• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Evilan;35706475]Any other time of the year besides the end of April I would say she was blowing you off. However, with the closing of university classes looming extremely near, it is entirely possible that she, like me, is swamped with the end of the year papers that are all due the week before finals week. I'm not sure what the school system is like in Australia, but if it's similar to the collegiate system in the United States, I would cut her some slack and ask her for a time that works best for her.[/QUOTE] Yeah, when I told my sister who was doing her first year of uni this time last year, she said the same thing as well. [QUOTE=Seith;35708415]Couple of weeks is too much. Unless she's your gf, you need to take into account attraction fades. Call her up in a day or two. Also, setting up a date, the night after (the date), for a week in advance pretty much tells her you got more than enough time for her. Doesn't nessecarily mean you've lost her, no, but as a woman she might be pushing you off more to get a feeling of the "chase". Don't expect her to offer much at this point and you shouldn't care either as she's not yours. Call her, as I've said a couple of days from now, talk for a while and tell her to come with you somewhere interesting.[/QUOTE] Nah you misunderstood me; we went out together last Friday, chatted that night on FB, then I texted her ~4 days later to set up a date the next week. It felt like a pretty good amount of time to wait, and in any case I wasn't really thinking about it much. The other thing though is, I'm actually going to be busy for the remainder of the month. Two friends and I are hoping to finish our first EP before the end of April. I was planning on calling her then, especially as there's some events coming up in May I think would make for a good date as well. And like I said above, I'm sure she's actually quite busy with assignments so it makes sense to wait a bit.
Ok so back in 2010 i went out with a girl (She was my first girlfriend and first kiss) but we broke up after a few weeks for some reason i don't remember. We then went out again last year for almost 2 months but ended it because we got in a fight and i jumped the gun a little. I then started seeing another girl and she saw another guy. Both relationships ended and we were single again. Then 3 months ago we started talking again and decided to hangout. After an hour of talking to eachother we both revealed that neither of us had really moved on and we both believe we had so much more to give eachother. We went out on a date yesterday and seemed to be moving forward again really fast. Anyways about an hour ago she sent me a text saying that when we broke up last year she never stopped crying. She told me she was depressed and cried at school and got sent to a therapist. He then put her on anti depressants and she thought she finally moved on with the other guy but realized she missed me so ended it with him. Anyways she said she never wants to speak to me again, she blocked me on facebook, skype and deleted my number. And i don't fucking understand why. I've never seen her act sad in person. Our date yesterday went perfect. We were both really happy with eachother and we were so close to labeling it. I'm sitting here incredibly shocked staring at the texts. I just don't understand why she said all that. It's so out of character. I don't understand any of it.
[QUOTE=I ARE REPTAR;35709747]Ok so back in 2010 i went out with a girl (She was my first girlfriend and first kiss) but we broke up after a few weeks for some reason i don't remember. We then went out again last year for almost 2 months but ended it because we got in a fight and i jumped the gun a little. I then started seeing another girl and she saw another guy. Both relationships ended and we were single again. Then 3 months ago we started talking again and decided to hangout. After an hour of talking to eachother we both revealed that neither of us had really moved on and we both believe we had so much more to give eachother. We went out on a date yesterday and seemed to be moving forward again really fast. Anyways about an hour ago she sent me a text saying that when we broke up last year she never stopped crying. She told me she was depressed and cried at school and got sent to a therapist. He then put her on anti depressants and she thought she finally moved on with the other guy but realized she missed me so ended it with him. Anyways she said she never wants to speak to me again, she blocked me on facebook, skype and deleted my number. And i don't fucking understand why. I've never seen her act sad in person. Our date yesterday went perfect. We were both really happy with eachother and we were so close to labeling it. I'm sitting here incredibly shocked staring at the texts. I just don't understand why she said all that. It's so out of character. I don't understand any of it.[/QUOTE] I guess she needed a bit of drama in her life. This story sounds like such a cliche. Grab a beer and watch the stars, no need to understand anything.
[QUOTE=I ARE REPTAR;35709747]Ok so back in 2010 i went out with a girl (She was my first girlfriend and first kiss) but we broke up after a few weeks for some reason i don't remember. We then went out again last year for almost 2 months but ended it because we got in a fight and i jumped the gun a little. I then started seeing another girl and she saw another guy. Both relationships ended and we were single again. Then 3 months ago we started talking again and decided to hangout. After an hour of talking to eachother we both revealed that neither of us had really moved on and we both believe we had so much more to give eachother. We went out on a date yesterday and seemed to be moving forward again really fast. Anyways about an hour ago she sent me a text saying that when we broke up last year she never stopped crying. She told me she was depressed and cried at school and got sent to a therapist. He then put her on anti depressants and she thought she finally moved on with the other guy but realized she missed me so ended it with him. Anyways she said she never wants to speak to me again, she blocked me on facebook, skype and deleted my number. And i don't fucking understand why. I've never seen her act sad in person. Our date yesterday went perfect. We were both really happy with eachother and we were so close to labeling it. I'm sitting here incredibly shocked staring at the texts. I just don't understand why she said all that. It's so out of character. I don't understand any of it.[/QUOTE] As long as you feel the same way about her now that she does about you, just go with it. Give her what she needs (which, from what I understand, is probably just you!)
[QUOTE=SparkDog;35711873]As long as you feel the same way about her now that she does about you, just go with it. Give her what she needs (which, from what I understand, is probably just you!)[/QUOTE] Umm you probably didn't read the part where i said she blocked me on fb, skype and deleted my phone number.
Me and my girlfriend have veien together for about 3weeks now but before that we were with together every single day for at least a month. So today i told her that i love her, and then she tells me that i can't love her since i'm only 17. So what i'm 17 i still have feelings. What should i tell her? Sorry for any grammatical errors, i'm writing from my ipad
[QUOTE=I ARE REPTAR;35712088]Umm you probably didn't read the part where i said she blocked me on fb, skype and deleted my phone number.[/QUOTE] Man I think whatever you do you will make the right decision. You just gotta try, man, I don't see how it can get worse if she meant it.
[QUOTE=lolerot95;35713287]Me and my girlfriend have veien together for about 3weeks now but before that we were with together every single day for at least a month. So today i told her that i love her, and then she tells me that i can't love her since i'm only 17. So what i'm 17 i still have feelings. What should i tell her? Sorry for any grammatical errors, i'm writing from my ipad[/QUOTE] Well, most teenage relationships aren't considered serious. Teenagers break up all the time and maybe she feels there's no point having this blind commitment to a relationship. Perhaps she doesn't even believe in love.
[QUOTE=I ARE REPTAR;35712088]Umm you probably didn't read the part where i said she blocked me on fb, skype and deleted my phone number.[/QUOTE] Do her a favor and leave her alone, then. For some people it's hard to, and not talking to them is a method to move past them.
So I asked this girl for her facebook. She told me her name but then proceeded to tell me she deleted her facebook. I've searched on facebook for her profile but came out nothing. Does this mean she's leading me on a wild goose chase? Her way of saying not interested? Or did she really deleted her facebook and I'm just overreacting.
well the fact it's not there and she said it's not there implies that she did indeed delete her facebook unless she quickly made up a name right there on the spot but that would be really quick thinking and pretty unnecessary when a simple "no" would suffice
Well, I've done it now. I joined a [I]school club[/I]. The overweight ginger girl with an ocarina hanging from a string around her neck convinced me that the college's Drama Club is the most hippity-happenin' place in town. My college doesn't have a very strong selection of clubs. My other choices were the Outdoor Club (joined that, too), the Engineering Club, the Tree Club (like birdwatching, but with trees), or the Bible Club. I'm hoping to make some new friends, but I'm going to feel a bit awkward if I show up to the Drama Club's meeting today and it's just me and the ocarina girl.
You should go there and cause drama and when you get thrown out claim you misunderstood the name.
What do you do if all your friends are bronys and spam your Facebook wall with pictures of mlp? I honestly think it is sad that there are 18-19 year olds that watch a children's TV show so religiously, and then proceed to try and make their friends watch it as well, but I didn't want to say it too often because that's what started it.
[QUOTE=Kingy_ME;35722919]What do you do if all your friends are bronys and spam your Facebook wall with pictures of mlp? I honestly think it is sad that there are 18-19 year olds that watch a children's TV show so religiously, and then proceed to try and make their friends watch it as well, but I didn't want to say it too often because that's what started it.[/QUOTE] Get new friends.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;35722926]Get new friends.[/QUOTE] It's infected everyone, it's me and 3 other people who are not obsessed with ponys, I feel like a survivor from L4D.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;35713602]Well, most teenage relationships aren't considered serious. Teenagers break up all the time and maybe she feels there's no point having this blind commitment to a relationship. Perhaps she doesn't even believe in love.[/QUOTE] I don't know now. She's been troubled with some emotional problems and she doesn't want to talk to me about any of them. It annoys me so fucking much. Instead she talks to some other guy about them. I'm her boyfriend, shouldn't she let me know at least some of them?
Is it ok to go to a funeral for someone you didn't really know? A couple of guys from my church died in a car accident a few days ago, and they're holding the funeral tomorrow. I've seen them at church lots of times, but I didn't really talk to them or know them. Just feels like it would be kinda awkward being there as I barely knew them
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35723475]Is it ok to go to a funeral for someone you didn't really know? A couple of guys from my church died in a car accident a few days ago, and they're holding the funeral tomorrow. I've seen them at church lots of times, but I didn't really talk to them or know them. Just feels like it would be kinda awkward being there as I barely knew them[/QUOTE] Its not awkward, it is just showing respect. No one will judge you if you show up, and if they do it will be positively.
[QUOTE=Kingy_ME;35722919]What do you do if all your friends are bronys and spam your Facebook wall with pictures of mlp? I honestly think it is sad that there are 18-19 year olds that watch a children's TV show so religiously, and then proceed to try and make their friends watch it as well, but I didn't want to say it too often because that's what started it.[/QUOTE] If it's that big a deal, can't you just ignore their feeds?
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35723475]Is it ok to go to a funeral for someone you didn't really know? A couple of guys from my church died in a car accident a few days ago, and they're holding the funeral tomorrow. I've seen them at church lots of times, but I didn't really talk to them or know them. Just feels like it would be kinda awkward being there as I barely knew them[/QUOTE] If anything people will think more of you since you are just respecting them.
i'd like to meet girls but everyone at my school calls me rudolph because i have a mole approx. .4 inches in diameter on the tip of my nose. help!r
get it removed then
[QUOTE=Kingy_ME;35722919]What do you do if all your friends are bronys and spam your Facebook wall with pictures of mlp? I honestly think it is sad that there are 18-19 year olds that watch a children's TV show so religiously, and then proceed to try and make their friends watch it as well, but I didn't want to say it too often because that's what started it.[/QUOTE] You quite literally need to sever yourself from these people, delete them from fb and stop talking to them, even if it means you've only got two friends left Bronies are the bottom of the social barrel, you may as well befriend all of the snitches in prison. People judge you by the company you keep.
just asked a girl i like if she wanna hangout or something then she replyed with the guys, right? i just answered sure dunno what todoodootoo
She doesn't feel comfortable with you one-on-one yet. Don't worry about it. Hang out with her in groups for a little while then ask her of she wants to do something with just you.
On the other hand you may have missed the opportunity to answer that with the guys wasn't quite what you had in mind
[QUOTE=gra;35725959]i'd like to meet girls but everyone at my school calls me rudolph because i have a mole approx. .4 inches in diameter on the tip of my nose. help!r[/QUOTE] I had a mole like than when I was younger, I just got it removed, leaves a bit of a scar but nothing too noticeable.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35728751]going to a prom(?) i guess, don't really know how to call it. It's a formal party. anyway, today is the day she meets my friends and i hope my friends won't be shit eating pricks about it[/QUOTE] If they're good friends they'll act like idiots so she'll want to cling to you. But really it'll mostly depend on how she reacts
So turns out that it was an open casket service, not the actual funeral. The open casket service depressed me so much I was up almost the entire night thinking about it, and now I don't really want to go to the funeral. I don't think I've ever been affected this much by death, I guess it's because they were both around my age...
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