The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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How is his post self-righteous? He asked for advice, it was maybe given a bit harshly, but it's still not him trying to be "self-righteous"
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35832668]"it sounds like you went on a crusade"
Meanwhile you treat his post as though it were a personal insult and give him a weird self-righteous lecture about his actions[/QUOTE]
i can't lecture the other person because they don't post here.
self-righteous? what? i'm the perfect example of a shitty friend, that's exactly how I know how shitty friends act.
people don't instantly flip and become crazy simply by inaction. there's action and reaction.
when he said: "Told her to just start out from 0 like we've never met before", that's when I instantly knew how the conversation evolved. Usually you say that once you realize a lot of the shit you've been saying has done more harm than good.
pfff
i didn't know this was the advice critique section.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35831653]To the best friends post;
Even best friends from kindergarten days aren't long lasting. I've had this girl as a best friend for over a decade now and she's screwed me over so many times, I see her as a big sister that I always let her back in. Even if she is degrading me with her other best friends. It's really sick. People change all the time. Even with her as my best friend, she's still a bitch. But a bitch that I can't help but hate to love.[/QUOTE]
girl best friends are entirely and completely different from guy best friends
Love ADviceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee fucking SHIT.
i'll bite. what is wrong, dear dark_light?
What to do with girlfriend when neither of you can drive and hanging out at each other's house is not viable
Nothing's wrong I'm just slightly intoxicated and probabyl shouldn't be posting here right now.
And GoldenGnome what's stopping you from just taking her out to some chill place like a picnic or some shit. Fuck on the beach (actually don't do that sand is a fucking stressful piece of shit)./
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
PieceS*
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
How far away from each other do you live?
Walking distance. But everything entertaining is beyond walking distance. :/
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35836680]Walking distance. But everything entertaining is beyond walking distance. :/[/QUOTE]
Get a tandem!
[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;35836691]Get a tandem![/QUOTE]
we aren't into kinky shit like that dude.
Go walk around the city. Have a drink or go shopping.
So last Friday I noticed this girl and decided I wanted to get to know her. Come Monday she was nowhere to be seen on campus, only until yesterday I was able to get her number. I asked what she was like from her friends and they say in general she is a nice person but when someone gets close to her she becomes cold and distant. I personally believe that a person like that has something interesting to say. She is a very bright person, we both enjoy reading and classic literature. I mentioned Majora's mask once to her and she started talked for a little bit. Last day of classes is this Monday and both of our classes end at the same time in the same building so I plan on asking if she just wants to talk for a bit.
Also, apparently I've gotten farther than anyone who liked her before by actually getting her number.So in that a small victory.
So if anyone has advice for me it would be appreciated.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35836680]Walking distance. But everything entertaining is beyond walking distance. :/[/QUOTE]
"Beyond anything entertaining"? Shouldn't you two entertain yourselves?
The location you are at is only as fun as the people who are in it.
[QUOTE=Seith;35837265]"Beyond anything entertaining"? Shouldn't you two entertain yourselves?
The location you are at is only as fun as the people who are in it.[/QUOTE]
i cant stand how you intentionally miss the point just to try to throw it back in peoples' faces
yes, of course he could just hang out with her and not do anything but enjoy each other's company, and i'm sure he does that plenty, but the point is that should they want to be able to go do something together, what could they do? i know you fully understand what he meant, but you choose instead to reply like that because you're an asshole. completely unhelpful.
[QUOTE=Seith;35837265]"Beyond anything entertaining"? Shouldn't you two entertain yourselves?
The location you are at is only as fun as the people who are in it.[/QUOTE]
i was kind of implying that i want to do more than just have her come over to my place and we get filthy with bad television playing in the background for 3 hours.
believe me that's an awesome fucking night but i want to do things with her, know what i mean?
[editline]5th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35837651]i cant stand how you intentionally miss the point just to try to throw it back in peoples' faces
yes, of course he could just hang out with her and not do anything but enjoy each other's company, and i'm sure he does that plenty, but the point is that should they want to be able to go do something together, what could they do? i know you fully understand what he meant, but you choose instead to reply like that because you're an asshole. completely unhelpful.[/QUOTE]
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[editline]5th May 2012[/editline]
i need to learn how to parallel park so i can get my fucking driver's licence. this blows because i'm going to have to disappoint her. fuck.
May Ball last night was pretty good, £4 a pint though
Don't think I've ever danced so much in my life
Oh my [I]GooOOOooOOoDD[/I] (god, oh god).
Whiskey exacerbates love triangles.
John loves Angie, Angie loves Jordan, and Jordan and I love each other because we're [I]Best Friends![/I] Guy love, between two guys. Like soul brothers.
[video=youtube;lL4L4Uv5rf0]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0[/video]
John ended up sitting in his car by himself for much of the night, because Angie was very clearly obviously interested in being close to Jordan, and the pain of loneliness was just too much for his vodka-heavy heart; Jordan and I became terribly sick together, but we were still totally being best buddies in between hurls; and Angie ended up cradling Jordan's head in her lap and padding his brow with a damp cloth and kissing his back, while I teased her for it, because it would've been very sweet if Jordan and I hadn't constantly been ruining the mood with buddy jokes.
Long story short, Jordan and I relearned an important lesson about taking our time and drinking plenty of water when consuming alcohol, Angie's love crystallized in a beautiful display of care and concern that was very poorly placed, and John moped in the car because his lady-love was kissing another man's back.
All in all, another soul brother experience for Jordan and I, and a very harsh realization for Angie and John: they will never find a love as pure and deep as that which exists between two guys.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35832236]Told you. Complex. Also, women don't run on logic. There's your first mistake. We run on emotion.[/QUOTE]
ew what no, stop perpetuating this ancient shitty sexist stereotype
if you "ran on emotion" you wouldn't have been able to form those sentences
Guy love, something no one can understand until you've had it.
I'm gonna buy Jordan and I matching hats for our eight-year [I]Best Friends![/I] anniversary.
Met this girl online around a month and a half ago. We've talked for endless hours on Skype (video chat), and basically I love her. A few weeks ago we had gone from talking all the time (we're both clingy people) to barely talking one small conversation of text every 1-2 days(She said she needed time to herself but I haven't done anything wrong). We didn't cam for 3-4 weeks and it was beginning to hurt a lot. Not planned, but, coming back from the cinema with friends when walking home by myself, I met up with a girl who I had on facebook but had no idea she lived round the corner from me. We talked and shit for about an hour. Next day I met her again, but kissed her.
Going home later I regretted it to fuck, told her we should be friends, then told the girl I love and spent 3-4 hours apologizing and pretty much shitting myself at the thought of losing her.
I got through it and we started talking a lot again, then it went back to not talking as much again.
The girl who I met online lives 150 miles+ away from me but I could meet her in the Summer.
What do?
I'd dump the unobtanium and go for the friendly girl around the corner, because long distance relationships are kinda bogus (especially considering that you've never met the lady in person, and you've only known her for a month and a half [at least three weeks of which you weren't even talking]).
Speaking of long distance relationships, what's your opinion of them? I've been told by those who've tried them that they're full of jealousy.
My ex-girlfriend wanted one, but I was rather sceptical, we were together for nearly 3 years, still this was not enough. I really wanted to be with her but long distance relationship tend to get fucked up over a longer period.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35839258]I'd dump the unobtanium and go for the friendly girl around the corner, because long distance relationships are kinda bogus (especially considering that you've never met the lady in person, and you've only known her for a month and a half [at least three weeks of which you weren't even talking]).[/QUOTE]
It's strange because I've grown attached to her, her personality, she's gorgeous, just so many factors. It was more like 2 weeks we barely spoke for. I can't tell you the guilt I felt when I kissed someone else though. I think it was my way of showing that I'm getting hurt by this 'time apart' thing..
For reference, I'm 17, the girl who's long distance is 16. And the girl close by is 14:/
ugh, you need to sort yourself out
this long distance girl is not worth it, I'm sure you're not actually as "in love" with her as you think you are
shes just some girl who you're good at talking to, but will never amount to anything
and a 14 year old is a bit of a stretch when you're 17
there are plenty of other fish in the sea, why are you focusing on these two pretty bad options?
The stretch is another reason I'm more inclined to stick with the girl who lives far away, even if long distance relationships aren't always great
but youre not even in a relationship with her
you havent seen her in person
True but the only reason we aren't in a relationship is because we haven't met yet
woah you know now that I think about it, that's true for 3.5 billion other people in the world!
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