The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=thisispain;35615951]heterosexual males should always have at least one gay friend.[/QUOTE]
yes true otherwise i will never be able to live out my diverse sitcom fantasy
My friend circle is pretty darn standard. No transgendereds or homosexuals or crazy foreign guys or anything like that.
You've got your standard frustrated intellectual rebel guy with the five'o'clock shadow and the rough good looks, filled with hate for the system and love for being edgy and mysterious.
You've got your ultra-friendly little guy with self-esteem issues and musical talent who the rest of the group rags on a bit because he's scrappy.
You've got your friendly, but quiet, sporty fellow, who usually hovers at the edge of the group, being all smiley and shit, and who offers surprisingly insightful advice and information when actually engaged in conversation.
And you've got me. Tall, well-spoken, scholarly, intelligent, handsome, poetic, nice-smelling, and modest.
We could easily be a sitcom cast.
[editline]17th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35616331]yes true otherwise i will never be able to live out my diverse sitcom fantasy[/QUOTE]
Woah. Jo, we're vibing on the same sitcom wavelength right now...
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35616367]My friend circle is pretty darn standard. No transgendereds or homosexuals or crazy foreign guys or anything like that.
You've got your standard frustrated intellectual rebel guy with the five'o'clock shadow and the rough good looks, filled with hate for the system and love for being edgy and mysterious.
You've got your ultra-friendly little guy with self-esteem issues and musical talent who the rest of the group rags on a bit because he's scrappy.
You've got your friendly, but quiet, sporty fellow, who usually hovers at the edge of the group, being all smiley and shit, and who offers surprisingly insightful advice and information when actually engaged in conversation.
And you've got me. Tall, goofy, verbose, scholarly, and a bit airheaded.
We could easily be a sitcom cast.
[editline]17th April 2012[/editline]
Woah. Jo, we're vibing on the same sitcom wavelength right now...[/QUOTE]
BDA: "Catchphrase!" *uproarious laugh track*
"Hey, dorks!"
~applause and cheers~
id be the actor that makes it out of tv and into the film industry and then leaves the show to pursue his own career, causing the sitcom to have to scramble to replace me as their ratings plummet until the show finally sinks
I'd be the actor who [I]thought[/I] he would make it in the film industry and sacrificed his television career to pursue headlining roles, but ultimately wasn't popular enough to make it on his own [I]or[/I] affect the ratings of his series by leaving.
i'd be the jew
that's pretty much the extent of my character
haha guys look at how sexually non-threatening i am
[QUOTE=thisispain;35616842]i'd be the jew
that's pretty much the extent of my character
haha guys look at how sexually non-threatening i am[/QUOTE]
Wolowitz.
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[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35616367]My friend circle is pretty darn standard. No transgendereds or homosexuals or crazy foreign guys or anything like that.
You've got your standard frustrated intellectual rebel guy with the five'o'clock shadow and the rough good looks, filled with hate for the system and love for being edgy and mysterious.
You've got your ultra-friendly little guy with self-esteem issues and musical talent who the rest of the group rags on a bit because he's scrappy.
You've got your friendly, but quiet, sporty fellow, who usually hovers at the edge of the group, being all smiley and shit, and who offers surprisingly insightful advice and information when actually engaged in conversation.
And you've got me. Tall, well-spoken, scholarly, intelligent, handsome, poetic, nice-smelling, and modest.
We could easily be a sitcom cast.
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wow that's boring.
i pretty much just attract weirdo's which has its pros and cons.
you've got your frustrated artist who paints pictures of mutilated people and works in a supermarket. he's actually incredibly nice but suffers from heavy social anxiety.
you've got your woman who really loves BDSM and pink, she works in an old navy and stocks stuff. she's bubbly and usually mutters things out in a row of words without filter.
you've got your fantastically outward gay guy who hates religious conservatives with a vocal passion while donning a straight up lisp. he's my best friend. he annoys me because he's a massive control freak.
you've got your black dude who's incredibly into hip-hop culture and always gets me some great tunes. he's secretly incredibly effeminate and probably a bisexual, but is convinced that it's important he remains tuff and 100% hetero. sometimes he and my gay guy don't get along. he spends a lot of time on the internet.
has interest in musicals.
i don't think we'll be on TV anytime soon.
My social group goes as following:
A short, brown-haired quiet guy with glasses and braces who is incredibly awkward and mostly
sits at the outer rims of groups. At classes, he always sits with his notebook, drawing some pretty cool monsters and characters.
A tall guy who is almost exactly like me, so we get along really well. he is also pretty muscular and has a good sense of humor. Can be a bit wierd at times, but so can i so its okay.
A blonde girl with a great sense of fashion who is extremely social. Almost constantly happy wich can at times be frustrating.
Then there is me, the social nice guy with a horrible sense of fashion. Good at making people laugh but can never take care of his problems.
I dont think we would make a good sitcom...
My circle of friends is one guy and we are polar opposites who argue every moment we are in contact.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35616367]
And you've got me. Tall, goofy, verbose, scholarly, and a bit airheaded.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35616367]
And you've got me. Tall, well-spoken, scholarly, intelligent, handsome, poetic, nice-smelling, and modest.[/QUOTE]
What an inconspicuous edit that was!
[QUOTE=LF9000;35616050]Went to my first party over spring break. Got trashed and high.
I'm still riding a mental high from just partying with the "cool kids", basically everything socially awkward me was dreaming about in freshmen year. (now a junior)
Do you guys have any tips on 4/20, i.e. what to do as this is my 3rd time smoking, and my 1st time smoking with a large group? Don't want to make a fool of myself[/QUOTE]
I'd say just go there and smoke, don't smoke too much however, seeing as you don't want to make a complete ass of yourself, but I'm sure some people will be too high to care.
My friend group is a little different, but not really-
you've got your quiet foreigner from the Philippines who is very offensive (but funny)
you've got your black guy who acts like a white guy
you've got your awkward kid with braces who likes making electronic music
you've got a rich Hmong kid whose parents own a TV channel (Hmong USA)
and me, the guitar-playing rebel who hates modern society
best sitcom I've ever heard of
oh yeah and we're all in drama class except for the black guy
[QUOTE=thisispain;35616902]
i don't think we'll be on TV anytime soon.[/QUOTE]
Idk man... something about it sounds like an american version of 'spaced'.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35616902]
i don't think we'll be on TV anytime soon.[/QUOTE]
Would make for a pretty funny sit-com, my friends are just kinda anti-social and somewhat nerdy so it wouldn't be that interesting.
Went for our second date (after known each other for a week) went for an Italians and then after went for a few quiet drinks and stayed up till 2 in the morning, she went back to my place and we had sex, then she stayed at my place all of today and we watched movies, cuddled, had more sex...
Is this doomed? When we first met it seemed like a one night stand but we both liked each other and took it further and we've both found a lot in common and like each other a lot, is there anything wrong with having sex this early? does it impact the chances of a future relationship?
Why would it impact a future relationship? It's just sex. If she had "buyer's remorse" and was unsure about you and a possible relationship, she would have left in the morning...
[QUOTE=Seith;35622607]Why would it impact a future relationship? It's just sex. If she had "buyer's remorse" and was unsure about you and a possible relationship, she would have left in the morning...[/QUOTE]
That's a good point, we both said that we really like each other and were taking it slow in terms of relationship, I guess because we had sex so soon it just feels natural while doing it
Well, this girl I'm kinda interested in was gonna come to my lacrosse game today so we could chill afterwards, but it got rained out, and now we both have pretty much no free time for a while where we could meet up or something.
Pretty sure some god up there just wants me to stick with my hand or something.
if she's really interested then the delay won't mean a thing. chill. talk to her online and text her a bit or something. be patient
[QUOTE=evilweazel;35623833]Well, this girl I'm kinda interested in was gonna come to my lacrosse game today so we could chill afterwards, but it got rained out, and now we both have pretty much no free time for a while where we could meet up or something.
Pretty sure some god up there just wants me to stick with my hand or something.[/QUOTE]
Don't blame god for your lack of creativity:
You were given hands and legs; to hold and search for women.
You were given a big brain and penis; to initiate beyond-superficial conversation and an organ to give them pleasure.
As far as I can see, you are just not playing your cards right. You got women all around, all you gotta do is introduce yourself to them.
[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;35622263]Idk man... something about it sounds like an american version of 'spaced'.[/QUOTE]
ugh please don't talk to me about an american version of spaced
watch this and weep. this show almost hit the TV.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDsdBB1LUto[/media]
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Seith;35623939]Don't blame god for your lack of creativity:
You were given hands and legs; to hold and search for women.
You were given a big brain and penis; to initiate beyond-superficial conversation and an organ to give them pleasure.
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rofl
Um
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35621400]What an inconspicuous edit that was![/QUOTE]
Uh, okay?
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Look, I edited this one too.
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Jeez, I'm goin' nuts with the edits here. Somebody stop me!
[QUOTE=Seith;35623939]Don't blame god for your lack of creativity: You were given hands and legs; to hold and search for women. You were given a big brain and penis; to initiate beyond-superficial conversation and an organ to give them pleasure. As far as I can see, you are just not playing your cards right. You got women all around, all you gotta do is introduce yourself to them.[/QUOTE]
Lol i cant even tell anymore dude, i cant even tell.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35624962]Um
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Uh, okay?
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Look, I edited this one too.
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Jeez, I'm goin' nuts with the edits here. Somebody stop me![/QUOTE]
Slow down with the edits, man.
How do I stop being terrified that I'll fuck up, no matter what situation I'm in?
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35624962]Um
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Uh, okay?
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Look, I edited this one too.
[editline]18th April 2012[/editline]
Jeez, I'm goin' nuts with the edits here. Somebody stop me![/QUOTE]
I wasn't calling you out on it, your change of heart was amusing, calm your shit
[editline]19th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mr. Smartass;35629743]How do I stop being terrified that I'll fuck up, no matter what situation I'm in?[/QUOTE]
You can't afford to regret anything really, things that have already happened just aren't important. When you make a decision, just make sure you can tell yourself "This is what I want, and if I fuck up then I'm just going to accept it as water under the bridge and keep going, because this is my decision and it couldn't have happened any other way."
How do you console a friend who just had a close friend commit suicide?
[QUOTE=Mr. Smartass;35629743]How do I stop being terrified that I'll fuck up, no matter what situation I'm in?[/QUOTE]
What's the worst that could happen? Roll with the punches, and things will be fine.
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