• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36135164]yes you are otherwise you wouldnt have cared about your friends small comment[/QUOTE] I wouldn't say no, but that was not the reason I posted. I just found it amusing. Partially because I think everyone noticed but none of us pointed it out, until the friend who did point it out did, because he has trouble recognising the situations in which you don't say anything. I have known for a while about myself fitting into most of her criteria, and, were I actually interested, would have posted then.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;36120065]What do you mean "what actually happens"? You go, you eat dinner, chat with friends, say your goodbyes to people you'll miss, dance, and don't take it too seriously. [editline]29th May 2012[/editline] I'm not sure if you're going solo or with a date, but I went solo, and really I have no regrets - it was a blast and a half.[/QUOTE] oh. I didn't know. for the record i am going with a date. nice girl but def just a friend
[QUOTE=gerbile5;36145677]oh. I didn't know. for the record i am going with a date. nice girl but def just a friend[/QUOTE] Put dick in her anyway go to uni and forget about her like you will most of your other friends anyway?
what are cool things to do over the summer? my aunt wants me to take a plane with her to georgia to see where my dad lives, but i've never flown in a plane before and heights scare the shit out of me(closing my eyes or dont think about it don't work because I'm subconsciously aware that I'm in the air). thatll only be for like a week though if i go, so i wanna do some other things i dont want this summer to be like last where i stayed in almost 24/7 playing vidya games and went back into my social anxiety slump even further
[QUOTE=Blueridge;36149800]what are cool things to do over the summer? my aunt wants me to take a plane with her to georgia to see where my dad lives, but i've never flown in a plane before and heights scare the shit out of me(closing my eyes or dont think about it don't work because I'm subconsciously aware that I'm in the air). thatll only be for like a week though if i go, so i wanna do some other things i dont want this summer to be like last where i stayed in almost 24/7 playing vidya games and went back into my social anxiety slump even further[/QUOTE] Get a job or volunteer? Right now i am trying to get a job as a busboy, and volunteer at a hospital, and i am waiting to hear back from HR from a rehab center for ABI and TBI patients about a potential job. I know that fear, not wanting to sit around all summer, wasting away on gmod.
So she went out on a walk with me but she doesn't seem interested in a relationship. Should I wait and see what happens or ask her out a second time?
[QUOTE=Yahnich;36150383]was she aware that this was a date because going on a walk with someone are pretty casual compared to the overly romantic moviewalks[/QUOTE] I think so. We talked about very personal stuff and I used the exact words "would you like to go out on a walk with me?" when I asked her.
[QUOTE=Blueridge;36149800]what are cool things to do over the summer? my aunt wants me to take a plane with her to georgia to see where my dad lives, but i've never flown in a plane before and heights scare the shit out of me(closing my eyes or dont think about it don't work because I'm subconsciously aware that I'm in the air). thatll only be for like a week though if i go, so i wanna do some other things i dont want this summer to be like last where i stayed in almost 24/7 playing vidya games and went back into my social anxiety slump even further[/QUOTE] Absolutely go, its always worthwhile to travel. Especially if the previous summer was squandered. Looking out of an airplane window is almost a necessary experience, and while it might not cure you of your fear of heights, it will certainly cure you of your fear of heights while in an airplane. Seriously don't let things like this get in the way of enjoying life. [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Disotrtion;36150729]I think so. We talked about very personal stuff and I used the exact words "[B]you would like to go out with me on a walk[/B]" when I asked her.[/QUOTE] You tried a jedi mind trick on her? Rookie move
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;36150922] You tried a jedi mind trick on her? Rookie move[/QUOTE] "I think we should just be friends" "this is not the kind of friendship you are looking for"
So me and a friend were joking around, he said this one girl was nice and I said that she was mean to me all the time cause she is. All of a sudden she comes up, says I am a fucking ass hole stalker who never leaves her alone and screams at me for a bit before storming out. He then laughs and now everyone believes her. Seriously, maybe it was a bit rude to talk about her like that but what the fuck, I have maybe said a word to her once in six months. [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] Wow nice page king self you really deserved it. :suicide:
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;36151530]So me and a friend were joking around, he said this one girl was nice and I said that she was mean to me all the time cause she is. All of a sudden she comes up, says I am a fucking ass hole stalker who never leaves her alone and screams at me for a bit before storming out. He then laughs and now everyone believes her. Seriously, maybe it was a bit rude to talk about her like that but what the fuck, I have maybe said a word to her once in six months. [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] Wow nice page king self you really deserved it. :suicide:[/QUOTE] With stuff like this I know I'm not getting the whole story, how much of an exaggeration is six months for starters?
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;36151530]So me and a friend were joking around, he said this one girl was nice and I said that she was mean to me all the time cause she is. All of a sudden she comes up, says I am a fucking ass hole stalker who never leaves her alone and screams at me for a bit before storming out. He then laughs and now everyone believes her. Seriously, maybe it was a bit rude to talk about her like that but what the fuck, I have maybe said a word to her once in six months. [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] Wow nice page king self you really deserved it. :suicide:[/QUOTE] You're in middle school aren't you? Who cares? People now-a-days call looking at someone's facebook profile "stalking." Everything about this story is a hyperbole.
So i like two girls, just hooked up with one at a dance playing it cool for now. I have liked both for a bit *they liked me too*, but i like the 2nd one more. The 2nd one however has 3 people after her and i have 1 person trying to ruin my chances with both. Any advice :v:?
Don't be a dick, pick one
[QUOTE=Disseminate;36048265]Today I was gonna ask my co-worker out but then I found out she's 5 years older than me. sucks[/QUOTE] Brief update on this, found out yesterday that she has a boyfriend.
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;36152014]With stuff like this I know I'm not getting the whole story, how much of an exaggeration is six months for starters?[/QUOTE] I have no classes with her, I have not spent more than five minutes close to her since middle school. [editline]1st June 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Cow Muffins;36153682]You're in middle school aren't you? Who cares? People now-a-days call looking at someone's facebook profile "stalking." Everything about this story is a hyperbole.[/QUOTE] Highschool.
So, I was asking a fairly relationship-experienced person some advice, and the most resounding thing they said was "make them feel like they're wanted, but not that you need them" Is this good? I feel like every failed relationship I've had ends rather quickly because I'm a bit... too caring, I suppose. I'll be more nice than is probably comfortable for some people, but I think it's because I have some sort of attachment issue that I'd like to sort out. I'm pretty bad at making something official and then keeping it somewhat casual.
So, I posted this before, but i suspected my girlfriend was cheating on me. I found out, she told me a story of how she almost did but didnt. I had trouble beliving this, And now the guy who i keep trying to talk to says that they did . Im not sure who to believe. Any opinions?
[QUOTE=sycoraz;36156026]So, I posted this before, but i suspected my girlfriend was cheating on me. I found out, she told me a story of how she almost did but didnt. I had trouble beliving this, And now the guy who i keep trying to talk to says that they did . Im not sure who to believe. Any opinions?[/QUOTE] Tell her he told you they cheated, don't be all baby baby with her, just ask for the truth
[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;36156220]Tell her he told you they cheated, don't be all baby baby with her, just ask for the truth[/QUOTE] I did, she says he is lying. Ive asked for the truth from her, she told me she was going to , but stopped before they did anything. Hes saying shit like "Yeah i did, and it was gross" and other shit like " she was going to pay me to do it again" so i think i posted this for no reason and found out who is lying :\
Sounds like it might be time to break it off with her. If you can't trust her at all then things are just fucked
But i do trust her, the guy is making bullshit up. She went into a long detailed story, and hes just saying small things trying to convince me.
[QUOTE=sycoraz;36157034]But i do trust her, the guy is making bullshit up. She went into a long detailed story, and hes just saying small things trying to convince me.[/QUOTE] Dude what the fuck. Don't surround yourself with people like that, you deserve better
[QUOTE=sycoraz;36156309]I did, she says he is lying. Ive asked for the truth from her, she told me she was going to , but stopped before they did anything. Hes saying shit like "Yeah i did, and it was gross" and other shit like " she was going to pay me to do it again" so i think i posted this for no reason and found out who is lying :\[/QUOTE] That guy is a mook and your girlfriend sounds a bit untrustworthy to me
[QUOTE=sycoraz;36157034]But i do trust her, the guy is making bullshit up. She went into a long detailed story, and hes just saying small things trying to convince me.[/QUOTE] You just said you didn't know who was lying and the fact that she almost cheated on you is bad enough Honestly, If she initiated that shit, break up with her. If she didn't, but went along with it, to any point at all, break up with her. If he initiated it and she said no, and he's now feeding you bullshit to the contrary, you should be kicking the shit of out him right now
[QUOTE=Mr. Bleak;36155882]So, I was asking a fairly relationship-experienced person some advice, and the most resounding thing they said was "make them feel like they're wanted, but not that you need them"[/QUOTE] it might sound bad to not 'need' someone, like it's unromantic or something, but 'needing' someone is a terribly burden to put on a partner. you can love someone hugely but 'needing' them is just too far and unrealistic
Can't find fashion thread, what's better [img]http://i01.i.aliimg.com/img/pb/900/969/451/451969900_952.jpg[/img] [img]http://i00.i.aliimg.com/img/pb/119/169/470/470169119_923.jpg[/img] I can get the second with black laces.
both horrible, please return to correct thread
1st imo
[QUOTE=Autumn;36158219]both horrible, please return to correct thread[/QUOTE] no please dont
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