With that last guy I saw, I was trying really hard to get over my problems with physical contact. First time I tried to hug him, he didn't return it
When I asked if we could hold hands he shut me down rather quick, but hey that's one of the reasons he's Motherfucker Jones now
I normally try to find out if I'm able to cuddle them and have close contact before I meet a guy for the first time.
Some guys seem to avoid even friendly hugs, and other guys will get straight to groping.
Its my personality that seems to cause issues. I'm kinda hyperactive and immature and its often hard to take me seriously. :v
[QUOTE=kalamari13;49661694]I normally try to find out if I'm able to cuddle them and have close contact before I meet a guy for the first time.
Some guys seem to avoid even friendly hugs, and other guys will get straight to groping.
Its my personality that seems to cause issues. I'm kinda hyperactive and immature and its often hard to take me seriously. :v[/QUOTE]
I went for a hug on date-thing #2 and hand holding after date #4. Have no idea what too fast is, but I tried to be understanding and slow.
Idk, in the end I learned from the experience and now that I'm omw to getting over the other shit I have going on if I meet someone or find someone I'm totally trying again. And I can [I]probably[/I] do better than that flip floppity twink wanker :v:
meanwhile I still feel like I'll never get a partner
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[QUOTE=greeley;49656390]I like to go on that thread now and again for amusement and there is one that stuck out at me which was a long story... but the summary of it was:
"I like this girl, i've been friends with her for 5 years and picked up all the broken pieces of her from her ex-boyfriends. Now she says that i'm her best friend, shall i tell her that i want her and that we should have sex? The least she can do is have sex with me since i listened to her and stuck by her all these years, [B]she owes it to me.[/B]"
Whats worse was 5 other people were completely in agreement with him. And only me and someone else was like wtf?![/QUOTE]
Such is the life of a "nice guy".
[QUOTE=kijji;49661720]meanwhile I still feel like I'll never get a partner[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;49655751]There's a lot of talk about problems, but very little of solutions. Why do you think that is?
I think putting yourself out there is a major step on the path to not only entering a relationship, but growing as a person.
There is also a major difference in flirting up lads on facepunch, and flirting up guys you actually have a probability to meet IRL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=axelord157;49661902]Such is the life of a "nice guy".[/QUOTE]
Movies and pop-culture certainly don't help, though. If you show her your true undying loyalty and bend over backwards, she'll suck your dick! yay! You can [I]always[/I] get the girl. Oh, and [I]the one[/I] is totally a thing.
haha fucking friend-zoned
Kissing a boy in public would be like the cutest thing ever aaaaaa
I'm blushing just thinking about it
I got kissed in public for the first time last week, it's amazing to not give a fuck about people around you and just kiss and cuddle like straight people.
[QUOTE=Trekintosh;49662425]I got kissed in public for the first time last week, it's amazing to not give a fuck about people around you and just kiss and cuddle like straight people.[/QUOTE]
If you do such thing over here you'd probably get lynched... Go Colombia!
So i guess my sister is now in jail again. this time, it's probably going to be for a long time, too. for something that happened years and years ago. her father, who is a repugnant excuse for a human being, decided to call the cops on her because he didn't like her presence in "his house" (not even remotely his house btw) and got her and her boyfriend taken away by the cops. of course my mongoloid grandmother in law is siding with him simply because he's her son and she doesn't want to be alone, so any sort of retaliation against her is probably gonna result in us getting kicked out and living on the street. one of my nieces is in custody of my brother and his fiance currently, who already have one kid to look after, and my other one is in custody of someone who I barely know but is apparently a drug dealer. My dad had a heart attack 2 years ago and I really don't want him to have another one over this fucking travesty of justice. i'm laying here in bed and the only thing on my mind right now is my sister and my nieces. saying that I want to die is an understatement at this point. every part of my body is shaking and i think I'm gonna puke pretty soon. i dunno what else I can do except adapt. i'm so fucking ready to call it quits right now and end everything. everything has been so shitty ever since we moved up here 5 years ago and it just keeps getting worse. sorry if this is yet another bitch post but it seems like anything good that happens in my life is superseded by a million other awful things. nowhere else to turn to so there it is. if I just stop posting for a while, that'll be the reason.
fuck everything.
[QUOTE=cheetahben;49662394]Kissing a boy in public would be like the cutest thing ever aaaaaa
I'm blushing just thinking about it[/QUOTE]
Oh boy count me in here for awkwardly blushing at the thought
My first three real life friends in over a decade (two of whom I've dated and peacefully seperated without much issue) decided I wasn't worth their time because of my difficult social anxiety limiting the amount of time I'm feeling comfortable enough to spend with them, and they called me a dramaqueen when I keep trying to preserve our friendships and promises to try harder. This all happened during the course of a single week when they all decided to cut contact with me. After this happened I broke down freaking out and didnt know what happened. A little while after about a month ago I quit my job of 2 years from the stress.
It was only by sheer luck that I found these great guys. They had me convinced we would all be best friends forever in the perfect little squad. I've spent thousands on them for us all to have great times together, and we did.. Three of us had plans to move together this spring and I saved up several grand in order to make sure plans go forward.
Now that they're gone I feel like my life is back to where it was when I was an introverted know-nothing teen. I have to support myself now without their smiling faces to help motivate me and their adorable voices.
Goddamn winters are always the most fucked part of the year for me..
[QUOTE=cheetahben;49662394]Kissing a boy in public would be like the cutest thing ever aaaaaa
I'm blushing just thinking about it[/QUOTE]
kind of a rush too because you know some people get their panties in a twist when they see it
[QUOTE=cheetahben;49662394]Kissing a boy in public would be like the cutest thing ever aaaaaa
I'm blushing just thinking about it[/QUOTE]
Cheeks so red and hot you can grill burgers.
Hot Dogs anyone? :dog:
I kissed my bf before he got on a bus once, and then people sat at the back of the bus were throwing stuff at him :( bunch of idiots, it's upsetting there are still people like that.
[QUOTE=RainBD7;49663430]I kissed my bf before he got on a bus once, and then people sat at the back of the bus were throwing stuff at him :( bunch of idiots, it's upsetting there are still people like that.[/QUOTE]
Stuff like this is such a shame. It must be a sad life to want to torment others for nothing.
Also, what's the deal with people looking for rooms to rent on Grindr? Of all places, why would you go looking for one on there?
[QUOTE=IForgotPassword;49663589]Stuff like this is such a shame. It must be a sad life to want to torment others for nothing.
Also, what's the deal with people looking for rooms to rent on Grindr? Of all places, why would you go looking for one on there?[/QUOTE]
Room with a view?
room service
[QUOTE=cheetahben;49662394]Kissing a boy in public would be like the cutest thing ever aaaaaa
I'm blushing just thinking about it[/QUOTE]
Me and my bf once kissed, cuddled, and did otherwise gay things in the middle of Dundas Square in Toronto (it's kinda like Toronto's "Times Square") while we watched a street performance. Later, two girls came up to us and said we were "really cute." I blushed so hard after that
I gave myself a handjob once.
Does that count?
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49662502]So i guess my sister is now in jail again. this time, it's probably going to be for a long time, too. for something that happened years and years ago. her father, who is a repugnant excuse for a human being, decided to call the cops on her because he didn't like her presence in "his house" (not even remotely his house btw) and got her and her boyfriend taken away by the cops. of course my mongoloid grandmother in law is siding with him simply because he's her son and she doesn't want to be alone, so any sort of retaliation against her is probably gonna result in us getting kicked out and living on the street. one of my nieces is in custody of my brother and his fiance currently, who already have one kid to look after, and my other one is in custody of someone who I barely know but is apparently a drug dealer. My dad had a heart attack 2 years ago and I really don't want him to have another one over this fucking travesty of justice. i'm laying here in bed and the only thing on my mind right now is my sister and my nieces. saying that I want to die is an understatement at this point. every part of my body is shaking and i think I'm gonna puke pretty soon. i dunno what else I can do except adapt. i'm so fucking ready to call it quits right now and end everything. everything has been so shitty ever since we moved up here 5 years ago and it just keeps getting worse. sorry if this is yet another bitch post but it seems like anything good that happens in my life is superseded by a million other awful things. nowhere else to turn to so there it is. if I just stop posting for a while, that'll be the reason.
fuck everything.[/QUOTE]
Jesus christ, my heart goes out to you, man.
[editline]3rd February 2016[/editline]
I wish I had more to say but I don't think it'll be of any merit.
Fhex sent me a neat gift
[t]http://i.imgur.com/XNeT9V1h.jpg[/t]
It matches my binder. Thx fhex c:
