The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;35992480]Not to be a pain in the ass, just how I understood you both still were sort of dating.
I'm pretty bad in all this love business, to be quite frank (just started myself recently), but from your words she's just using you as a last-resort action. Don't fall for that man, but in the end, act how you think is right.[/QUOTE]
interesting that you're new to dating and you've already developed the opinion that all cheaters are whores and that whores deserve no respect
strong words from someone who admits they haven't even experienced a situation such as his
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;35995794]Don't stress, you're just romanticizing things. Everyone does it, part of growing up.
Just realize that life is not made up of extremes, and the things that people do are insignificant to your life so don't let them bother you[/QUOTE]
Yeah, you're right.
I just don't get why if this guy doesn't want to be my friend then why can't he just tell me?
because that's not how human relationships work most of the time
I guess I have a naive view of the world then. I'd want a definite answer but I dunno if he doesn't even want to talk to me.
Dunno if I should wait it out or not. We all graduate in a few weeks.
oh wow youre a high school senior?
just move on, you're not going to see him again after the summer anyway
way to get overly melodramatic
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35996177]oh wow youre a high school senior?
just move on, you're not going to see him again after the summer anyway
way to get overly melodramatic[/QUOTE]
I suppose you're right.
[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;35996208]I suppose you're right.[/QUOTE]
Stop doing exactly this^^^^^ "suppose" is so ho-hum woe is me.
Not everyone wants to have some big emotional reunion "im sorry bro idk why i was mad your my bro for life"
Welcome to the world of men, store all those emotions in your nuts man
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;35996301]Stop doing exactly this^^^^^ "suppose" is so ho-hum woe is me.
Not everyone wants to have some big emotional reunion "im sorry bro idk why i was mad your my bro for life"
Welcome to the world of men, store all those emotions in your nuts man[/QUOTE]
Yeah, people tell me I'm a bit too emotional sometimes as a guy. I don't understand why that is.
being emotional is good.
but you have to be emotional when it's appropriate.
when you are too emotional it means you're being emotional in a completely inappropriate way.
[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;35996328]Yeah, people tell me I'm a bit too emotional sometimes as a guy. I don't understand why that is.[/QUOTE]
You just have to balance yourself out a bit. It's like your feelings, thoughts, hopes, etc were an elder council in your head. They're a guide, but you gotta use your cortex and make sense of it all
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;35996661]You just have to balance yourself out a bit. It's like your feelings, thoughts, hopes, etc were an elder council in your head. They're a guide, but you gotta use your cortex and make sense of it all[/QUOTE]
But it seems sometimes I can't make sense of what I want, who to trust, who to be friends with, who to be mad with, etc.
I have trust issues and I forgive people way too easily.
I make a big deal out of stupid shit all the time. As it turns out, the girl who supposedly wasn't mad at me at all. She didn't really care, but my friend made me think she did by saying that I shouldn't make eye contact for the rest of the year.
Is it bad that if I don't find a girl within my senior year (junior going on senior) that I'm just going to continue with my primary plans and enlist into the military?
I think you should have your own plans after college and not change them and make them revolve around whether you have a girlfriend or not. You'll probably end up giving up a lot on some girl and then not have it work out.
is being perpetually insulted and berated for being with a girl i like (and they dont) and then ditched in the middle of a field a good reason to not want to be friends with the people who did it anymore?
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[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35998098]is being perpetually insulted and berated for being with a girl i like (and they dont) and then ditched in the middle of a field a good reason to not want to be friends with the people who did it anymore?
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They sound like dicks for treating you like that whether they like your girlfriend or not. I would't deal with them anymore. A little teasing is fine but being insulted or berated is pretty bad
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35998098]is being perpetually insulted and berated for being with a girl i like (and they dont) and then ditched in the middle of a field a good reason to not want to be friends with the people who did it anymore?
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Depends how good of friends you are.
I think this is the sort of the thing you need to figure out yourself.
it has been going on for a while, even before the girl and I started up. I've always just written it off as "boys will be boys" but I dunno anymore.
I assume you've requested they stop, in which case I'd say fuck 'em.
Don't chill around them until they learn to actually stop.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35998499]it has been going on for a while, even before the girl and I started up. I've always just written it off as "boys will be boys" but I dunno anymore.[/QUOTE]
Unless you do the same thing to them it's probably not "boys will be boys" (which is weird to say because that's like an old lady phrase and you're a boy too) and you should tell them to cut the shit or just not be friends with them.
yea it even felt weird typing it, haha. what I meant was friends will always pick on each other, just deal.
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it wouldn't be the first time they've ditched me without a ride, either. I once had to bribe one of them with a big box from KFC for a ride home he'd already promised.
It all depends on the severity of it. My friends tease me and make fun of me at times and I do the same to them, but ditching me places and making fun of my girlfriends is kinda off limits and we all know it. In a way its unspoken rules that are there so we don't cross the line if that makes any sense
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35998573]yea it even felt weird typing it, haha. what I meant was friends will always pick on each other, just deal.
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it wouldn't be the first time they've ditched me without a ride, either. I once had to bribe one of them with a big box from KFC for a ride home he'd already promised.[/QUOTE]
Oh well yeah I call my friends faggots and stuff but I don't just let them make me their bitch. I'd be pissed if they did that, it's p douchbaggy.
[editline]17th May 2012[/editline]
Basically that thing you learned in 1st grade: the golden rule.
would you do that to them? no? then fuck them.
Oh Jesus, she's trying to talk to me. I don't know what to do, I need to stay away but I want to talk to her and tell her. But if I do, I might fall for her
Anyone know anything about laws?
I was denied entry to a bar because I'm 19. Makes sense so far. But... my father was there too.
So I was restricted entry to a bar even with a parent present.
It was a goodbye party for a coworker too, which blows chunks. Neither my dad or I had any intent of drinking (they have a pretty rad arcade).
The website says 16-20 not allowed for "licensing reasons." But 15 and under with a parent is A-OK. I don't see the logic.
its private property so they can deny anyone who they want entrance
and even with your dad, its not like you can just suddenly ignore the drinking age... I know you weren't planning on drinking, but having your dad present makes no difference whatsoever
I know, but they can't sell me alcohol anyway so they aren't liable for any of that.
But they can sell it to your dad and he can give it to you. Even if your dad isn't going to buy you drinks they still have to watch out for people who do. They have strict rules for a reason and if the rules are broken the place can be shut down or fined. In high school I used to hear countless stories of girls who would go with their moms to bars and think they were cool because their mom would buy them like one drink or something
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