The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Don't stay up so late?
[QUOTE=Lukeo;36318017]Don't stay up so late?[/QUOTE]
i go to bed at like 10 now cause i'm trying to fix it
doesn't help :v:
So there's this one person in 2 of my classes who I never really talked to before since I thought they would be the kind of person who would just brush me off if I tried talking to them. I had a social situation with them last year, but it was mostly my older brother talking to them and their friends. Then we talked a few months ago during our school's spring musical (they were on stage, I was doing tech crew stuff behind scenes). Suddenly 2-3 weeks ago we had a small conversation in our gym class, and now we just end up talking everyday.
At first I thought I was just over-thinking it, but then I noticed that at least one of us would stall in the hallways to talk with the other. For example, today I dropped my phone in gym so I ran back to grab it right before the bell rang. When I grabbed it and went back to the exit to go to lunch they were waiting there and we had a lengthy conversation on our classes for next year, finals for this year, etc.
All from someone I otherwise would have flat-out not been able to talk to 2 years ago. Whoo.
ask them out
I'm going into my first year of college.
Is it generally easier to hold a relationship with someone you meet in college than in high school?
[QUOTE=Disotrtion;36319992]I'm going into my first year of college.
Is it generally easier to hold a relationship with someone you meet in college than in high school?[/QUOTE]
Yeah its generally easier. I only have like three high school friends left and everyone else I know I've met at college
[QUOTE=phobia-_-;36320037]Yeah its generally easier. I only have like three high school friends left and everyone else I know I've met at college[/QUOTE]
Pretty much the same with me as well, though lately I've been thinking about contacting some of the people I got along with well in high school and doing a little catching up. Anyone here have any experience/recommendations in regards to that?
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[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36321529]
-Kelly: Nymphomaniac, engaged to a soldier who's currently serving
(...)
Kelly's topless and taking turns making out with me, Romeo, and Dan, everyone's having a good time.[/QUOTE]
Wow, and the point of the story is how [i]she[/i] was out of line and shit?
You're ALL assholes.
[editline]14th June 2012[/editline]
Man I feel sorry for solider boy. Hope he doesn't have too rough a time when he realises his huge mistake.
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36322178]Wow, and the point of the story is how [I]she[/I] was out of line and shit?
You're ALL assholes.
[editline]14th June 2012[/editline]
Man I feel sorry for solider boy. Hope he doesn't have too rough a time when he realises his huge mistake.[/QUOTE]
What? No i just thought it was a funny story. Alcohol tends to fuck with your judgement.
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36322216]What? No i just thought it was a funny story. Alcohol tends to fuck with your judgement.[/QUOTE]
That's not an excuse. You're still responsible for what you do under the influence.
[QUOTE=Mon;36317814]i just can't keep myself awake throughout the day. it sucks because i always get super awkward when i'm tired, and i really need to be on top of my game for this girl i'm dating. how can i fix this?[/QUOTE]
Try going earlier to bed, although that won't have an immediate effect, but it helps out. Have regular meals in the day. In the morning , afternoon and at night. Shower regularly, which always makes me feel great. Wear decent clothes, usually I get really tired whenever I wear some jogging or hoodies. Also you could take some walks outside, fresh air always helps.
A girl I like texted me and said she liked me. I don't know what to say, my brain locks up when this shit happens. If I say I like her, something might end up happening which I don't want..
On the other hand, someone told me pretty much all the girls I work with like me, so I'm going to feel awkward at work knowing all these girls are looking at me, but at least its a huge confidence boost.
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36321529]"You're reallllly cuute...you think I'm hot right?"
"Yeah yeah whatever honey just go to sleep"[/QUOTE]
this post went downhill fast but at least there's this nugget of hilarious ego stroking bullshit that shimmers through
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36322216]What? No i just thought it was a funny story. Alcohol tends to fuck with your judgement.[/QUOTE]
Nope you're still a scumbag
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36322216]What? No i just thought it was a funny story. Alcohol tends to fuck with your judgement.[/QUOTE]
julliet & romeo
worst shakespeare fanfic i ever read
Anyone ever get you think you're over someone enough to say, give it a try with someone else but it feels almost wrong to be able to think back of memories you had when going out with someone and not feel so emotional over them or miss them. :l ?
how emotional do you get?
it's fine to have nostalgic thoughts but if it's crippling that's a different issue.
She was saying the opposite, lack of guilty feelings
And Zoo if you split with someone and it's been a while, it's healthy for the feelings of attachment/commitment to fade. Otherwise you'd have a problem
oh what really?
of course that's normal, i was confused because i didn't know why anyone would ask that.
Well I think it's because it's the first proper relationship for me and I liked them a lot and for a long time, and I know if I was still talking to them I would still like them. I seem to think I'm over them one minute then the next I'm not. Ahaha how long it take you guys to get over people?
depends
if it was just a 2 or 3 month thing i'd get over it in like a day or two
if it was my current long-time relationship i'd probably get fat and stay in the house 4ever
[QUOTE=thisispain;36323703]depends
if it was just a 2 or 3 month thing i'd get over it in like a day or two
if it was my current long-time relationship i'd probably get fat and stay in the house 4ever[/QUOTE]
ahaha! Well thanks getting a bit of feedback helped me see that it is okay/natural to just move on :)
[QUOTE=Zoomoo;36323670]Well I think it's because it's the first proper relationship for me and I liked them a lot and for a long time, and I know if I was still talking to them I would still like them. I seem to think I'm over them one minute then the next I'm not. Ahaha how long it take you guys to get over people?[/QUOTE]
Really depends on the girl and the specifics
If there's a decline in a relationship then you could be over someone by the time you break up. If it's not a mutual breakup then it's short and sharp in my experience. The longest would be a case of circumstances separating you instead of your feelings or decisions. You always feel the opportunity you missed keener than the one you took that didn't go well.
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36322216]What? No i just thought it was a funny story. Alcohol tends to fuck with your judgement.[/QUOTE]
The only funny part of that story is how stupid you are. Seriously, blaming alcohol for your personal failings is the worst excuse in the book. I really cannot understand how people who cheat think or what the rationale behind cheating is.
Well... this is somehow bugging me...
Yesterday when I got on the bus, there was an entire school class and it didn't took me long to realize that it was one class of the school my sister goes to. Same age(14/15). There were a bunch of girls sitting across from me. I took a seat and then they started acting really really weird, were constantly looking over to me, smiling when I looked back. I don't know what they were thinking but I can only guess. Maybe my sister is quiet popular bla bla. Now my problem is that one of those girls looked, well... attractive for me.
I'm fighting with myself about asking my sister if she knows her etc. and I don't know what the hell people are gonna think if I have something with somone who is like two years younger than me... Any ideas or suggestions? Maybe opinions?
[QUOTE=jonoPorter;36331160]Well... this is somehow bugging me...
Yesterday when I got on the bus, there was an entire school class and it didn't took me long to realize that it was one class of the school my sister goes to. Same age(14/15). There were a bunch of girls sitting across from me. I took a seat and then they started acting really really weird, were constantly looking over to me, smiling when I looked back. I don't know what they were thinking but I can only guess. Maybe my sister is quiet popular bla bla. Now my problem is that one of those girls looked, well... attractive for me.
I'm fighting with myself about asking my sister if she knows her etc. and I don't know what the hell people are gonna think if I have something with somone who is like two years younger than me... Any ideas or suggestions? Maybe opinions?[/QUOTE]
Just don't do it. I dated somebody 2 years older than me in high school, it's just a bad idea. At any other age, like when you're in college, it's not a problem, but in high school people are still developing and the relationship is prone to being stressed by stupid bullshit.
That and you'll probably catch shit for dating a highschooler.
yeah, don't try it. you're pretty young, that age gap is a bit too much. go for someone your own age, there's plenty more who are more mature and probably more attractive, too.
[editline]14th June 2012[/editline]
knowproblem, he is a high schooler, and it sounds like he's 16 thinking about dating a 14/15 year old. just not a bright idea.
I've been getting to know a girl for probably 6 or 7 months now, we've been on a few dates and we're pretty much a couple. She just wants me to actually ask her to be my girlfriend (which sounds dumb, I know) which I understand and am going to do next time I see her. But that's the problem, I've not seen her for around a month now (although we talk 24/7 via text). Whenever we make plans, something spoils them, or we're busy and can't make plans. She lives in the next town over, and we don't go to school with eachother anymore so it makes it hard for us. We're both getting fed up, and I'm finding it hard to decide what to do. Should I leave it, or should I carry it on knowing that we won't see eachother very often?
College starts soon, it's a good opportunity to meet new people and new girls. It's hard to decide if I should "stick with what I have", as it were, or start fresh at college.
[QUOTE=zerotwelve;36331762]I've been getting to know a girl for probably 6 or 7 months now, we've been on a few dates and we're pretty much a couple. She just wants me to actually ask her to be my girlfriend (which sounds dumb, I know) which I understand and am going to do next time I see her. But that's the problem, I've not seen her for around a month now (although we talk 24/7 via text). Whenever we make plans, something spoils them, or we're busy and can't make plans. She lives in the next town over, and we don't go to school with eachother anymore so it makes it hard for us. We're both getting fed up, and I'm finding it hard to decide what to do. Should I leave it, or should I carry it on knowing that we won't see eachother very often?
College starts soon, it's a good opportunity to meet new people and new girls. It's hard to decide if I should "stick with what I have", as it were, or start fresh at college.[/QUOTE]
If you're already getting fed up with the distance and you're not so attracted in a distance relationship with her, might as well avoid yourself some problem and avoid starting anything.
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