• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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I don't think he can legally access most parking garages with that clearance.
Man, I can't help but feel like an asshole when close friends invite me to do shit and I really really don't want to do it. I was just invited to see The Avengers, which doesn't interest me at all, and maybe have a small gaming session at a friend's house, and I was just like "I'd love to spend time with you but I really don't feel like doing any of that today." I'm just not feeling it today. I don't feel sick, but I don't feel good, y'know? Just one of those days where you want to spend all day doing nothing.
Happens to a lot to me to. Some guys invite me to go out or just chill a bit. Sometimes I just do not want to. It is normal. Sometimes I really want to spent a nice night alone playing some Skyrim.
i feel very opposite right now, I really want to go out tonight, but I'm stuck at home right now because I have to do this medical thing every day and now I dont have a ride to my friends house, so I have to wait about an hour before I can go out
Poor Jo. Poor, poor Jo. :( [editline]4th May 2012[/editline] Any American users know some good Roommate-findin' services? I listed myself on roomster.com, but I'm not sure how active it is. There are a lot of users, but most of them haven't been online in weeks. How did you find roommates, if you've got some? [editline]4th May 2012[/editline] Pooooooo[sub]oooooooo[sub]ooooooor[/sub][/sub] Jo.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35825082]Poor Jo. Poor, poor Jo. :( [editline]4th May 2012[/editline] Any American users know some good Roommate-findin' services? I listed myself on roomster.com, but I'm not sure how active it is. There are a lot of users, but most of them haven't been online in weeks. How did you find roommates, if you've got some? [editline]4th May 2012[/editline] Pooooooo[sub]oooooooo[sub]ooooooor[/sub][/sub] Jo.[/QUOTE] Craigslist.. lol Im serious Also, go into Starbucks. They have a bulletin board with loads of ads. Roommates being one of them. You'll most likely end up shacking up with a vegan hipster girl/guy though :)
Eeeh! I have a healthy distrust of Craigslist, because I have this weird quirk where I don't like being murdered and robbed. I'll take a look, but the second I smell "serial rapist," I'm getting out of Dodge. [editline]4th May 2012[/editline] [quote]I am a hard working inelligent male who needs to find a room by May. 1, 2012. I AM LOOKING FOR A WORK FOR ROOM SITUATION. I am willing to perform yard work , household chores, personal assistant. Or other tasks as defined by owner.[/quote] See, I'm a bit wary of anybody who offers to perform "other tasks, as defined by owner" in exchange for short-notice housing.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35825718]Eeeh! I have a healthy distrust of Craigslist, because I have this weird quirk where I don't like being murdered and robbed. I'll take a look, but the second I smell "serial rapist," I'm getting out of Dodge.[/QUOTE]There's a bigger chance of people on craiglist thinking you're a bearded axe murderer than there is of you encountering a serial rapist
i'd really avoid craigslist when looking for roomates if I were you
All moot anyway, there were very few listings in my area. I wasn't interested in any of the "51 yo man w/ truck" listings, and all the others were specifically requesting female-only rooms, with the exception of one dude who demanded that we include our sexual orientation in our contact email. [editline]4th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Glitch360;35825755]There's a bigger chance of people on craiglist thinking you're a bearded axe murderer than there is of you encountering a serial rapist[/QUOTE] Please, I have, like, the friendliest face in the world. I'm Falcor, man. Everybody loves Falcor.
I'm having some friends over tonight who are involved in some kind of weird love triangle. John loves Angie, Angie loves Jordan, Jordan loves himself. With a bit of whiskey and some clever sleeping arrangements, I could potentially make it a weird love square. Or even a weird love pentagon, if one of the boys is willing to compromise his sexuality. Probably Jordan, if I had to guess. He seems most likely to suddenly renounce heterosexuality.
I am so baffled by your post, BDA.
This might be the wrong thread, and I definitely should be using an alt for private reasons, but here goes nothing: I think I'm either becoming extremely cynical or I'm just not good at making good, long lasting friendships with most anybody. Before you guys tell me to do sports, join clubs, do after school activities, I have, and that's where most of my current friends are. But lately, I've just been feeling odd when around them. I guess I just realized that I personally have polar opposite interests, I have a different set of morals, etc. To put simply, I've become very agitated with them, to the point that an excessive amount of time with them would most likely cause me to become extremely exasperated. I just want one friend I can really connect with, someone I can call a best friend, as opposed to a lot of people I know who turn out to be douches, however, its very late, and there's almost no way to make a long friendship, perhaps a close one, but not a long one. Not sure where I went with that, but I really needed to vent that out. Thanks FP.
[QUOTE=vizard38;35828987]This might be the wrong thread, and I definitely should be using an alt for private reasons, but here goes nothing: I think I'm either becoming extremely cynical or I'm just not good at making good, long lasting friendships with most anybody. Before you guys tell me to do sports, join clubs, do after school activities, I have, and that's where most of my current friends are. But lately, I've just been feeling odd when around them. I guess I just realized that I personally have polar opposite interests, I have a different set of morals, etc. To put simply, I've become very agitated with them, to the point that an excessive amount of time with them would most likely cause me to become extremely exasperated. I just want one friend I can really connect with, someone I can call a best friend, as opposed to a lot of people I know who turn out to be douches, however, its very late, and there's almost no way to make a long friendship, perhaps a close one, but not a long one. Not sure where I went with that, but I really needed to vent that out. Thanks FP.[/QUOTE] No one ever said making good, lasting friends was easy. It comes easier for some people, but for others it really takes work. Part of making good friends is to get people who seem chill involved in your life. Open up with them, share emotional experiences with them and leave your comfort zone while you are around them. You have to be willing to expose yourself to their judgement or to be hurt by them if you want to create the emotional bond that is a true friendship. It'll be hard to do, but not impossible. Anything worth doing in life is hard and anything that is hard to do will be rewarding in the long run. Take it from someone who has experienced a lot of real challenges in his young life. Your challenge of making close friends is just as real and will be rewarding once you reach what you have set out to do.
I have this big fucking problem now (Well big in my book...) My female friend, got furiously mad, because i asked her if she likes my friend. Little back story, We went on a date, date was fun, but she said she was done with relationships. This is a really closed off girl. Hasn't had a relationship for 17 years and plans on not having one. I understand that. But supposedly she liked me and i still had a chance. Well i see her flirting with my best friend. And he comes up to me going "What the fuck? She's fucked up..." because of how she was flirting with him and completely ignoring me out of nowhere. I'l cut to the end. I pretty much asked her on text if she likes him, told her i was just curious. Now, she's fucking furious. She goes, "WHAT.. THE FUCK? WHY WOULD YOU THINK THAT? HELL NO" She says she's done with both of us. Even as friends. Just because we both asked her if she likes him. What the fuck do i do? Why'd she get so mad when we asked her?
She's bat shit insane, be glad you found out sooner rather then later.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;35830686]She's bat shit insane, be glad you found out sooner then later.[/QUOTE] Am i in the wrong here? I feel like i should say sorry but i have no fucking idea what Im being sorry for. It's fucking pissing me off. I liked her and she fucking chaaangeeedd drastically.
[QUOTE=Region;35830728]Am i in the wrong here? I feel like i should say sorry but i have no fucking idea what Im being sorry for. It's fucking pissing me off. I liked her and she fucking chaaangeeedd drastically.[/QUOTE] You're best off forgetting her. You did nothing wrong. Asking if they like someone isn't a crime, and it should never be one. Or you can accept her batshit craziness, because she will probably calm down, and things will go back to normal, just do you want to accept the fact that she's crazy as fuck? I've liked girls and they've changed drastically, i still like them, but i don't like them in the way i want to try to achieve a relationship, but would rather just be a close friend, you can strive for that. Or just pull all out of the crazy zone. I say the latter unless she's a really cool person (she doesn't sound like one...)
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;35830797]You're best off forgetting her. You did nothing wrong. Asking if they like someone isn't a crime, and it should never be one. Or you can accept her batshit craziness, because she will probably calm down, and things will go back to normal, just do you want to accept the fact that she's crazy as fuck? I've liked girls and they've changed drastically, i still like them, but i don't like them in the way i want to try to achieve a relationship, but would rather just be a close friend, you can strive for that. Or just pull all out of the crazy zone. I say the latter unless she's a really cool person (she doesn't sound like one...)[/QUOTE] That's what I'm trying for. Just friends. I don't want her to fucking hate me. She's actually really cool. She's been through a lot of fucked up stuff in her life. I still like her a lot and I'm still attracted to her. But she's ruining me. We're trying to fix this right now. Told her to just start out from 0 like we've never met before.
[QUOTE=Region;35830831]That's what I'm trying for. Just friends. I don't want her to fucking hate me. She's actually really cool. She's been through a lot of fucked up stuff in her life. I still like her a lot and I'm still attracted to her. But she's ruining me. We're trying to fix this right now. Told her to just start out from 0 like we've never met before.[/QUOTE] Eh time fixes all wounds, i would just tell her she needs to chill out, and when she's ready she can talk to you. Trust me, you don't want to go diving head first into crazy. And she sounds like crazy.
Tell her to fuck off(if you want) and cut all ties with her You deserve better than some batshit female who has her head up her ass, even as a friend
So my friend fucked up my nose rather badly today and it was a bloody mess for a few hours while we got it fixed up, and he has been incessantly apologizing even though I tell him "It's fine, shit happens" what should I do :v:
[QUOTE=Zambies!;35831107]So my friend fucked up my nose rather badly today and it was a bloody mess for a few hours while we got it fixed up, and he has been incessantly apologizing even though I tell him "It's fine, shit happens" what should I do :v:[/QUOTE] Grab him by the collar and say "Listen here assclown, It's perfectly okay you fucked up my nose, now stop apologzing because its bugging the shit out of me" or something along those lines in a more gentle, but assertive manner. I can relate because my girlfriend had to have a "talk" with me about my excessive apologies for little shit a while back.
[QUOTE=Kabstrac;35831131]Was it intentional?[/QUOTE] We were joking around and he tripped me on accident, he feels like shit about it because I was so bloody edit: VVVVV what Jmir said is best.
To the best friends post; Even best friends from kindergarten days aren't long lasting. I've had this girl as a best friend for over a decade now and she's screwed me over so many times, I see her as a big sister that I always let her back in. Even if she is degrading me with her other best friends. It's really sick. People change all the time. Even with her as my best friend, she's still a bitch. But a bitch that I can't help but hate to love. It's hard finding that one person you can really talk to. Some people find that their best friend is an animal, their parent or a sibling. You will eventually find someone who you can talk to easily and with trust, but when all else fails, you can be your own best friend and say fuck them all. To the guy who is having the trifecta problem; Girls are complex as fuck. Your best bet is to ignore her. Girls usually respond to that. If she was flirting with him and won't admit to it or is acting like you're the bad guy, let her believe it. She's a crazy bitch. End of story. Pretend you never knew she existed. [editline]5th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Autumn;35807096]well i don't know about the rest of the symptoms, but whilst a lump in the breast can be a scary thing to come across, it's also quite likely that it's entirely harmless. lumps seem to be quite common among young females. i have one! went to the doctor a couple of weeks after noticing it, she felt the lump itself and checked my armpits, then made me an appointment at the hospital to get it looked at. along i went, the lady used ultrasound to look at it, and told me it was a fibroadenoma; a completely benign (harmless) tumour. easy peasy! as for the other stuff my best guess would be that it's hormone related after taking that Plan B. just take it easy and if you still don't feel better in a couple of days then i would really go see a doctor. i'd also recommend going to see one (in the slightly longer term) for the lump. it could very easily be nothing, but if it's worrying you then it's worth to go see a doctor just to get things ruled out and to ease your mind[/QUOTE] Okay. I'm not pregnant. But I got my period for the third time this month and weird stuff is coming out of me.. So I'm guessing it was the plan b pill I took on April 15th..
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35831032]Tell her to fuck off(if you want) and cut all ties with her You deserve better than some batshit female who has her head up her ass, even as a friend[/QUOTE] Yea. I'm done. Don't need this in my life. She's goin even more insane every time i use logic and prove her wrong. Fuck this shit. Ima get buzzed and play some vidya
[QUOTE=Zambies!;35831107]So my friend fucked up my nose rather badly today and it was a bloody mess for a few hours while we got it fixed up, and he has been incessantly apologizing even though I tell him "It's fine, shit happens" what should I do :v:[/QUOTE] just don't make him feel like he owes you :v: keep doing what you're doing
[QUOTE=Region;35831774]Yea. I'm done. Don't need this in my life. She's goin even more insane every time i use logic and prove her wrong. Fuck this shit. Ima get buzzed and play some vidya[/QUOTE] Told you. Complex. Also, women don't run on logic. There's your first mistake. We run on emotion.
lol people don't run on logic. computers run on logic, people run on emotions and experience. the first mistake he made is thinking he was using logic, logic being his subjective notion of what was correct. i should have nipped this in the bud quickly but i was BBQ'ing. [quote]I have this big fucking problem now (Well big in my book...) My female friend, got furiously mad, because i asked her if she likes my friend. Little back story, We went on a date, date was fun, but she said she was done with relationships. This is a really closed off girl. Hasn't had a relationship for 17 years and plans on not having one. I understand that. But supposedly she liked me and i still had a chance. Well i see her flirting with my best friend. And he comes up to me going "What the fuck? She's fucked up..." because of how she was flirting with him and completely ignoring me out of nowhere. I'l cut to the end. I pretty much asked her on text if she likes him, told her i was just curious. Now, she's fucking furious. She goes, "WHAT.. THE FUCK? WHY WOULD YOU THINK THAT? HELL NO" She says she's done with both of us. Even as friends. Just because we both asked her if she likes him. What the fuck do i do? Why'd she get so mad when we asked her?[/quote] you should have just fucking dropped it. it sounds like you went on a crusade when in reality she probably just wanted you to fucking drop it. when a friend gets angry, you don't continue to poke, that's called being a shitty friend. maybe she's embarrassed or maybe there's something deeper going on, i don't know, i don't really care. falling into this story of "oh she's just nuts" is self-serving behavior and basically absolves you of responsibility. you're the one who's making this a big problem. you're not curious, you're probably just being an asshole.
"it sounds like you went on a crusade" Meanwhile you treat his post as though it were a personal insult and give him a weird self-righteous lecture about his actions
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