[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;49652534]i have one good picture of me saved that i really like
i never post it anywhere tho because i took it when i was messing around with my camera at like 1am one night so i look exhausted and not happy at all lmao
it's just looks good :U[/QUOTE]
the one i posted is the only one ive ever liked that ive taken
all others are deleted or hidden away tbqh
I dont know what you all talkng about on the last page. I find clinginess and desperation towards a relationship hella heartwarming.
[QUOTE=kalamari13;49653678]I dont know what you all talkng about on the last page. I find clinginess and desperation towards a relationship hella heartwarming.[/QUOTE]
That shit often leads to really damaging and emotionally abusive relationships.
[editline]1st February 2016[/editline]
To clarify, there are often many relationships like that where one person is clingy to the point where that person will cut off ANY contact you have with your friends and sometimes your family just so the only person you will talk to will be them.
On the other hand, people who are desperate can often find themselves trapped in an abusive relationship where they're willing to do anything just to appease their partner. It can lead to really disastrous things.
Being lonely and being desperate/clingy are two different things. It's entirely possible to live your whole life without a partner and still be happy. No one needs another person to validate their existence. It's mainly about being happy with yourself. It's something I'm working on myself because frankly, I don't really like my situation or myself for that matter that much. Before I can worry about having a boyfriend, it'd do me a lot of good to fix issues like that.
There's a lot of talk about problems, but very little of solutions. Why do you think that is?
I think putting yourself out there is a major step on the path to not only entering a relationship, but growing as a person.
There is also a major difference in flirting up lads on facepunch, and flirting up guys you actually have a probability to meet IRL.
Believe me, if I had a car and a job and pretty much anything any other normal person has, I would be out there a lot more than I have ever been. There's no easy way out for the anxiety and the other mind games that plague me, but if I don't do something soon, it's going to be like that for a long long time. It's my own fault that I'm like this and no one can change it but me.
Best part about a 38°C day in Australia, guys walk around without shirts on, thank you bad weather!
[QUOTE=paindoc;49650708]Desperation is incredibly unattractive and I don't know why so many people A. admit to it and B. think its okay to be desperate and reliant on one person
just something i'm noting from online dating stuff [sp]and on facepunch a fuckload[/sp][/QUOTE]
This just makes me think of that Super Friendly Social and Love Advice thread. The amount of guys in there that have the mindset of "I'm nice to her and i would care for her so she should be mine" is really disgusting. Its like they see women as a trophy/object that they should own/win.
[QUOTE=greeley;49656246]This just makes me think of that Super Friendly Social and Love Advice thread. The amount of guys in there that have the mindset of "I'm nice to her and i would care for her so she should be mine" is really disgusting. Its like they see women as a trophy/object that they should own/win.[/QUOTE]
I took one look at that thread and it was enough to make me not want to look again. A lot of over-inflated egos and self importance. People would make fun of others and judge them based on stupid little shit and then turn around and wonder why no one seems to want to be around them.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49656269]I took one look at that thread and it was enough to make me not want to look again. A lot of over-inflated egos and self importance. People would make fun of others and judge them based on stupid little shit and then turn around and wonder why no one seems to want to be around them.[/QUOTE]
I like to go on that thread now and again for amusement and there is one that stuck out at me which was a long story... but the summary of it was:
"I like this girl, i've been friends with her for 5 years and picked up all the broken pieces of her from her ex-boyfriends. Now she says that i'm her best friend, shall i tell her that i want her and that we should have sex? The least she can do is have sex with me since i listened to her and stuck by her all these years, she owes it to me."
Whats worse was 5 other people were completely in agreement with him. And only me and someone else was like wtf?!
[QUOTE=greeley;49656390]I like to go on that thread now and again for amusement and there is one that stuck out at me which was a long story... but the summary of it was:
"I like this girl, i've been friends with her for 5 years and picked up all the broken pieces of her from her ex-boyfriends. Now she says that i'm her best friend, shall i tell her that i want her and that we should have sex? The least she can do is have sex with me since i listened to her and stuck by her all these years, she owes it to me."
Whats worse was 5 other people were completely in agreement with him. And only me and someone else was like wtf?![/QUOTE]
That's kind of frightening.
[QUOTE=greeley;49656246]This just makes me think of that Super Friendly Social and Love Advice thread. The amount of guys in there that have the mindset of "I'm nice to her and i would care for her so she should be mine" is really disgusting. Its like they see women as a trophy/object that they should own/win.[/QUOTE]
Babe Imma dip you in gold and keep you in my room as a human gold statue cuz ur pretty.
[QUOTE=Pvt. Martin;49656713]Babe Imma dip you in gold and keep you in my room as a human gold statue cuz ur pretty.[/QUOTE]
oh, sweety, im platinum, don't insult me
[QUOTE=greeley;49656749]oh, sweety, im platinum, don't insult me[/QUOTE]
I would say you're diamonds, but diamonds are colorless, boring, and represent nothing to me but expensive and stagnation. I'd say you're a Passionate Ruby, a cool Sapphire, a Jolly Emerald.
I'll be here all night for all your flirting needs. :dog:
Oh, darling, its adorable that you think im a pretty little gem, when infact i'm more of a rock.
Rough, Tough and used to be sat on ;)
Technically greely Gems are rocks. Now let thy ruby heart burn fiery hot.
Also I recommend a nice room where we can see the pitch dark endlessness of Lake Michigan. Deep into the velvet blackness, the stars our only torches.
$5 I'm doing better than anyone in the Super Friendly Social and Love Advice thread.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49656020]Believe me, if I had a car and a job and pretty much anything any other normal person has, I would be out there a lot more than I have ever been. There's no easy way out for the anxiety and the other mind games that plague me, but if I don't do something soon, it's going to be like that for a long long time. It's my own fault that I'm like this and no one can change it but me.[/QUOTE]
The only way to overcome anxiety and shyness is to slowly try and poke out of your comfort bubble a little bit at a time, it will hurt sometimes but learning to cope with that is important too. If you do it enough times the scope of what you are comfortable increases little by little.
Anxiety isn't some dark pit from which you will never escape or some stupid shit like that, it's a disease that can be treated and overcome. Make plans to see a psychologist, ask about medications. I can't say you should just "be happy", but you can definitely dedicate your time to working on your happiness.
Medications are a tool, too. They help you get through the toughest times and learn coping strategies. There's some funny stigma around them, but with how DSM-IV criterion have evolved misdiagnosis is rare and nearly all medication is very well tolerated when used correctly
They're like water wings for when you learn to swim :p
Anyone here play an instrument and live in or near anaheim, California? I'm looking for some bandmates for a concert at chain reaction on March 6
Hit me up, I need players!
Get me into California, then yes.
The only instrument people here know how to play is the rusty trombone :v:
[QUOTE=ECrownofFire;49660198]The only instrument people here know how to play is the rusty trombone :v:[/QUOTE]
You missed the perfect opportunity to say 'skin-flute'
I play the glorious revolutionary instrument 'fruityloops' :v
Good enuf for Deadmau5 good enough for you
[editline]2nd February 2016[/editline]
Good enough for Varien-senpai too
Every time I read Deadmau5, I think 'Dead Mao Five'
Tonight I kissed a guy in public for the first time. Couldn't help but feel fear. Got called names in my way home by a group of girls. The guy wasn't particularly a good kisser too.
In addition, I quit my 1 week old job today.
The first time I kissed a boy in public was at the train station last week with gangleider and I felt really self conscious after it aaaah
I wish kissing boys was as normal as kissing girls so I wouldn't have to hold back with people around...
Mail me pretty boy kisses in public please.
Thanks.
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1 tbsp. garlic powder
2 oz. sriracha sauce
1 oz. dark soy sauce
1 oz. butter[/quote]
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