• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Okay so I'm looking at my work schedule and that combined with schooling will make the next few months incredibly awful, on top of that I just found out I need to complete a five hour course that costs 50 dollars before I can schedule my roadtest, and the only date they offer it I'm available for the next month is this coming Thursdat but I won't be paid by then. I don't know what the fuck I am going to do. [editline]12th May 2012[/editline] As you can see I'm incredibly stresses by this and my writing ability reflects that, even with autocorrect
Alright, so pretty much the entire crush clusterfuck I had WAS made up by my friend. At the end of the day on Thursday, I was a jerk to the girl in gym, I have no idea what the fuck I was doing. Anyways, I felt really bad about it, and apologized, and when I did, I also apologized that my statement evidently made here feel uncomfortable. "Oh, it wasn't that, it was that (friend) thought it was so funny and out of character for you. I just didn't know how to react." [editline]l[/editline] The eye-contact thing was complete bullshit.
Anyone ever have uncontrollable sweating? My armpits sweat a lot throughout the day, even without any physical exertion. I'm afraid it's a huge turn-off to girls. How could I deal with this? I'm not out of shape, I run long distance track and cross country and have practices year-round.
[QUOTE=psychojake;35933717]Anyone ever have uncontrollable sweating? My armpits sweat a lot throughout the day, even without any physical exertion. I'm afraid it's a huge turn-off to girls. How could I deal with this? I'm not out of shape, I run long distance track and cross country and have practices year-round.[/QUOTE] A couple of my friends have this problem. One of them has that problem with his back and another with his hands. I know there is some kind of lotion he could use through out the day but he chooses not to use it. As for you, I'm sure there is some deodorant you can buy to help.
Hi, I don't usually ask advice from people let alone facepunch but I'm not sure what to do. Me and my girlfriend are becoming distant but ive got an emotional chain attached to me and i feel jealous if i/she were to leave. What do facepunch?
Talk to her about it
[QUOTE=psychojake;35933717]Anyone ever have uncontrollable sweating? My armpits sweat a lot throughout the day, even without any physical exertion. I'm afraid it's a huge turn-off to girls. How could I deal with this? I'm not out of shape, I run long distance track and cross country and have practices year-round.[/QUOTE] I sweat quite a bit but as long as it's not penetrating your clothes you're probably fine with just a good deodorant - if it does get through your clothes, look for hyperhydrosis treatments.
OK, so I'm kind of infatuated by my best friend's twin sister and I feel like a retard, but I feel attracted to her. I don't want to fuck things up in between my friend though.
Alright guys so last night was probably one of the worst nights i've ever had, if not the worst. I was invited to a party by a girl i really like with all her friends. I had never met any of them, so they were pretty much strangers to me. Anyways we showed up and she started talking to a few of them while i just sat next to her holding her hand. I felt awkward as fuck so i started talking to some guy that was there. After a while talking and joking with this dude, the girl i was with asked him if he could drive her and 2 of her friends to the alcohol store, and buy them more drinks. He said yes and she gave me a kiss and said she'd be back in a minute. So i waited with 2 other guys i didn't know, and listened to them talking to each other about old stories there group had together. I felt like such an outsider. After an hour of this one of the girls that had gone with them came back and told one of the boys they needed help. He got up and walked outside. I asked where the girl i came with was and she said outside in the car. I walked outside to see the car speeding off. So i came back inside and sat down next to some more randoms and started to drink. I texted her asking where she went. No reply. After 2 hours of waiting i called up my bestfriend and asked him for advice. He said "Dude fuck her, she's not worth your time if she's gonna ditch you like that. I know you really like her but fuck that man. She's not worth it." I told him i'd wait another half an hour and if she wasn't back by then i was out of there. So i waited for 40 more minutes, called her a few times, no reply. I said fuck this, grabbed my bag and walked outside. I had waited 3 hours for her to come back and she didn't. But then as i opened the front door there they all were, walking up the drive way. She asked why i had my bag and i immediately smelt weed on them all. On closer inspection they all had bloodshot eyes and were staring at me weirdly. I told her i was going home and just walked off. An hour later i got home and pulled out my phone. Multiple texts from her asking if i was ok. I texted back saying no and she asked why. I said "You ditched me for 3 hours to get stoned with your friends. I sat there waiting with strangers for you to come back and you didn't even reply to my texts. I can't do this, you're not worth my time." Then i turned off my phone and went to sleep. Now i wake up and turn on my phone. Multiple texts from her saying her friends told her they were just going to get mcdonalds down the road and that she's really sorry. She said she didn't even know they had weed and she didn't mean to hurt my feelings. Then she sent another text saying "I love you". I haven't replied, and i don't think i will.
Jesus Fuck dude.
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Looks like you answered your own question. I'm sure some of us are/have gone through this similar thing; feeling like you're not good enough and feeling singled out. I'm not sure if you WANT these girls or don't mind being used by "slags." do you care about these people's opinions of you? Or are you just not happy with yourself? Your acne will clear, you can always gain weight and do weight training and there is always room to learn and become smarter than you think you are. Don't worry about other peoples opinions or lives. Work on yourself and fuck the rest. [editline]13th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=psychojake;35933717]Anyone ever have uncontrollable sweating? My armpits sweat a lot throughout the day, even without any physical exertion. I'm afraid it's a huge turn-off to girls. How could I deal with this? I'm not out of shape, I run long distance track and cross country and have practices year-round.[/QUOTE] I use to sweat so badly that it would soak through my shirt down to my back. I've never gained more than 105lbs and I've always been in shape. I had no idea what was going on nor how to stop it. I would stuff tissue there to atleast hide most of it. I had researched the possibilities: over active sweat glands, anxiety/stress, clinical anti persperant deo's. In the end, I think I had anxiety and stress and it just stopped one day.. It could be the humidity in your area.. My point is, single out the possibilities. If you can't figure out what to do or how to stop it, get a doctors input or buy a clinical deoradant for extra strength persperant.
Aaah, totally got shut down tonight! :( Was having some drinks with a friend, and we started mackin a bit. Things started getting a bit more heated, and she pulls away and goes all, "No, no, I can't!" And I'm like, "Do you really mean that? If you do, I'll stop." And then she macked me again for a few more minutes and stops and goes, "No, I do mean it. Yes, I'm sure!" So I was like, "bummer. Okay." Then we laid for a while and she dumped all kinds of heavy emotional stuff about some super rough shit, and I felt pretty bad for her, and I felt like a big tool for kissing on her. Then we started talking and joking about stuff like normal, which is pretty much a return to exactly how things were before the denial of continued mackage, so I guess everything's pretty much copacetic, but I could totes use a cold shower and about ten hours of sleep. Think things will be cool tomorrow in light of these circumstances? We were totally aces when she left, but we both might feel pretty awkward about it going into the future.
O_o are you from the west coast?
Nope, Missouri!
Also she just has emotional baggage. Very textbook. She'll get over it. [editline]13th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35936027]Nope, Missouri![/QUOTE] What the- why are you speaking all this lingo?! Lol it's funny but scary all the same.
I'm a wordsmith.
[QUOTE=psychojake;35933717]Anyone ever have uncontrollable sweating? My armpits sweat a lot throughout the day, even without any physical exertion. I'm afraid it's a huge turn-off to girls. How could I deal with this? I'm not out of shape, I run long distance track and cross country and have practices year-round.[/QUOTE] Probably just means you're dressed too warmly. I have a similar problem in hot weather, because I bike several k's to college so inevitably on some mornings I'm pretty exerted by the time I get to class. I tend to keep some deodorant around, if you got a locker or something that's ideal (or just a bag I guess.) If it's a really hot day I often head to the bathrooms, into a cubicle and put my back against the cold walls. Mmm [editline]13th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=I ARE REPTAR;35934770]Alright guys so last night was probably one of the worst nights i've ever had, if not the worst. I was invited to a party by a girl i really like with all her friends. I had never met any of them, so they were pretty much strangers to me. Anyways we showed up and she started talking to a few of them while i just sat next to her holding her hand. I felt awkward as fuck so i started talking to some guy that was there. After a while talking and joking with this dude, the girl i was with asked him if he could drive her and 2 of her friends to the alcohol store, and buy them more drinks. He said yes and she gave me a kiss and said she'd be back in a minute. So i waited with 2 other guys i didn't know, and listened to them talking to each other about old stories there group had together. I felt like such an outsider. After an hour of this one of the girls that had gone with them came back and told one of the boys they needed help. He got up and walked outside. I asked where the girl i came with was and she said outside in the car. I walked outside to see the car speeding off. So i came back inside and sat down next to some more randoms and started to drink. I texted her asking where she went. No reply. After 2 hours of waiting i called up my bestfriend and asked him for advice. He said "Dude fuck her, she's not worth your time if she's gonna ditch you like that. I know you really like her but fuck that man. She's not worth it." I told him i'd wait another half an hour and if she wasn't back by then i was out of there. So i waited for 40 more minutes, called her a few times, no reply. I said fuck this, grabbed my bag and walked outside. I had waited 3 hours for her to come back and she didn't. But then as i opened the front door there they all were, walking up the drive way. She asked why i had my bag and i immediately smelt weed on them all. On closer inspection they all had bloodshot eyes and were staring at me weirdly. I told her i was going home and just walked off. An hour later i got home and pulled out my phone. Multiple texts from her asking if i was ok. I texted back saying no and she asked why. I said "You ditched me for 3 hours to get stoned with your friends. I sat there waiting with strangers for you to come back and you didn't even reply to my texts. I can't do this, you're not worth my time." Then i turned off my phone and went to sleep. Now i wake up and turn on my phone. Multiple texts from her saying her friends told her they were just going to get mcdonalds down the road and that she's really sorry. She said she didn't even know they had weed and she didn't mean to hurt my feelings. Then she sent another text saying "I love you". I haven't replied, and i don't think i will.[/QUOTE] Such is the nature of parties and shit dude. She sounds sorry. I would talk to her about it, disconnecting from her just like that is pretty harsh. Sometimes people don't think, that's how it goes.
Ok, so I'm a really shy person. There's this girl that I like, who is also shy, I asked her out once but she was busy but didn't give me a no or anything, she seemed a lot more friendly the day I did ask her. But school work piled up, and well, I fucked up. I never asked her out again, we used to be in the same class but now I just see her every now and then, we both smile and awkwardly wave at each other but I've never really gotten the chance to talk to her. It's been a month now I think, is it too late to apologize and ask her out again?
Apologize for what? You didn't anything wrong. Proceed to ask her out again while disregarding the past.
A month isn't long yo, she probably waiting for you to ask again God speed!
[QUOTE=kevaughan;35935267] Basically I'm a CBC. [/QUOTE] what is a CBC?
CBC= Canadian Born Chinese
[QUOTE=iFail;35937975]what is a CBC?[/QUOTE] Canadian born Chinese, AKA Chinese dude that was born in a Caucasian dominated society. Three of my friends are CBCs, actually. ninja
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35936217]Such is the nature of parties and shit dude. She sounds sorry. I would talk to her about it, disconnecting from her just like that is pretty harsh. Sometimes people don't think, that's how it goes.[/QUOTE] She called me and we had a big talk. She swears that she didn't know there was weed and her friend drove to his house to get it without telling them before they left. So i guess we're kinda ok now. Just going to take it slow.
[QUOTE=I ARE REPTAR;35934770]Alright guys so last night was probably one of the worst nights i've ever had, if not the worst. I was invited to a party by a girl i really like with all her friends. I had never met any of them, so they were pretty much strangers to me. Anyways we showed up and she started talking to a few of them while i just sat next to her holding her hand. I felt awkward as fuck so i started talking to some guy that was there. After a while talking and joking with this dude, the girl i was with asked him if he could drive her and 2 of her friends to the alcohol store, and buy them more drinks. He said yes and she gave me a kiss and said she'd be back in a minute. So i waited with 2 other guys i didn't know, and listened to them talking to each other about old stories there group had together. I felt like such an outsider. After an hour of this one of the girls that had gone with them came back and told one of the boys they needed help. He got up and walked outside. I asked where the girl i came with was and she said outside in the car. I walked outside to see the car speeding off. So i came back inside and sat down next to some more randoms and started to drink. I texted her asking where she went. No reply. After 2 hours of waiting i called up my bestfriend and asked him for advice. He said "Dude fuck her, she's not worth your time if she's gonna ditch you like that. I know you really like her but fuck that man. She's not worth it." I told him i'd wait another half an hour and if she wasn't back by then i was out of there. So i waited for 40 more minutes, called her a few times, no reply. I said fuck this, grabbed my bag and walked outside. I had waited 3 hours for her to come back and she didn't. But then as i opened the front door there they all were, walking up the drive way. She asked why i had my bag and i immediately smelt weed on them all. On closer inspection they all had bloodshot eyes and were staring at me weirdly. I told her i was going home and just walked off. An hour later i got home and pulled out my phone. Multiple texts from her asking if i was ok. I texted back saying no and she asked why. I said "You ditched me for 3 hours to get stoned with your friends. I sat there waiting with strangers for you to come back and you didn't even reply to my texts. I can't do this, you're not worth my time." Then i turned off my phone and went to sleep. Now i wake up and turn on my phone. Multiple texts from her saying her friends told her they were just going to get mcdonalds down the road and that she's really sorry. She said she didn't even know they had weed and she didn't mean to hurt my feelings. Then she sent another text saying "I love you". I haven't replied, and i don't think i will.[/QUOTE] i'm glad you're the kind of guy that's got a lot of integrity and won't put up with not being treated right, that says a lot, and you might actually consider talking to her about it. it's pretty shitty what she did, but she sounded quite apologetic, and you've got the ability to break it off easily if she messes up like that again. i'd give her another chance, but if you don't not much lost either. the only thing that confused me was the "I love you" text, seemed like it was out of left field a bit there
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35938999]i'm glad you're the kind of guy that's got a lot of integrity and won't put up with not being treated right, that says a lot, and you might actually consider talking to her about it. it's pretty shitty what she did, but she sounded quite apologetic, and you've got the ability to break it off easily if she messes up like that again. i'd give her another chance, but if you don't not much lost either. the only thing that confused me was the "I love you" text, seemed like it was out of left field a bit there[/QUOTE] Well yeah im giving her another chance because i genuinely feel like she likes me alot and lastnight was alot different to anything she's ever done. Plus her apology was huge, i've never had a girl apologise like that to me before. Umm yeah well the text was a little off putting but i'm not thinking about it too much I really like her so i'm just gonna play it by ear hopefully nothing like that happens again
it took me one year to grasp the courage to ask this girl to the movies yesterday response "sorry im gonno go see it with my other friends" :sigh: well i guess its my dumb ass fault for not even talking to her much at all. Shes always hangin out with her friends and avoidant of guys
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;35939786]it took me one year to grasp the courage to ask this girl to the movies yesterday response "sorry im gonno go see it with my other friends" :sigh: well i guess its my dumb ass fault for not even talking to her much at all. Shes always hanging out with her friends and avoidant of guys[/QUOTE] Well before you beat yourself up about it, what if she actually is going to see the movie with her friends. It doesn't seem to be that much of a huge impossibility. Just ask her again in a week or two.
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35936217]Probably just means you're dressed too warmly. I have a similar problem in hot weather, because I bike several k's to college so inevitably on some mornings I'm pretty exerted by the time I get to class. I tend to keep some deodorant around, if you got a locker or something that's ideal (or just a bag I guess.) If it's a really hot day I often head to the bathrooms, into a cubicle and put my back against the cold walls. Mmm [/QUOTE] The weird thing is, the sweat doesn't reek of body odor or anything, it smells just like my deodorant. I just bought some antiperspirant (what I used before these problems surfaced), let's hope it works.
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