The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=thisispain;35779370]no, she was a genius[/QUOTE]
how about she used to wear a dog collar to school, until her ex brought a dog leash and attached her to it?
this is from an extremely long time ago.
she was a kinky genius.
you let the best one go.
Well, she really wanted to see me the other day for some reason, so she came over and talked to me. She said she overreacted over being stressed over many things that had nothing to do with me and she was afraid of hurting me, so she wanted to get away from me. She said she doesn't understand why she gets like that, but she wants to figure out what it is and take care of it.
Of course, I told her I'd always be there for her even if she gets incredibly stressed out like that. I've always loved her, and she said that even though she may have been cold, she said she missed me every second and just didn't know what to do. I'm not the kind of person that can damn someone for something I truly know can't help it, because she's the sweetest person otherwise. My whole family loves her to death.
Anyway, we're back together, so we're happy. Doesn't mean I won't prove to her that I can't be responsible though, because she is right about the job thing regardless. She even said her manager will call me asap, so yeah, pretty awesome.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;35779377]My girlfriend texts me all day. If I don't feel like responding, I don't. It's not hard :v:
[editline]1st May 2012[/editline]
Well not all day, but quite frequently she'll text me before I've woken up.[/QUOTE]
I'm sure it would be fine if you were actually good with each other, but I was like 15, I wanted a girlfriend just for the sake of having one and we weren't right for each other whatsoever
so i moved in with my friend who is a bit of a hippy. she said she's glad I moved in, because she had just broken up with her boyfriend. they'd been going out for about a year, and she broke up with him because he's been a bit of a dick. among other things, she told him she'd been feeling depressed and mentally unwell, but asked him not to tell anyone about it since she was (and is) getting help. he just needed to know, since they were together.
So he wrote a song about it, mentioning her name and relationship to him, and sang it to hundreds of people. People - do not do this. That is all.
[url]http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/t0ynr/throwaway_time_whats_your_secret_that_could/[/url]
I don't know if any of the stuff there it's true, since it's reddit after all, but the stories are fucked up, i know there's a lot of minorly depressed people on facepunch, maybe this can boost some morale i don't know.
[QUOTE=Aries;35782537]so i moved in with my friend who is a bit of a hippy. she said she's glad I moved in, because she had just broken up with her boyfriend. they'd been going out for about a year, and she broke up with him because he's been a bit of a dick. among other things, she told him she'd been feeling depressed and mentally unwell, but asked him not to tell anyone about it since she was (and is) getting help. he just needed to know, since they were together.
So he wrote a song about it, mentioning her name and relationship to him, and sang it to hundreds of people. People - do not do this. That is all.[/QUOTE]
I have a guy on Facebook that just split up with his girlfriend and so he thought he'd add an even to his timeline thing called "End of relationship and my life" along with this picture:
[img]http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/542071_287388061350010_100002364540703_633931_2029895848_n.jpg[/img]
I don't know why you would do this.
I somehow got roped into going to a student council meeting to argue the case for a starting an on-campus veteran's club. When I volunteered to help out with this, I was not made aware that this was a speaking role. It all seems a bit silly!
Silly in the sense that we have to go through student council, I mean. It's not like the clubs have funding or anything. They just sit around and do clubby things.
[QUOTE=NeonpieDFTBA;35747895]Okay, so, today has been interesting. The following will be poorly phrased and have no structure whatsoever.
I found out that on of my friends has feelings for me and that another might do but also would go out with me. Now I have no idea what to do. I will call them A and B from now on. If I only knew about A I would probably ask her out but then knowing that B has feelings for me means I am somewhat reluctant to do so because she is a good friend and I don't want to hurt her. Of course, if I go out with B I end up hurting A, and if I go out with neither I am still single and so are they. I have no idea what to do. I have probably left out a load of important information so feel free to ask questions. I am incredibly confused right now.
[editline]28th April 2012[/editline]
A would go out with me, may have feelings for me, B has feelings for me...[/QUOTE]
So, yesterday I asked A out (in the teenager sense of do you want to be my girlfriend, the dating process pretty much nullified by the fact we already know each other really well) and she said yes :dance:
4 hours later she texts me saying that she has changed her mind because we are good friends and she doesn't want to risk that (me and my ex are nowhere near as close as we were before we went out). :suicide:
[QUOTE=NeonpieDFTBA;35784889]So, yesterday I asked A out (in the teenager sense of do you want to be my girlfriend, the dating process pretty much nullified by the fact we already know each other really well) and she said yes :dance:
4 hours later she texts me saying that she has changed her mind because we are good friends and she doesn't want to risk that (me and my ex are nowhere near as close as we were before we went out). :suicide:[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't worry about it. Aint nothing but a thing
Hello Advice thread, I would like some advice on this situation, cause I am feeling a little gloomy...
So, I was talking to this chick for about 3 weeks, and i decide to talk to her if she liked me the way i digged her. (you know, you like a chick, talk to her for awhile, see what happens go out...)
Now mind you, She had some of the prettiest eyes and a great personality, 2 key, she did not have that good of a body, but that is no problem, for the first 2 reasons is why I liked her. She is pretty book smart, but really street dumb. Some people thought she is ugly, i personally did not think she was ugly in the least bit, but she was no model.
Now picture me; (sorry if i boast, its just the way i thought my self) I play football, I am pretty decently built, i way about 195, I am relatively smart, taking honor and AP classes, but here is the kicker, (in my opinion, this is why i have never had a girl friend) i am about 5'4/5'5.
This is probably the only chick that i actually liked not just for her body (kind of shallow i suppose). Any way back to the story
So I talk to her on Friday about if she digged me like I digged her. Well she didn't, it hurt a little bit, but i shook it off. Now, you would think it would be awkward after that(i have 2 classes with her, sitting by her in both classes) but it wasn't, not even in the least bit, we still talked during class like that never happened. I am like ok, i deal with this, but that all changed what i figured out today...
Today, she was behind me talking to another chick about some guy... and I am like " alright, that's kind of douche to be talking about while I am right here...", but apparently it was about another guy she was texting and how they might be a thing. What made it bad was, while i was texting her those 3 weeks, she was talking to him about getting together so to speak. (they were talking as if they might date each other after a month of talking.).
So i decide to look this fucker up online to see what he looks like, and to be honest, he is not the worst looking dude ever (no homo.) and i get a little angry, how i start to think about how this might not have happened. well a scenario keeps playing in my head, that if i was taller, like 5'11/6'1, something might have happened between us. Now it is so VERY painful to talk to her during classes and shit knowing that she might hook up with a complete douche bag.
Now, that is problem one, how do i forget about her and move on, or go "hard mode" and take her from that douche bag, so to speak? As for problem two is, my height.
My height, in my personal opinion, is what is making me look unattractive, so to speak. i honestly think i have a decent face and body build, but its the height that is killing me. i do not really know what else to say about my height... i want you opinions on it, because it feels like no chick wants a short fucker, and it makes me think, what if i grow up alone and die alone?
If y'all can help on these problems, that would be FANTASTIC!
Also Tl;Dr height problems and girl problem.
[QUOTE=Jabalab;35787745]Hello Advice thread, I would like some advice on this situation, cause I am feeling a little gloomy...
So, I was talking to this chick for about 3 weeks, and i decide to talk to her if she liked me the way i digged her. (you know, you like a chick, talk to her for awhile, see what happens go out...)
Now mind you, She had some of the prettiest eyes and a great personality, 2 key, she did not have that good of a body, but that is no problem, for the first 2 reasons is why I liked her. She is pretty book smart, but really street dumb. Some people thought she is ugly, i personally did not think she was ugly in the least bit, but she was no model.
Now picture me; (sorry if i boast, its just the way i thought my self) I play football, I am pretty decently built, i way about 195, I am relatively smart, taking honor and AP classes, but here is the kicker, (in my opinion, this is why i have never had a girl friend) i am about 5'4/5'5.
This is probably the only chick that i actually liked not just for her body (kind of shallow i suppose). Any way back to the story
So I talk to her on Friday about if she digged me like I digged her. Well she didn't, it hurt a little bit, but i shook it off. Now, you would think it would be awkward after that(i have 2 classes with her, sitting by her in both classes) but it wasn't, not even in the least bit, we still talked during class like that never happened. I am like ok, i deal with this, but that all changed what i figured out today...
Today, she was behind me talking to another chick about some guy... and I am like " alright, that's kind of douche to be talking about while I am right here...", but apparently it was about another guy she was texting and how they might be a thing. What made it bad was, while i was texting her those 3 weeks, she was talking to him about getting together so to speak. (they were talking as if they might date each other after a month of talking.).
So i decide to look this fucker up online to see what he looks like, and to be honest, he is not the worst looking dude ever (no homo.) and i get a little angry, how i start to think about how this might not have happened. well a scenario keeps playing in my head, that if i was taller, like 5'11/6'1, something might have happened between us. Now it is so VERY painful to talk to her during classes and shit knowing that she might hook up with a complete douche bag.
Now, that is problem one, how do i forget about her and move on, or go "hard mode" and take her from that douche bag, so to speak? As for problem two is, my height.
My height, in my personal opinion, is what is making me look unattractive, so to speak. i honestly think i have a decent face and body build, but its the height that is killing me. i do not really know what else to say about my height... i want you opinions on it, because it feels like no chick wants a short fucker, and it makes me think, what if i grow up alone and die alone?
If y'all can help on these problems, that would be FANTASTIC!
Also Tl;Dr height problems and girl problem.[/QUOTE]
I think it's a little ridiculous to blame it all on your height, and to be honest I'd just move on.
this might seem weird now, but ive been dating my girlfriend for about 10 months now and besides the 2 months that i was in basic training, our relationship has been one long, unending conversation. texting all day, talking on the phone an hour or more a day, etc.
I texted a shitton with my ex, constantly the whole day. But honestly that was pretty annoying after a while mainly due to the fact that she thought I would do stuff behind her back whenever I ceased to write her after more than one hour.
Currently with my girlfriend we never write eachother that much, sometimes on skype but we also live like 10 minutes away. So it is a lot easier, I am so thankful for that.
Constant writing can be a tad annoying if you are kind of busy.
i text the girl im currently with a lot but we're both very understanding that we're busy people so it doesn't bother me and it doesn't bother her if one party neglects to answer, we just pick it up some other time.
i would love a girl to talk about my bowel movements with
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35789715]i would love a girl to talk about my bowel movements with[/QUOTE]
oh jo you rascal
My boyfriend doesnt fart around anyone. He'll hold it in until he goes to the bathroom...
He gets REALLY mad if I fart around him. He'll literally spray me with lysol. Theres something wrong with that boy.
i totally have no idea what the tweetiquette is behind RTs and i've been using twitter for like half a year halp
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35789870]My boyfriend doesnt fart around anyone. He'll hold it in until he goes to the bathroom...
He gets REALLY mad if I fart around him. He'll literally spray me with lysol. Theres something wrong with that boy.[/QUOTE]
That boy ain't right
[QUOTE=Mon;35789925]i totally have no idea what the tweetiquette is behind RTs and i've been using twitter for like half a year halp[/QUOTE]
lol tweetiquette
This page has suddenly gone to rock bottom
[QUOTE=Jabalab;35787745]Hello Advice thread, I would like some advice on this situation, cause I am feeling a little gloomy...
So, I was talking to this chick for about 3 weeks, and i decide to talk to her if she liked me the way i digged her. (you know, you like a chick, talk to her for awhile, see what happens go out...)
Now mind you, She had some of the prettiest eyes and a great personality, 2 key, she did not have that good of a body, but that is no problem, for the first 2 reasons is why I liked her. She is pretty book smart, but really street dumb. Some people thought she is ugly, i personally did not think she was ugly in the least bit, but she was no model.
Now picture me; (sorry if i boast, its just the way i thought my self) I play football, I am pretty decently built, i way about 195, I am relatively smart, taking honor and AP classes, but here is the kicker, (in my opinion, this is why i have never had a girl friend) i am about 5'4/5'5.
This is probably the only chick that i actually liked not just for her body (kind of shallow i suppose). Any way back to the story
So I talk to her on Friday about if she digged me like I digged her. Well she didn't, it hurt a little bit, but i shook it off. Now, you would think it would be awkward after that(i have 2 classes with her, sitting by her in both classes) but it wasn't, not even in the least bit, we still talked during class like that never happened. I am like ok, i deal with this, but that all changed what i figured out today...
Today, she was behind me talking to another chick about some guy... and I am like " alright, that's kind of douche to be talking about while I am right here...", but apparently it was about another guy she was texting and how they might be a thing. What made it bad was, while i was texting her those 3 weeks, she was talking to him about getting together so to speak. (they were talking as if they might date each other after a month of talking.).
So i decide to look this fucker up online to see what he looks like, and to be honest, he is not the worst looking dude ever (no homo.) and i get a little angry, how i start to think about how this might not have happened. well a scenario keeps playing in my head, that if i was taller, like 5'11/6'1, something might have happened between us. Now it is so VERY painful to talk to her during classes and shit knowing that she might hook up with a complete douche bag.
Now, that is problem one, how do i forget about her and move on, or go "hard mode" and take her from that douche bag, so to speak? As for problem two is, my height.
My height, in my personal opinion, is what is making me look unattractive, so to speak. i honestly think i have a decent face and body build, but its the height that is killing me. i do not really know what else to say about my height... i want you opinions on it, because it feels like no chick wants a short fucker, and it makes me think, what if i grow up alone and die alone?
If y'all can help on these problems, that would be FANTASTIC!
Also Tl;Dr height problems and girl problem.[/QUOTE]
I know short dudes who do extremely well when it comes to picking up girls or vice versa, if you ARE good looking then it's just your attitude and charisma or lack of that's the problem
Sure some girls are only into guys that are X amount taller than them, but you shouldn't starve by any means
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35789870]My boyfriend doesnt fart around anyone. He'll hold it in until he goes to the bathroom...
He gets REALLY mad if I fart around him. He'll literally spray me with lysol. Theres something wrong with that boy.[/QUOTE]
my mom is the same, except she just gets mad
i've once seen her storm out from the room because my dad "only farted to make her angry, because he'd been farting all day since he got home from work" (which by the way wasn't the case at all, but some people actually just fart now and then)
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35791461]my mom is the same, except she just gets mad
i've once seen her storm out from the room because my dad "only farted to make her angry, because he'd been farting all day since he got home from work" (which by the way wasn't the case at all, but some people actually just fart now and then)[/QUOTE]
Sarah! ^_^
Idk, I've had enough boyfriends who would do that infront of me and it would annoy me, but it's weird having a guy not do it at all. I mean, it's a plus, but I'm so comfortable being myself around someone I've been around for a while, that certain things can be forgivable. I'm not even allowed to burp when he's around. Crazy person..
maybe he's mormon.
sounds kind of weird, tbh, yes
i don't go around farting and burping loudly around my boyfriend either, but it's not something i'm uncomfortable doing
maybe you should just do it so much when he's there that he gets used to it
I bet wherever he is he felt a mysterious chill down his spine when you posted that advice
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35791161]This page has suddenly gone to rock bottom
I know short dudes who do extremely well when it comes to picking up girls or vice versa, if you ARE good looking then it's just your attitude and charisma or lack of that's the problem
Sure some girls are only into guys that are X amount taller than them, but you shouldn't starve by any means[/QUOTE]
Personality can overcome any physical appearance, but as another fairly small guy, I think height really does play an important role. My sort of girlfriend, would always gently tease me about being taller (before we sort of got together) and though it was said as I joke, I always felt that there was a bit more to it than that, which contributed to her not being interested for a long time.
In the long run, just being close to her and being good friends got around it, so to the OP, I would say, try not to be angry/moody with her, just keep trying to be close with her, show her what a nice fellow you are and win her round/wear her down!
Obviously, put 2 inexperienced men, one attractive (height) and the other is not, statistically speaking the attractive one would have a higher chance of having sex, but again, it's only a chance, not a fact. Meaning, that good looks is only a factor, in fact, it's not only a factor, but a minor factor.
Females tend to find taller males more attractive, yes. Attractiveness, in reality, only amounts to how much they will be willing to listen to what you have to say because physically, you had already offered something that they found attractive.
Now, because you are more attractive than the other male, you got a chance to introduce yourself without much work and this is where most attractive inexperienced males, fall. They think they hit the jackpot, when in reality they are just as hopeless as the unattractive male.
Height or hair color, it doesn't matter. It only seems to matter to you, because you are actually bothered by how tall you are. Think about it; why are you bothered, at all? If everybody around were short, would you even care? Whether we like it or not, we qualify ourselves according to what society has dictated as 'good looking' but in reality it's only a subjective thing. The more you are able to love yourself, others will be able to do the same.
I don't understand people. They are of a foreign origin, and they bother me.
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