• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Protocol7;35896311]Ah, so a dinner might be out of the question (until a later date of course). Something fun then, is that what you're looking for?[/QUOTE] yea. Where I live, its hard to do anything though since my city is dead for activities.
may I add, creativity is not my thing. Im defiantly a linear, down to earth person. haha
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35896184]Most people where I grew up were the same, non-practicing catholics, most of whom were agnostic anyway. I still can't respect someone who won't use their head for five minutes and would rather just sheep along with everyone else in their society. It's a huge joke. Why wouldn't it be the atheists who get prickly about it? I don't see why it would be the religious people, they don't have a fucking leg to stand on. I'm sure they get along best by avoiding thinking about it as much as possible. I have a friend who goes to youth church as a social thing, even though he conceded to atheism after I talked to him about actual beliefs for like ten minutes. I feel pretty bad for him actually, church is like his entire social circle, so he's pretending to be a devout christian the whole time (religious "casuals" don't go to this youth church thing, I've met some of his church friends and they're horrendous, it really is like a christian cult) Also I'm absolutely fine with someone practicing religious [i]values[/i]. The problem is the people that take all the metaphors and fables literally. People who go to church and think they're talking to an omnipotent superbeing. Who think that everything is where it is because a "higher power" put it there. It's archaic and fucking childish. The human race has been aware of its origins and how more or less every element of the world around them functions and comprises a whole for many generations. There's no sense in living by fiction anymore. Back when various religions were conceived, it was understandable. People weren't ignorant by choice then, it was just the status quo and deities provided answers. Not that it was a good idea since an ideology like that is so easily abused, as history demonstrates. But now? In the 21st century? The answers are right there on wikipedia. It's ludicrous to think that informed and educated people will still choose ignorance rather than deviate from those around them. It's that kind of mentality that allows things like the holocaust to occur. Religion is outmoded, a holdover from a former age, and in my opinion it has far more potential for harm than good.[/QUOTE]80% of my social circle is at church :v: I'm not much of a religious person either, and half the people I talk to know that I'm not that strong of a christian
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35895757]What's with throwing shock tactics back at someone who was only trying to help I mean yeah, I'm sure we all empathise with you about how horrible an abusive partner is, but the issue is more your choice of being with guys like that in the first place Unless it was completely out of the blue and they were cool beforehand, then you're just unlucky I guess[/QUOTE] I guess I'm just unlucky. [editline]9th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=thisispain;35895789]"his angry cock" how can a penis be angry hookie[/QUOTE] When its got veins and shit protruding and its all red and throbbing.. :c
on the subject of religion and 'dating'. Is it weird if i find moderate christian more attractive on a personality sort of level? They just seem so much more optimistic compared to my atheist friends.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35896552] When its got veins and shit protruding and its all red and throbbing.. :c[/QUOTE] that means it's happy and it likes you [editline]9th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=ScoutKing;35896665]on the subject of religion and 'dating'. Is it weird if i find moderate christian more attractive on a personality sort of level? They just seem so much more optimistic compared to my atheist friends.[/QUOTE] why would it be weird? i just find smart women attractive, it doesn't matter to me if they are religious, atheist, or wiccan.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35896706]that means it's happy and it likes you [editline]9th May 2012[/editline] why would it be weird? i just find smart women attractive, it doesn't matter to me if they are religious, atheist, or wiccan.[/QUOTE] It's weird because i favor them over people who share my beliefs/mindset. Where i live, it tends to be the other way around.
"Christians" tend to be hypocrites.. [img]http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltmi1jakJk1qcfn0j.gif[/img] I'm only speaking from my own experiences... Plus I was baptist Christian for 18 years
People tend to be hypocrites.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35890244]I do. I'm just ignoring you.[/QUOTE] I guess you picked a correct nickname.
I don't get it. Also, can everyone get this video around? This woman needs to be arrested and possibly killed. [url]https://fbcdn-video-a.akamaihd.net/cfs-ak-snc7/v/441085/357/3965688064463_16152.mp4?oh=65dce6feda0b6e61b79af5f805223a05&oe=4FAB7820&__gda__=1336637472_1fcb39443848e963adfb39ea18b7dab0[/url]
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35898081] [url]https://fbcdn-video-a.akamaihd.net/cfs-ak-snc7/v/441085/357/3965688064463_16152.mp4?oh=65dce6feda0b6e61b79af5f805223a05&oe=4FAB7820&__gda__=1336637472_1fcb39443848e963adfb39ea18b7dab0[/url][/QUOTE] why??
[QUOTE=thisispain;35898100]why??[/QUOTE] Someone just told me that this video is viral, but it's the first time I've seen it. I just hope that this woman is arrested quickly.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35898081]I don't get it. Also, can everyone get this video around? This woman needs to be arrested and possibly killed. [url]https://fbcdn-video-a.akamaihd.net/cfs-ak-snc7/v/441085/357/3965688064463_16152.mp4?oh=65dce6feda0b6e61b79af5f805223a05&oe=4FAB7820&__gda__=1336637472_1fcb39443848e963adfb39ea18b7dab0[/url][/QUOTE] This does not seem like the time or place to be posting this.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35898081]I don't get it. [/QUOTE] rates me dumb Speaking about hypocrites.
[QUOTE=stinkfire;35895369]It's wierd how some people think having religious friends is so bad. two of my best friends are Christians. The go to church every week pray etc. I have actually gone to church after being invited and such and it is very interesting. Even though they invited me they never forced it on me. I'v have since stopped going because i got bored but it is very interesting to learn what they believe and why they believe it even if you don't believe it yourself. By doing this you can be more tolerent and understand why they act that way. TLDR: Church friends provide different ways of thinking and being tolerant.[/QUOTE] I respect my childhood religous culture, and continue to go to church with my parents every sunday. I'm not very religous, but I grew up to not only respect other cultures, but embrace them and not to force my religion upon them. Which is why I get along with most everyone, the only people I cannot get along with are those with a blind hatred to something they do not understand. Unfortunately Facepunch is full of them, which is saddenning to someone who grew up in a culture most hate and do not understand, but is so rich with people that embrace each and every way of life. Yes, there are christians that are just absolutely insane. One is dogging me at work lately trying to evengilize me into his "non-denominational" church, trying to tell me that everything I grew up with I should turn my back on and burn all those bridges. To me, intolerance is a sad existance.
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;35898135]rates me dumb Speaking about hypocrites.[/QUOTE] I don't get it either, it doesn't make any sense and is a terrible snipe Especially considering your username
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35890124]I do love getting abused. When I'm in the heat of the moment of casual sex and his angry cock is staring at me, I love when the guy chokes me and slams me hard into a wall and slaps my ass so hard that I bleed. Oh, and when he calls me a filthy whore and smushes my face head first into the floor and rams his dick in me. Bruising the fuck out of my skin, I love it.[/QUOTE] Nice, but it's more seductive when you don't want to admit it.
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35898333]I don't get it either, it doesn't make any sense and is a terrible snipe Especially considering your username[/QUOTE] Look at the mirror ^_^
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35890051]I've only had two guys to do that to me. [editline]9th May 2012[/editline] [IMG]http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3grm0tBUO1rsscuxo3_250.gif[/IMG][/QUOTE] you are taking this the wrong way i never said you were the bad guy. it's not the victims fault they get abused, although I do think you seem to choose men badly. most of the posts ive seen of your re boyfriends all seem to indicate they are abusive or negligent. now either that's just really bad luck, or you really know how to pick em. it's a subconscious thing and you may well just be drawn to people likely to hurt you. i can only speculate as to why that is or if it's the case, but it's just something for you to consider. [editline]10th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=HookerVomit;35890244]I do. I'm just ignoring you.[/QUOTE] Okay, I think i see the problem [editline]10th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=HookerVomit;35890124]I do love getting abused. When I'm in the heat of the moment of casual sex and his angry cock is staring at me, I love when the guy chokes me and slams me hard into a wall and slaps my ass so hard that I bleed. Oh, and when he calls me a filthy whore and smushes my face head first into the floor and rams his dick in me. Bruising the fuck out of my skin, I love it.[/QUOTE] Are you being dense on purpose - nobody enjoys pain (ok well some do) but there are people who subconsciously believe they deserve the pain, because of a deep seeded hatred of ones self. That could be leading you into situations where you end up being mistreated. By no means am I saying you enjoy being abused. I'm saying you're subsciously are lead to people who abuse you because of personal problems you might have of course none of this is fact. i'm just basing this on what i've seen of your history (according to your posts) [editline]10th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=HookerVomit;35889840] I'm actually very nice IRL and try to make everyone happy, but I guess I hate myself so much that I let people walk all over me. [/QUOTE] also, I don't know why you think those two things cancel eachother out (they don't in fact I can very easily see how they are related) maybe you forego your own feelings TO make others happy placing their well being and emotional state above your own, hence believing subconsciously you deserve mistreatment rather than standing up for yourself because that would involve making someone else unhappy. FOOD FOR THOUGHT [editline]10th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Murky42;35898126]This does not seem like the time or place to be posting this.[/QUOTE] havent we established that hooker vomit is an incredibly odd person already?
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35896950]"Christians" tend to be hypocrites.. [img]http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltmi1jakJk1qcfn0j.gif[/img][/QUOTE] and who hotlinks their own emoticons jeez??
I'm having a probably irrational hatred of text messages again. I absolutely hate texts where the only thing I can reply is "nice." That's not a conversation. And don't get me started on questions that can be answered with Google. Because that's exactly what I'll do, so why the fuck can't you Google it? I'm sorry, people, I just hate small talk with texts. Holding a conversation through texts just doesn't feel the same as face to face conversations. I want to use text messaging for legitimate, "I need an answer now" kinda questions, and if you absolutely want to talk then SAY SOMETHING THAT CAN ACTUALLY START A CONVERSATION. I don't give a shit what you just ate. That's what twitter is for. /rant
[QUOTE=Protocol7;35902566]I'm having a probably irrational hatred of text messages again. I absolutely hate texts where the only thing I can reply is "nice." That's not a conversation. And don't get me started on questions that can be answered with Google. Because that's exactly what I'll do, so why the fuck can't you Google it? I'm sorry, people, I just hate small talk with texts. Holding a conversation through texts just doesn't feel the same as face to face conversations. I want to use text messaging for legitimate, "I need an answer now" kinda questions, and if you absolutely want to talk then SAY SOMETHING THAT CAN ACTUALLY START A CONVERSATION. I don't give a shit what you just ate. That's what twitter is for. /rant[/QUOTE]"k"
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35902589]"k"[/QUOTE] I don't get those, but I have to reply with something similar unless I want to start a new convo, which I clearly am not a fan of doing. I'm pretty sure I've complained about this guy before in this thread. So far I have not replied to him for 12 hours. SEVEN TEXT MESSAGES.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;35902659]I don't get those, but I have to reply with something similar unless I want to start a new convo, which I clearly am not a fan of doing. I'm pretty sure I've complained about this guy before in this thread. So far I have not replied to him for 12 hours. SEVEN TEXT MESSAGES.[/QUOTE] "chill a bitch"
Make that eight. Another Google question. I think I'll just reply, "http://www.Google.com"
If you want to be a real cunt use 'let me google that for you'
[QUOTE=Rusty100;35898760] havent we established that[/QUOTE] ok. Never said I deserved abuse, I don't let people mistreat me, I always stand up for myself. Yes. I'm a nice person, I'm also small and awkward around people. So people think I'm either really weak or a recluse. Why are we even talking about this? I know what's wrong. I've dealt with it already. There really isn't anything left to say or do about whatever you think my underlying problem is.
[QUOTE=HookerVomit;35902942]Why are we even talking about this?[/QUOTE] look at the thread title
That wasn't friendly at all...
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