The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35650662]Wow, you acted like a friggen asshole in pretty much every possible sense of assholery. Yelling at women, pushing people around, being obnoxious and aggressive, ignoring the good advice of your friends, and generally acting like a damn brat. Hope you've gotten your shit together since then, but considering it's only been a week, you're probably the last person I'd want to go to a club or bar with.[/QUOTE]
lol
[editline]20th April 2012[/editline]
dang, you even edited in the last part to make it meaner
totes not super friendly
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35650749]Uhh, you literally just picked out and exaggerated all the worst parts of the story and completely ignored the part where I said I understood what went wrong and learned from it.[/QUOTE]
Let's hope so!
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35650662]Hope you've gotten your shit together since then, but considering it's only been a week, you're probably the last person I'd want to go to a club or bar with.[/QUOTE]
:/ What the fuck's your issue dude.
The best part of the story: "So a week later, which was last night..."
i didnt see much about your feeling bad about it
and the way you flipped off the fat chicks doesn't help
but bda's right, i wouldnt want to be the friend who had to steer you clear of "situations" while you were at the club, it sounds annoying
I thought it was pretty obvious from how many times I said how terrible I was/retarded I felt. And it was my first night out, I had just turned 18, my best friend was there to help me celebrate. How is it annoying if he was just making sure I was having a good time and avoided trouble? I didn't 'ignore' him as BDA put it either, and the other night when I went out there were no issues at all and I didn't need some friend to babysit me out of situations or whatever assumption BDA was projecting.
im pretty sure your friend wanted to go out and have fun too, not look after you on dark_lights first night out
[editline]21st April 2012[/editline]
i also like getting into arguments on the internet
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35655706]i also like getting into arguments on the internet[/QUOTE]
Amen to that brotha, arguing is my greatest joy in life
Edit: Guy below me is a beta amirite or amirite
Aah, I don't care! If that's how you normally act when you're out on the town, then I'd think you were a brat and ditch you. If it was just an exaggeration of brattiness because you were excited to be out for the first time, then whatever!
I see a lot of guys acting like you described, trying to be macho and cool and "alpha," thinking they're impressing chicks at the club and are being the life of the party and whatnot. In reality, they're only making fools of themselves, ruining other peoples' good times, and generally spoiling what should be a fun, friendly, and social environment with a bunch of backwards-baseball-hat-wearing, high-fiving, chest-bumping, obnoxious punkocity.
Just don't be that guy!
Stay tuned as BDA's jocular exterior crumbles to reveal a frustrated middle-aged woman
[QUOTE=thisBrad;35648703]Went to the club again, and got rejected so many times. I only danced with one girl because my friend said something so it was probably a pity dance. Fuck my life. Luckily my friends were getting rejected too so I don't feel too bad. Still sucks being forever alone though.[/QUOTE]
At least you've got enough confidence.
Speaking of obnoxious punkocity, I was at my favorite pub the other night with a couple of friends. We were just chitchatting, having some drinks, and enjoying the atmosphere. It was a live music night, but I guess the scheduled band couldn't make it, so the manager brought in some "DJ" friend. He brought all his equipment into this relaxed little pub, set up, and started blasting club music at full volume. It was hilarious how inappropriate his musical selection and volume levels were.
A friend of my dad's, Perry, who plays weekends at the [I]real[/I] club, next door, took the DJ aside and tried to talk with him. Perry, who's been playing bars and clubs for years, explained to the young-20's DJ that his music selection really wasn't appropriate for the atmosphere of the bar, and suggested some new set lists and volume levels that would fit better. The DJ, who admitted this was his first ever gig, took offense and got aggressive, insisting that he was just working up the crowd, and that this relaxed pub was gonna be "bouncin" in an hour or so (there were maybe twenty people in there, and they all seemed to be in various levels of annoyance).
Sure enough, in an hour, the pub was "bouncin," with a grand total of three people dancing, and nearly everybody else cleared out. Of those three, one was the DJ, the other was the DJ's girlfriend, and the third was the overweight alcoholic waitress.
I talked to the girl that I like in my class. We've never met and she doesn't know me nor do I know her. I just went up to her and started a conversation and it went pretty well. Mind you I've never really done this before and I was lucky that I didn't stutter when conversing with her. I did this during the end of the class because like I said, I was nervous. So what's the next step?
sooo that girl i was dating when i asked "oh hurp a derp how to kiss???" broke up with me a little over a week ago, and all i can say is wow. I have no idea why I was ever involved with this chick. shes a fucking crazy whore. I think it's been a learning experience if anything.
[QUOTE=gerbile5;35659640]"oh hurp a derp how to kiss???" [/QUOTE]
I'm 19 and never kissed a girl coz I'm a pro
kissing's easy, just don't consume the other person's face
Throw in a bit of biting and see if they like it, it's fucking hot (don't chew your partners lip off though)
[QUOTE=AtomicDongo;35658426]I talked to the girl that I like in my class. We've never met and she doesn't know me nor do I know her. I just went up to her and started a conversation and it went pretty well. Mind you I've never really done this before and I was lucky that I didn't stutter when conversing with her. I did this during the end of the class because like I said, I was nervous. So what's the next step?[/QUOTE]
well first, if you dont know her, shes not really the "girl you like"
just a girl you find attractive
anyway just talk and flirt some more and if you get along, ask her out
Kissing is supposed to be the most natural thing. Just don't think about it and you'll know what to do.
Okay, I have a question (obvious, I know). So, I would like to hang out with more people, and generally have more friends.
I have a boyfriend and I told him about it, but I'm using OkCupid to search out more friends. Is it unfair to people to only look for new friends on mainly a dating site? I mean, I'm not hiding the fact that I'm seeing someone and have interest only in friendship. This douchebag, though, already creeped me the fuck out.
But anyway: dating site only for dating? Being a dick otherwise?
youre probably just gonna end up disappointing a lot of people who want more than friendship even if you make it clear
i mean, its a dating site
have you tried going out at night?
it's pretty much unfair to everyone to use a dating site.
There's this girl I know pretty well that I'm interested in. Now, I don't have any problems asking her out, but I feel like we're beyond the point where a date would accomplish much, seeing as we know eachother well. I know she's interested in me too, but I just don't know how to go about it. I'm probably making this way harder than it should be, but I just find it tough initiating things with a person I'm actually already friends with, something I've never tried before (my other relationships have been with strangers pretty much). Am I making this too hard for myself?
take her somewhere special, just the two of you. be more physical and flirtatious with her than usual. see where things go. remember, you are good friends with her so she might not recognize your advances at first.
you have to break the ice somehow
even though you know her, you have to let her know youre interested in something more
Just had the best night of my life at the club. I've never been kissed by a girl before, and I had two girls kissing me at the same time! I'm getting better luck everytime I go to the club.
Also saw a bunch of people from my school/old school who I hung out with for a while.
I'm completely wasted while typing this, pardon any typos or sentences that make no sense.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35650321]dumb stuff[/QUOTE]
thats pretty retarded mate who goes spastic on a low key dance floor
[QUOTE=thisBrad;35670068]Just had the best night of my life at the club. I've never been kissed by a girl before, and I had two girls kissing me at the same time! I'm getting better luck everytime I go to the club.
Also saw a bunch of people from my school/old school who I hung out with for a while.
I'm completely wasted while typing this, pardon any typos or sentences that make no sense.[/QUOTE]
d'aw
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35656387]Speaking of obnoxious punkocity, I was at my favorite pub the other night with a couple of friends. We were just chitchatting, having some drinks, and enjoying the atmosphere. It was a live music night, but I guess the scheduled band couldn't make it, so the manager brought in some "DJ" friend. He brought all his equipment into this relaxed little pub, set up, and started blasting club music at full volume. It was hilarious how inappropriate his musical selection and volume levels were.
A friend of my dad's, Perry, who plays weekends at the [I]real[/I] club, next door, took the DJ aside and tried to talk with him. Perry, who's been playing bars and clubs for years, explained to the young-20's DJ that his music selection really wasn't appropriate for the atmosphere of the bar, and suggested some new set lists and volume levels that would fit better. The DJ, who admitted this was his first ever gig, took offense and got aggressive, insisting that he was just working up the crowd, and that this relaxed pub was gonna be "bouncin" in an hour or so (there were maybe twenty people in there, and they all seemed to be in various levels of annoyance).
Sure enough, in an hour, the pub was "bouncin," with a grand total of three people dancing, and nearly everybody else cleared out. Of those three, one was the DJ, the other was the DJ's girlfriend, and the third was the overweight alcoholic waitress.[/QUOTE]
By the sounds of it, he was Stifler.
[QUOTE=thisBrad;35670068]Just had the best night of my life at the club. I've never been kissed by a girl before, and I had two girls kissing me at the same time! I'm getting better luck everytime I go to the club.
Also saw a bunch of people from my school/old school who I hung out with for a while.
I'm completely wasted while typing this, pardon any typos or sentences that make no sense.[/QUOTE]
Grats, man. I still haven't had a good clubbing experience. I go and just drink with friends. Not enough confidence to dance.
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