diagnose myself with. I don't see a need to see anyone about it though.
[QUOTE=paindoc;49650708]Desperation is incredibly unattractive and I don't know why so many people A. admit to it and B. think its okay to be desperate and reliant on one person
just something i'm noting from online dating stuff [sp]and on facepunch a fuckload[/sp][/QUOTE]
gotta love yourself before you learn to love someone else
easier said than done FOR SURE, it's something I'm still learning
[editline]1st February 2016[/editline]
[QUOTE=Saza;49651544]I'm not alone but I am definitely lonely and I can't help but feel like each new day I'm just going through the motions of getting up, going to class, coming home, falling asleep or going to a party or something on the weekend.
[/QUOTE]
I can feel this. I'm starting to realize that I have a very difficult time opening up and talking about my serious emotional problems to anyone that isn't a therapist. I had a lovely therapist that moved away a few years ago to get her PhD and I haven't gotten another one since due to insurance problems and whatnot. I can talk to my mom about certain issues, but obviously not everything
I wish I had someone I could confide in without feeling afraid they're gonna judge me/tell other people my secrets/laugh at me for feeling the way I do. I have a great group of friends and my social life is the most active it's ever been but having someone, anyone to be very close with would be great - romantically or non romantically
[QUOTE=Saza;49651544]I'm not alone but I am definitely lonely and I can't help but feel like each new day I'm just going through the motions of getting up, going to class, coming home, falling asleep or going to a party or something on the weekend.
It's kinda miserable, but it is what it is. I'm just sort of accepting the general lack of a mood now. I don't feel like any of my interactions with people are actually meaningful as of late.
I think I'd qualify myself as possibly depressed, but that isn't really something I could diagnose myself with. I don't see a need to see anyone about it though.[/QUOTE]
I would certainly see someone about this, even if you don't leap right into a psychologist. Seeing a therapist is just like a tune up or maintenance regimen for your brain or heart, if you ask me. No more shame in it then seeing a regular doctor. We practice good physical habits and good physical first aid- why not mental and emotional first aid / habits?
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49651310]It's sort of why I'm so ashamed to feel lonely. I kind of feel like I shouldn't be feeling like that at all. I really hope I don't come off as one of those people :pudge:[/QUOTE]
I sure hope I don't come off as one of those people either :cry:
[QUOTE=paindoc;49651669]I would certainly see someone about this, even if you don't leap right into a psychologist. Seeing a therapist is just like a tune up or maintenance regimen for your brain or heart, if you ask me. No more shame in it then seeing a regular doctor. We practice good physical habits and good physical first aid- why not mental and emotional first aid / habits?[/QUOTE]
Mostly because it doesn't really strike me as something that would be fixed - it's more to do with my environment, the people I now know, that sort of deal. The part I could work on is that I'm honestly just a lot quieter and more reserved now. I've always had small troubles keeping conversations going and that's a fair bit harder now with people I don't know as well.
My classes are all blocked up from like 11-3, then with occasional stuff in the late evening and I feel really tired out by it. Speaking of, I'm off to go to a lecture that I'd really just rather skip.
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49648217]You look nothing at all like I thought you did[/QUOTE]
D:
what did you expect me to look like?
I'm eating pork chops, they're delicious
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;49652487]D:
what did you expect me to look like?[/QUOTE]
Yes.
i have one good picture of me saved that i really like
i never post it anywhere tho because i took it when i was messing around with my camera at like 1am one night so i look exhausted and not happy at all lmao
it's just looks good :U
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;49652534]i have one good picture of me saved that i really like
i never post it anywhere tho because i took it when i was messing around with my camera at like 1am one night so i look exhausted and not happy at all lmao
it's just looks good :U[/QUOTE]
now you've piqued my curiosity
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