The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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I met a new PLI at Drama Club's first meeting. [I]Red Dress Girl.[/I] I'd write poetry for this lady.
[I]I like your red dress.
Your skin and lips and hair, too.
Let's get funky, babe.[/I]
She's all energetic and bubbly and maybe a little bit crazy, but in a pretty darn endearing way. My interests are piqued! I wanna talk to [I]Red Dress Girl[/I], see what she's all about.
Plus, she said I was the best lookin' dude there, so at least I know going in that she doesn't think I'm some weird unshaven gypsy man. Or maybe she does, and just likes weird unshaven gypsy men. I dunno. Whichever it is, I'm feeling pretty copacetic.
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[I]Listen, Red Dress Girl,
if you have got a boyfriend,
I will say, "bummer."[/I]
[IMG]http://cs4436.vkontakte.ru/u11522824/140449892/x_ace562e7.jpg[/IMG]
Just the radio.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35727527]She doesn't feel comfortable with you one-on-one yet. Don't worry about it. Hang out with her in groups for a little while then ask her of she wants to do something with just you.[/QUOTE]
we have known each other for about 3 years @school/random party'es
[QUOTE=Seith;35726365]get it removed then[/QUOTE]
Be like Tyrion in a Song of Ice and Fire and chop it off with a sword.
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35726765]You quite literally need to sever yourself from these people, delete them from fb and stop talking to them, even if it means you've only got two friends left
Bronies are the bottom of the social barrel, you may as well befriend all of the snitches in prison. People judge you by the company you keep.[/QUOTE]
Bronies aren't that bad unless they bring it up in real life
I disagree based on the fact that you can pretty much identify a brony on sight by his attire and personal grooming
Besides, that's like saying that KKK members are alright once you don't talk to them about their hobbies
Or any one of a million analogies that could be made
Bronies are terrible, shun them
[editline]28th April 2012[/editline]
Thank christ they're predominantly an american phenomenon
breaking up with your friends because they like ponies is called being a shitty friend
then again i'm glad i don't have friends who like my little pony
It's not like something that occurs independently of someone's personality
[QUOTE=thisispain;35740351]breaking up with your friends because they like ponies is called being a shitty friend
then again i'm glad i don't have friends who like my little pony[/QUOTE]
The thing is, they kind of bug his life with it.
I mean, if it's anything and your friends constantly intrude on your life with it- it's needs to stop somehow.
Haikus, to impress your woman (or potential woman).
[I]I don't know your name,
but I can say, with full faith,
that I would like to.
Perhaps, after class,
we could rut to some weird shit?
But, you know, whatev.
I wrote you a song,
but it was not at all sweet.
Want me to sing it?[/I]
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35741596]Haikus, to impress your woman (or potential woman).
[I]I don't know your name,
but I can say, with full faith,
that I would like to.
Perhaps, after class,
we could rut to some weird shit?
But, you know, whatev.
I wrote you a song,
but it was not at all sweet.
Want me to sing it?[/I][/QUOTE]
All three failed.
On the second one I got a bitchslap.
If any of my friends truly became a brony I would no longer be friends with them and I would not feel remorse about it.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35744168]If any of my friends truly became a brony I would no longer be friends with them and I would not feel remorse about it.[/QUOTE]
A good percentage of people in my uni's gaming club are Bronies and I'm cool with it, they're not that bad.
Well, time for me to post my desperate (?) plea for love help.
I was really good friends with a girl in high school (you bet you know where this is going) and I never thought about seeking a relationship with her until my last year. I always thought she had a boyfriend till then but I found out she didn't (and never had), so I considered asking her out. Sadly, I never got a good moment to ask her due to ether it being the wrong place or being interrupted somehow. I would seek her, but the problem is, she's more illusive then the Lock Ness Monster and Sasquatch combined. She doesn't have a Facebook account, or any other account under her name that I can find, I can't find her number, and if I see her, it's because I bump into her in some place. The last time I saw her was at a bus stop two months ago and I didn't even get to talk to her.
I'm just sort of tossing up at the moment if I should still try and find her, or just give up. Even if she doesn't want to have a relationship, I'll be happy to have a good friend back.
You're putting way to much effort into someone you haven't even seen for two months ago and didn't even speak to.
Okay, so, today has been interesting. The following will be poorly phrased and have no structure whatsoever.
I found out that on of my friends has feelings for me and that another might do but also would go out with me. Now I have no idea what to do. I will call them A and B from now on. If I only knew about A I would probably ask her out but then knowing that B has feelings for me means I am somewhat reluctant to do so because she is a good friend and I don't want to hurt her. Of course, if I go out with B I end up hurting A, and if I go out with neither I am still single and so are they. I have no idea what to do. I have probably left out a load of important information so feel free to ask questions. I am incredibly confused right now.
[editline]28th April 2012[/editline]
A would go out with me, may have feelings for me, B has feelings for me...
[QUOTE=NeonpieDFTBA;35747895]Okay, so, today has been interesting. The following will be poorly phrased and have no structure whatsoever.
I found out that on of my friends has feelings for me and that another might do but also would go out with me. Now I have no idea what to do. I will call them A and B from now on. If I only knew about A I would probably ask her out but then knowing that B has feelings for me means I am somewhat reluctant to do so because she is a good friend and I don't want to hurt her. Of course, if I go out with B I end up hurting A, and if I go out with neither I am still single and so are they. I have no idea what to do. I have probably left out a load of important information so feel free to ask questions. I am incredibly confused right now.
[editline]28th April 2012[/editline]
A would go out with me, may have feelings for me, B has feelings for me...[/QUOTE]
who do you like?
Nobody appreciates the fine art of haiku these days.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35748098]Nobody appreciates the fine art of haiku these days.[/QUOTE]
I do
[QUOTE=DontDoShit;35747947]who do you like?[/QUOTE]
I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months ago so I haven't really got proper feelings for anyone at the moment. However, I have recently been spending a lot of time thinking about girls as a whole and 'A' has taken up a lot of my thoughts recently. I thought about what if one person said they liked me, never considered the idea of two!
Also, BDA, I must say they were lovely.
EDIT: apart from the middle one. that was a little... forward?
[QUOTE=NeonpieDFTBA;35748524]I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months ago so I haven't really got proper feelings for anyone at the moment. However, I have recently been spending a lot of time thinking about girls as a whole and 'A' has taken up a lot of my thoughts recently. I thought about what if one person said they liked me, never considered the idea of two!
Also, BDA, I must say they were lovely.
EDIT: apart from the middle one. that was a little... forward?[/QUOTE]
Well, you can't possibly make everyone happy, nor should you try. Try to do what makes YOU happy, while respecting the feeings of others. At the moment it seems like you prefer A, I'd try hanging out with her more and attempting to forge a relationship with her, while trying to perhaps let down B nicely.
Also, off to prom with the girlfriend, wish me luck!
Never posted here, I'd rather not post my qualms on Facepunch of all places but here it goes.
I broke up with a girl about 4 months ago, as of two months ago I've been with another. She's wonderful, smart and pretty the whole package but ever since the last girl I've felt different about being in a relationship. I do really like her, but she wasn't meant to be more than a hook up. I've never really had one-night stands because I feel bad leading girls on.
Anyways I've thought about breaking it off for awhile and I've even explained these feelings to her but I'm supposed to go to prom with her and she leaves to another province in 4 months and it's what she wanted and I don't want to take it from her.
Then on top of it I recently reconvened with my ex, and then last night I went to a party at her house after quarrelling with my girlfriend about going to some shitty party and we didn't talk much but when I was leaving I knocked over her phone and she just made a joke like "oh sorry if your trying to call someone but my phone doesn't work." and just hearing that light tone in her voice just brought all these feelings back.
I know she probably wouldn't take me back in the same sense as before but there's something still there and she was the girl I was gonna take to prom in the first place. I really wanted to give the girl I'm with what she wants but my hearts not in it...
So what Facepunch, give a sweet girl the send off to university of her dreams or take a shot at what I've always wanted and live with the grief of breaking a girls heart?
it's up to you obviously, but if i were in your position it would suck but i'd feel like that much better of a person for keeping my promise and going with the girl to prom, even if there was someone else. there's always going to be chances to go out with ladies, but you don't always get to do something genuinely nice for someone.
So tonight is prom. I'm not going nor is a majority of my friends. I still don't understand the appeal of prom, nor does the majority of people that i know.
Maybe i just dont find getting dressed up, and going to a hotel that fun.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;35751137]So tonight is prom. I'm not going nor is a majority of my friends. I still don't understand the appeal of prom, nor does the majority of people that i know.
Maybe i just dont find getting dressed up, and going to a hotel that fun.[/QUOTE]
lol
very typical facepunch attitude, I wonder if it holds up in 5 years
I'm not saying youll be utterly devastated by this decision for your whole life, but I do think at one point youll be sitting with some friends all reminiscing about your high school proms and you will regret not going
That's pretty much half the reason I went, because I knew if I didn't go I'd regret it down the road. It was fun and all, but it definitely wasn't as big a deal as people make it out to be.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35751935]lol
very typical facepunch attitude, I wonder if it holds up in 5 years
I'm not saying youll be utterly devastated by this decision for your whole life, but I do think at one point youll be sitting with some friends all reminiscing about your high school proms and you will regret not going[/QUOTE]
You know, i can always go next year right?
I probably will, i just still fail to see the appeal in it.
And weren't you like extremely desperate to go to prom with a date you asked a ton of people out?
I'd like to know from a guys point of view.. Would you date a girl who has done porn?
Not because you'd have an interest in how a porn star fucks or the "fact" that you [b]think[/b] sex will happen.
But, if you spot a pretty girl that you like, and you get to know her for her and one day, you find out shes done like 8 porn movies.. would you confront her about it and try to understand, or would you be turned off completely and never call her again?
The reason I ask is because, my friend does porn and shes very very pretty. She got this guys number tonight and some bitch told the guy that she did porn and he knew about it before he gave her his number. He seemed like a sleaze anyway.
But I digress; I guess to sum up my question is, would a "normal" guy care?
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;35752204]You know, i can always go next year right?
I probably will, i just still fail to see the appeal in it.
And weren't you like extremely desperate to go to prom with a date you asked a ton of people out?[/QUOTE]
youre a junior? then yeah theres no reason to go to prom
i asked 2 people out, I was just getting nervous about it because I felt like I was low on good options and I didn't want to go to prom with some random girl for the hell of it, I want to go with someone who I will have a good time with
but it worked out
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35752257]
But, if you spot a pretty girl that you like, and you get to know her for her and one day, you find out shes done like 8 porn movies.. would you confront her about it and try to understand, or would you be turned off completely and never call her again?[/QUOTE]
The latter
Idk if I'm normal but going out with a girl in the porn business is about as attractive a proposition as going out with a prostitute
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