The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Should I pull my ex aside (after 2 days of avoiding talking to her) and talk to her about getting back together with the logic I posted earlier, or wait for her to come to me?
Yesterday I was asking this girl if she was ok, and my ex butted in and acted like I was talking to her and smiled and said she was doing fine. I just was like, "Uh, that's great I guess, but I wasn't really talking to you" and I left the room.
This is my current ex that dumped me after prom btw, not the dog-collar chick from 2 years ago.
[QUOTE=KnowProblem;35793885]not the dog-collar chick from 2 years ago.[/QUOTE]
lol
[QUOTE=thisispain;35791857]maybe he's mormon.[/QUOTE]
Nope. Just Republican, homophobic, "christian", and everything American cherry pie.
[editline]2nd May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35792006]sounds kind of weird, tbh, yes
i don't go around farting and burping loudly around my boyfriend either, but it's not something i'm uncomfortable doing
maybe you should just do it so much when he's there that he gets used to it[/QUOTE]
:v: He'll most likely threaten to break up with me
threaten to sneek in and fart on his pillow every night if he breaks up with you due to farting
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35796137]Nope. Just Republican, homophobic, "christian", and everything American cherry pie.[/QUOTE]
eww
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35796137]Nope. Just Republican, homophobic, "christian", and everything American cherry pie.[/QUOTE]
lol ew
Well this girl I've had a thing for all of a sudden has a boyfriend. We've been friends for over a year and dated quite a bit though but no avail. I can say I've felt better.
And that's exactly why you don't wait around, just expecting things will happen without taking action. It never leads to anything good.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35790550]ok i gotta admit bad example
just the idea of texting my gf "yo honey i took the wettest, most amazing shit ever today"[/QUOTE]
im sarcastic a lot but i swear I was serious about the poop thing
i talk about poop a lot and its a pretty big part of my life that I would like to share with someone
and theres no way you'll see this as anything but sarcastic, but i swear its the truth!!
Jo wants to shit on girls
i'm one of those dumb girls who really hates her boyfriend's ex
it makes me feel like an awful person but she's just such a cunt for no reason at all
You are so awful...
[QUOTE=KnowProblem;35793885]Should I pull my ex aside (after 2 days of avoiding talking to her) and talk to her about getting back together with the logic I posted earlier, or wait for her to come to me?
Yesterday I was asking this girl if she was ok, and my ex butted in and acted like I was talking to her and smiled and said she was doing fine. I just was like, "Uh, that's great I guess, but I wasn't really talking to you" and I left the room.
This is my current ex that dumped me after prom btw, not the dog-collar chick from 2 years ago.[/QUOTE]
Let her come to you. Logic doesn't work on women.
[QUOTE=psychomidget;35800559]Let her come to you. Logic doesn't work on women.[/QUOTE]
not true and bigoted
Well, I'm the vice-president of the Student Veteran Organization now, and I'll have to go to Student Council meetings every week starting the fall semester. I'm not really sure how this happened! I asked if there was anything I could do to help out, and [I]bam[/I].
C'est la vie.
Drama club is meeting again tomorrow. I'm hoping [I]Red Dress Girl[/I] will be there, 'cause I'd definitely like to see what's up with that.
[B]ALSO,[/B] how can I find roommates? My friends were going to move into my new apartment with me, but one of them has definitively bailed, and the other "still isn't quite sure" if he can swing the rent, so I need to find two emergency backup roomies. I'm not going to use Craigslist, considering my dad got scammed out of six thousand dollars by a couple of unscrupulous Serbian car salesmen the last time we delved into those murky waters, so I'm not sure how to go about this! I've been telling people, but it seems a bit weird to ask people I've only just met if they'd be interested in moving in with me.
Advice and guidance would be much appreciated!
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35801025]Well, I'm the vice-president of the Student Veteran Organization now, and I'll have to go to Student Council meetings every week starting the fall semester. I'm not really sure how this happened! I asked if there was anything I could do to help out, and [I]bam[/I].
C'est la vie.
Drama club is meeting again tomorrow. I'm hoping [I]Red Dress Girl[/I] will be there, 'cause I'd definitely like to see what's up with that.
[B]ALSO,[/B] how can I find roommates? My friends were going to move into my new apartment with me, but one of them has definitively bailed, and the other "still isn't quite sure" if he can swing the rent, so I need to find two emergency backup roomies. I'm not going to use Craigslist, considering my dad got scammed out of six thousand dollars by a couple of unscrupulous Serbian car salesmen the last time we delved into those murky waters, so I'm not sure how to go about this! I've been telling people, but it seems a bit weird to ask people I've only just met if they'd be interested in moving in with me.
Advice and guidance would be much appreciated![/QUOTE]
I love you.
I wish I could be your roomate, living with you has got to be fun.
[QUOTE=psychomidget;35800559]Let her come to you. Logic doesn't work on women.[/QUOTE]
I sort of understand the logic here of not trying to negotiate because it won't amount to anything, but there's about a million other ways you could've said it.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35800685]not true and bigoted[/QUOTE]
Basically everyone has told me to just back off and let her come to me, so that's what I'm doing. Problem is, tomorrow might be one of the last times I'll see her for like a week or two, so that might not really work in my favor.
TBH I'm getting over her pretty well now though. I've been guitar shopping trying to pick a lefty guitar, and I just went to the gym to learn how to do a sideflip, feeling more alive and awesome now than I have in months.
I can dance like a pro, and I've actually gotten women to be attracted to me through it (However, they were Canadian :v:) but I'm not really of age to go clubbin'. What can I do to show them off without being a douche and finding the right time/place.
[QUOTE=Zambies!;35803661]I can dance like a pro, and I've actually gotten women to be attracted to me through it (However, they were Canadian :v:) but I'm not really of age to go clubbin'. What can I do to show them off without being a douche and finding the right time/place.[/QUOTE]
prom/homecoming/school dances/dance off/dance battle/whatever
people who can actually dance well at those things are worshiped like gods. also try going to a gym if you do breakdancing, you'd certainly turn a few heads.
This feels like a stupid thing to ask advice for but oh well.
People keep flirting with me when I walk the streets absolute strangers and I have no clue as to what to do with these advances.
On one hand i feel like even i went up and said a word either i would be made a fool or any kind of fling is impossible because the chances of me being compatible with the type of people that yell out to strangers being astronomical.
On the other hand I feel kind of bad about the fact that I throw away these opportunities.
Opinion?
If this happens all the time, then just don't throw it away next time...
Intrigue yourself, find out who they are...
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35797251]And that's exactly why you don't wait around, just expecting things will happen without taking action. It never leads to anything good.[/QUOTE]
Can't say you're wrong, learned my lesson.
I don't want to make a thread about this and I have no idea where to ask this, but a question for the ladies(possible solution???)
Im a fairly paranoid person, but I've had a lump in my right breast on the underside (sometimes I get tenderness or a weird lump thingy under or near my right armpit) for a few years now. It's always freaked me out and it isn't in my left one. I've been to the doctors and obgyn a handful of times but no one says anything about it. (not sure if very ones checked it everytime I've went). I was scheduled to go back this February but I had a traumatic experience last time I went last year after moving to another state and thus changing doctors. I didn't want to go back and I'm scared and don't trust anyone to touch me.
I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on Friday the 13th and decided to be even more paranoid and got over the counter plan b. it fucked up my menstral cycle and I've been feeling weird ever since.
Anywho, I woke up from a deep sleep just now and realized how engorged my breasts are. They're very large, tender and I feel a bit of in the right one. The lump is still there. I've been crying for a good hour because I don't know what to do. I already owe the hospital 1400$. I've been really lightheaded and when I bend down and come back up; the feeling you get when your going down a roller coaster happens, a pain in my throat.
My kidney has also been giving me some pain. (I think I know hat that is though.)
I've been searching online about all the possibilities: breast cancer, fibrocystic breasts..do mammograms hurt? Lol. :/ I know I should probably set an appointment with a doctor but they've felt this lump before and no one has said anything about it. I just hope I'm pregnant or something. Actually no I don't. I'm taking a pregnancy test right now.
well i don't know about the rest of the symptoms, but whilst a lump in the breast can be a scary thing to come across, it's also quite likely that it's entirely harmless. lumps seem to be quite common among young females.
i have one! went to the doctor a couple of weeks after noticing it, she felt the lump itself and checked my armpits, then made me an appointment at the hospital to get it looked at. along i went, the lady used ultrasound to look at it, and told me it was a fibroadenoma; a completely benign (harmless) tumour. easy peasy!
as for the other stuff my best guess would be that it's hormone related after taking that Plan B. just take it easy and if you still don't feel better in a couple of days then i would really go see a doctor. i'd also recommend going to see one (in the slightly longer term) for the lump. it could very easily be nothing, but if it's worrying you then it's worth to go see a doctor just to get things ruled out and to ease your mind
For me to give a proper diagnosis of these lumps, I must ask for pictures.
I'm a doctor.
[QUOTE=Autumn;35807096]well i don't know about the rest of the symptoms, but whilst a lump in the breast can be a scary thing to come across, it's also quite likely that it's entirely harmless. lumps seem to be quite common among young females.
i have one! went to the doctor a couple of weeks after noticing it, she felt the lump itself and checked my armpits, then made me an appointment at the hospital to get it looked at. along i went, the lady used ultrasound to look at it, and told me it was a fibroadenoma; a completely benign (harmless) tumour. easy peasy!
as for the other stuff my best guess would be that it's hormone related after taking that Plan B. just take it easy and if you still don't feel better in a couple of days then i would really go see a doctor. i'd also recommend going to see one (in the slightly longer term) for the lump. it could very easily be nothing, but if it's worrying you then it's worth to go see a doctor just to get things ruled out and to ease your mind[/QUOTE]
I remember we talked about that. I'm glad it was nothing and that you're okay. I've been talking to a lot of people and some think its just hormones like you said, or that I'm still growing.. O_o; I hope so.. I will see if I can make an appointment with a trusted [b]woman[/b] doctor. I just know its going to suck having to pay the obscene amount of money for this. Especially if its nothing. Thank you ma'am :)
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35806811]I don't want to make a thread about this and I have no idea where to ask this, but a question for the ladies(possible solution???)
Im a fairly paranoid person, but I've had a lump in my right breast on the underside (sometimes I get tenderness or a weird lump thingy under or near my right armpit) for a few years now. It's always freaked me out and it isn't in my left one. I've been to the doctors and obgyn a handful of times but no one says anything about it. (not sure if very ones checked it everytime I've went). I was scheduled to go back this February but I had a traumatic experience last time I went last year after moving to another state and thus changing doctors. I didn't want to go back and I'm scared and don't trust anyone to touch me.
I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on Friday the 13th and decided to be even more paranoid and got over the counter plan b. it fucked up my menstral cycle and I've been feeling weird ever since.
Anywho, I woke up from a deep sleep just now and realized how engorged my breasts are. They're very large, tender and I feel a bit of in the right one. The lump is still there. I've been crying for a good hour because I don't know what to do. I already owe the hospital 1400$. I've been really lightheaded and when I bend down and come back up; the feeling you get when your going down a roller coaster happens, a pain in my throat.
My kidney has also been giving me some pain. (I think I know hat that is though.)
I've been searching online about all the possibilities: breast cancer, fibrocystic breasts..do mammograms hurt? Lol. :/ I know I should probably set an appointment with a doctor but they've felt this lump before and no one has said anything about it. I just hope I'm pregnant or something. Actually no I don't. I'm taking a pregnancy test right now.[/QUOTE]
Breast cancer has a high chance of being heriditary if you are truly worried you can ask if any of your relatives have had it.
[QUOTE=Murky42;35807618]Breast cancer has a high chance of being heriditary if you are truly worried you can ask if any of your relatives have had it.[/QUOTE]
My grandmother died of cancer but I'm not sure what kind of cancer it was. I'm too afraid to ask my mother because I dont want to remind her about her mom dying.
Too afraid or do you actually know whether she will or will not respond very emotionally? Your mother decides whether she will or will not react emotionally / feel bad. She's a grown woman.
[QUOTE=Seith;35808000]Too afraid or do you actually know whether she will or will not respond very emotionally? Your mother decides whether she will or will not react emotionally / feel bad. She's a grown woman.[/QUOTE]
I dont know. I dont really talk to people in my family.
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