The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
10,002 replies, posted
This is like the fifth fucking time I've bitched this guy out for stupid text messages
I'm getting really frustrated
[QUOTE=Protocol7;35961575]This is like the fifth fucking time I've bitched this guy out for stupid text messages
I'm getting really frustrated[/QUOTE]
Call Superman.
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35956176]FIGHT TIME.
So this kid kept talking about me behind my back and whenever I reported it I got pulled in and we were mutually punished. So today I walked up to him in gym and went "Stop talking about me right now." He slams his hands into my chest and flat out screams,
"I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU FAGGOT FUCK OFF." I just go right back up and repeat what he says he shoves me away again, "FUCKING PUSSY I WILL FUCK YOUR SHIT UP" I tell him again and he starts screaming he will kill me then gets into the standard white guy arms-pushed-behind-chest post as his friend tries pulling him off. He starts screaming in the middle of the gym he will get me when I give him the finger.
He stormed out screaming "I AM TELLING THE TEACHER, NEXT TIME YOU TALK ABOUT ME I WILL DISMEMBER YOU FAGGOT." So he ran out and then proceeded to get me in trouble. Think I am just going to punch him when I see him tomorrow. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]
I thought it was him talking about you @ the last part
Also you both sound like twats
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35956176]FIGHT TIME.
So this kid kept talking about me behind my back and whenever I reported it I got pulled in and we were mutually punished. So today I walked up to him in gym and went "Stop talking about me right now." He slams his hands into my chest and flat out screams,
"I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU FAGGOT FUCK OFF." I just go right back up and repeat what he says he shoves me away again, "FUCKING PUSSY I WILL FUCK YOUR SHIT UP" I tell him again and he starts screaming he will kill me then gets into the standard white guy arms-pushed-behind-chest post as his friend tries pulling him off. He starts screaming in the middle of the gym he will get me when I give him the finger.
He stormed out screaming "I AM TELLING THE TEACHER, NEXT TIME YOU TALK ABOUT ME I WILL DISMEMBER YOU FAGGOT." So he ran out and then proceeded to get me in trouble. Think I am just going to punch him when I see him tomorrow. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]
Be the better man and walk away.
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35964631]I thought it was him talking about you @ the last part
Also you both sound like twats[/QUOTE]
How am I a twat?
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35965956]How am I a twat?[/QUOTE]
because you did absolutely nothing to make the situation better
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35965956]How am I a twat?[/QUOTE]
I think its a misreading of what you had said.
I shall demonstrate.
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35956176]"I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU FAGGOT FUCK OFF." I just go right back up and repeat what he says he shoves me away again,[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty sure people thought you replied back to him with his exact words. As parrots are obviously twat they thought you were a twat.
In reality what I assume you meant is quite simply you told him what he was saying behind your back.
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35965956]How am I a twat?[/QUOTE]
well if what your caps rage is true you're upset over a spaz being a spaz and this is highschool i'm sure so stop giving a shit instead of starting shit and telling the internet you're going to fight him.
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35956176]FIGHT TIME.
So this kid kept talking about me behind my back and whenever I reported it I got pulled in and we were mutually punished. So today I walked up to him in gym and went "Stop talking about me right now." He slams his hands into my chest and flat out screams,
"I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU FAGGOT FUCK OFF." I just go right back up and repeat what he says he shoves me away again, "FUCKING PUSSY I WILL FUCK YOUR SHIT UP" I tell him again and he starts screaming he will kill me then gets into the standard white guy arms-pushed-behind-chest post as his friend tries pulling him off. He starts screaming in the middle of the gym he will get me when I give him the finger.
He stormed out screaming "I AM TELLING THE TEACHER, NEXT TIME YOU TALK ABOUT ME I WILL DISMEMBER YOU FAGGOT." So he ran out and then proceeded to get me in trouble. Think I am just going to punch him when I see him tomorrow. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]
You reported someone for talking behind your back?
Are you 12?
[QUOTE=Murky42;35966142]I think its a misreading of what you had said.
I shall demonstrate.
I'm pretty sure people thought you replied back to him with his exact words. As parrots are obviously twat they thought you were a twat.
In reality what I assume you meant is quite simply you told him what he was saying behind your back.[/QUOTE]
No, I told him to stop talking about me again. I did not repeat him. Wrong wording.
[editline]15th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=tommyc225;35966947]You reported someone for talking behind your back?
Are you 12?[/QUOTE]
He used to scream at me in the middle of classes until it was reported, now he just does it behind my back.
I worded it really badly.
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;35968601]He used to scream at me in the middle of classes until it was reported, now he just does it behind my back.[/QUOTE]
he sounds retarded which makes you retarded for making such a huge deal out of it (also wow reread your posts or something because it has taken us like a whole page just to clarify what the hell was going on)
So yesterday a friend of mine (let's call him K) wanted me to come down to his lunch period, so I did. This other guy (N) decided to force my hand into some peanut butter that was on the table for no good reason and smeared it all over my clothes. I get pissed. I take my anger out on K though, yelling at him and I punched him once or twice. He texts me later saying that "we're done for good, goodbye". I realize that I fucked up and I start to feel guilty. My other friend, S, tells me to send K an apology via text, and I do - but it was a four-page long text explaining everything. So K ignores me, I feel even more guilty and I want to apologize. I feel he won't accept it this time (me and him have gotten mad then made up in the past over stupid shit) and I hope this will just be another dumb mistake I made.
I feel really guilty, and I believe I've been a really shitty friend to let my anger take over and get mad at my friend, who wasn't involved in this at all. I want us to be good friends again and I don't want to actually start thinking I'm an asshole (K called me that before, but S says that it's not being an asshole, but being a dumbass and unintentionally an asshole). I want to make up for being a total dick, be friends with K again, and then kick N's ass.
Anybody have any advice?
I'll begin by saying I may miss details here as it's hard for me to remember this all at once. I don't even feel like I should post this in case someone I know sees it and connects it to me. I am 15 years old so to a lot of you this may seem like a trivial teenage matter but I'd still like some advice and outside opinions.
A few days ago I got drunk at night with 4 other people, two girls and two other boys, the 4 I was with go to a different school.
It started off okay until one of the girls finished the last of the drink and smashed the bottle on the floor, my friend and I were still sober enough to have the realisation that this was a bad idea and we'd be spending the next few hours looking after the other 3.
The girl who smashed the bottle fell over and hit her head on the pavement, she was fine but I held her while my friend got the other two to the grass and sat them down. I ended up holding this girl for about 45 minutes while my friend attended to the others and tried to work out what we should do. During which time my own slight drunkenness prevailed over common sense and made me kiss her 3 times, I was not happy with myself and just got her to lie down with her head wresting in my lap so she would hopefully sleep. This didn't go so well, she started screaming as the last of the drink kicked in and one of the people in the nearby houses came out and started asking us what was going on, I explained as best I could that we got drunk, it was a stupid idea and now we were looking after our friends so they didn't hurt themselves, the girl I was taking care of then decided to throw up on me and pass out. The woman called an ambulance, fair enough, now this is where shit hits the fan, the girl started screaming a lot of sexual stuff that I wont write here for a little more anonymity. Ambulance arrives and takes her, didn't even check the rest of us which surprised me. I walked the other girl home in silence while my friend looked after our drunk male friend.
The next day I hear that the woman called the police and said we were sexually assaulting the girl who went in the ambulance. So far I've heard nothing more on this and none of us have had any contact from the police. I actually don't know how to feel about this, no we didn't sexually assault the girl (I kissed her, would that even count?[B]*[/B]) but the fact that the police didn't follow it up is a bit worrying to me.
Now a few days later I feel that I have feelings for the girl I took care of, it doesn't really take me long to work out what I like about people and she's quite amazing. I don't understand why but I can't stop thinking about how worried I was for her. Part of me thinks I only feel this way because the last I saw of her she was being taken away in an ambulance so it's as though I haven't had confirmation that she's okay (despite being told she is).
My friend seems pretty keen to wingman it for me and ask if she wants to come out when I'm with him but I'm not sure if that's such a great idea.
[B]*[/B]She told my friends she didn't care about the kissing and understood that I was still partially drunk.
[B]Summary:[/B] I'm an idiot and have a crush on a girl who only remembers my name.
[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;35969188]So yesterday a friend of mine (let's call him K) wanted me to come down to his lunch period, so I did. This other guy (N) decided to force my hand into some peanut butter that was on the table for no good reason and smeared it all over my clothes. I get pissed. I take my anger out on K though, yelling at him and I punched him once or twice. He texts me later saying that "we're done for good, goodbye". I realize that I fucked up and I start to feel guilty. My other friend, S, tells me to send K an apology via text, and I do - but it was a four-page long text explaining everything. So K ignores me, I feel even more guilty and I want to apologize. I feel he won't accept it this time (me and him have gotten mad then made up in the past over stupid shit) and I hope this will just be another dumb mistake I made.
I feel really guilty, and I believe I've been a really shitty friend to let my anger take over and get mad at my friend, who wasn't involved in this at all. I want us to be good friends again and I don't want to actually start thinking I'm an asshole (K called me that before, but S says that it's not being an asshole, but being a dumbass and unintentionally an asshole). I want to make up for being a total dick, be friends with K again, and then kick N's ass.
Anybody have any advice?[/QUOTE]You fucked up by sending him an apology via text. Should've done it in person or at the very least by phone
You can start mending your relationship by apologizing in person this time
you should start mending your relationship by actually not being an asshole towards him
text just makes it seem insincere
Yeah, I was thinking it was a dumb thing to do.
I'll apologize to him in person and promise not to be a dick to him.
don't promise, actually stop being a dick to him.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35969580]don't promise, actually stop being a dick to him.[/QUOTE]
I never intend to be a dick to him though.
well you should let him know that while also trying to make sure you keep yourself under control.
and stop hanging out with (N) he sounds like a fucking idiot
[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;35969188]So yesterday a friend of mine (let's call him K) wanted me to come down to his lunch period, so I did. This other guy (N) decided to force my hand into some peanut butter that was on the table for no good reason and smeared it all over my clothes. I get pissed. I take my anger out on K though, yelling at him and I punched him once or twice. He texts me later saying that "we're done for good, goodbye". I realize that I fucked up and I start to feel guilty. My other friend, S, tells me to send K an apology via text, and I do - but it was a four-page long text explaining everything. So K ignores me, I feel even more guilty and I want to apologize. I feel he won't accept it this time (me and him have gotten mad then made up in the past over stupid shit) and I hope this will just be another dumb mistake I made.
I feel really guilty, and I believe I've been a really shitty friend to let my anger take over and get mad at my friend, who wasn't involved in this at all. I want us to be good friends again and I don't want to actually start thinking I'm an asshole (K called me that before, but S says that it's not being an asshole, but being a dumbass and unintentionally an asshole). I want to make up for being a total dick, be friends with K again, and then kick N's ass.
Anybody have any advice?[/QUOTE]
Why did you punch your friend over peanut butter?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;35970128]Why did you punch your friend over peanut butter?[/QUOTE]
I get mad over stupid shit and it was all over my clothes. Imagine having to be in classes with that shit all over you.
[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;35971066]I get mad over stupid shit and it was all over my clothes. Imagine having to be in classes with that shit all over you.[/QUOTE]
Yeah but I'd take it out on the prick who did it to me not an innocent friend whos done nothing. I just don't see how you managed to do what you did by accident.
I don't need help or advice, but I would like to share this funny story.
I asked a girl to go on a walk with me, and she said yes. 2 hours later, as I'm about to go out the door, I get a text back from her saying that her mum wants her to study instead.
This was a month ago, I've been in contact a lot with her since then, given her lifts to events that we've gone to at the same time, and mutual friends houses, and we've been texting a lot but I haven't done anything just the two of us. And I have no idea if she likes me, I think she currently thinks of me as her texting buddy, who has a lot in common with her. But as soon as our exams are over and summer begins I'm going to see if we can reschedule that walk.
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;35971503]Yeah but I'd take it out on the prick who did it to me not an innocent friend whos done nothing. I just don't see how you managed to do what you did by accident.[/QUOTE]
Like I mentioned before, I was an idiot and did a dumb thing, which was letting my anger take control of my actions. It's not really something so drastic you'd cut off all contact with the guy who got pissed at you, but he is making it out to be that way.
He might just be, and hopefully be, really mad and has to cool down. I'll apologize to him tomorrow.
AI, you are a fucking moron.
That said, luck with it.
[editline]15th May 2012[/editline]
But make sure that you take the blame.
There's This girl that I had a crush on for about a year or two, we used to talk all the time, but I noticed she became uninterested and after she kissed this guy in a band she's seemed to have a aquired a cuntness about her, yano the type, thinks she's too good for me, anyway, I lost all interest in her and moved on, She's complained that I don't talk to her and thinks I hate her because I don't talk to her. She can't just do that and then complain that I don't talk to her, what am I supposed to do? And I haven't been friend zoned, which I'm pretty sure of, in fact I'm probably the only lad she hangs around with that wasn't friend zoned.
[QUOTE=geoface;35973016]There's This girl that I had a crush on for about a year or two, we used to talk all the time, but I noticed she became uninterested and after she kissed this guy in a band she's seemed to have a aquired a cuntness about her, yano the type, thinks she's too good for me, anyway, I lost all interest in her and moved on, She's complained that I don't talk to her and thinks I hate her because I don't talk to her. She can't just do that and then complain that I don't talk to her, what am I supposed to do? And I haven't been friend zoned, which I'm pretty sure of, in fact I'm probably the only lad she hangs around with that wasn't friend zoned.[/QUOTE]
From what you posted, she may have never thought of you as more than a friend.
[editline]15th May 2012[/editline]
If you've legitimately moved on from the crush then just talk to her?
I could use some advice. I had a fight with my best friend about 3 months ago. He was being a dick and insulting, trying to start a fistfight. He's an asshole sometimes, but he was depressed and taking it out on his friends. I was pretty much shaking with anger but I would never fight one of my friends. The day after he came to collect $7 I owed him and I was a dick by making him walk all the way to my house instead of meeting him, and leaving it on my porch in quarters.
We haven't spoken once since, and I was upset for a long time. I felt like what he did was awful, and my shit was just petty. We're both very stubborn I guess, and he might see things differently. I feel like my friendship isn't worth anything to him and have been waiting for him to apologize to prove me wrong. This is the second fight we've had and I'm not sure if he'll be an asshole again. I really miss him and want to reconcile; I just don't want to be friends with him if my friendship isn't valued.
Am I being obtuse by waiting for him to apologize or should friends not pull shit like that?
Here's what you do: apologize to him, and then let him know how he's offended you and ask for an apology.
waiting for someone to apologize is a stupid thing because apologies are pointless. it's someone's action that counts.
if you want to be friends with him you have to reach out to him.
Sorry, you need to Log In to post a reply to this thread.